Over the past couple of weeks I've noticed this guy in particular paying attention to me. I'll catch him constantly staring at me, and when I do catch him he never looks away, just keeps staring. He's initiated conversation with me on a couple occasions, asking me about personal details such as my job, where I live, any plans for my weekend. Generic questions so far. He's asked me my name, and made a point of shaking my hand? A rather formal but maybe underlying reason for wanting to shake my hand? An excuse to touch me? It was a rather prolonged handshake and made a point of introducing himself to me. I'm just wondering if these are signs he likes me? I'm a bit on the shyer side so I'm not sure if I should be the one to try and initiate something or just see what he does next?

How do you know when you're ready MENTALLY & EMOTIONALLY? Tips on how to get there?

Does it just mean that they're rude and/or irritable, or does it typically imply that they're a bit arrogant too?

and in text message , but not in person . In person she sits next to me , flirts with me ...we have sex . We've been a couple for a few months and she dropped the L word says she doesn't want to get hurt . But she never says ANY of the things in person . Everything is via text or over the phone . She never looks at me and says any of these wonderful things , " I love you , I want us, I've been missing you , I want you to be my future". Etc I texted her asking why she never says this stuff in person and the I love you . If she says it , she will text it when I leave from her presents. She's 37 by the way and I'm confused on what it could be unless she doesn't mean it and just randomly texting it for the hell of it ?

Does this actually work? (I don't necessarily mean trying to get ex back, but in general) https://youtu.be/XNmTE3MtoCM

He shared with me how they indirectly joked him by sharing about all the sexual details that they had with me and also showed him some of sex pictures of me thereby disturbing him more.....but as he is amodest and non violent person did'nt react to them and left from the place with smile...but after returning home he is always busy thinking something in his mind which I noticed and enquired about it...at first he did'nt share and just gave a smile and said "everything is fine", and on every night he either sleeps in sofa while watching tv, or sometimes simple lies in our bed without doing any romance and even turns me down politely ,which was strange as he was not like that before, then after I became sure I further pressed about the matter and then with tears in his eys and heavy heart he shared what happened with him to me, and I felt so bad for him as for my past choices he has to face that and unlike other husbands he did'nt misbehaved nor mistreated me...at the same time I felt very angry with my ex FWD's who hurted my noble kind hearted husband...n tried to destroy my marriage....now as per his situation he said he cant get intimate with me as it reminds him of those pictures and videos and the words they said which occupied his brain and the insult that he felt and also takes the blame on himself that its his issues,..but he still tries to be polite with me...but he cant. I cant see him suffer like that...so please help what can I do to help him feel better?