My friend got married 2 days ago. Before her wedding I made so many safricifies as 1 of her bridesmaids. I spent 200 dress, 150 hair, $500 bachelorette,$200 bridal shower and gift and on top I had to take a day off because she got married on a Friday. I wouldn't mind because I did it to make her happy, but she made this experience stressful for me and I'm sure for the other bridesmaids too. She was very demanding, she expected me to be available whenever she wanted and if i didn't she got upset. I let all that go but on the day of the wedding, she made me really uncomfortable. She said she will pick me up but call me when she was already there because she had to leave earlier; however, didn't call before. That already made my day upsetting. When we arrived at the venue, people were complementing her makeup and dress and since I didn't say anything, she came to me and say do you like my makeup? With a really bad actitud. Everyone took a bunch of pictures for the first look. When we arrived at the venue . I said I will charge my phone so that I have enough batteries for the wedding. When I said that, she told me in front of everybody: Idk why you bother charging your phone, you haven't bothered to ask me to take a picture. I told her that I didn't because we had already taken so many pictures. She replies: don't worry I don't need any more pictures. Why does she have to be such an a$$. I made so many sacrifices for her. Why was she being such a b**? Am I wrong for being mad?

Should I go? I have not yet vocalized my concerns to her and I know this might be seen as hostile if I don't go but I'm just going to feel left out at the party anyways but it'll be seen as hostile if I don't go...

So, I've been friends with this guy for nearly two decades. Like many long friendships, we went through spells of being practically attached at the hip, and other times we didn't talk much for months. It was a lot of back and forth, but the pattern was always consistent. Anyway, although he's a real nice guy and fairly faithful to his friends, (until trouble arrives) he's also one of those people that always, ALWAYS thinks they're right. Not a know-it-all, just the type that never has his facts straight on any subject, whether it be a historical fact, another person, any information of any kind and even himself. If he finds himself in a pickle of his own making, he'll make up a flat out lie to get out of it. He's also sort of screwed me over throughout the years. His constant need for attention from everyone in thr room and always taking it too far makes for a lot of trouble. He's gotten me and some of my other friends kicked out of places from his outrageous attention seeking. He even let me take the fall for some merchandise he broke in a store a few years ago. He said it was a joke, but I still don't believe it. Today for the first time ever, I got so fed up with it, I told him what for, and the gist of it is: he told me to go F myself, he hates me, he feels sorry for my spouse having to be married to me, and all that stuff. I mean, he really dug into me. Do you think I should apologize or let it go somehow?

:/ thanks... Haha i think i want to give good advice and to care about a potential friend but people cant see that just upon a first meeting or glance... It seems no one wants to talk to me.

For over a year now, I've been friends with this girl and her mother has become another mother to me. They don't have much money and my mother rents out our basement so I told my mom to let them move in. They have just moved in about a week ago. Since I met them, I would hang out with them along with this man who was a close family friend. A few months ago, this man started asking me sexual questions and became extremely manipulative and toxic. I told my friends mother that I didn't want him hanging out in the basement and she didn't seem to respect that. Is there anything that I can say to her to make her respect my wishes? I don't feel like I can tell my mother about anything that happened between me and the man because then my mom would probably kick them out. Please give me some advice

I am 28 and my boyfriend is 37 and we recently moved in together. We both currently have important careers. Since we have moved in together my best friend of 12 years has told me I have become a shitty friend. Basically I quit going out as much and really have started settling down. She is upset because the past two weekends I have not stayed out all night drinking with her. She wanted me to stay the night with her and continue drinking all night and I said no, one I had to go see my dad in the hospital the next morning and that I just cant keep doing that. Last Saturday she exploded in front of my friends because I wouldnt stay the night with her like I used to, even though I told her we could. I had to cancel the actual staying the night because my son was being brought home by his father earlier than he normally does. None of my friends had my back on that. Anyways, she is now telling me how much she hates my boyfriend and how I have been a shitty friend because of above detail. My boyfriend does not want me to have anything to do with her after she disrespected him and is treating me the way she is. I do not know if I should cut this friend off or talk to her about it. She cannot accept I am settling down more and says i throw my dad and child in her face. I only went out when my son was at his dad's but now she is saying I am throwing him and my dying dad in her face when I say I cannot stay out all night. What should i do in this situation

Ugly women know they are ugly. Yet all the women on social media always comment on their pictures telling them how beautiful they are. It's basically an insult. The girl is chronically single, 100 lbs overweight, depressed and lonely and all of her pretty friends who have boyfriends and hubsands are telling her how pretty she is on Facebook. It's like wtf is the point? Get real... help the girl out with her depression and help her meet a decent guy instead of constantly telling how how pretty she is (when she's not)

I'm struggling with something. I feel like a judgmental jerk, but would you feel the same? My 14 year old daughter seems to only hang out with this one girl all the time. This girl really annoys me because of her personal issues from her attitude, to her personality, to her hygiene (I won't go into details). Should I just let it go and stop worrying? One of the big things is I'm concerned that my daughter isn't going to have a fun teen social life with other teens if she's always with this one girl....especially with some of the issues she has with her loud mouth and bathroom issues.

Long story short, my cousin, lucy, keeps friending my friends then I become the third wheel. She purposely places herself around them, then next thing I know they are hanging out. She has done this numerous times , i've talked to her about it, but she plays dumb. Thing is, her friends are her friends. I don't get invited to anything they do, but if i hang out with my friend, she acts all mad and upset. seriously, i feel like im in high school again. My family and I have another couple and their family that we have been hanging out with for several years. my cousin has been trying all that time to be included. i found out yesterday that she has been hanging out with my friend and my friend invited them along on a vacation we had planned on taking with them this summer. I'm pissed. I don't want to hang out with my cousin and her family. It would be nice if I could have a separate life without her constantly inserting herself in our life. Its like whatever I do, she HAS to be included, but not vice versa, i'm never ask to do anything with her friends. Should i not go on vacation and tell my friend why? I really dont think i can stomach being around lucy

I expected to come to college and find my life long friends. I'm about to be a senior, and I haven't found them yet. I feel like I don't fit in with anyone. I feel alone almost every day. I look on social media and see people hanging out with their friends and enjoying their life. I get so de and beat up on myself Because I feel like there is something wrong with me since I don't have any friends. I'm 20, I feel like I shouldn't be this isolated. These are supposed to be the "best years" of my life and I spent most of my college experience depressed in my room.

My phone was dead and we were out. I had to get in contact with my boyfriend and I saw she had text messages with this girl she told me she blocked because she was tired of her. I saw she was telling her that she is making her have to hang out with me. I saw other things of her saying bad things about me and I was shocked . I don't know if I should tell her about it or just end the friendship. I took her on a whole vacation and she was telling her friend she wasn't going to go out with me one day when I was expecting my lost debit card in the mail because she didn't want to have to harass me for 40 dollars. I've never asked her for money or been financially irresponsible but that hurt me

I'm letting someone's dogs in/out and feeding them for not even a whole day and she left me a note with money on the table, however I feel like I don't need to get paid for this especially because she's gone having to deal with someone being in the hospital. Would it be rude of me to leave a note saying she doesn't need to pay me or how do I decline it? Thanks

I say im bullied and i am and my peers tell me to stop whining and i deserve being bullied. Im a gay man and its mostly gay community that bullies me

I live in lousiville ky, The women where I live are single and don't have a boyfriend, but have a fan club of guys and you cannot talk to them or say anything to them. These guys that they're just with are exclusive and the same. If you try to talk to these women or say anything to them those guys would intrude and say something incendiary and smart aleck, or heckle you. The first time around she might give you small talk then the next time around those guys are in your face. She is always in an entourage with these guys, so you can never have anything to do with her without those guys 'overhearing' you or looking at you from a distance. Any suggestions?

I recently hung out with a really good friend named R of mine and she invited me out with her other good friend name T. We were having a good time and they stayed the night over cause they were too drunk to go home and we went to the beach, I had thought we were all getting along until T gets a call it's her friend talking about his date he hears all of us and asks who she's hanging out with. She tells him 'it's R and HER friend(me)' and repeats this several times. Does this mean she doesn't like me and considers me not to be a friend or am I just being weird. I don't know why I'm thinking about it so much but like I honestly don't think I need to be labeled as just someone else's friend of so and so.. I just felt weird about it since.. should I or not?

I distanced myself from a friend who was bullying me. She was angry at me, snapping at me and treated me like a doormat. I ignored her messages and she showed up at my social group weeks later. She was glaring at me as if she wanted to kill me that night then she made an indirect comment about friends who stab other friends in the back. Then I felt guilty, so I let her back into my life. Since then, I feel like she has tried to turn me against my group of close friends and isolated me away from them. I was getting on very well with the group. I messaged the group asking if we could all put together a gift for someone's birthday. She never replied but everyone else on the group did and people said it was a great idea. Then, the next day she showed up with an even bigger gift Then on the day of the birthday I got all dressed up and she saw me and said 'you look like a princess, you always have lots of nice dresses' and she kept asking to take photos of me. She stuck to me the entire day and made sure I couldn't speak to anyone else. When I went over to speak to my friend, she was stood behind me glaring at me I had a photo with her and she said sarcastically 'you always look so nice in photos you make me look like garbage stood next to you Then when I was stood with everyone else, she invited the guy who I like to her house for champagne in front of me What is her problem with me? Why was she obsessed with getting so many photos of me?

I know this sounds so stupid to some but me looking so much younger than my age is starting to depress me a lot. I'm 25 and most people think I'm 18. People at work view my as a teen with little experience which is super frustrating. I have to constantly reassure everyone that I'm 25 and have a lot of experience.i work as a teacher and I swear parents look at me like I am a kid myself! Is there anything I can do to look older because i am in desperate need of some help :(

I regret unfriending like 20 people. I did that because my brother told me only be friends with people you hang out with so I did but I miss seeing their stories and stuff. I want to add them back but I don't want to look bad. Should I add them back or make a new account or something? Thx:)

I have this friend, I'll call her Ari. Trying to figure out if there's anything more going on. She's always been extroverted, outgoing, kinda quirky. She gets a lot of attention from guys and she's a stoner. We've always been close, able to hang out one-on-one, not just in the friend group, and share secrets. But we're different people. I'm shy, inexperienced, quiet. Never dated anyone. So I didn't think about of it. This year though, it kinda feels like Ari's flirting with me. Tagging me in her Instagram updates, saying stuff like "So why weren't you here? <3" When the friend group has sleepovers and play music, she always wants to dance with me. When we camp out on the floor, she usually sleeps beside me and even cuddles me sometimes. I mean, she's an affectionate person, I've seen her cuddle others. Everyone found out via truth or dare that I've never watched porn or masturbated. Thankfully, they're nice and didn't laugh at me, but Ari was surprised and encouraged me to try. We were talking on the phone later, and she brought it up again. Somehow talking me into trying, surprising me by saying "Tell you what, just imagine me, if it's easier, okay?" She started moaning to "help" me and I ended up doing it. Haven't seen her in person since, but we've been texting like everything's the same. Is it the same? I still can't believe that happened. I know she's outgoing but why would she do that?

I have a good friend I've known for about three years or so now and the relationship started out really well, but lately I've begun to have my doubts about how good of a friend she actually is. She's kinda selfish and will blatantly ignore anything I say in favor of what she wants. she interrupts me constantly. She only talks about her own interests for hours and hours even when she knows I'm really not interested or I don't understand what she's talking about and gets super upset if I try to change the subject after a while. She's really defensive and I always end up feeling guilty or stupid when I'm around her. She won't give me personal space whenever she's around and ignores me when I tell her to stop. She won't let me get excited for things and I find myself feeling drained after hangouts and always finding an excuse to invite someone to things that isn't her. I know I'm not responsible for her happiness But it feels that way and it's a little too much. But there's other times where she's a great friend and I don't know if I'm over reacting. I don't want to cut ties with a person I don't have to cut ties with We're high schoolers - I'm a sophomore she's a junior We don't attend the same high school but she's in the main friend group and all the group chats so it'd also be weird trying to cut ties while she's still friends with everyone else

I'm in a friend group, there is 6 of us. I believe in every friend group there is the Bunky, the Chutney, the Drowsy, the Amber, the Paisley, and the Juniper. I am the Bunky which basically means I am the weird one who is said to be ugly and have a double chin.

Basically, one of my friends was called the b-word over imessages. They are blaming ME, because the name was my name. I have an android btw, and I don t think you can use imessages on android. Anyone can change their name whenever they want to. They won t believe me. Please help! What do I tell them? They keep calling me a liar :(

A little background: my brother (30) and his friend "Jason" (24) met through a mutual friend 4 years ago. "Jason" came to live with us towards the last 4 months of 2016. In November 2016, my best guy friend died. That night, Jason made me some whiskey and Coke and convinced me to come watch a horror movie with me while he cuddled with me. He fell asleep, but I left the bed after he fell asleep. Not longer after, our mom kicked him out due to him not pulling his weight and plus, he'd be yelling at video games until the wee hours of the morning. Fast forward: he has been around the past 7 months (there was a little bit of a hiatus in between) and he comes over at least once a week. He either hugs me or high-fives me, but still jokingly calls me a "loser". When my mom went into the hospital and was dying (she passed away in October), he came and visited with us multiple times and was even there the night she passed away. A few days prior, when my fiance wasn't there (who was just my boyfriend at the time), "Jason" held my hand. A couple months ago, my brother, Jason and I were watching a movie (I think it was New Years, actually, before I was engaged and after my fiance left). My brother fell asleep first. Jason went to the bathroom at one point and left the bathroom cracked open, didn't even bother to close the door. I ended up saying good night and leaving because I knew it wasn't appropriate. Just now, he's here at my brother and my house and he said I could watch a movie with them and I kind of just avoided it. Do you think my brother's friend secretly likes me? My brother thinks Jason is gay and I think Jason likes me LOL! Jason has been single for at least 2 years now. *convinced me to watch a horror movie with him Rachael, I'm engaged. I'm not "going" for it lol.

A girl called another girl satan's work when she was trying to befriend her.

Her mom and dad have been throwing away her food and physically inflicting wounds upon her. I'm trying to tell her the difference between discipline and abuse, yet she won't listen. What should I do?

I'm letting someone's dogs in/out and feeding them for not even a whole day and she left me a note with money on the table, however I feel like I need to get paid for this especially because she's gone having to deal with someone being in the hospital. Would it be rude of me to leave a note saying she doesn't need to pay me or how do I decline it? Thanks

i'm 16 and My grades are bad and my crushes don't like me and don't talk to me and their all i care about. one is a girl at my school who i used to be friends with but i lost and another is in college and graduated and hates me bc i used to harass him. i have no real friends, all my school friends don't care about me and just talk to me bc im "funny" bc i just do stuff for attention. they don't even want to hang out. some of my online friends ignore me and don't talk to me and others are just rude. i just want to cry, my school counselor also doesn't care he just ignores me i feel like no one likes me

My friend keeps canceling on me because she's so in love with this guy that she's known for 1 month. I decided to stop talking to her, I haven't known her long but she's already proven to be a fake friend. She's texted me 3 days in a row and I haven't responded once, today she texted again saying that her and her boyfriend broke up. This irritates me more cause it's like she sees me as her back up. But every time she texts me, I feel bad for not responding but I don't need fake friends. Should I explain why I don't want to continue the friendship, or just keep ignoring her? I've only known her for 2 months and we have met once so we're not exactly close, but she has no other friends

I've been engaged for 2 months. I've had this married, male friend for 2 years. He used to be my boss, but we no longer work together or even at the job we met at. When I say my friend is married, I mean he's happily married and they have kids together. I call him "bro" and treat him like an older brother and he treats me like a sister (especially since his real sister is only a year older than me). Pretty much ever since my fiance met my friend 5 months ago, he's felt threatened by him. He feels as though something is going on or has previous gone on, between my friend and I. He constantly refers to him as my "boyfriend" jokingly (although half the time, I'm not sure he's joking). Today, we went to go visit my friend and his family at the hospital because his oldest boy is in there. On the way there, my fiance and I were talking about the cold sore on my lip and my fiance suggested he ask my friend where HE thinks the cold sore came from. He also said we should tell my friend we're sexually active so that my friend "backs off". Also, my fiance made a big deal about us driving down to the city and bringing my friend's family food and I said "I'd do it for you" (meaning I would make the trip with him if one of his friends' kids were in the hospital) and he thought I meant I'd go visit him in the hospital and he said "oh, so me and ______ are about the same level of how much we mean to you?" Has anybody else's S.O. ever relentlessly teased them about a friend? Funny thing is, this is the ONLY friend that my fiance feels threatened by or has an issue with. I have many guy friends, as I grew up with brothers and have inevitably been a tomboy my whole life (I'm 28, fiance is 26; friend is 39) and my fiance doesn't have a problem with any other guy friends.

Basically sometimes when I look at this guy that I have liked for a while I get really anxious and think his eyes look kind of weird, like evil or really black and weird looking. When Im speaking to him sometimes I cant even look at him, one minute he looks okay and then I get a fright. I remember years ago when I was in a relationship as a teenager, I started getting afraid of my bf. He tried to bang my head off a wall one time, he had sex with me while I was asleep, he done a number of things that frightened me and I never had a proper relationship after him. I now wonder if this is why im seeing this guys eyes as being frightening. It also happened with another guy I liked years ago. His eyes would become scary looking especially if he was standing close to me or we were arguing.