It is six months before your daughter's lavish wedding. As mother of the bride, do you need to take 8 weeks leave of absence from work in order to plan for this wedding?

My bachelorette party is in less than two weeks. My good friend is in conflict with another guest by the name of Monika (I invited Monika because she was onceclose with aforementioned friend but not so much with myself). Monika is refusing ( I implored her to extend an olive branch a few weeks ago) to smooth things over but still planning on coming. I don't want to be rude and make Monika feel awful but I feel like either she squashes the beef she has with my close friend or she shouldn't come. How do I proceed?