I have a very high sex drive. Like I can have it every day probably multiple times a day, but my husband doesnt and ive compromised with him in only having sex like once a week maybe even 1 every 2 weeks. Hes younger than me by 2 years. I'm the one that always tries. Should I stop tryimg and give up? Ive told him many times what I want and to at least try but nope nothing. I think I'm going to give up.

Statistically, black men aren't the best partners due to crime rates, employment rates, average income, the number of black men involved in their children's lives, etc. That's not to say that there aren't plenty of good black men out there because there certainly are. However despite him being good, your daughter would face unspeakable stigma and scrutiny that would ultimately complicate her life. If they were to break up, There are many men who would not want to be with a woman who was once with a black man. Is it wrong to not want your daughter to date a black man, not out of racism, but out of a desire for your daughter to have as few burdens as possible in life?

He is a good guy. He has been through a ton- parents divorce, very bad abuse (before I knew him). I support him and everything, it is just difficult always talking about his ideas that will ALWAYS make him super rich and then two weeks later it is no longer true. Sigh

is it impossible for a woman to ever feel happy with a man in her life?

This drives me absolutely insane. My wife gets pissy over the most trivial things and when I ask or say something, she says that she s fine. Then I point out the words she used, the tone, the body language she displayed and then all of the sudden the table gets turned and she says that I am picking on HER! It drives me nuts. How do you get someone to realize how they are acting? If I video her while she being a bitphch then that just makes things worse. If I ask for us to sit down and talk about it then again, I am picking on her because it s all about her and her attitude even though I say that we.coukd both use some work. I have tried to come at this from all directions with no success. Nothing ever actually gets resolved. It s very frustrating. Sometimes I just want to kick her to the curb....but she s my wife and I love her, I just don t love THAT part or her......I hate it.

My husband cooked dinner last night and he made western omelets and homemade French toast. We were sitting down eating and he made the comment that he'd wish I cooked different things like this. I tend to only cook fried chicken, pork chops, or spaghetti. I told him I didn't know how to make omelets or grilled cheese sandwiches. He fell over laughing. He said those are two of the simplest things to make. Was he wrong to laugh at me?

my father is abusive and they are fighing right now as am writing this question . they want a divorce but they are stuck because of us . i have two sisters and we live in a muslim nation where divorce is a shame to the family so they have to stay together for ever . they have been married for 19 years . and both are 40 . 41 years old . i don't know what to do ? or how to react , this sh*t is endless

My husband and i have grown kids in college from previous relationships and no children together. His daughter is in Ca in college and she just had a baby. We are in SC and it is just the 2 of us. We are looking at houses for $292,000. We are fun couple in our late 40's. He has a good job.

I want him to put me in his will when he dies so i can get his fortune. If not bill gates can i have steve jobs?

I recently discovered wood working as a hobby. For years my dad would build things and give them to people. He's built several toy boxes and piggy banks for a number of his grandkids and he just loves working with wood. Now I've taken on that hobby. I have build one of my granddaughters a piggy bank and this past Christmas I made nameplates for 3 of my other grandkids. I mentioned to my wife that maybe I could start doing the nameplates as a side business to anyone who wanted one for their child. It was just a thought. Well, a co-worker saw some pics of the nameplates I made and wants me to do one for her son's 1st birthday. I told her I would. In mentioning it to my wife she is adamant about me not doing it unless I get paid. I told her we have yet to sit down and discuss material cost and time because if I was going to seriously charge people for then I'd want to make sure I was making a profit. It's basically a piece of wood and a Dremel tool to carve their name in it and throw some paint and urethane on it. Nothing big. I enjoy the work. My wife is not thinking that since I'm not charging for this one that I must have some ulterior motive behind why I'm doing it for free. My dad built things for years for other people and I don't think he ever charged anyone anything. That's just what he loved to do in his spare time. Should you get paid for everything you do for someone else, especially if it's something you love doing? I went and set up my in-laws new TV and entertainment center this past weekend and even though I didn't get much enjoyment out of it I didn't expect to get paid either, which I didn't. I'm going to fix the shelf in one of my sister's closet this weekend so should I charge for that? One of my other sisters and her husband want me to come help them hang their new TV when they get it so should I take on a price for that too? My wife is now complaining that I can do this free for this girl who I've only known a few months but whenever she asks me to change the oil in her car I tell her to buy the oil. I'm still doing the oil change for free. If she were to take to to a shop she'd still be paying for the oil and the service fee. She tends to make more out of things than need be.

We have two dogs. One we bought in March 2017 the other free in July 2017. We got it from her friend who could no longer take care of the dog temp. Wife was okay with that Because she wanted a puppy and not two full grown dogs. I said if we get it we keep it. The friend had left it in the apartment alone. We took it to the vet and I signed and paid the vet, and I was the main source of income. We got a house in December so the dogs have a backyard with me. In March 2018 my wife assaulted me and then lied to the police. They looked at us and our recounts and arrested her for assault.She was released and told not to contact or for her to come to my residence. She wanted it lifted which I denied, because I was worried for my safety and freedom (wasn't the first time she accused me) since then I've had the dogs in my sole custody the entire time, with all everything falling on me. She refused to sign divorce papers and moved to NY and got a divorce lawyer 2 days before it would of defaulted. I have been forced to fight over the dog. I'm keeping all debt that came out of the marriage (none of which we ever paid so it's really a bunch of debt with 0 equity) I'm willing to mail her belongings, and I want compensation for the phone bill Because had to pay until she got off. I live in TN and she lives in NY,soon Atlanta. From my understanding she intends to say the dog was a gift from the friend (which it wasn't) and that she couldn't get the dog earlier due to the COR being inplace.

My husband's good friend recently started dating a new girl seven months ago. She's 30 as well with young kids, well she constantly comes over in daisy dukes (literally her butt almost hanging out, which then she constantly has to pull her shorts out of her 'crevices') and super low cut tops all the time. Having two son's embarking on the preteen years as well as this being our home I find it disrespectful. To me it doesnt matter if her boyfriend is there or not, it's about respect. I'm not the insecure or jealous type at all, it's more of an annoyance at this point. When it's supposed to only be her boyfriemd coming over tinkering in our garage with my husband she'll tag along and spend hour's in our garage doing nothing while my kid's and I arent even home... It's just odd to me overall. I'm trying not to cause hard feelings but it needs to be addressed. What would you do?

I dont know what to do help please

In the last four years, I've rarely seen my husband, and when I did it was briefly between business trips. I think the kids hardly know him anymore. We discussed it and agreed to get a divorce after a lot of heartache. He however told me he will pay alimony and support the children and leave the family house to me, but he will not agree to give me any his savings, estate, or any stake in his company… I don't want to sound like a gold digger, but it bugs me. I hate that I would have to live month to month, while i helped him build his career. I had to quit my studies to support him through business school, and later I had to quit because we were moving around too much because of his work. In the past few years, I started a small business in my home town but it hardly makes any money. My mom is telling me I should get a lawyer and fight for it, but knowing him it won't be easy.