I got in a fight with my best friend and said some pretty nasty things, she told me to never talk to her again and blocked me on everything.

I had a best friend let's say her name was Jamie. Jamie and I were really close and since we go to a boarding school we saw each other a lot. I heard from another friend that Jamie was talking **** behind my back and whatnot, I wasn't that surprised because she had been acting differently lately. So okay, after a lot of thought and reflection, I realized that Jamie is narcissistic, controlling, judgmental, fake towards people, disrespects my friends, invasive, rude and a liar. So I told her how I felt about all of this and she proceeded to say "Sorry you felt this way, but most of this is just lies" so then she also proceeds to act like she's innocent all like "I just wanted to be friends but I guess that can't happen anymore" but if she really wanted to be friend why was she talking **** and being a HORRIBLE person even when I told her it wasn't okay. So she never replied to me telling her that (the fact that she was acting like a shitty friend) and she was being really petty at our soccer practice because we were doing a drill and she didn't want to do the drill with me even though were on the same team, and we didn't have a choice since we were lined up, she'd constantly let other people in front or refuse to switch with someone I've already gone up against 3 times and it's so immature of her because she can at least stick through it cause I did, we're not in grade 2! So should I just drop it and know I've done my part and wait for her to do hers or should I talk to her?

Maybe they take it out of context or is it just me please give me help and advice Like if I talk and don't do it it's most like they will say it In social skills and how to be better in it

One of my best friends has a really bad relationship with her mom and I don't hesitate to say it's emotional abuse. Her mom calls her a disappointment, a failure, and fat. Her mom often goes on vacation without her, more specifically left to go to California with her boyfriend on my friend's birthday. Since her dad isn't around it just makes the situation so much worse. Her mom has completely give up on her and doesn't want her. I love her so much and i'm not sure how to help. On top of it all her mom works at our school as an assistant, and i don't want to create a situation that gets her fired since they don't have much money. She's beginning to display suicidal behavior and i need advice for her.

I am 37 years old. Back in 2007, I dated a woman 15 years older than me. On our 3rd date, she texted to invite me out to an unspecified place. As she got in my car, she revealed that we're going to court and that she needs $60 to help bail her sister out of jail. Being the spineless jellyfish I was, I helped her out, to which we waited at the courthouse for her sister's name to be called. Days later, she texted to ask for money to go clothes shopping. That is where I drew the line and cut her off. A few weeks later, she texted, "I heard you were talking sh*t about me. Keep my f*ckin' name out your mouth." I honestly had no idea what she was talking about. The only person I spoke to about our breakup (politely with no disrespect) was our now-deceased friend (36 years old) who was such a sweetheart and confidant. Besides, I said nothing bad to her, anyway, as she simply asked what happened with her friend and I. But I didn't drag her name through the mud. So perhaps she drunk texted me? 12 years later at the funeral, she walked past me in tears. I don't know if she saw me, but I never made an effort to comfort her, as I found it too awkward. Although, her daughter (my Facebook friend) welcomed me there with open arms. But she eventually unfriended me. Is it possible her mom told her that I ignored her? In the mom's defense, although we were never FB friends, she did "like" a R.I.P. comment I posted the day after our friend died. Please don't take my question the wrong way, as I am no way bitter about our breakup. However, I feel like such a doormat, as if I was dating a 3-Card-Monte hustler on the street. Keep in mind she's a little rough around the edges and is basically a hoodrat.

I have a friend is is really depressing and unhealthy. She talks negatively all the time, makes jokes about killing herself, and she always makes feel sad being around her. She has at least some form of depression, anxiety, and anorexia. I really want to continue being friends with her because she is really funny and weird when she doesn't act sad, but is just drains so much out of me. Sometimes it feels like I'm her therapist rather than her friend. Please tell me what to do, I want to try and remain friends with her

me and ava have been best friends for 5 years and all of a sudden shes been going on a kpop craze. everything is about kpop. EVERYTHING. we talk about something not kpop- her - "HAHAHAHAHAH" me- "what" her- "oh you wouldnt get it its kpop" and them shell just talk ab more kpop. she tries to get me obsessed, and i like bts and txt, but i dont want to let it take up my life like it did with her. whenever i dont know something kpop shes like "oh u dont rly like them ig ur not a kpop stan" and like shealways gets mad when ion know something. i know i cant get her to stop liking it but i just feel bad for her that everything is about kpop.

I have always been homophobic, though I have been VERY good at hiding it. I am not one of those homophobic people who will insult gays and tell everyone how I feel about them. I live in America, so obviously I've met many gay/bi, even trans people. While they made me feel uncomfortable on the inside, I still talked to them & acted pretty neutral towards them. I knew that if I told anyone I am homophobic, I'd lose my friends & be hated since everyone in the USA supports LGBTQ. Weird thing is, most people who are homophobic are that way because it goes against their religion (Christianity) but I am 100% nonreligious. It is just my personal viewpoint. I always found same sex couples weird and not normal, nasty too. I never understood how someone could be attracted to the same sex. I felt the same about bi people, pan people, anyone who is not straight. My friends found out bc they were talking about how angry they were w/ some homophobic people while I didn't contribute Keep in mind my friends are straight. They are just very open to LGBTQ. They called me disgusting and set back in my ways. They said they'd never expect such an attitude from me.They were also shocked since I "seemed so nice". They are telling others and I have already lost almost many social media followers. What should I do? I have never even bullied anyone part of LGBTQ. It is just my personal opinion I try my best to keep to myself. one more thing. I am not western or american. i just live here

I am desperate every love song makes me think of her, when I'm upset all I want is to be held by her, she's the first and last thought on my mind everyday. This has been happening for weeks it's so hard to see her and think only of her as a friend. SHOULD I TELL HER AND POSSIBLY RUIN OUR FRIENDSHIP OR KEEP IT TO MYSELF AND TRY TO RID MYSELF OF THESE FEELINGS?

my family & i plan on moving to another state. but i'm a bit hesitant to leave because of my friends. i'm not very social so i only have like 4 close friends but they're friends i wouldn't want to lose. but my mom always tells me that if they were ever in my situation, they wouldn't think "oh i don't want to leave my friend" so i get it. my best friend is coming with us if we move & she's the only person i truly care about keeping as a friend but idk, my mom says that i'm young & moving to a larger state means more opportunity for my friend and i & i completely understand her. but idk i'm just upse about leaving my friends & everything i know.. any advice ?

Is it common for friends that are females and that are also adults to be concerned about each other and also worry about each other when they don't hear from each other? And is there a name for that? Because I have a friend that's like this about me

Now days, I deal with perverts on a daily basis. Within the last 24 hours, 3 older men have creeped on me. I've had my hair smelt, kissed on the top of the head, one of them always tries to stop me to talk. I literally walked out of my house yesterday and an old guy I don't know stops me from pulling out of the driveway and rolls down his window in the middle of the road and asks me, "are you Olivia??" (I'm pretty sure that he got my name from a friend) I'm not a provocative dresser or skanky. I feel like I'm too nice to people and they take advantage of it. How do I stop it all without being considered rude? Because I always feel rude when I'm blunt

I'm a high school senior. No friends but would like some. No social skills but I want to develop them. How do I make a friend today and conversate?

I am 37 y/o. Back in '04, I dated a woman 15 years older. On our 3rd date, she texted to invite me out to an unspecified place. As she got in my car, she revealed that we're going to court and she needs $60 to help bail her sister out of jail. Being the spineless jellyfish I was, I helped her out, to which we waited at the courthouse for her sis's name to be called. Days later, she texted to ask for money for clothes shopping. That is where I drew the line and cut her off. A few weeks later, she texted, "I heard you were talking sh*t about me. Keep my f*ckin' name out your mouth." I honestly had no idea what she was talking about. The only person I spoke to about our breakup (politely with no disrespect) was our now-deceased friend (36 y.o.) who was such a sweetheart and confidant. Besides, I said nothing bad to her, anyway, as she simply asked what happened with her friend and I. But I didn't drag her name through the mud. So perhaps she drunk texted me? 12 years later at the funeral, she walked past me in tears. I don't know if she saw me, but I never made an effort to comfort her, as I found it too awkward. Although, her daughter welcomed me there with open arms. Seeing as how we were suddenly no longer FB friends sometime after the funeral, is it possible her mom told her that I ignored her? In the mom's defense, although we were never FB friends, she did "like" a R.I.P. comment I posted the day after our friend died. Please don't take my question the wrong way, as I am no way bitter about our breakup. However, I feel like such a doormat, as if I was dating a 3-Card-Monte hustler on the street. Keep in mind she's a little rough around the edges and is basically a hoodrat.

Now that I think of it, I believe that I would've been friends with certain of my current college friends in high school, but it's hard to say as well. However, in high school, most people are labeled into social groups, which doesn't help at all. Even though you don't see this happening in college, people will still put themselves in groups, but not to the extent of labeling others.

I went out with this guy and we left our coats in the car when we went to the arcade. So when we were leaving out it was cold outside. I told him it was cold and he put his arm around me. I told him that I had fun with him and he said he did too. I'm not saying it means he likes me. I'm asking if it's a possibility.

I went out with this guy he and I are friends and we had sex. I actually really like him but I want us to be friends. I don't know if that makes sense. I like him more than a friend but I just want us to be friends.

I am asking because this woman's daughter, who was my friend on Facebook, eventually unfriended me after the funeral. So I'm wondering if her mom told her I ignored her. I am 37 y/o. Back in '04, I dated a woman 15 years older. On our 3rd date, she texted to invite me to an unspecified place. As she got in my car, she revealed that we're going to court and she needs $60 to help bail her sister out of jail. Being the spineless jellyfish I was, I helped her out as we then waited for her sis's name to be called. Days later, she texted to ask for money for clothes shopping. That is where I drew the line and cut her off. Weeks later, she texted "I don't appreciate you talking sh*t about me. Keep my name out your mouth." I honestly had no idea what she was talking about. The only person I spoke to about what happened with she and I was our now deceased friend (she died at 36) who was such a sweetheart and confidant. Besides, I said nothing bad to her about the woman I dated, anyway, as our deceased friend simply asked about us, and I didn't drag her name through the mud. So perhaps she drunk texted me? At funeral, she walked past me in tears. I don't know if she saw me, but I never made an effort to comfort her, as I found it too awkward. Although, her daughter welcomed me with open arms. In her mom's defense, she did "like" a R.I.P. comment I posted the day after our friend died. Perhaps she was trying to make peace with me? Please don't take this the wrong way, as I feel uneasy about this woman. She is very rough around the edges, and basically a hoodrat. So I'm not bitter whatsoever about our brief romance, but instead feel like such a doormat. It's as if I didn't date her, but instead was hustled by a 3-Card-Monte guy on a street corner.

My friend only wore basic clothes She sold all her clothes and bought expensive Italian clothes now She went from basic to expensive Italian clothes What do you think is happening to her

I am 37 y/o. Back in '04, I dated a woman 15 years older than me. On our 3rd date, she texted to invite me to an unspecified place. As she got in my car, she revealed that we're going to court and she needs $60 to help bail her sister out of jail. Being the spineless jellyfish I was, I helped her out, to which we waited at courthouse for her sister's name to be called. Days later, she texted to ask for money to go clothes shopping. That is where I drew the line and cut her off from my life. A few weeks later, she texted, "I don't appreciate you talking sh*t about me. Keep my name out your mouth." I honestly had no idea what she was talking about, as the only person I spoke to about what happened with she and I (politely with no disrespect) was our now deceased friend who was such a sweetheart and NEVER repeated anything you would tell her. Besides, I said nothing bad to her about the woman I dated, anyway, as our deceased friend simply asked about us, and I didn't drag her name through the mud. So perhaps she drunk texted me? At funeral, she walked past me in tears. I don't know if she saw me, but I never made an effort to comfort her, as I found it too awkward. Her daughter who I hugged/talked to at the funeral, eventually unfriended me on Facebook. Did her mom tell her that I ignored her? FYI, although her mom and I were never FB friends, she did "like" a R.I.P. comment I posted the day after our friend died. Perhaps she was trying to make peace with me? Please don't take this the wrong way, as I feel uneasy about this woman. She is very rough around the edges, and basically a hoodrat. So I'm not bitter whatsoever about our brief romanance, but instead feel like such a doormat.

He and I went out last month but we met awhile ago. The first few times he asked me out I didn't go. Instead I asked him to be friends with benefits. And he said yes that he has always been into me. We are just friends but I like him. We went to eat, to the movies and to eat and we had sex. Should I tell him I like him or would it make me look bad?

Even though I have other guy friends. I definitely like you the most and I really only want you right now. Or Even though I have other guy friends. I really like you and I only want you. (He and I are only friends and I don't want to ruin the friendship. But I think I might actually like him.)

My area is overrun by foreigners and I just happen to run across this near my house, what should I do?

He always acts like he's wiser and treats me like an idiot, he says I haven't lived becuse he just got married and that I'm dumb for not believing in ghosts. He always saying how he has overcome so much hurdles and I said everyone has you're not special but he has to make it known. It is getting annoying. I work, go to school, no complaints yet he evaluates my life.

Two very important friends I appreciate, both have said they don't need me. One of them I fell out with a month ago. We hung out one night and I blew up her phone up a little asking if she was okay, because she told me she was going to let me know when she got home, and didn't ( bad idea I know ). She had some things going on that made me worry. So she ignored me for two weeks and then asked me if I could help her with a really expensive credit at loan for 8k for a cosmetic surgery. I tried to help her with it but it ended with me saying she's taking advantage of me with that. So I got blocked after, and was told she doesn't need nor want me.The other friend, I'm still friends with today, but we didn't talk for a while because he got a surgery( I knew about it), and I didn't check up on him before the surgery or wish him good luck, so he got mad at me for it. Reason I didn't say anything was because he had told me he's diss appointed in me because we were going to hang out and were planning and I told him I'd let him know but forget, and he had said he took the time off waiting for my reply. We are back to being friends. Both these friends have said they don't need me. I understand I've made mistakes, but when they tell me they don't need me it kind of kills my self esteem a little, considering a love them a lot. I already lost one friend that's been killing my self esteem. Is there something wrong with me? How do y'all cope with losing friends?

I have an internet friend whom I've talked to a few times but we had cut contact for a bit but still liked on each others social media posts etc. We're both females from Europe and she is coming for a vacation in my country. She's a really cool and kind person but since we met online I get a bit uneasy meeting people I have never met in real life because of all the stories you hear on the news. What should I do? I would really like to meet her and since it would be my first time meeting her I could take a friend with me and meet up during the day to be safe. What would you do in this situation? I need advice.

About a friend

have a wedding in a hotel coming up and all the rooms are full however one of the people going said I could sneak into his room despite it being booked for only 2 people him and his mate he said just bring a sleeping bag? Can you do this? Would we in much trouble if we got caught and do people actually do this

This guy and I met up for sex (I met him a few years ago where works and he and I are only friends) but before we actually had sex we hung out. We went to the movies, to the arcade and out to eat. Then we went back to the hotel and had sex. I actually enjoyed his company regardless of the sex. I just liked being with him in general. I told him I had fun and he said he did too. I wish I could tell him how I really feel but I'm afraid. I do talk to another guy he lives in another state but it's just a fling. We meet up every now and then.

I get the creeps really bad when I sense a girl is jealous of me in some way, because they are typically indirect. One experience I had was when I slept with a guy my friend works with (who she probably liked), and she kept contacting me to leave his place. I texted her dumping her and blocking her on everything, because I didn't trust her or want to see what she was doing. She ends up contacting my mom months later, lying about the number of messages I sent her, saying she was in danger, and that her parents told her to contact my mom (keep in mind she's 24). When I told another friend the story and showed her profile to her, the first thing she said is that it looks like she was trying to look like me. And I saw it, it looked like she sat and looked at my pictures and tried to copy my hair color and style, while also spreading lies about my to my mom. Now, at work, I have had similar experiences where a woman is being nice to my face, and I feel the creeps or chills when she really wants to copy things I do but also make me look bad. Having someone be jealous of you creates a stalker for sure! I even had one friend keep convincing me to not go back with a guy, and we split an expensive Uber, and I later saw an anonymous post from someone in our area, saying they convinced their friend to not go back with a guy, so she would pay for half of an expensive Uber. Keep in mind, this girl would put it in her butt with guys she just met and wear lingerie for one night stands, but no one wanted her. These creepy women are usually unattractive savages and are ready to attack

Please don't answer if you're just going to judge. I've known my friend since June 2016. I fell in love with him in May 2017. We had met at work and he was my boss, but we both don't work there anymore. He invited me to his church and I've been going ever since (so almost 2 years). He is happily married with a family, I'm recently engaged. My fiance recently got it out of me that I have feelings for my friend, although I told him I no longer have those feelings anymore....I told him I used to have a "teeny, tiny crush" on my friend. Truth is, I'm madly in love with my friend. I do love my fiance very much and look forward to spending our lives together. I do feel, however, that my friendship with my married friend is going to end up affecting my relationship with my soon-to-be-husband. One time recently, I was at church with my fiance and I was looking around the room and he said "No, your boyfriend isn't here." He is always referring to my friend as my "boyfriend". It didn't help that my friend convinced me to do something recently that my fiance has been trying to get me to do. My fiance said "oh, but because he wanted you to do it, you did it because you'd do anything for him." What do I do? I can't just cut my friend out of my life with no explanation. I love his family and they love me. His wife hugs me every time she sees me and so does his oldest son. Plus, we all kind of run in the same social group at church. How do I turn my feelings off? I don't even see my friend and his family very much anymore because he works a lot of Sundays lately, so he's rarely ever at the same service I am anymore. Also, it didn't help when I told my fiance that my friend hasn't even acknowledged our engagement and that my friend never asks about my fiance. My fiance says that's kind of suspicious.

There is a person I love. We dated for a short time but broke up and remained friends. They're my best friend.Unfortunately, they get mad at me a lot and disappear for a while. We are currently in one of those stages. Another friend who also dated the person at some point tells me that they treat me differently. I see it too. I'm not sure if I should consider it a good different or a bad different. When we dated, they were not lovey-dovey with me like they were with their previous partners. Even now they get mad at me much quicker than they do with others. Despite this they talk to me more than anyone and trust me with their secrets. When we have issues in our friendship I always become severely depressed. They get mad at me almost ever other week. People notice it and think that my friend is being ridiculous about what they are mad about. They tell me that they're being toxic to me and that I should leave. I love and care about them too much to do so. I can't stand being away from them for even a week. We've known each other for almost a year now and our relationship has progressed much quicker than any of our previous ones. What should I do?

I have never seen this guy before, she once told me that she had a boyfriend in Europe. But it is not like She and I slept together, so why does she need to act like this ?

I've been out with two other guys I had a nice time. But I definitely like you more really only want you right now. If not what should I say instead?

I'm currently a college student and I feel so lonely. I have no friends. I have no boyfriends. I have no one I'm talking to. And this is not unique to joining college, I have never had any of the above. I'm involved in various clubs as well as work, some far more engaging than others, but I've only made acquaintances. I try to expand by saying hello whenever I see them around campus or even making conversation but nobody ever wants to talk. I feel like either nobody is open to making new friends because they already have friend groups or because they don't like me. I try to hard to be a good person—someone that you would want to be friends with—cool, chill, funny, etc. but it's no good. It sounds pathetic but wherever I go, I always feel like an outsider. And on top of that, I feel like guys aren't interested in me. They don't look at me, they don't talk to me, etc. I don't even get hit on or catcalled. I try so hard to plan well put together outfits, do my hair/make up (not too much), but they don't even give me a side glance. There's a guy that I think is cute in one of my clubs, but he always talks to different girls. What should I do? I'm ready to give up.

I had a 'best' friend who is manipulative, controlling, & if she can't get anything her way, she goes ballistic. She doesn't get along with people because she's extremely cocky, rude and very loud. But I've always been there for her because of the stuff she's been through. Yet ever since Ive had a boyfriend, the past 5 months she's been gaslighting & starts these arguments with me and blames my boyfriend on why our friendship is no longer how it once was (which he has no relation to & she doesn't even know him). When I try to hang out, she expects me to go out with her whenever she wants, wherever she wants & if I don't, she picks at my explanations & somehow flips the whole situation on me where I feel like I have to apologize for having a whole other life. She is the most entitled person who doesn't work and complains about everything. I have to work around HER schedule. She is one of those people who argue ONLY through text and never through person or call. She recently ended our friendship through text because "I value my boyfriend more than her" It's toxic I didn't respond. 2 days later she asked if I was going to resolve the issue she started. I didn't respond and now she is playing a victim role crying to her friends making her problem other people's and now they keep texting me about her ever since. She continously texts me wanting some sort of explanation and closure from me but I'm sick of it. She's toxic, and I need advice, before I end up hurting her feelings.