So my sister's wedding is coming up in less than a month and I have no one to go with and I'm single. Originally one of my friends was supposed to come to the wedding but he got himself injured and so now he can't come to the wedding. I paid for his plane ticket and now it is going to waste. Because of me having bipolar disorder and schizophrenia I am self aware of myself and how I am. I know for a fact that if I don't have anyone to go to the wedding with I would get upset and depressed and start yelling and screaming and crying because it would just remind me of my relationship failures. For many years my family has been trying to set me up with someone by getting my aunt in china to help me. It never worked out and one woman told my aunt she isn't thinking about marriage right now and wants to focus on her career. So far I've asked two girls that I went to college with about 6 years ago if they could come and both of them said that they couldn't come. I have no female friends who I can ask to go with me and those two girls I only know them from college and haven't seen them in years. I'm desperate and I need someone to go to the wedding with. How can I find a date for the wedding in less than 4 weeks ??

Men, what would be your time frame? 1 year? 6 months? 37 years? Lol Ladies, how much time passed between when your partner started asking you about rings and when they actually proposed ?