My sister's wedding is in less than a month. Our mother is insane and always has to have her way with everything or she'll ruin everyone else's day. She has been fine with the guest list and even verified everyone's addresses for my sister. Now she just sprung on us that if a *certain person* shows up she's going to cuss them out and call the cops and have them escorted out. She's trying to ruin my sister's wedding just because she doesn't like one person that's invited. My sister is an absolute wreck and thinks our mother is going to ruin her wedding, and I'm sure it will happen some way or another. Our mother is a classic narcissist and has made my sister so upset to where she changed her bouquet, dress, and bridesmaid dresses just so our mom would like them and stop calling them ugly. I really need to figure out how to stop her from ruining my sister's big day. You would think that our mother would want her to be happy, but a classic narcissist would never allow someone else to be happy. She's never been a real mother, and now it's just getting worse. We need to figure out how to keep her from ruining absolutely everything. My sister is one tiny problem away from a mental breakdown she does NOT need our mom to keep ruining every little thing. We need tips on how to deal with such an ignorant person.

I know my boyfiend doesnt have it altogether but a good man is extremely rare and I fear if we break up I will never find this type of love again. good guys are hard to find and she's all up on my neck just because my boyfriend is 34 living with his grandmother and because he has kids. he has 3 kids kids by two different women and she's been suspicious about him ever since finding out. the kids were there before i even met my boyfriend so no worries he didn't have an outside baby on me. He's attentive, loving, self-less, and loyal and that's all that I could ever ask for. yes, he might not have his own place but sometimes you can't have it all. A lot of the guys i dated that had their own place were very shallow, cheated on me, were distant, you know. I waited 23 years to meet a decent guy. We started dating when we were 23 and I'm now 27. Plus, my boyfriend is very ambitious because he started back up school and he said he's determined to make a good life for us and move us to new york when he gets a degree and better paying job. I can't even count how many times i've been cheated on in the past, i had to beg my ex to do basic things like call or text. Now my guy friend is seemingly perfect according to my mom because he doesn't have kids, he has a nice car, a good job, he's an engineer, he has his own apartment and he is 30. my mom said that I shouldn't date a man with a child if i don't have or want kids. My mom said love isn't enough sometimes, you have to date who you are compatible with. she said that my guy friend would be perfect for me. My guy friend is a good guy no doubt. We've been friends since 2010 and have only had like two argeuments.I remember one time years ago when i had got cheated on with my ex on valentines day my guy friend took me out to eat and bought me flowers and a giant teddy bear so i wouldn't be so depressed. I don't even know if my guy friend likes me in that manner

I know my boyfiend doesnt have it altogether but a good man is extremely rare and I fear if we break up I will never find this type of love again. good guys are hard to find and she's all up on my neck just because my boyfriend is 34 living with his grandmother and because he has kids. he has 3 kids kids by two different women and she's been suspicious about him ever since finding out. the kids were there before i even met my boyfriend so no worries he didn't have an outside baby on me. He's attentive, loving, self-less, and loyal and that's all that I could ever ask for. yes, he might not have his own place but sometimes you can't have it all. A lot of the guys i dated that had their own place were very shallow, cheated on me, were distant, you know. I waited 23 years to meet a decent guy. We started dating when we were 23 and I'm now 27. Plus, my boyfriend is very ambitious because he started back up school and he said he's determined to make a good life for us and move us to new york when he gets a degree and better paying job. I can't even count how many times i've been cheated on in the past, i had to beg my ex to do basic things like call or text. Now my guy friend is seemingly perfect according to my mom because he doesn't have kids, he has a nice car, a good job, he's an engineer, he has his own apartment and he is 30. my mom said that I shouldn't date a man with a child if i don't have or want kids. My mom said love isn't enough sometimes, you have to date who you are compatible with. she said that my guy friend would be perfect for me. My guy friend is a good guy no doubt. We've been friends since 2010 and have only had like two argeuments.I remember one time years ago when i had got cheated on with my ex on valentines day my guy friend took me out to eat and bought me flowers and a giant teddy bear so i wouldn't be so depressed. I don't even know if my guy friend likes me in that manner.

As you can guess from the question, I'm planning on proposing to my girlfriend in Banff later this year. I've been toying with the idea of getting a secret photographer to catch the moment I pop the question. I just think it'd be really cool to catch the actual moment with some beautiful scenery. I've been doing some research to try and find some options, but was hoping someone maybe had some suggestions on who to go with? And any advice on the topic such as decent prices. Any help is appreciated!