Okay, so a few moments ago a car backed into a corner of my home. Interior, no damages, but the exterior suffered a bit of a hit. There's like a column of sort that's now loosely attached and bent, swaying at the word of the wind. But here's the sticky situation, when the accident occurred, I recognized the driver as an old high school classmate. Confident that I could get in touch if need be, I told him to go before my grandmother could go off on him. Unfortunately I exchanged no insurance numbers and took no pictures of him or his car after the accident as i didn't have my phone on me. Whilst here, I'll mention he broke a tail light and messed up his back bumper. So now after finding his Snapchat, messaging and waiting. I'm paranoid he might just brush me off and pretend nothing happened. Am I f****ed for my stupidity? Please enlighten me, Internet.

Does anyone know what happened with Tana and Maia? Sometimes she'll subtly shade Maia in her videos. It's just seemed like all of the sudden they stopped being friends.

My friend is 23 and is really depressed in life she smokes weed and does not work or want to work because she believes it's actual slavery and does not want to be tied down to the government in that way. She will take free money from them that's a different sort of thing because she is not required to do anything for it. So it's different in her eyes. She even makes fun of me because I work as a bar tender. She says to me "why are you wasting your life slaving away your existence for pennies, you need to be your own person and use your time wisely".I am fine with her silly insults as she is drunk most of the time. Her depression is really bad in her life in general. How can I help her get better? she sleeps all day and and smokes weed and drinks alcohol too. So it's hard for me to get in there too much without being bossy, help thanks

Pleas don't give hate. I'm 13 I'm a quiet,unsociable perosn. I find it hard to start conversations.I have a small group of friends. Sometimes I feel they arnt my friends,other times i❤️Them A while ago it was my BESTIE birthday, with my OWN money I got a cake and present worth €15. She was so grateful with it (we made a promise that we would buy eachother cakes for our birthdays). month later: it was friday at school, the next day was my birthday(no school) she came to school late and she had nothing and I said to her in a joke way 'hey where's me cake😂' and she said oh it's your birthday tommorw(that's all I talked about that week) And I feel she was very pissed at herself and she kept apologising.But I don't care about the actual cake or present, I'm upset that I put time out to go to the shop, buy her cake and present and spent my own money on her and then when it's my birthday she's doesn't.I know I sound a brat but I was so upset that she hadn't thought about me And this is different but I hate being home alone, when my parents are gone to the store i stay locked in the bathroom for the whole time, I'm afraid someone will come into my houseand I sometimes find it hard to sleep,if I hear the smallest noise I'm afraid. I hate when the curtains are open because I feel people will look in. And when my mother drinks I get upset (SOMETIMES she isn't even that drunk, just tipsy) but it really anoys me please be nice to me I know I sound like a brat you not need to tell me

So I was talking to one of my friends and I got connected with a friend of a friend. I started talking to him and we became good friends. However, my mom SNOOPED and blocked him because he was using "bad" words. I am 18 YEARS OLD and she treats me like a young child! SHE CHANGED MY PASSWORD ON MY SNAPCHAT AND I CAN T LOG IN!!! Am I seriously not going to grow up with her if she keeps taking away my phone for ridiculous reasons?

I am a very emotional and caring, soft person. I love meeting new friends and sharing special times with them. I am 20 years old and a sophomore in college. My sophomore year has undoubtedly been my favorite, and here's why! During my fall semester, I was enrolled in a class where I made SO many new friends, more than ever. It was very exciting for me. I looked forward to that class every day. We were a small class (about 30 students) and our professor was so warm and kind. I could even call her my friend. Sometimes after class, I went to her office with my friends and we just talked. In that class, we played games, watched dramas, and got to know each other very well. The class continued into spring semester, which started back in January. Same happened. We knew each other even better and shared more memorable experiences together. That class was always my favorite, and next week, the semester ends and it will be my last time ever in that class. I know people move on and I probably won't keep all of my friends, no matter how hard I try, because people drift apart. :( So I fear growing bored. And especially when I start my junior year, I won't have that class anymore. My other classes are pretty boring. I feel nostalgic and sad. We are all one big family in that class and for two whole semester, it made my college life so much more fun. I will miss it dearly. I am sensitive and always hold onto good memories.I enjoy these connections & will miss. Advice? Sometimes, we have special food and little parties in that class, it makes me feel like a kid again and it has honestly been so incredible for me. I would hang out with my new friends from that class multiple times a week! We went to so many cool places together. Maybe part of it is fearing I'll lose them (we still keep in touch) and the other part is just me missing the experience as a whole. I feel like my next semester will literally be empty without that environment. I know it's a lot to read. But one more thing. as for the class itself, it's a language class. So I truly cared about the work and found it very exciting (I love learning languages) and now my language credit is complete!

An employee, Connie from another department transferred into my department. She was young and very beautiful. As I expected all the single guys made up reasons to talk to her. I thought it was a good time in have a staff meeting and explain again that it was my legal obligation to insure that none of my employees were subject to sexual harassment and that no means no. I asked Connie to tell me if she felt any form of harassment. Connie has been a very good employee. However she likes to wear a miniskirt to work and show a lot of cleavage. We don't have a dress code here and none of my employees has any contact with our customers. Some of my female employees have complained to me about how she is dressed. I told them they could dress the way they wanted to and Connie could do the same. Then I had an unexpected problem. Connie told me her fellow employees think she is an air head because of the way she dresses and don't take anything she says seriously. I explained to her it is not necessary for her fellow employees to like her. She is doing a good job and her fellow employees are required to cooperate with her to get her job done. They do not have to like her and she do not have to like them. Should I have advised her to dress more modestly or perhaps she would be happier working somewhere else. All ideas are welcome. I want to be fair to everyone.

I had to get glasses because my vision got worst and my closest friends are making fun of them saying they look ugly and look too big for my face etc. I got them fitted by eye doctor and was insecure about having to wear them and now after showing them am more insecure. Any advice?

Okay so my friend was complaining about her parents. She said, "They won't let me go to college. I was really excited, but they want me to take online classes." My friend's 18 so we all kept telling her, "You're 18. Move out." (Now, I realized that was wrong because her controlling parents won't let her get a job." Anyway, we were just helping and she started crying. We stared at her weirdly and said, "Why are you crying?" and she said, "Everyone's being mean to me." I don't know why this ***** is so sensitive. Who starts crying because people are being "mean?" we weren't even mean. She does this a lot. There was a time when someone in our class gave her advice. So she didn't want to smoke, but he said, "Sometimes you need to take risks or you won't enjoy life." And she said, "Risks aren't worth my health." And, yes, I agree with her because smoking is bad. But then our friend said, "Don't write off his advice like that." She wasn't being mean, and she said it calmly. But my cry baby friend started crying again because people are being "mean." Why does she think everyone's mean to her when we're not? And does she have mental issues? It's really weird...

So, my best friend is on the swim team at our local club. Her teammate, who she barely knows, killed herself last week. She wasnt crying - just souless. I just had surgery yesterday to fix a fractured bone in my face. I was so scared because i never had surgery and all my friends were there for me, except her. I want to go to a school play tonight because ill get extra credit for it in my English class. She doesnt want to because "im still grieving". Am i being a bad friend? Or is she? i was there for her when the girl did die, but when i am in trouble and need something, shes not there. Am i a bad person or is she?

Because i'm a 27 year old female and I have a friend that i'm close to and she's a lot older than me and I am really fixated on her and it's really bothering me and I don't want to tell her that but I have told her that I think I put her on a pedestal and she said I think you do to and I told her sometimes I go overboard and she says she does too sometimes. I think about her all the time and I want to stop doing that and I need to stop because it's making me upset. I'm still going to be her friend though and she told me she's not going anywhere and she doesn't want me to leave either. I just don't want to think about her so much like I do and she only has one other friend really other than me so how do I just relax about this? And I have more friends than she does but I don't ever see them and they don't really talk to me like she talks to me

Normally I don't like to get to close to my co workers. I don't have many friends at the moment. I'm in my late 30's and I do find it a bit harder to make friends. I still go out every other weekend and see a game om tv or a band. I've learned my lesson about making friends from work. I seen drama and gossip happen.

About 7 years ago I was in an abusive relationship. Thankfully I've educated myself on abuse and am not so naive anymore. So my friend met a guy on a dating website, he's doing the same sh!t my crazy ex did to me in the past. He tells her he wants to marry her, wants to start a family, that she means the world to him... they have dated 1 month and have already broken up twice. So since she's been dating him she's canceled our plans about 5 times and it's always because he's sick and needs to be taken care of, or hes upset, she even once texted me as I was leaving to meet her on an agreed restaurant, she said she can't make it because her and her boyfriend can't get out of bed, she even sent me a winking emoji so I know what that means. So they just got back together after the 2nd break up, and she's canceled our plans for tomorrow with no given reason. Should I cut ties with her or stick around until they break up so I can be there for her?

So me and this coworker have gotten close within the last few months and hung put pretty regularly. Well I went to snap chat here and it said that the message is pending until she accepts my friend request...we were already friends on there so I m blocked. We hung out 3 days ago and she hasn t responded to any of my texts or calls. I ve asked if shes ok multiple times but no answer at all. I don t think I did anything to make her mad so I m confused with this. I feel like its going to be weird when we work now because of the sudden change...I don t know what to do. I care about her a lot and would hate for the friendship to end like this but she isn t responding at all. What can I do to help the situation?

I'm fifteen and I isolated myself from my friends. I went homeschooled and only follow them on social media. I haven't seen them in two years. One of them wants us to meet up but then I found myself blocking her on every social media platform. I'm afraid of them because they remind me of the kind of person I was long ago. What do I do? Is this normal?

I am angry and I don't know why I feel sad, like my soul was exposed. I know she makes more than me because she has 16 years more than I do in he ompany and she won't be jealous of me, but still I'm not comfortable with it. She was explaining me something at the serf-service employee program when she saw it (I feel she was a bit curious). How can I handle the situation?

I distanced myself from a friend who was bullying me. She was angry at me, snapping at me and treated me like a doormat. I ignored her messages and she showed up at my social group weeks later. She was glaring at me as if she wanted to kill me that night then she made an indirect comment about friends who stab other friends in the back. Then I felt guilty, so I let her back into my life. Since then, I feel like she has tried to turn me against my group of close friends and isolated me away from them. I was getting on very well with the group. I messaged the group asking if we could all put together a gift for someone's birthday. She never replied but everyone else on the group did and people said it was a great idea. Then, the next day she showed up with an even bigger gift Then on the day of the birthday I got all dressed up and she saw me and said 'you look like a princess, you always have lots of nice dresses' and she kept asking to take photos of me. She stuck to me the entire day and made sure I couldn't speak to anyone else. When I went over to speak to my friend, she was stood behind me glaring at me I had a photo with her and she said sarcastically 'you always look so nice in photos you make me look like garbage stood next to you Then when I was stood with everyone else, she invited the guy who I like to her house for champagne in front of me What is her problem with me?

It just feels so exhausting to hang out with people. I feel like the biggest asshole ever because sometimes I'll go 5-7 weeks without saying even a word to my best friend and nothing to my other friends either. But my best friend doesn't really understand that I like being alone. Her home situation is tough sometimes so she usually comes over when she's upset, but then THAT stresses me out. I'm not trying to be selfish but negativity (me worrying for her) triggers my anxiety which makes the exhaustion of hanging out with people worse and I'm just so goddamn tired of people wanting to be around me all the time. I feel bad for saying that, but I can't just NOT feel that way.

So my school friend of 3 years has been acting really horrible towards me lately. I have started seeing someone else since the last few weeks and it's been pretty fun. I really enjoy being around him. However, It's beginning to be unbearable being around my other friend. He's gone so negative and seems to try and have a go at me over anything lately. We went to a bar a few nights ago and he and i almost got into a huge argument over his behaviour at the end of the night. He kept asking me all night if i was going to marry my new partner and told me to have a rethink about everything I'm doing. When we went home i texted him and told him i thought it was best if we went our separate ways. I just can't listen to him anymore. He replied "no problem". I didn't text him anymore.

So my school friend of 3 years has been acting really horrible towards me lately. I have started seeing someone else since the last few weeks and it's been pretty fun. I really enjoy being around him. However, It's beginning to be unbearable being around my other friend. He's gone so negative and seems to try and have a go at me over anything lately. We went to a bar a few nights ago and he and i almost got into a huge argument over his behaviour at the end of the night. He kept asking me all night if i was going to marry my new partner and told me to have a rethink about everything I'm doing. When we went home i texted him and told him i thought it was best if we went our separate ways. I just can't listen to him anymore. He replied "no problem". I didn't text him anymore.

Hi loves, I just played a song from a few years ago by a band my old best friend and i used to LOVE. those were the days. i was a tween and it just seemed so simple. now, this person and i aren't even friends anymore and just thinking about how young and happy i was makes me so upset. it's hard to come to terms how much I've grown. it hurts a little :(

So, there's this guy in my English class, that I really want to be friends with. My classroom uses those one person desks, and they're arranged into rows. I sit on the row to his right, next to him. I have tried to strike up a conversation with him, but it doesn't really work. We're not friends quite yet. (And he doesn't even remember my name.) In the past, I asked this other person if he wanted to be my friend. He immediately cussed me out and called me annoying. I'm scared that this guy will do the same. He seems nice though, but who knows? I need some advice please.

I always feel like one of my best friends would rather spend time with someone else whenever I talk to her. Whenever one of her friends comes by while we're talking she seems so relieved and goes with them and she always talks about one of my other friends like "oh how's he doing?" And stuff like that. I want her to like me but I know I can't force that and that I'm just ranting here. Should i just drop the friendship of keep trying?

I am 30 years old female virgin. My coworkers don't believe it when I say I am a virgin. I dress very conservative, never had a boyfriend in my life. Now my cousin and friends don't believe I am a virgin. One of my family member is doubtful that I am virgin. They think I am not a virgin. What makes them think like that? is it because I am confident or I am too old to be a virgin?

Me and one if my best friends have been super close for almost a year. Out of no where we stopped talking. It's been a couple of weeks now and we have texted a few times but not in a great way. She had new friends and does not seem to care. I have my other amazing friends as well, but it's hard to lose someone that close. Very hard... and I don't want her back because I know she's bad for me if she's just going to drop me like that, but I still get sad. I'm sorry if your reading this. I just need to vent to someone even if it's on yahoo

Hello, whoever is reading this. So my problem is that there is a problem that has been going on ever since my first year of high school to be honest... so I usually hang out with a group of friends. And there's like 5 in our group in total... but let's say whenever my "best friend" comes by we start talking and if someone else cooler than me comes by then he starts talking to them and not me anymore they just end the conversation. Also happens with my cousins which hurts me the most. They rather have fun with their friends than with me. Both my cousins and me were playing a game together and they would just make fun of me together and how I was gay and that I was a ****** and the other would just follow along and say omg get destroyed it really hurts me and I don't know what to do? Is it because I'm fat and ugly? I'm only 5'9 and 160 pounds :(

I'm 21 and my friends want to go out and get hammered every weekend and I always end up having one drink with them and then feeling EXHAUSTED and wanting to go home. They think I'm lame when I get this way. Why am I so tired all the time?

I been friends with this woman over a year and seems like I do all the work (sometimes she contacts me first) since I moved she barely calls/texts me. Just today I called her and she seemed happy to hear from me. She said she'd call me on her break and that never happened. I really like her as a person and friend, but not sure if it's all worth trying. I been moved for 4 months. I don't understand it. We are both woman btw. Should I just let her go? What would you do?

One of my close friends tried to kill himself, and I want to make him a gift. What would he like?

Possible reason they're working there for now?

My friend told me the way this guy treats me is uncalled for for one I can tell because he was with a group of girls. I told her he wasn't with a group of girls. He was with his guy best friend and guy best friend family. I mentioned to her what's wrong with hanging out with a group of girls. He can hang out whoever he wants. He can hang out with girls and not mean anything. I told her he has a lot of lady friends which I considered a good thing. She told me she doesn't appreciate me always covering his butt. I don't understand how I was covering his butt when it's the truth......