Family: Question: How do we prove we're innocent in a theft at a family reunion?

Question: How do we prove we're innocent in a theft at a family reunion?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 02:22 PM PDT

In all the years we've been around family, nothing ever came up missing. Suddenly someone did steal, and they are pointing fingers at us! HOW do we convince them otherwise? My husband has gone back to a cashier who have us back too much change! Why would we steal from family! I just need a respectful way to firmly state it wasn't us.

Question: Life with my mother in law sounds like hell !?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 01:55 PM PDT

Help me ! My mother in law wants me to always be down, She is jealous of me . She wants me always to be less ..... When we talk ..she doesn't stop commenting and interfering in anything i'm doing like what i am wearing , what i am working. She keeps imitating me and claims that i imitate her !!! She wants to be a super star and she wants me to be ugly !!! She likes wearing make up and being stylish just to be loved !! She hates me ...maybe she doesn't know what love is ?! please what can i do to make her think that she is poor in mind . She wants me to call her name because she isn't old huh ! She is but she has gerscophobia which makes me very angry . She is surrounded by liars who keep lifting her spirit up by their false compliments .. She keeps doing surgeries to appear perfect lol She wants me to wear my old clothes because she wants to be better than me . She can do anything ...may be fall in a debt to appear the best for people. She tells me ....don't buy clothes , don't put on makeover ...you are fine! She can't bear seeing me elegant ! What can i do to make people understand the situation because they keep saying ....Who is the bride? You or your Mother in law because she keeps playing in her face

Question: Should I tell my mom I'm not gonna pick her respite kid up when shes drunk?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 01:42 PM PDT

My mom takes care of an autistic man every weekend, and she picks him up from his job, and drives him home every Wednesday. Well the last couple times she had me go pic him up because she was drunk. Didnt think much about it than, but shes basically having me do her job because she was too drunk. Next time she asks me to do it, than should I just say no, and let her loose out on the money?

Question: Why my dad so greedy?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 01:15 PM PDT

we came from a nice family but he never told us about it like hes ashamed of itch have a lot of money but he always act cheap around us and like he have nothing and own only 2$ in his bank account he waste all his money in useless stuff and for his benefit only like we're your kids and you have a wife really your going to do that instead of making a better like your going to take all the money for yourself he never gave ma allowance never and I hate asking like your the dad it's your job o give me money at the end of the money to buy my needs and am not asking for much I sweat, getting tired of this always see people around me dress nice and we're like this even our house is a mess he don't care about us he only take care of himself and his money !! I hate him you have money for a reason to give your family a better life not doing this and when we go out he always act cheap like this is so expensive how can we going to pay for this really??? your going to say that when we all know you have all that money, he always act cheapppp !!!!!!!!!making us feel bad for going out and he don't take us out that much!! we grow living in a low self esteem because of him.

Question: Should I run away from home?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 12:34 PM PDT

Okay so I'm 14 and I have a lot of rough things going on in my life, I just cant stand it anymore. I have been medically diagnosed with depression and anxiety, I very obviously have PTSD as well. I love my mom and cats but everything is just too much, my mom is always yelling at me and even though she used to be probably as depressed as me she cant seem to understand that I am. she doesn't show me she cares often and whenever I come to her with an issue she just sounds like a broken record. my boyfriend(15) lives about 23 hours away by car (he lives in Canada) and in all honesty I want to get him to run away with me, he really isn't in a good situation and when he turns 16 he wants to move out. my mom could easily do well without me, I'm useless anyway. I never help around the house and I barely ever come out of my room. she could probably pack a couple bags and move in with my brother. He could take care of her way better then I ever could. I'm just a little(very) worried, how would my friends feel? how would my mom feel?(even though shed do way better without me) okay so a bit more info, i don't mouth off to my family. its rare ill actually yell at my mom, the only time i actually do is when im having a mental break down. im not lazy, what i meant by staying in my room is i can barely get out of bed. im always so tired and have no motivation. also! im online schooled, i don't have a school consler.

Question: Me Mother Want To Sex Me?!?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 12:31 PM PDT

She Try To Make Me Do The Mik Milk When She Give Me The Bath!. But Father Mad At Me Because He Say I Cheat On him MOther Won;t Stop FAther Say HE Going To kick Me OUT IF I Cheat ON Him More By Miother Milk Milky ME!!!!! HeLP!.!

Question: If your kid stole money, Easter eggs and other things from you, lied all the time, stole from shops, had no job or qualifications or?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 12:16 PM PDT

Experience, was in his or hers 20s, no college. What would you do?

Question: My boyfriends 27 year old sister and her 6 month old baby are living at home?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 11:50 AM PDT

My boyfriends sister got out of a 7 year abusive relationship when she was 24. Started dating immediately after for rebounds. Got a boyfriend and got pregnant a year later when she was 26. Moved out of her parents house for 5 months. Her boyfriend was cheating on her for the 3rd time so she moved back in to her parents house. She decided to be a no show to her daycare job because she said she didn't feel like going to work and got fired. Now she's been living off her tax returns. She just got a new job and her first day was today, but she called in saying her baby was sick because she quote "didn't feel like going because she's lazy". She doesn't clean up her messes. She complains about doing 1 dish a month and goes out drinking every Saturday night! While staying with random guys she finds at bars or meets online. Every Saturday she's been leaving her baby with her cheater ex boyfriend who pays not a dime of child support. Her mom buys all the baby items because she has no job and the father doesn't support. Thoughts???? Should the parents let this go or force her to become independent??

Question: Who do you think is more "judgmental" today, the left or the right?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 11:43 AM PDT

Question: Why can't I have anything nice in life?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 11:10 AM PDT

Is it because of my brother always ruins it?

Question: How would you describe my sisters personality?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 10:45 AM PDT

So I am 23, I am a programmer who is working on my portfolio. My sister on the other hand is a nurse. Lately, she has been not only bossy to me, but I don't know how to put it in words. She always tells me, "how are you going to make a living", "you know that mom is going to die soon and she needs someone near her". Why is she telling me all this? My mom isn't even that old, and even then, I know that eventually, my mom will pass away and I have to take care of her. Why does she have to remind me? When I was on vacation, one of my aunts, who is old btw, passed out in the sun, and all my relatives couldn't do anything, so we called the paramedics came (shes alright now), she out of nowhere, in a harsh way, told me to fan her. I didn't even a fan around, so what the hell was I supposed to do? Why did she call me out, she's a nurse, why don't she fan her? Why she had to call me out, I didn't do anything to my aunt. My sister acts like I don't care about anything, but in reality, I do. When my mom had a cramp in her feet when she was sleeping, I got up out of bed and helped her with the cramp, but my sister didn't. I clean dishes, my sister just leaves them in the sink. She acts she knows more than me, just because she works (she doesn't even know what I do and even if she did, the first thing she would ask is, "do you have a job"). My sister is the only one that pisses me off and ruins my concentration. How would you describe her and how do I deal with her? BTW, she moved out last year to help her boyfriends family. But she still stops by and even help mom out.

Question: How often do your parents talk to you as an adult?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 10:42 AM PDT

Question: My mom won’t let me sleep out?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 10:40 AM PDT

This summer I'm going to be 21 years old. My mom is saying she doesn't want me sleeping out at my bfs or friends (have a feeling it's more cause sleeping at my bfs). My bf is the same age. I live at my grandmas with my mom and family (so not under my mothers roof she doesn't pay any bills). I have never drank, done drugs, went to a party anything I just work full time, bought my own car, pay all my own bills and I just want this freedom. This summer basically she wants me and my sister home every single night and probably not doing anything. I really enjoy sleeping at my bfs in the summer we night swim, play video games, hang out with his friends and a bunch of fun things. We live a half hour apart so that's why I usually would end up staying over. What should I do? If I do stay out my mom tortures me about it and makes me feel bad.

Question: My grandfather died. How do I make sure my Mom does not make me as miserable as she is from now on?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 10:28 AM PDT

I am sad but he was 88 and life goes on. My mother is sad like all 3 of her kids died or something on that scale. I dread her sucking me into her misery. I want to be respectful but not get sucked in. How do I do this? He died 2 weeks ago and his funeral was yesterday so today I am trying to get back to normal.

Question: How do I get my Dad to start loving me again even though I am an adult?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 10:23 AM PDT

He stopped having love for me, his son, once I was college aged. He loves the other son who is not any better then me or worse but the same. He also loves his daughter.

Question: What to do with my wife?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 10:14 AM PDT

She's a stay home mom with my 10 month old son, she spend lots of money on makeup, food, and clothes. Everytime I say something she say I'm a greedy i can die with my money then she cry for hours till I say sorry. Everyone I bring it up she will beat me up and cry.

Question: How do I tell my parents, family, and friends I wish I was never born and am beyond ready to die?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 10:10 AM PDT

Question: In case of any eventuality, who is your next of kin?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 09:33 AM PDT

Question: Why is my mom ALWAYS in a bad mood? Is she narcissistic?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 09:12 AM PDT

There is NOT a day that goes by that she is in a decent mood. I wake up & the first thing I see on my phone is the words "I'm pissed/ I'm in a bad mood". She'll get mad over the SIMPLEST things & it last until she finds something else to go on about. She expects people to read minds. When she goes off about my stepdad or brother I ask her if she even mentioned to them what it is she wanted them to do before you got mad & 9/10 she says no but they should know... really? So she's basically ruin not only her day but everyone else's day all bc she couldn't just ask & it would've been over & done with. She started selling eBay. I'm 22yrs so I have other stuff going on School, work all that. She throws a FIT when she doesn't get help w her eBay. I try to explain to her I have my own stuff going on. She wont touch her eBay unless I'm w/ her so basically putting the blame on me that she's broke. This is her hobby not mine. She blows UP on me bc I don't quit my job to help her, I find that crazy. I help her when I can but she wants me to do it ALL day everyday & I CANT. She only talks about herself, She acts like she's the only one w problems. she knows absolutely nothing about me & I live w her. Why? she never asks.. when I do you can tell her she's fake interested then when we fight she brings up that I talked about myself that 1 time so I don't even bother. I know I should move out & I am working on it . Is there anything else I can do about this?

Question: Im 22 and mom gives me a curfew?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 08:50 AM PDT

I still live with my mom because im still in college and were a bit old fashioned anyways and i wont move out until im married. But i feel like my mom doesn't respect the fact that i am an adult. I am very busy with school and work so i am only able to hang out with friends 1-2 times a week, and she always wants me home by midnight. Last night she wanted me home at 10 cuz im getting over a cold, but i didnt get home until 11. This morning she told me after i got home she had a hard time falling asleep because I hurt her feelings and she was upset with me. She has this thing where she can never fall asleep until im in the house. She will sometimes text me saying i need to get home soon because she is tired and wants to go to bed...? Is she being ridiculous? Or am I in the wrong?

Question: What do I do?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 07:52 AM PDT

My entire I been abused verbally emotionally physically mentally. I was threatened to be kicked out. I told my months ago I was leaving her house and moving out. My mom has mental issues. So shes not easy to deal with. I leave next week I'm flying out and my mom is going to probably file a missing person's and try n put me in jail when I leave but I'm 18. And my brother is defending my mother side what do I do. Cause she went to my husband house and made lies about me to my mother in law to make it seem as though I'm a rebellious person when I'm not. Also shes very manipulative and controlling with my life. I been through a lot of trama growing up and living with my mother is toxic. I dont have a relationship with my father. Do I need to get a restraining order against my mother because of my childhood?

Question: Should I apologize to my mother? She always picks fights with my dad and plays the victim and I finally called her out on her bs?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 07:45 AM PDT

I'm already married i have a life outside my parents home, but my sisters who still live at home with my parents always call and tell me there going at it again, when I was young and at home I would always make them apologize and help mend things, but only for a week or two. Today my mom was telling me the same thing as always "I made a comment to your dad about about a painting, and he ignored me" and out of nowhere he started telling me all these things, so I insulted him back" and now we are not speaking." I know that he doesn't insult her unless she does it first, she has such a short temper with everyone!! And I finally told her: "No mom you made a comment, he was probably on his phone, YOU insulted HIM, and he insulted you back!!! And now you wanna play victim" She got all desensive and told me I was picking sides and walked out of her own house to go grocery shopping "supposedly" I'm so done with these people I have other things to do with my life than to keep trying to fix them I'd rather them separate if they're so unhappy But I feel bad because I just let her have it, but shese to old to change, she always plays victim and never accepts her wrong doing

Question: I’ve never met my dad. Is it normal to have developed depression from that? Why do I feel so low over someone who was never there?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 07:03 AM PDT

Question: Who should get the bigger room?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 06:02 AM PDT

We are about to move into a new house, and there has been debate between my brother and I about who gets the bigger room upstairs. There are 2 bedrooms upstairs. One is larger (5x4m) and has a stunning view and walk in closet. The other is (4x4m) and still has a decent build-in closet. I am currently 17 (girl) and my little brother is 13. He isn t happy that my parents are letting me have the larger room, and believes it isnt fair that I get it cause I am the eldest. I personally believe I need it more as I own probably 10x more clothes than him and am also relatively more tidier. Thoughts?

Question: My father is drinking again, should I be worried?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 01:43 AM PDT

Just a little background. My father was an alcoholic throughout most of my childhood. He finally stopped in my late teens and after a few other mental battles, didn't go back. After a few years, he was able to drink responsibly but again he mostly stopped for good after that. A couple of years ago, he fell into a relapse and didn't stop for a few months until it got the better of him and once again he went into recovery. Back then he was working/stressing and now he's retired. He claims he's happy, but a few days ago he got some beer at the store. He claimed he had trouble sleeping and would only drink one a night to help him sleep. For the first two nights he did, but last night after sleeping all day he drank three beers before falling asleep. Basically i wonder if I should be worried. My mom has talked about leaving many times, but never did so because he got better. She said she'll leave this time if he drinks more than two. Should I bring this up? He's disabled and gets goverment assistance. She's talked about not leaving due to him not being able to pay for the house and such. What do you think?

Question: The only reason I have not killed myself is because I can not do that to my mother, could this be considered Noble?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 01:41 AM PDT

It's the only reason for the past 20 years. Its not a cry for help. It's something I will do when she's no longer here. I wish her a long life. I'm in my 40's and have already made up my mind. So can this be considered something Noble not too because how much it would hurt her even though it's agony for me?

Question: Should I call DCS about my neighbor, for 7 y.o. daughter not being in school?

Posted: 17 Apr 2019 12:11 AM PDT

I have several ethical concerns about my upstairs neighbor. She's a 40 something recently divorced mother. Her 7 year old daughter is not in school. Most days they do not get out of the bed (they share the same bed) until around 3pm or they go for days staying in bed. Based off the fact I can literally hear everything they do, even when they move in their bed, from boards squeaking above my bed. I have talked with the mother at length twice, she is depressed & was drinking beer both times. She looks despondent often. They get everything delivered, & rarely leave the apartment. I can hear them talk, if they talk. Which is what leads to the concern the kid is not being homeschooled. I would be able to hear them talking. The apartment is another concern. The ceiling leaks water everywhere from the bad roof and has mold. There's exposed electric outlets in the bedroom, with exposed wires. There's a hole in the back door where a deadbolt lock should be. The mother told me she needed a shady & negligent land lord like ours. The man has offered her sexual favors for rent, to give a better idea of everything. The whole ordeal makes me feel like I should say or do something. I am a social work student also, so I feel even more obligated. I am home a lot doing homework. So I know exactly when & where they are moving around or not, trust me it's very loud. Thin hardwood floors. I hear everything they say and do. Any feedback will be greatly appreciated.

Question: I live where pot is legal my dad doesn’t <3 it dad will drug test me at home need to make something that looks like it can I use Gatorade?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 11:20 PM PDT

Question: Are my parents too overprotective if they don’t let my 17 year old older sister get a small job, go to a party or drive a car?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 10:57 PM PDT

My sister is not disabled, not a criminal and is not untrustworthy (nothing that prevents her from being capable of handling freedom). It could just be that she's the only girl out of 4 brothers, and has been coddled throughout her whole childhood. She's turning 17 in about 4 days now. It's hard to believe that she's just almost one year away from adulthood. My parents treat her like a baby princess. When she was about 12 years old and hit puberty, she did try to experience more things for a short time. My parents pulled her back, she didn't object ever again and started having the lifestyle of a younger child instead.

Question: Was it really my 6 year old brother’s fault that he came across inappropriate or illegal pictures online?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 10:32 PM PDT

My mom saw my brother looking at a video of someone doing drugs online, and yelled at him until he cried. He unintentionally came across that video. A sick person sent him that link through a kids video game and he just clicked it. My brother is 6 years old and didn't even know what he was seeing. My mom got really mad at him and asked why did he choose that video. He didn't "choose" to watch the illegal drug video - somebody sent it, he assumed it was an appropriate kids video and clicked it. He cannot read clearly yet so he can't see what the words said.

Question: How can I not feel hurt over my estranged adult kids?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 09:23 PM PDT

Question: 16 with a 21 year old?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 08:25 PM PDT

16 with a 21 year old? I have been talking with a guy for a little while now, he turned 21 this year (Jan.) and I turn 17 in Nov. In my state (OK), the age of consent is 16, so it is legal, but is it okay? Neither of my parents are in my life, I live with my older sister who has guardianship. I pay rent to my sister, I buy my own things (shampoo, conditioner, toothpaste, deodorant, etc.), I have a part time job that pays well, I'm in high school with high grades, and I take care of my niece & nephew almost everyday. He still lives with his parents, not in college, etc. so i feel as if I'm ahead of him. Is this acceptable in your opinion?

Question: I hate where I am, moving back in with grandmom (opinions)?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 08:21 PM PDT

Hey, this is a long post so be prepared lol. I'm 15 years old boy and I don't like where I live. Believe me, I am nothing but grateful for the fact I even have a home, but I'm just simply not happy and frustrated. Right now I live in a row home with my mom and her new boyfriend. However, I've lived with my grandmom for 10/11 years, just me and my grandmom in a different row home. Me and her are VERY close and I consider her not as my grandmom but second mom because of her raising me however 2 years ago my mom gained full custody of me and I ended up moving out. I was stubborn as hell and we when we moved out, we just kept on moving and moving until now where we've settled for a bit. I just hate it, I want my old life back. Especially now that my grandmom has cancer I've never wanted to go back in time so much in my life. I love my mom to death, but I just want to go back when i went back and forth between my grandmom and mom and I was happy with it because I got the best of both. I don't understand why we can't just move in with her since my mom is now struggling to pay and is back on welfare, I don't know anyone, I hang with no one, I'm just depressed. I don't care about how "bad" that neighborhood is, it's my TRUE home, I've never wanted something so bad and I can't stop thinking about it almost everyday. I really just want to move back but I don't want to leave without my mom, I want her to come but she's so stubborn about moving, it'll make it easier on her

Question: I feel like I’m losing my little girl to her boyfriend. She’s 26 but my best friend. I don’t want her to marry or have sex anytime soon .?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 06:42 PM PDT

No this is not a joke. She's always been a daddy's girl and we've always had a great relationship. I guess that's why I'm not pushing her to move out as much as her mother is. ( her mother was abusive to her as a young child and they have a terrible relationship. I tell my daughter and her boyfriend marriage is hard, it's not a fairytale but she thinks she knows everything. They've been together for four years but I still get saddened/ upset when I think about her getting married and leaving me. It's always hard for a parent to truly let go of their child. I'm going to miss having a home cooked meal also because I'm used to her cooking everyday. My wife doesn't know how to cook and after 12 hour shifts I'm way too tired to cook. I told her I could take her to her hair stylist appointment but she wanted her boyfriend to take her even though for some reason.

Question: How can I find my biological dad?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 06:31 PM PDT

I'm 21 years old and I want to find my biological father, i have never met him before and my mom has never told me anything about him, my aunt recently told me his name and he was in prison but she said he would be out by now, i want to find him or at least pictures and information about him. What should i do? what is the easiest way to find someone?

Question: My mom is mad at me for having work on Easter?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 06:13 PM PDT

I'm 17. My family is going to my aunt's house for Easter, I'll admit I am a bit sad but it's life. My mom is pissed about it & wants me to quit my work since they make me work on Hollidays. I would've taken off but I already took two days off this week so I'd feel guilty. Idk if she's right or not?

Question: How do I get these girls at school to stop bothering me about how I hang out with a specific older friend? I’m 13 years old ?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 05:48 PM PDT

My parents let me hang out with whoever I want, and I'm allowed to do anything. But other girls at school don't like me hanging out with an 18 year old girl. They think shes weird, and isn't a good person. They keep bothering me about her, that I need to stay away from the older girl cause she'll do something bad. Well my parents let me do anything I want, and they said I'm the only one who gets a say on this. Im just annoyed that people bug me about it.

Question: Should I have asked my sister what she is talking about?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 05:25 PM PDT

My sister said I'm not prepared to raise kids.. I asked her what she's talking about.. Im 32 years old, I have my own place and two jobs.. I have the kind of furniture in it, that people who take care of it, never get rid of it.. I'll still have this stuff with me when I'm 50 years old... My grandkids might inherit it from their parents. I'll never need furniture again... And maybe just a mattress once a decade. And I'm about to take up the notary business and get a better place to put this stuff into, and have a schedule that allows me to be home... And allows me to take my kids to places. :P

Question: I won’t have a father daughter dance at my wedding?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 05:24 PM PDT

So, my fiancé proposed to me in January of this year and our wedding is going to be in June, 2020. My dad committed suicide in 2008 when I was 15 years old (I'm now 25) and I'm having a very hard time accepting the fact that I won't have a father daughter dance at my wedding, or even that my dad won't be at my wedding physically. I have dealt with the pain of losing my dad every day of my life. It's very emotionally taxing most days because my dad was my biggest fan and my best friend, but I try to live a positive life and be as happy as I can be. My fiancé has never met my dad. I met my fiancé in 2017, 7 years after my dad passed away. I am very sensitive about his passing, I just don't know how to handle not having my dad at my wedding. I feel like the actual day of my wedding, I will be an emotional wreck and I don't want that to happen. My fiancé is VERY supportive but any advice would be appreciated, thanks.

Question: Stuck living at home, don't know what to do.?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 04:57 PM PDT

I'm so ******* pissed!! I have no choice but to live with my mom due to mental illness. because of that I have to donate my time to homemaking, running errands on a moments notice, ( it would be fine if i were afforded time to myself at least 1-2 hours and freedoms like control over personal possessions, finances, where i go and for how long) she literally thrives off making me miserable and stripping me of my adulthood! she kicks me out the house whenever she feels like it, even if i'd completed all my responsibilities and if I bring this up she says: "You should enjoy doing those things, not use them against me." I can't harmlessly negotiate things she previously agreed to like buying a new desk for my writing studio because she, "doesn't want me to spend all my time indoors." She is driving me nuts!!

Question: Which country do most Americans like the most, China or India?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 04:38 PM PDT

Question: How to speak mind to my mom without sounding like I m defying her?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 04:16 PM PDT

My mother will not allow me to speak my mind or opinions, when I do I m shot down or told that I have no experience or right to voice my thoughts. She shoves her world views down my throat, and if I say any different she gets angry, I m almost 17 and want to think for myself and do what I want to do and she gets angry that sometimes I don t want to do what she said, I respect her greatly and love her very much but she s always shooting me down not respecting me in any way, not accepting I m going to think for myself, not giving me any leeway to do what I want to do. She expects blind respect for her because she s the parent and if I don t respect her exactly the way she wants she sees that as defying her. if I say something in protest she threatens punishment. I am getting tired of this, please advice would be helpful and telling me anything I m doing wrong would be appreciated

Question: What Do I Do?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 03:12 PM PDT

I'm on spring break, so I, being a junior in high school, spend most of my time at home. My dad just got home in his f*cking AWESOME 1979 Porsche 911, which is Talbot yellow (kinda a rare color, I guess). My dad spent about six years tearing the car apart and then replacing old and broken parts as he put it back together. This car is his pride and joy, his prized possession. He's had it for more than a decade and naturally, being 40 years old, it's a classic. He loves his car so much and always takes it to tracks and races, some of the happiest hours of his life. So when I noticed BLACK F*CKING SPRAY PAINT ON THE BACK OF HIS CAR IN THE FORM OF SOME LETTERING (couldn't make it out), I WALKED TO HIM AND ASKED HIM WHAT HAPPENED TO HIS CAR. He had NO IDEA what I was talking about and when I showed him his car, he was IN SHOCK. He could barely SPEAK when he saw it. I was filled with rage. When I find out who did it, their *** is DEAD. Mess with me, and I won't care. But the SECOND you mess with my dad, YOU ARE GOING TO PAY. Now, most of you can see the situation I'm in. My dad just went to the police station to report the crime and I'm thinking of what I'm going to do when I find out who vandalized my dad's car. I don't give two sh*ts if I'm a 17 year old girl and am not super strong, I have one hell of a kick and whoever did this is gonna have to decided whether their little bit of fun was worth losing a few teeth over. The question is: what do I do now?

Question: Gang members?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 03:09 PM PDT

Hello, there are a gang of kids my age (15) that are hammering on my parents window scaring my brother and stressing my parents out, I don t know what to do as If I retaliate they have a whole gang and will end up in my house getting bricked, they are also known to be with people who have knives and stuff like that and im scared for my family.

Question: What to do ? I’m scared for my friends safety?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 02:24 PM PDT

I have guy friends that are great guys that works in ems but they been called a few times to a place where the paitent father is very aggressive and think he protecting his daughter she is late 20s direct care client two of guy friends always radio for pd when they show up when she at her parents house when he there when it her brother mother direct care staff or sister every thing goes so great there so great they tell it ok there help you it scary when it all men he become super agressive he threaten and has swang at a few of the male medics where no male new medics can do ride along when he there I herd the same way at doctor offices and hospital he dosent get why she only wants her mom or some one else I think it the way he acts it scares her it Also Wired he completely calm when women work on her I think her fear of men came from him I don't know but she better now With Therpy and gotten use to male nurses and practitioners I don't know what it is advice Needed

Question: I’m obsessed with cleaning and organizing but just if I’m alone?

Posted: 16 Apr 2019 02:19 PM PDT

Every Sunday my mom asks me to clean and organize stuff with her I'm a teenager 14 years old and I actually really love organizing and cleaning stuff especially if it's all a big mess I do it daily after school before my mom or my dad come from work and I don't mind it at all I know they come home already really tired so I even go and pick up my brother since I was 11. The thing is I dont like to clean if it's with any of my parents I like to do it all alone because most of the time I'm cleaning something and my mom is already telling me to do something else while I haven't finished yet it's annoying. And makes me slightly angry because sometimes they make me feel like I'm not doing it right or Its not enough and make me feel lazy even though deep down I know I'm not lazy at all. I just wish I could clean with them and not having any of these feelings and when they do say something that I'll jusy be able to ignore you know..