I remember watching this one porno with college age girls, this one dude was talking about how you need to enjoy while you're young, you won't be able to do this when you're old, meaning sex. I never had sex when I was younger and I'm reaching middle age, so I guess I lucked out, some guys have all the luck I guess.....either that or women are all just sluts.

I find myself irritated a lot with him based on the little things he does like: Knocks on my front door then tries to turn the doorknob to enter before I could answer myself. Has a different logic that doesn't makes sense at times because it's hard for him to relate to some things. Will say dumb**** without thinking it through which aggravates me. Always answers my calls on the first ring as if he's just sitting around waiting for me to call and when he answers it's like a repetitive and fast hello that he'll repeat 3xs. I want to like him but I'm not sure I can get past his quirks that annoy me. Lastly eating in my damn ear on the phone drives me insane. Sometimes I feel like I'll begin to hate him. Please offer some advice ?

Is it normal to masturbate to my female best friend? Even if you're not romantically attracted to her? I've only masturbated to her once or twice but afterwards its always weird since I'm very close to her. Please help lol.

My friend (male) had asked me if I wanted a boyfriend, and I replied with a "I'm not looking for a relationship." After he had gotten noticeably sad and ended the conversation saying he was tired and wanted to go to bed. Did I say something wrong?

In my past relationships sex has never been experimental. I have never used toys before but after watching porn im keen to see what it is like. I have always enjoyed sex. As a girl, I would like to see if sex toys add another dimension. I have just started seeing this guy, is it too intensive to introduce toys into the relationship this early, or should I wait until we are in a relationship and wait a few months down the track. How should I bring it up in conversation? Or should i buy a ********* 'as a joke' and see how he reacts?

So me and my ex had a pretty bad break up (I cheated, I know I'm a pos and I'm having to deal with this hard life lesson everyday beating myself up over it). Since our break up she told me to stop contacting her and blocked me on all forms of communication, won't respond to anything I say. Her birthday is coming up soon and I was wondering if I should still wish her a happy bday? I really loved this girl and I know I made a horrible choice/mistake breaking her trust in me...thoughts?

We're only 16 we been together for a year and 4 months me and my ex recently broke up I treated him poorly I broke a lot of promises and I feel like I can really change for him he wants me but he said only if I change we blocked each other off of social media I don't know if I should give him a break to think I need help );

I trust my girlfriend a lot, but her ex and her text each other frequently (and sometimes she initiates the chat). It's normal conversations, nothing flirty. But should I be worried?

Does this mean she will not mate with me? I wear sweat pants a lot

I'm only 16 and I treated my ex boyfriend poorly our relationship has been toxic I feel like I did most of the damage he said he wants me but he wants my behavior to change were not talking at the moment i feel like a bad person I don't know what to do

What s a good idea? I haven t been with this girl for very long but I want to get something that s meaningful but nice. Nothing like that recycled garbage you see when you Google graduation gift ideas. I m sure she s going to get up 10000 embroidered pens and whatnot. This is one spectacular

She said she wanted to accomplish things on her own etc etc. that she never did before because she was always in a relationship. I picked my stuff up this morning and she was crying really bad. We hugged and said good byes. I'm really sad because one day everything was alright, now I'm alone.

my parents think i m addicted to my phone, and I probably spend around four hours a day on it. to some people this could seem like a lot but all of my friends spend just as much time as me or more. hey tell me they are worried about me, but i still have great grades and great relationships with my friends and it seems like all they talk to me about recently is my phone usage, and are constantly asking about my screen time and ranting to me about it. i even went an entire weekend without touching it (except or going on it at night) to show them i could put it down, but that wasn t good enough. i m just over it but i feel like it isn t enough of a problem that i should only be spending 2 hours a day on my phone. i want opinions and advice, be honest. sorry if this was long. i realized my parents are right after thinking about it, and i am going to delete some of my social media apps to reduce my screen time. thanks!

I find her so cute

So last year, my closest female friend got really mad at me because I kept following her wherever she went, causing her to feel uncomfortable. We are now at different schools, she has asked about me a couple times, said that maybe we could still talk once in a while, and still waves at me whenever she sees me. I'm about to go see her for the orchestra's last concert of the year. Will things be better now that I gave her space like she wanted me to? It's been almost a year since I have spoken to her.

Out of curiosity. What looks, what personality, what habits etc. Just anything you find yourself attracted to in a girl.

I'm just sitting here thinking my ex and I was together 2 years the first year was great the second year not so much. We mad a lot of plans and talked about a lot of things. He left me for someone else and did all the things we planed with her. She don't know everything he doing or planning with her were originally our plans. It hurt how everything I asked and we planned he giving it to her. I despise him and I'm trying not to!

They've been dating for a month and a half and she's the kindest person you'll ever meet. He's a really ugly guy and she's really pretty and she said he was super nice and that's why she dated him. She broke up with him because there was too much pressure from him to have sex and he said he'd kill himself if they broke up and she said that wasn't healthy. I have a class with her and jokingly, I walked by nodding my head and said, "You broke a man's heart". I told her I was joking and she will not stop talking to me about it. She also insisted that I have her number so she could keep tabs on him through me. She always wants to walk with me from the class to the greenhouse and just wakes up to me and my friend and said she wanted to stand here. I always find her hovering around me. What does this mean?

When thinking of a sexy girl in lingerie, which turns you on more: •16 year old (young, bright eyed, innocent) OR •21 year old (mature, experienced, sexy). I know it's an odd question but I'm asking for a story I'm writing. I don't know which age to make the femme fatale in my story.

A guy coworker who talks to me, stood beside me when i was giving a customer their change. He was about within arm's reach of me, and glanced at me whilr messing with his uniform collar

I met this guy we hit it off quickly and we often talk dirty but I told him we needed to slow it down he apologized and said "I'm sorry I don't mean to make it like that often, you just excite me and I want to experience you". Y'all Idk how should I respond to this

I have a problem where I might say hey, or get as far as asking them how their day is going. When it comes to actually having a meaningful conversation I am a dud. When I see other guys having full blown conversations with women, and the woman looks very engaged. I have no idea how to get that, because I just feel like when I do start talking to women and asking them questions they don't really say much. I always hear that as the man I am supposed to keep the conversation going, but it is sometimes difficult for me to do. I just don't know what to say, because I don't want to say the wrong thing and offend her. In addition, I want to come off as fun and not a boring guy, but I can never figure out what to talk about (namely with random women). What can I do to get over this block and have the ability to walk up to random women and have a good conversation?

Like having the guy take control over them, making them do painful and degrading acts, and "use" them like an object just for his own pleasure. Why do some women like to do that? Why do they want to be abused and treated like scum when it comes to sex?

I am a 17 year old boy currently in 11th grade in high school. So I have this really hot English teacher and I can't stop thinking about her, and all these weird events keep happening between us, but I can't tell if it means something or its just my feelings that are altering my thoughts. So back in December, this teacher saw that I looked sad in class. She came up to me and asked if I wanted to talk after school. I said ok and I came by at the end of the day to talk. We ended up talking for 2 hours and 30 minutes about personal things. I told her about my drug habits and how I smoke weed very often. I told her about my family problems and whats on my mind. She responded with her own thoughts and revealed to me that she still smokes weed and that she went through very similar experiences in her childhood. That week she told me that she talked to her husband about me and that he said not to be friends with students but she was ok with it. So she told me she was going to stop smoking weed all of winter for me. Then she said she was going to see a therapist that afternoon. The next day she told me that she doesn't think we should continue talking about drugs but we can about other topics regarding my family and personal problems. I felt sad so the next week I told her how much trust I have in her, and how it would only be beneficial if we could continue having the talks. She said yes. She told me that she spoke to her therapist about me... Then I told her my SAT scores were bad so she offered to help tutor me in the math section. I also come in to volunteer for her. It was all going good from there, I talked to her about my juul addiction too and how I wanted to stop. Her beauty motivated me. One other day I was in her room with her and I got a text that my cat died. I began crying and she cried with me too, as we shared an intimate moment. Then I made a huge mistake. I sent her an email with questions and at the end I put, "I really really messed up on Tuesday". If the school got access to this email they could have questioned her and she could have lost her job. It was supposed to be private but I made physical evidence of it. The next day she said that we couldn't talk about the drugs anymore "because it would be good for the both of us". She told me she talked to the guidance counselor so that I could go talk to her about other family issues. After that it was slightly awkward for a few weeks. Eventually I started coming to her after school for the SAT help and volunteering to help her grade. We got intimate in a different way. She told me about her family, childhood and her interests. She showed me in google maps satellite the block that she lived on. I told her to get Citibike and a week later she told me that she got an annual membership. I told her about this book I think she should read on psychology. Inside I had notes written down and lines underlined. She read it in a couple days and had written her own notes and highlighted other sentences in the text. She remembered my birthday and everything. Sorry this is long, its almost over promise. Now the only reason I am doubtful is because I am usually the one who has to engage in our communication. Inside class we often make quick eye contact and look away but we don't communicate much. At the end of class I usually ask if I can come in after school the next day and she says ok with a smile. And when I come after school she is talkative and happy to see me. But I am always the one who has to engage in those meetings. She is also talkative with other students and laughs with them but nothing as personal as this. Weve walked to the train multiple times together. We even citibiked together one day to her train stop. One Friday night we engaged in 18 emails sent back and forth about this application I was filling out. I just feel like I might be forcing it or she is just doing all of this to be nice. Am I wrong to be making these assumptions? I don't understand what is going on and it is blurring my mind.

It never felt like I'm privileged, or more powerful. I always had the feeling that everything about boys is less worth than girls in the eyes of people, and like I only exist to protect, and if necessary, die for girls. Many people automatically believe in my capabilities more than any given girls', but that's about it. But everything else about boys is valued less in boys than in girls.

I've liked this guy for a year and a half now, we'd been flirting for so long and have never hung out. He's 3 years older than me (24) but is still very big into the party/drinking scene, and can't mature enough to seriously ask me out. (One time he did, and he ended up not hitting me up until late night when he was drunk) He hasn't dated someone in over 6 years, never had a real relationship, and really doesn't talk to girls like that. We've hooked up twice, and recently I told him how I felt about him. His response was that he liked me too, however "I don't think I can give you what you're looking for." Then proceeds with "I'll probably regret this one day"... It's really hard to move on, because there's still so much chemistry between us. Is there any use in staying friends/keeping him in my life, or should I completely cut him off? (We are coworkers...) Any advice is appreciated!

My crush has been giving me interesting signals for a few months now and I'm wondering if he likes me. I catch him staring or glancing at me a lot. My friends and I have even caught him grinning at me too. Another weird thing is that all his friends knew exactly who I was before I had even met them. I caught him talking about me once and pointing out to his friend who I was. I was shocked. He also does this weird thing people call "mirroring" like say if I rested my head in my hands I look over a minute later and he's doing the same thing. Etc. I just find all this weird because about 3 months before all this started happening he found out I had liked him but said he just wanted to remain friends. If he does just want to be friends, can someone please tell me what this may mean? Thanks

Before I start he is in a relationship I hang out with this guy alone during day and night. I laid in his bed with him just because I wanted to cuddle with someone and we made out and he was touching my butt and all. I even went down on him but he said he don't want me to tell anyone I know. But I dont regret it at all because I really enjoyed it.

Being new at this job which is in an office setting, I am not trying to make any mistakes and screw anything up. I'm still in the process of learning things and want to adapt to my job until I feel fully confident, but I've also somehow managed to gain a major crush on a girl who seems to keep being on my mind. We've interacted very little and I've been shy, but she's been amazing and nice to me and I think she has picked up on my shyness around her, she seems welcoming and open to the idea of chatting with me any time if I did approach her. I am trying to control it and not even bother but honestly its getting to me and idk if I should go for it. I struggle with some anxiety and OCD so learning this job and thinking about this girl both at the same time has overwhelmed me a bit. I want to be professional! Any advice is helpful, thank you.

I don't have bad breath so that's not a problem but I'm worried that if I give him oral sex I could infect him of somthing :( Is that possible?? Should I say good bye to our relationship?

My girlfriend loves to lay in bed and cuddle all night. Why ?

Men do talk this speech. It is call flirting. How can a men express his sexuality? If a man looks at a good looking woman, he will do the same. It was just man talk

I thought it means bjs not a guy go down a girl.

We agreed to being exclusive fwb and hooked up a couple of times. After a couple encounters, he ended it but strangely would still message me whenever I posted something on Instagram. A few days ago, he messaged me out of nowhere wanting to hook up. I was confused to this because he ended it saying he didn't want to do it anymore, but now a few weeks later he wants to have sex with me? But stupid me gave in though...I can't help but feel like I'm being played. I even confronted him about it and asked "what are we? Are we still fwb?" He told me he couldn't give me an answer simply replying "I don't know." This whole has been making me feel like shi.t and I don't think he realizes what he's doing. He'd just try to avoid my questions or act confused.

It tastes gross... don't get me wrong. I love women. I'm far from gay. I just don't enjoy going down on my girlfriend. Also, not that it matters but my girlfriend is hot as heck. She's a cheerleader and a volleyball player. I just can't do that for too long to her.

I have this college classmate who is definitely pretty, and has a very sweet personality. Recently I asked for her Instagram and she gave me her phone number as well . The first time we talked in class she told me randomly that I have a pretty face.. Now after class when walking to the parking lot, she catches up to me and tells me I'm her "walking buddy". Is she interested or am I friend zoned? She complimented me today that I have a "Colgate smile" and that I smell really nice. I'm confused because she called me walking buddy last week. Please help and I would appreciate the feedback

I have a gym crush with this girl that works out at my university gym. I started noticing her two weeks ago. I was in the stretching area, and she was there too, although I do think at that time I was at the area she planned on stretching at, and I guess I took her spot or her stretching mat, because she kept staring at me. At first, I just thought to myself, "oh look another attractive girl," and so I didn't mind her. When I was stretching, however, I felt as if I was being stared at by her. As I finished, I took a look a back over my shoulder to see if she stared at me and as I did, she did as well which made me smirk. One characteristic I must note about this girl is that she seems to have a serious looking face, or what people would call a resting b***h face. Afterwards, I realized I left my lunch in the refrigerator and I saw her again on the way there, and she stared at me and kind of made that sound that people make when their get irritated while she untangled her hair (I don't know why I find that interesting). I saw her again the next day I think she got caught staring at me and looked away. Let's just say the following week I saw her again and made eye contact. At the same time I missed an opportunity to talk to her as she stretched her arms where my stuff was, and she looked at me as well. Today, I saw her again and made eye contact. We then merged paths as she went to go stretch but she looked away and stretch in an isolated spot. I didn't talk to her.

I been with my boyfriend for a week me and him are madly in love. I love him so much I feel like I'm ready to marry him were both adults both of us are 26. He's just 2 months older than me. Our friends tell us were the perfect couple I'm actually the first girl he's been interested in also the first girlfriend he's ever had. I feel like he's the one like I'm ready to spend the rest of my life with him he's like me he's shy and quite normally I don't like guys who are quite but there's something about him that turns me on. How can I tell him that I'm ready to marry him ?