The other day my husband my bff and I all got really drunk. It ended up in a dare of my husband fingering my friend and him jacking her off. They both did so and appeared to really enjoy it as did I. Now tonight we are preparing for them to hopefully have sex. Anyone else tried this? He's has sex with another man but never my friend,

I don't want to pressure her! I don't want to be a jerk. But it's also getting really difficult. What do I do?

Here I am caught between two people that I both love. Let's call them person A and B A I met years ago and we dated as teenagers but because his family moved we were separated and tried keeping the relationship going but after a few months we called it quits because I was so busy with college and so was he and it became harder and harder. We obviously still kept in touch throughout the years and swore never to get married. Now fast forward 2 years in the future I met this guy that I was actually interested ( person B) in and we dated for months... Fell in love... Moved in together... Yeah... Got married but I never told person A. Person B and I keep in touch Still and I still get butterflies when I talk to him because I can honestly say I still love you. But I'm married and love my husband as well and would never cheat therefore I happy contact with B to a minimum. 2 years later person B started to question why I started to slowly distance myself so he made a huge decision and moved back on his own leaving his family to be back where we were together. He lands tomorrow and... Idk what to do? I love them both but I'm married and loyal and wouldn't want to leave my husband but this dude just moved across country to be with me...

Like will the marriage effect my scholarships or anything else.

Name one thing that you don't like, and like about your spouse. What do you both enjoy doing on weekends?

NO couple is perfect. What's something you and your significant other disagree strongly about or argue about? With my fiance and I, we argue about our religious views. He's more Bible-oriented and I'm more open-minded when it comes to my views. We're kind of like that too, Whatever.

what would you do in this situation when there's children in the middle ? He was planning a vacation with her and other friends while I stayed home with the kids.

My husband and I moved to an area where the cost of living is very cheap but so is the pay. I got VERY lucky when I landed my job 9 years ago. I made very very good money for this area. My husband, not so much. Financially, we were living comfortably Both my husband and I knew if I ever lost my job we could not stay in this area that's how bad the job market is here. Unfortunately, last August I lost my job due to our department closing.I've been looking for work for almost a year now taking whatever I could get. My husband and I are now barely making ends meat. We had a good bit of savings but regardless $11/hr jobs are not going to pay the bills!! (And the locals think $11/hr is GOOD pay)I know in my heart we have to relocate. I'm very upset. We own a home that's completely paid off, we have wonderful connections here, our kids are thriving here. (The public school system is terrible) but our kids are in private school and are very doing well! We have finally found good doctors (after years of searching) I'm just all around content. My husbands actually been offered a new job. The pay is decent it's close to Atlanta. I know I could find work in my field in Atlanta and likely the two of us would be set financially. The problem is it's 4 hours from here. I'm not sure I'm ready to uproot our family. I'm so content here but I know I can't continue to work for such low pay now. Our savings can only last so long. Any advice?

I failed my marriage even tho i love the man so much but i just discovred that we'r not made for each other, we are two different worlds, just to get over it i want to know how to start a new life, i'm so uncapable!!!

My sister just got engaged. We met the groom and his family. His parents were dressed down compared to their Facebook and Instagram pictures. His brother wore clothes as if he was going on a camping trip. The groom wore a blazer which was too tight to cover his stomach even though I have seen him wear nice suits on Facebook. The Aunt wore clothes that was loud in design and screaming for attention. I have seen her wear low key clothes on facebook

I have a friend that is married man. I'm married too. We do some free activity together and we need to do something this week. I told him not to plan it on Friday since I'm busy with going to a book presentation (it has nothing to do with our mutual interest) and he texted me;" if there would be something to eat and drink I invite myself". What to tell him?

Hi guys! So I m new to my job (2 months). I sit with a small group of 3 (all males) I m the only female. We work for a large organization but our team itself, within our cubicle area is small. So far everyone is really cool and professional..we mesh very well. They are starting a bowling team and asked me to join. It sounds like fun and seems like they are wanting to establish some team building. It will be once a week on a weekday around 7 or 8 PM. I wanted to know if it s appropriate to bring my husband. We are newlyweds (if that s relevant) and we typically spend our weekday evenings together. He also loves bowling but since it s a work social thing I m wondering if it s ok to bring him along. Or should I have just declined. Thoughts?

Hi everyone, I really wanted to ask for some advice should I talk to my dad, he left my mom & I shortly after I was 1. Although than happened he was active in my life I'd always see him every week. He had another family and with his new wife he had another daughter. His wife never wanted him to pay much for child support and ultimately he and my mom had a huge fight over this and he never came to see me again. I was about 7 years old at the time., currently I'm 22 and recently I can't stop thinking about him. Growing up my mom would ask me if I wanted to see or talk to him, and she'd find him for me but I always said no. Part of me resents him for leaving, I had to watch my mom struggle financially, stress, and always tired. Even so, I've been going through a really hard time and I've been feeling very emotional these past couple of weeks. I can't sleep, I'm stressed, and I keep crying out of nowhere, and again I can't stop thinking of him. I recently contacted a cousin who gave me his number and I keep hovering over the call button. "What do I say?" "Will he even want to talk to me?" I don't know what to do and how to sum up how I feel. My emotions are all over the place, I've never been a crier but lately it's all that I do. To anyone that reads and answers Thank you so much

OK, I recently became a stay-at-home dad. I am doing a fine job, but when my wife gets home, she cooks ANOTHER dinner for the kids after I have already fed them. She also complains about ridiculous things like how I folded the t-shirts and how much laundry soap I used and what temperature I have the air conditioning on. This is my job now. How can I get her to leave me alone?

I have been married since 2004. My marriage is good but I miss having a variety of women in my life. Sometimes I meet women through my work and I get this overwhelming sexual attraction to them. I would never want to leave my wife, but sometimes I really crave the excitement of being with a new woman. How can I deal with this? I see only bitter, angry women are answering this question. Oh well.

I'm engaged to be married and I've begun to notice my future mother in law has become very spiteful. -She knows I hate salmon. She cooked something and put salmon in it and then as I was eating it she said "that was made with REAL salmon (in a sarcastic tone) then laughed. -My fiancé and I are going on a cruise. Every year his entire family goes on this trip and this year for the first time ever his mother insisted my fiancé pay for the hotel for the family trip since his parents have paid for him since he was very young. -recently when we've been going on dates she will call him about coming to dinner -she's been screenshoting posts I make on Facebook and asking my fiancé about it (trying to insinuate I'm cheating) example I had a photo with my male cousin and she showed him a photo and said "who's the guy?" -She came to visit my family and was SO RUDE my parents refuse to have them over again and my mother told my fiancé that to his face! I'm not sure what to do! It seems like his mom has become so spiteful since we got engaged. My family wants NOTHING to do with his family at all they can't stand them after the way they were treated when his family came to visit. I'm not sure what to do! Any advice?

My husband took a new job 2 years ago. It is a commission based job. Ever since he took this job our marriage has gone to sh*t. He works from 6AM-7PM Mon - Fri. He chooses to be on call on weekends to make more money. He is only making $40,000/yr! I also work full time and I'm making almost double what he's making! I come home daily cook dinner eat alone nightly. He comes home eats then falls asleep. We haven't had sex in 9 months! On weekends my father comes over to help with yard work and other things around the house because when he is off he's too tired and wants to just relax and watch tv. Prior to his new job our marriage was going quite well! I've asked him to consider a new line of work and he refuses. He tells me if I don't like it I can leave and that he's finally found a job he enjoys doing. He tells me it's not all about money but how much you love your job. I've lost WHO I AM as a person in this marriage. I met a man yesterday he's a doctor in his mid 30's like myself. We did not exchange any information and all I know about him is his name. Dr. White hill and that he's a cardiologist. I likely won't ever see him again as it was just a fluke but I can't stop thinking about him. Any advice? Should I end my marriage? I've always been someone who is against divorce and felt you should work things out regardless but I honestly don't even feel like I'm married anymore.

My ex-husband and I are getting divorced and I want to legally get rid of his last name. He does not want me using his name any longer either. I changed my name to his 25 years ago when we got married and am not sure how to legally transition back to my maiden name, but it is of uttermost importance I do. Any help would be greatly appreciated, thank you. Good morning to all.