I'll make it short but I am 24 and he's 27. Two days after my surgery he came over my apartment to see how I was doing but he actually wanted to steal the pain meds the doctor prescribed me. I didn't know he was into pain pills until my sister called warning me to hide them. I put them in my pocket. When he came over he asked what kind of pain pills I was taking and I told him i didn't pick them up from the pharmacy, he told me he would pick them up for me even though I told him numerous times I didn't need them. He didn't get them from the pharmacy and when he came back he acted like he was going to take care of me but went into my room to search for them. I went into my room and called him on his bullshit telling him to leave the apartment. He tried to act innocent but eventually exploded with anger and started cussing me out. Then he charged at me like he was going to attack me. I put my arms up to protect myself but he stopped and stormed out of my apartment. That was two weeks ago and since I have not received an apology. I told my family everything though. I don't know if I should try to make amends because I don't want to stop talking to him for years or if I should continue ignoring him. What should I do? I want an apology and I have no idea if he knows he was wrong or the audacity he had to do all that. At the same time he lost all my trust and respect. There were times where we were in the same room and he avoided me and didn't say one word to me.

I'm 15 years old and my dad, God I love him, but he sometimes really embarrases me. He tries to act like he is the cool kid. He always refers to me as the cool guy and he is my partner (I know...it's sounds completely wrong, by that's what he says...to everyone when mom isn't around.). He tries to use slang and to be honest he just doesn't know how to use it correctly and how to keep a straight face through it. He tries to even dress like a teenager...I will spare you the details, but imagine a 48 year old man wearing skinny jeans in his spare time (where he got the idea? I don't know, because I don't wear skinny jeans at all). He tries to crack jokes about things he thinks are funny (some of which I get and I don't find funny, espically ones about my girlfriend, and some I don't and I really don't want to know). And there are a few other things as well, but this is the major things. He loves to put on the show for my friends a lot and they all find it hilarious, but also kinda weird and embarrassing at the same time. Like I said, I love my dad, but this has to stop. I am completely embarrassed to go anywhere alone with him and I am embarrassed to have friends over. He even listens to music that teens my age listen to, he blasts it in the car thinking he's all cool, dancing to the beat and stuff. What should I do? I am so embarrassed.

My grandfather was awarded the Medal of Honor in Korea. My grandma recently gave me his medal. Since I told my girlfriend about the medal my grandma offered me and my gf's father was in thei family room he heard it. He knew that my grandpa was a MOH recipient although he never met him. My girlfriend's father asked me if I can take to their house my grandpa's medal of honor. Should I take it? It's a 3 mile distance but I feel kinda scared about going out with it,I know I can easilly put it in my car but I still,irrationally,feel kinda scared about it. Plus why would my gf's dad want to see this?. Should I bring it with me tonight? Especially that something tells me that my grandpa wouldn't be so happy about me bring it outside. I mean he would let me but he wasn't super excited about the whole idea I'm afraid it might be damaged somehow. I know it's irrational but I still feel like this. Or that someone robs me and takes it away

My dad and mom aren't together. We used to be really close when I was younger and lived with him but moved away because my stepmom verbally abused me (6 years ago). Recently, my Nanna passed away (my dad's mom) she was the closest person in my life besides my mom. After she died I thought he would call me more, check in on me, start acting like an actual father towards me even though he has 4 other kids, etc. ANYWAYS, about two months after she passed..he said he was going to buy a car for me for 5k. That was in November. Since then he said he's been looking for good reliable used cars all over. It's not that difficult though lol. I feel like it shouldn't take MONTHS ! I sent him listing of cars in good condition & he said he would check them out blah blah. SO, for the past MONTH, i've been calling him every week and no response...I wasn't even invited to my brother's birthday or my dad's birthday. I feel like he's going back on what he said. It's frustrating. I feel like he's trying to push me away. Thoughts? I would type more of a background story but I got tired of typing lol.

I am 19 and have unreasonably overprotective parents to the point where they followed me to wherever I was going to make sure I wasn't lying to them, and I can rarely go out. I have been saving up to move out but now I just need a way to tell them without it becoming a problem. Any suggestions?

well i was started to talk about some family issues. she doesnt have any kids its my fathers best friends wife who is my uncle..so i dont want to give all details about family reasons so i just want to know why didnt she give me her number that i wanted? i already have my uncles number...whats the reason? Ps..I am the youngest of the family this is serious question...dont give bad answers and my uncle lots of issues about his brothers hostility...like qurrelying about lands etc oh i told her for giving me her number and she did gave me but it was a wrong number and i got fooled....she gave her butlers phone number...

I am 25 I am a female. I have two other siblings 23 brother and a 19yr sister. My father doesn't live with us since he and my mother divorced 4 years ago. When he lived with us it was horrible for me. He was emotionally and verbally abusing my mother and I was always there for her and didn't like he was doing that to her. After a he moved out and I would visit he was a lot nicer to me. I work with him not temporary and he every day continues to verbally and emotionally harass me. I could do nothing and he will just get angry with me. This is getting old to me. He is even not harassing me about being high on cocaine when we work when I have never touched the drug. He did cocaine when I was a child my mother caught him. I can't even explain myself he will talk over me. What do I do? And why is he doing this to me? My siblings are worshiped by my dad but not me. It's kinda sad that I get this

Why would an American father be upset? He had sex with a British women in the United States, she gave birth to his daughter in the United Kingdom, because the courts in the United Kingdom give the the British mother a more favorable child custody judgment, and the courts in the United States. If the British child were to visit the United States before child custody ends at age 18, the American father can change the country of habitual residence, file for child custody in US courts and US courts could prevent the British mother from taking her child back to the United Kingdom. This would not be an issue if the British child were to visit the United States for the first time after child custody ends at age 18.

so basically i really want an ipad mini 5! i'm obsessed with them, i would date one if i had one and could. so basically i want the cellular one which is 529$ and i'm 16 so i'm sneaking money out of my dads wallet and i've been doing that for a couple weeks, right now i'm at 273$ so i only need like 250$ more or so. i also got an apple pencil and airpods 2 through the same tactic and it's worked

Hi, I'm 20 and I am having daddy issues lol. My mother and father are divorced. As of now I live with my mother but my father calls me at least 2 times a week. Last month ago my dad called me saying that he met someone. I was like cool, thats great! But whenever I asked my dad questions about her he would change the subject. I then suggested on meeting her and he was hesitant at first but said yes. So I took a train to my dads. While on the train I knew nothing about this women, All I knew was her name, and that she had a 16 year old daughter. Thats all my dad told me after hes been dating her for a month. So I met her and shes really nice, her daughter was a bit shy but that was understandable. So when we left dennys (Thats were I met her) It was just my dad and I in the car and my dad out of the blue said "Shes gonna move in soon" I was quiet fro a bit and said "Isnt that a bit to fast? Shes has a daughter, did you speak to the daughter about it, what if she feels uncomfortable?" He said no it will be fine. then I asked my dad if he told this to the rest of the family. my dad said that no one in the family knew about her and he didn't want me to tell them.I found that weird. fast forward next day I was on my dad computer and I accidentally stumbled on his wedding photos with this women, I was like wtf, when did this happen and why didn't he tell me! whats worse is that no one in the family knows about this. what do I do?

I usually stand by our front door and my husband gives me a kiss as he leaves for work. This morning my mom was standing there with me as my husband was going to work. He gave me a kiss and mom said laughingly "My turn next" so my husband gave her a kiss on the cheek also. I was slightly embarrassed, Mom was surprised and though it was the funniest thing ever. Should I be mad at Mom, my husband, both of them or nobody? Wives, please give me your opinion.

My family migrated to New Zealand 15 years ago. Our family ain't rich or wealthy per se, to afford anything, we worked hard for it. Though the biggest problem we're facing is that my third brother of five siblings. This brother always being abusive towards me (youngest boy) which impacted me mentally and sometimes slapping me if I raise my voice at him out of frustrations that he caused. He's four years older than me. He went back to Vietnam five times already and every time he returned to New Zealand, he brought back a bunch of debt. He borrowed a bunch of money shamelessly from family and friends to pay back debts and it became a circle. He borrowed my money after I started working part time at year 12 (a crappy job with only $70 for an 11-hour day) at an Asian supermarket. Then subsequently I got a new job and he came back for more. Over the years it added up to five thousands NZD. I finally lost it and rejected him but he then got angry and told me not to ever regret that. It drove me real mad. He got addicted to going back to Vietnam but the money spent were borrowed and now he acted like I'm the bad guy. It wasn't just me, but everyone else also had enough.

Why would a mother not want to tell a friend of thirty years that her daughter is getting married? The son in law is older by 6 years This will be his second marriage The son in law only has a ba degree from local college vs daughter went to pretigious colleges for ba and mba degrees The son in law is a store manager of a supermarket store The son in law keeps his hair style like someone in the army Son in law style is not in sync with daughter 's mother style They will have a 70k wedding

Okay so me and my ex girlfriend got in a big fight like it involves with my mom and her parents . She doesnt want me to see my kid and stuff i keep insisting if i can see him and take him to my house they wont let me and they texted me that the baby is fine with them so like basically they say he doesnt need me but i know to myself they dont give a **** about the baby the only see him as money to the government cause me and my ex girlfriend was arguing about getting a help from the government cause i dont make much and i told her i wanted to get double job so i can support and move out (this is when we live at my moms) and now she doesnt want me to see the baby or take him to my house im scared that one day the baby doesnt even know me and Im scared if they file child support when since day one me and my ex girlfriend i pay for her **** all of it and i buy her things dhe didnt need like make up everytime something she wants i buy it since she takes care of our baby in the house and i know she just want the baby for money for benefits and stuff . I really want the baby to my custody since their family is always fighting like her mom is not in goodterms with her parents and brother . And her mom doesnt like her dad family cause she think they did witchcraft or some kinds . I just dont want my kid to be around with that kind of stuff

Here's the run-down on my situation. I've grown up in a family that overtime has fallen apart. I still have my sister and my mother, but my father is a shadow of his former self. Extended family on both sides don't care about my sister and myself. So far, all that stuff I've been able to move past. But in trying to start my own life, I feel like my ship doesn't have a rudder, keel, or sails. Pretty much just drifting by. Overtime my dreams have left me one by one, now I don't really aspire to be anything at all. Now I just wake up every day to pay the bills. I've also been working continually, sometimes as much as 80 hours per week. I'm going on a decade now (currently 24 years old, first job at 14). I'm not bitter or angry at anything, but I feel disappointed at where I'm ending up. In three semesters I'll have a degree in Geology, but the field isn't particularly interesting to me. I only picked that field because it seemed the best option out of all the other degrees out there, none of them are particularly interesting to me. And that's where I'm at now, looking at my options and not being particularly happy about any of them. The best I can hope for now is a stable job and paycheck, which is certainly a good thing. But I need something more fulfilling than money and security. Money feels like a pit and security feels like a prison. I'm simply at my wits end on how to get out of this and live a life that's meaningful to me.

I just got caught jacking off, and I am so embarrassed. I'm staying with my dad for the remainder of my senior year in HS, just like I have off an on the past few years. My dad sometimes works late with my uncle, and tonight I thought was no exception. I put in my earbuds, fired up the labtop and started some Jack off time. I already rubbed one load out, and was working on a second, and I like to sometimes fondle my balls and use 1 finger to just stimulate my anal area. I do not have a lock on my bedroom door (Not sure the hell why not, my dad has one on his door) OF COURSE my F*CKING Dad comes home early and barges in on me without knocking to see why I'm not coming down to help them unload some stuff! He said something, but of course I couldn't hear what it was, and closed the door. I can hear them talking in the other room, and I'm not sure if he told me to come out, or stay or what? His face was a look of surprise, and I think disappointment? I have no idea what to do - I have NEVER been so embarased and I am wondering if he said anything to my uncle. Should I go talk to him privately, or see what happens in the morning? what happens if I talk to him and my uncle wants to know what we are talking about?! help! I"d really like advice from dads, or other guys who have been one either side of this situation. He's kind of strict, but pretty chill about some stuff, but now I"m totally confused and kind of scared / mortified.

So I am 19 weeks & I was having a great, easy pregnancy so far. When I had an issue was when my child's grandmother and I were having a talk about pregnancy & I thought sharing with her what I'm feeling in this pregnancy would be a good idea. We were sharing experiences when we got in the subject of gender. I was telling her that it really didn't matter what I would have, but I'm leaning more toward a girl. The back story is that my child's father has a daughter, but he has no contact with her what so ever since her mother has stopped him from seeing her, talking to her, or raising her in any way since they are not together & he is working toward having the courts step in. So as the conversation continued between me & his mother I tell her that he wants a girl, she says "yea, but she can't replace his other daughters place". That completely hurt me & made me mad cause of course that's not what I want in anyway. Now it's to the point that I don't want to be around her or his family & I really don't even want a gender reveal that we was planning for. I have no mother since she died when I was a child, my father & I have no relationship, & I have no siblings, so I have no one in my corner in my family. At this point I'm regretting getting pregnant by a man with a child, but he is a great person & man to me. I could be hormonal now, but I can't lie I am hurt.. Advice?

I have recently been hired for my new job(3/25/19), which I love, everyone here including my peers and my boss work like a team! My daughters birthday is on April 11, I have asked for the day which was approved, I have been added an extra hour and my lunches have been cut to 30 mins for next week, I am happy I will get to spend the day with my baby girl, I got an email from my boss asking for me to enjoy my day with her, and my lead gave me a $10 gift card for my daughter. I did told my husband I was going to be off work that day and he went kinda ballistic saying that shows I care more about our daughter than my job, is that the image I am giving everyone at work?, That's this job is not worth my time? My daughter is more important than anything even my job.

I recently just admitted that I lied to my parents about my grades in college. My dad threatened to stop supporting me and my mom was left extremely heartbroken. I want to tall to them about it but I do not know when to start. How long do you think it would take for them to calm down

I (M15), left my alcohol and pill addicted mother, and have moved in with my dad and step-mom. I constantly want to be around my step-mother, she's everything my real mother wasn't, and I love her. (And she loves me) I feel upset because I didn't get a good night hug...Is this all normal behavior? Is it wrong?

My dad has slapped me, pushed me, said that he wished that I'd killed myself, and said other things to that effect. I haven't ever done anything particularly bad, never smoke or drank and get reasonably good grades. I don't know what I'm doing wrong or how to fix it.

I am a good kid in their eyes but to them, I have an attitude problem. when I am sitting at the table I seem to have a grumpy look on my face when I am not even looking at them i am just looking outside they yell at me for the expression I have on my face. They are not child abusers but, there is a lot of stress in this house and it is overwhelming for me! I am always getting yelled at for stupid reasons and I am not kidding, every time I come home I am yelled at! Today I was wearing a red shirt and I have 3 other identical shirts to it and my parents asked me why I am wearing the same shirt which, I was. I just reminded them calmly that I have 3 other shirts that look like this and this was not the one I wore 3 days ago. My dad accused me of lying because he misheard what I was saying. i calmly explained that I was not lying and he said that I was arguing! This is what my parents do, they accused me of lying and when i explain that I am not then they get offended. This has been going on for years now. They get angry at me for rational normal teenage reasoning e.c.t! They take pictures of my face and show me to "prove" how miserable I look and I don't like it. I am 13 my younger siblings are 5, and 3 and they get treated so much better for even worse behavior. My parents are sending me to Italy to live with my aunt for a month because, they think I am the problem in this house. i love them both tho. I just want to be treated like a normal teen. my parent expect me to be perfect because I am the oldest. I am actually happy I am going to visit my aunt because it is ITALY we are talking about plus, I get a big break!

When I was a young kid my mother would constantly try to teach me about sex and about predators. Like, whenever I got in trouble for something she would start rambling about sexual predators. One time she started to lightly touch me in my area and laugh. I giggled and said I was ticklish and she got upset and told me that if someone touches me like that I should yell at them. Don't you think that this was a bit too far?

Hi I'm 24 yrs old and I'm 7 months pregnant with my first child by my boyfriend and we are both from the same hometown but a month ago he moved to Texas to stay with his brother for better job oppurtunities which I agreed on because the initial plan was he get a position where his brother works and when i get ready to have the baby he transfer his job to memphis tn where I live and we get a apartment and so on but today he told me that me and our baby are moving to texas with him and that's what he wants to do and he made this decision without talking to me so i told him I'm not moving there im staying here and he said oh well I can come visit him in memphis it won't be a problem and it hurts because I didn't expect him to switch on me..I was going to move but my family is here and this is my first baby and I'm trying to keep it all together. I don't know what to do because he has this mentality that "he wears the pants in this relationship" and this isn't his first child but its mine. Any advice? And p.s. he's working at a fast food place up there he hasn't even started his brother job yet. And his brother is the hiring manager there.

So I am 20 and currently live in a college dorm. My roommate is very controlling. She decides when the lights go off, expects me to leave any time she comes in the room, gets pissed off when I press snooze on my alarm (which I now avoid doing), and talks behind my back about things I do that annoy her... things that are literally normal like cracking my knuckles, using my computer at night, or even staying in the room when she wants to study. We have a fully functional library. She is also a VERY light sleeper. One night I fell asleep while using my laptop and woke up to a sticky note covering the apple on the back of it because it was "too bright". I have put black electrical tape over every little light so that it doesn't wake her up. I even downloaded a shade app on my laptop to make it darker than the lowest setting. Any time I have to get up in the night my bed squeaks and it wakes her up, no matter how slowly I move. I even move in accordance to her loud breathing in an effort to mask any noise. She refuses to wear an eye mask or ear plugs (which I offered her for free). She just expects me to do everything to her way regardless if she asks. This went on for months before I knew what was happening, I only found out because the person she had been talking about me to told me. I'm a pretty submissive person so I just roll with it but I don't think its good for my mental health. What should I do?

I m trying to start my career, but as of right now I don t have a license and i m trying so hard to get a license and a car. But my mom and I just got into a fight because I don t have a license. I have never had trouble getting to work and back, but now she wants to fight with me about it. She had her car repossessed because she couldn t afford to pay the bill. I literally gave her a few thousand to help her out, but instead of paying her car payment, she bought shoes, purses and put the rest in church of all places. She s just a miserable person by nature and every time we talk we end up fighting. Even when I leave the room, she ll continue to argue with me for no reason. I don t know what she gets out of it. I have done everything right with my life, and now i m excited to get a new job. But she thinks i m worthless because I don t have a license. She has a verbally abusive alcoholic son that cut her off a few months ago, but i m worthless because I don t have a license.

My older brother, 17, is not himself. He says things that don't make sense, he stutters when he talks, he causes self harm like cutting himself, he's always irritated and he has a really bad temper, he's gotten a bit homophobic, but doesn't make it known and he's EVEN tried killing himself. When we were younger like back in elementary our mom who we live with right now cheated on our father FOR another lady and then like awhile afterwards she said that she discovered she was gay. I'll be very honest, I don't like her girlfriend, but there's nothing I can do and although my mom has tried to help us like her, it usually never works. Her girlfriend has tried to get us to like her, but as I said, me and my brother just don't see what good comes from being friends with this lady, but I have moved on and realized I can't be like this forever or I'll end up destroying my own life and hurting my mom horribly, but my brother hasn't done the same. He punches walls while crying and has even gotten into a physical fights at school, but he maintains good grades. We are both honor roll students. Me and him are really close and we look out for each other no matter what. Same goes for our little sisters. We all are really close, but as I said, I feel like my brother is drifting away from us. He's very introverted and usually only speaks with other gamers in video games. I've been wanting to tell my mom, but he tells me to not tell her. Is there anything I can do to help him?

I'm going to try and keep this short. I tried writing the full thing but it's too much and i can't therefore submit it. Me and my dad had an argument three days ago, basically i was a little upset about something else and my dad noticed and asked me what was wrong but see i didn't feel like talking about it. Then he got mad and started yelling and hitting me and said i had to tell him and that i was being rude by not telling :/ Thing is i like to be alone when i'm feeling down it really helps! After the argument (which was only like 10 mins) we both felt sorry and apologized and i ended up telling him the unimportant thing that was bothering me(its really not important). Now he is giving me the silent treatment?? I thought we were finished and all but he won't even look or talk to me apparently. Is he trying to make me feel bad about myself or something?

So I'm currently staying with my mom for 3 months. I'm 16 just so you know. My dad bought me a TV, and I bought a subscription to Hulu. When I got the tv, I put it in my moms room because me and my mom share a room because I'm only there temporarily. So i put the tv in her room and now she wants to use it and everything without asking me, like its hers. And she wants to use to the excuse, "Um, you're in MY room, I pay the elctric bill so you're using MY electric, MY wifi." And she is pulling the "I went through 12 hours of labor" card. And it's really annoying. Its really getting to me because I dont think she should be actig this way. She pays the electric bill because she has to. She pays the wifi bill because she has to. I don't know why she is acting like a child just so she can use my stuff. She did this before and took my laptop away, using it for herself, and ended up losing a key. So I need a good comeback as to why she should not be using MY stuff just because she pays the bills. Also is this wrong of me?

My mum is with this guy,He completely hates (pretends not to but he does it when she ain't there)Everytime he does something sinister after a week she lets him come back,Id stay with my dad but he's a jerk and is in prison for a murder conviction,I've told family members and they agree that he is a complete a**wipe,I can't escape it im not of an age to leave home,I just feel so alone,My mums way of speaking to me changes when he's around she makes me feel small,I have issues as it is I'm just really lost.