Many wives for one man would be a ridiculous hell. 1 wife is too much. I think a brother husband bro would be awesome. Take the wife half the time to relieve all the woman stuff that guys are unfairly burdened with.

My fiancé is illegal but i want to marry him cause I love him but he has been arrested for driving violations nothing to bad but his ex told me that he couldn't get papers cause of that. Is that true?

My husband never stays home. He works night shift and I'm a teacher (so I work during the day) and we have a beautiful baby boy who is only 8 months. So since he works at nights, he obviously sleeps during the day. It is super frustrating that I deal with almost everything and sometimes it's a lot for me to handle on my own. Besides that, when he wakes up, he leaves almost immediately to hang out with his friends. We don't spend any quality time together like ever....Which is my biggest concern. We never have sex anymore and it doesn't seem to bother him. What can I do to help our marriage? Because right now I'm honestly miserable and sad and he doesn't even know it. :/

I love my wife and I am very glad I married her. But her family is crazy and I am getting tired of the crazy. We visited her family on Easter today with our two boys under the age of six. When we got there, my wife's older sister, who is a control freak, lead our boys and her two other nephews both under twelve on what turned out to be a three hour scavenger hunt around the yard, which is not that big. While all the boys hung in and played the game which involved clue puzzles, shovels and a metal detector, it was way too long and parents began making comments about it under their breaths. The parents of the other two boys opted not to help but instead incessantly took selfies and basically ignored their kids the entire day, leaving others to watch them. My wife's brother, who was one of the parents of the other boys, went on and on to us about hard but wonderful his and his wife's lives are while my wife and I tried to help her she sister run the egg hunt and cook dinner. During dinner, my wife's brother tried to show the world how smart he thinks he is but saying the various calendars around the world are wrong and began to expound on Christianity, which he knew nothing about. My wife is very aware of all of this and we have spoken about it in the form of complaining to each other about him. He and his wife are narcissistic legends in their own mind and I am tired of dealing with them and my wife's control freak sister. What should I do now?

She only agreed to take off her top, but then when she saw a guy and his wife we knew, she took off the bottoms as well and wasn't shy at all. Are many women like this? Both the guy and his wife were nude. So I guess she wanted to fit in. Maybe she was nervous, but she wasn't trying to cover anything. Should I be nervous?

My wife has become overweight and by a good 30 pounds ( no children ). I brought it up but obviously not in a mean way. I actually sat her down and explained my concern. The attraction i cant lie went down a lot but thats not the reason why im concerned, its more so to do with her health, Being 30 pounds overweight isnt healthy at all. Even the doc recommends dieting but she is unreasonable about it and claims im not attracted to her anymore at all and im being controlling Am i being controlling?

So today my fiancé and I were cleaning out this room that had some of his ex wife's things and he started to tell me something and instead of saying my name, he said his ex wife's name. I just shrugged it off because I didn't want it to sound like I was being immature. But I can't seem to shake it off that he did that. I am worried now that he is going to accidentally say her name at the wedding. Should I tell him how I feel?

Her cousin was not there but she had this really bad woman he was with over. He was married at the time and still is. He broke off the affair.

Im married and while my husband and i were having serious issues i slipped up a little and flirted with a guy i met online that lived in my area. NO we did not have sex, not even traded nudes and we flirted for about a week until i came to my senses. SInce then he has been sending my nudes, saying a lot of innapropriate things, calling my phone, stalking me on social media and says he loves me ( after just a week ) . I obviously changed my number and blocked him but he just makes new accounts and continue and somehow got my new phone number. I cant go to the police because if i do my husband would obviously find out about it. what should i do? sending ME* nudes

I am pregnant after my visit to my husband in Africa. I live and work in the US but my husband isn't here and won't be here during the delivery of our baby. I still want his last name on the birth certificate and also I want our baby to have his last name . Will this be possible even though he isn't going to be at the hospital to sign?

I've been waiting patiently, we're living with his obnoxious insufferable mother this whole time, all the while he's been very very vague on what's going on and not telling me the whole story on somethings until after the fact. I've never dealt with this before and I'm worried constantly about it. Does anyone know how any of this works?

Because as far as I know, such behavior is only taboo, but not "wrong". Also, to me, the whole idea of being legally bound to one person for the rest of your life and "off-limits" to anyone else that wants you and ordered to stay away from anyone else that you're attracted to seems really unnatural and beyond asinine.

Im not saying like all of them dont get but for the majority it goes over their head and it's so annoying. Like it's right in front of their face and they can't tell its happening.

9-10 years age difference?

ordering her husband to be rude to you and to constantly put you down while showering her with affection in front of you just to make you feel bad because you're single; but then you find out that she's from a country where female circumcision is practiced and that she had been circumcised when she was younger, and start to tease her about that and rub it in her face that you're more able to enjoy sex and havr than she is since you were never circumcised?

He also lied about his wealth to even get her in the first place (inflating it). He didn't even finish middle school; she has a masters degree

We have been married for 5 years and there is absolutely no love in our marriage. We hardly ever talk and it is honestly more awkward to be around each other more than anything. Not to mention she has terrible hygiene now and never bathes, never does any self grooming... I have confronted her about this in a nice way and she doesn't seem to care enough to fix it. It is disgusting trying to be intimate with someone whole smells bad from all ends. Anyway I met a women at work who is very attractive and we just have this natural chemistry that Is hard to explain. I know she likes me and we have never done anything sexual but I really am falling for her and she makes me wish I was never married to begin with. I guess the problem is my wife still thinks that I love her, and that nothing is really wrong in our relationship despite the fact that I have been pulling away. So, how would I go about telling her I want a divorce because I no longer love her and I am miserable in our relationship. I also do no really feel bad about my feelings because I now do not believe in staying in a relationship that makes you miserable just for the sake of traditions and societal expectations.

Please... this isn't a laughing matter... This is serious to me... so don't play games

Ever since my son got his first car he's been out everyday. I think he doesn't want to be home because wife is very controlling and she flies off the handle about everything. She's like this with all of our kids. especially our 26 year old daughter. she lost her mind when our daughter went on vacation with her boyfriend. MY wife said whenever my son is out he never answers his phone and she can't stand that. He always answers the phone for me but never my wife. lately our son has been spending the night at his friend's house. about 3 nights he was at his friends house. my wife said he cannot be out everyday and she forbids him to drive his car anymore. She said he's not allowed to spend the night at his buddies either. our son was like " this is why i need my own place." and my wife was like "you're only 18, you don't need your own place. you just don't like rules.you're going to mes your life up, i had a bad dream about you too." my wife confronted me and was like "do you want this kind of life for your son. no career, having sex with all of these women, out here on the streets just hanging out with his buddies." I was like " i doubt he's having sex with a lot of women, mabye only 1.he's 18 and still trying to figure out his life and find out who he is. don't be so hard on him." my wife also doesn't want him spending the night at a girl house. I was like " I can't tell him how to live his life and if he has the funds i'm not going to stop him from moving out. he's 18."

They're trying to fix me up but I don't want to date or get married. They don't even know I'm a virgin. I just like being alone cause people annoy me a lot.

I'm scared at the same time because I have fear of maybe her working out on me in the future . I don't know , but she said if we didn't get engaged, she would have to move on . I brought up marriage first . But I've only known her for 6 months . Would engagement be too soon ? I'm 38 if that matters. She said she won't take me seriously that I love her unless we were engaged . What to do ?

Why?

Why

was he over 70 and was he someone hubby knows ?

I am 22 seriously dating a 37 year old. He is amazing, we've known each other almost 2 years and began dating this past year... He is a business man (just finished his MS) and I am a senior at University (soon to be grad. student)... My parents know about him and really like him. But here is the catch. He's being married before and has a 9 year old son. I am afraid to tell my parents ( who are also divorced) based on their reactions, thoughts?

I've been married for 17 years to my husband. We have 1 child and a second due to arrive in June. My birthday is this upcoming week & my 11 year old daughter mentioned it fell during her PSSA's. He said to me, "Don't expect anything, you know I work from 630 am to 930pm Mon-Fri the week of your birthday and I won't have time to get you anything. He's home every weekend but says he never has the time. I put so much effort into his birthdays and fathers day. I don't expect anything extragravant but something small even a card would just make my day. Does anyone else have a significant other this way? It breaks my heart each holiday, birthday, mother's day, or anniversary. If I mention it to him he gets upset with me and says sorry.

Ever since my son got his first car he's been out everyday. I think he doesn't want to be home because wife is very controlling and she flies off the handle about everything. She's like this with all of our kids. especially our 26 year old daughter. she lost her mind when our daughter went on vacation with her boyfriend. MY wife said whenever my son is out he never answers his phone and she can't stand that. He always answers the phone for me but never my wife. lately our son has been spending the night at his friend's house. about 3 nights he was at his friends house. my wife said he cannot be out everyday and she forbids him to drive his car anymore. She said he's not allowed to spend the night at his buddies either. our son was like " this is why i need my own place." and my wife was like "you're only 18, you don't need your own place. you just don't like rules.you're going to mes your life up, i had a bad dream about you too." my wife confronted me and was like "do you want this kind of life for your son. no career, having sex with all of these women, out here on the streets just hanging out with his buddies." I was like " i doubt he's having sex with a lot of women, mabye only 1.he's 18 and still trying to figure out his life and find out who he is. don't be so hard on him." my wife also doesn't want him spending the night at a girl house. I was like " I can't tell him how to live his life and if he has the funds i'm not going to stop him from moving out. he's 18."

a small member. I'm still fat and it seems like I get fatter and fatter every day. I'm feeling self-worth below zero and frustrated, my husband's little member does not cross my fat and I'm still semi-virgin at the front orifice... With other men, I'm just having sex with my butt orifice and with the mouth, as I smack peasant men's huge members with whom I betray my husband. I recently offered my butt orifice to a mason. The problem is that I feel guilty and I am in a terrible psychological conflict. I no longer know who I am. While my husband cannot reach my guts with his little member, I have to go out there looking for anonymous, unknown men and offer them my butt hole and practice fellatio ... What should I do? Should I get out of this life? I am an extremely religious woman and I think of the possibility of being condemned to eternal fire in hell for what I have been done...