I had always envisioned to have a good body after I had my child but ever since then everything changed. I can no longer fit into my jeans, cute tight spandex tops and my family keeps telling me I look chubby. Should I get married if I am a little on the fat side? I mean I will not be able to fit into my wedding dress and I am embarrassed because I want to wear one where I can show a lost of skin and I don't want it falling out of place. I am afraid my fiancee will get disappointed to see me in person and cancel our wedding? Should I just try losing major weight? Or just buy a gown with long sleeves I feel I might not be able to lose all that weight.

Been with my fiancé for years now. They haven't been the nicest people to me. His mom warmed up after some time and was cordial/nice. With his sister - it's been an on and off battle with passive-aggressive mind games. *sigh* I've just learned through the years not to take it seriously, to accept that they may not like me, and to focus my energy elsewhere rather than engage/force things. This was challenging (especially with his sister) bc she wasn't the most cordial or polite person. It took a lot of work on my end but I guess I became a stronger person from it. There were times were smear campaigns happened, the extended family were cold, etc.. it was tough. A few months back, his sister said it made me look desperate that we were still together after many years. Anyway, we got engaged last month. They seemed more "relieved" than excited. Again, not the most ideal reaction but it's fine. It's definitely my sister, mom, and I planning but I would like his family to feel included too, so they won't be left out. I've learned to just take their strange reactions as "excitement". I have some boundaries (especially bc I know his mom is very opinionated, rushy, and a bit judgmental). I have a good idea of where I would like it & just decided that until venues/date are confirmed is when I'll share the details with them. My mom said it was a good sign that his mom wants to know the details. His sister also just reached out & offered her help. Seems like they want to be included? I know once we get the venues confirmed, I am more than happy to bring his mom/sister to show them around. Also, I told my fiancé that we can invite his mom to cake tastings. I'm also planning on giving them "mother of the groom"/"sister of the groom" sashes for my bridal shower, as well as gifts for the wedding day with lockets including individual pics of them with the groom. My heart just feels confused, as they haven't bee so kind to me through the years & now they've changed their behavior

Me and my partner will be marrying next year and need recommendations for honeymoon destinations in europe (we're in london and both are afraid of planes so we prefer a short destination) otherwise I would of loved maldives, bali or cancun but it takes longer to get there

LOL Racist? But the person is literally Chinese you retarded SJW b*Tch