I've never been an extrovert. I didn't really have friends until I was 7 or 8. Just recently I've felt so alone. The girl who I considered my best friend found another person and has been acting really different in the past year or so. She's done more dangerous things that could really bite her in the *** and I've tried to talk to her about it but she just brushes me off. She's made excuses every time I've asked her to hang out and she's just become meaner. A friend who I thought I could always rely on ghosted me and has been acting strange ever since she got her new girlfriend. I've never been someone who has had tons of friends or anything but I feel like I have no one that I can be with without the fear of them judging me. I don't know who I can talk to about this whos my age. I feel like everyone's acquaintance. I'm not hated and I can talk to people normally, but I can connect with anyone on a deeper level. I also feel like I've lost all hope for it to get any better. I'm excited for college because I hope it will be a new start, but if i cant make friends now, will i ever? If your still reading my teen angst crap, thanks and any advice or personal stories you have will help.

I'm clubbing at the moment and it seems a hip new place but I'm worried I might have ruined the whole interior. Basically my friend accidentally elbowed me in the stomach and I pooped my pants. Nothing too serious and I packed supplies just in case. However she thought it was funny and elbowed me six more times and I basically explded on the dance floor. I really need help cleaning it up. I need about ten volunteers to help I'll provide pizza if you can make it. Friends only

So I've been best friends with a girl (I'm a girl too) for about 2 years. We went on vacations together, did a bunch of fun stuff during the first year, then we were going to summer camp. I met a guy and she publicly embarrassed me in front of him purposely saying I was acting fake in front of him and that I can't handle relationships. I didn't talk to her the rest of the trip. She kept begging me to forgive her but what she did pissed me off so much. Not to mention she's 14 and I'm almost 16. Later I did forgive her. Then more crap started happening she started acting fake like she was on camera all the time and just acting like you tubers. Every time we were in public she would be very rude and inappropriate. Like we were in a clothing section and she yelled "ew this is what far people wear!" In front of someone. I yelled at her for that. She started cursing ALL THE TIME basically every 5 seconds. She also called my other friend a slut. Then she started acting like a lesbian to me like she liked me. She started trying to fake kiss me and put her hand down my face while watching a movie. I told her to stop too. (She's straight) then we went to an indoor pool and she complained her hair was too wet and the girls there were ugly whores. So I literally ignored her the rest of the time. Tbh I'm not trying to be mean but she's not that pretty herself but is picking on STRANGERS for how they look. It's bullying and harassment idk what to do.

Ex boyfriend blocked me last Sunday and he NEVER blocked me before and what's strange is yesterday before he blocked me I was on a singles site where I also met him a while back. A guy messaged me, but it awfully seemed like my ex with same age and height. He asked to talk on messenger i replied later saying ok but he was offline already. He replied later but i was asleep saying sorry i missed your message but lets talk tomorrow with his number to text him. I replied on Sunday at 9:30 am saying sorry I don't know you and cant already move on to texting, 30 minutes after that my ex blocked me on viber at 10 am and I know because his online status was no longer visible. When I tried calling the number the guy gave with s blocked number it was one of those made up free numbers from an app. TL;DR Does it sound like it was him? My ex would also use apps like textfree to get a number form and text me. What would cause him to do this and why would he get angry and block me? Is this too much to be coincidence? Is it likely he has a gf because he blocked me or that it's because of the catfish incident?

Is this some kind of social/mental /emotional disorder? I find it hard to maintain my friendships. In respect as I can only focus on a couple people at once. I find it hard to constantly love ppl if they re not constantly in my life? E.g. I find it easy to make friends, but they normally compensate my older ones. Even though I love them dearly. I am bad with social media and cannot message loads of people at once. E.g. 2: In regards to my boyfriend, we re long distance. and it takes my like 3 days to readjust to being close with him. Shockingly even with my parents, if I don t see them for a while. Has anyone had similiar problems? Maybe I am just an ice queen that finds it hard to show attention constantly and I do this by managing my feelings?

We have an hour long lunch period the next two days at school, but I have no friends to sit with at lunch, and I don't know what to do. We're allowed to go off campus, but I don't want to be seen walking around all alone. Ideas/suggestions? I really mean it when I say I have NO friends. Help...??

My friend tries to surprise/scare me from behind when I don't expect it. I really dont expect it but still I can't get scared or surprised. Why is it? My another friend next to me gets a bit of a heartattack when she gets surprised tho. I just can't. Is there a problem with me? My friend doesn't understand either that why I can't get surprised. She tries tho xD

So the first lie was on my birthday when she gives me this perfume and said she bought it from this store. And later on when I ran out of it I went to the store to buy another one and was told that they dont carry that brand and it isn t sold anywhere in the country. Then when I asked her about it casually she says oh but I bought it from that same store. And I tell her it s only available in india or dubai. Then she says ohhhh maybe I got it from back home. Like why couldn t u tell me the truth in the first place? Second lie is when she asked me if I wanted something from her country since her family was visiting and at first I said no. But then she insisted so I asked her to get this mask for the face. Month after I saw the mask in her house and I ve never seen it before but she doesnt mention about giving it to me or anything... the next day she had it on her face and told me she was using it. Couple days ago I randomly asked her that she forgot to give me the mask and she pauses for a bit and says oh I think my family probably forgot to get you one. I would have given it to u or else. Like it s not a big deal if she wanted to keep it and not give it to me. But I know for sure she did not forget about it. It sucks that shes a close friend and lied about things that are so small and hurt my feelings. I wanna confront her about it in a way that wont affect our friendship but making sure she doesnt lie to me again. Is it a good idea to tell her about it? nd wht should I say?

Am I a beauty queen?

They try to bring their friend down over a person they are interested in and/or they try to make their friend insecure

One day me and a girl I thought was my best friend were riding around town. I was in a had mood due to my tummy and head hurting. I tried being upbeat, but failed amd was really quiet. She asked if I was feeling better and I lied and said yes. Days after I called her in a good mood and she was shocked to see I was in a good mood and said that she thought I was mad at her and she was going to cut me off because it is not the first time I was acting "stupid". She also told me to never hang with her if I don t feel upbeat and that she is tired of her friends acting "stupid". She reiterated that it would be nothing for her to drop a friend. This offended me because I thought we were best friends and she valued/cared for me. I also mentioned how whenever she and a bf who did her wrong broke up she would keep contacting and try not to burn the bridge. It hurt me that guys who broke her heart meant more to her than me. She says its b/c they know her intimately. Fair enough, but I still thought that if they deserved her whole loyalty I deserved a fraction of that as friend. I thought we would be able to make it through the low points. We argued about this for a while until I decided to break off our friendship since all it would take for her to break off our friendship is her being mad at me for not being upbeat or acting "stupid". I just do not know if I am wrong for how I saw our relationship. Should I apologize? Give it some time?

My friend (roommate) and I agreed to go look for our classes when we both got back from winter break. We're supposedly going today, but last night I asked her if she still wanted to look for both of our classes together, and she said, "oh my mom is coming tomorrow to drop something off and I don't know what time she's getting here, and I invited one of my friends for lunch tomorrow, and it's going to be really cold tomorrow." So, I'm assuming she probably won't go with me, which is ok, but I don't like how she already agreed to go, but then planned too many things, and now doesn't want to go. This kind of thing happend all the time during our freshman year. We would plan things (like going to lunch) and she would plan too many things on that same day, and then tell me (5 minutes before) that she can't hangout with me. We talked about this, and I can tell that she tried to change, but I really don't want this to be a repeat of freshman year.

So, recently I ve been hanging out with coworkers after work and I ve started to become really good friends with them outside of work. There s this younger girl and she is the person that I can relate to out of the group. I see a lot of my younger personality and issues in her. Recently I ve noticed that there s been cuts on her arm, self inflicted...I mean I ve been there, at that depressive state and have done that to myself. I want to take to her about it but I don t think we ve reached that point yet in the friendship. I feel like I d be prying because she doesn t like to talk about stuff a lot, which I understand. I was like that too. She s one of the best co-workers and friends I ve have in quite awhile and I don t want her to go down the same road as I did...I don t want her to feel like she s all alone with depression. I don t know how to bring it up like, I didn t have anyone to help me through it so I m having issues with trying to be a good friend since I never had one through it...how can I help her? Thank you.

Asking for a friend. "something" as in the D

So I went to see her on a Saturday morning. we have been arguing all the time for months because she is messy. With her autistic son, it doesn't help. She knows it annoys me and I hate stuff on the floor. we fight about this all the time. I drive to see her 60 miles. I arrive, she is sleeping I try to go up the stairs and theres a hat, shoes, a box and some clothes right on the stairs as you go up. Then I enter her room and she has socks and a disney doll I have her on the floor. face down. I just broke down and got mad AF, she picked it up, but it seems i'm too stressed and I can't handle this anymore. So, I just stormed out. it has been 2 weeks. Am i just an ahole? or should I be mad?

I'm a female, in my early 30's, & at a new job 2 months in. I work for a classy large hotel chain in the restaraunt department & my co worker (also female, an older woman in her late 50's) works in the security depart. This woman has been such a great help to me starting out, she was always the one to greet me, welcome me, we became friendly quickly. She'd stop in, we'd chat for a few mins. She'd tell me everything going on in her department or we'd just talk about life in short, etc. I looked forward to seeing her around because I don't know anyone too well yet & I liked being able to have someone I could talk to & actually enjoyed talking to. Anyway, this last week she's been very stand offish. One day it was just a quick "hello" As she passed by, usually even if we're busy it's at least a smile and a "hey!" I brushed that off as a "she must having a busy or a bad day." Then it became just a quick "nod" from her. Now she just straight up ignores me as if I'm not even there when she walks by. I try to acknowledge her & say "hi" still but she won't even glance my way. It's been a week now & I have no idea what happened. I never said or did anything to offend her, why could she suddenly be giving me the cold shoulder? I'm not tripping over it so much, I'm just so clueless as to what happened. Any thoughts?

Okay. Backstory so before this whole thing she tells me she calls these people not really her friend because they all are two face and end up being friends with them anyway. Then when it comes when she's moving to another state, she mentions one person she would bring with her.. like she knows my situation is awful & I wouldn't mind moving to get out of my situation but she hasn't even bothered to ask me when I've made It obvious that I would love to get out of my situation. I live with an angry drunk btw so I'm trying to find somewhere to live bc I have no one where else to go. So anyWay fast forward, I bought this so called friend a birthday present last year for a concert for an artist she really likes. And we went. Then when it comes to Christmas she never gets me anything when she bought the two face other friends presents. Like wtf?

I spent New Year's Eve at my friend's party. After the guys had left, one of the girls said that she wondered if she was a good kisser. My friend decided she wanted to find out if she was, too. One thing led to another, and after that we all took turns kissing each other and then giving one another feedback. It was only strange for my first kiss. After that it just felt perfectly normal. ?

My friend asked me to put this up because they re embarrassed by it. My friend is above the age of 15, and hasn t learned to stop picking. They still do it, and it s a bad habit they want to stop. How can you do that? What steps would you take to learn to stop picking?

were both 16 (i'm a boy and she's a girl) and we're pretty good friends we've known each other for about 2 1/2 years and we live around the block from each other. in school we're both kind of flirty and touchy with each other but as a joke. last summer, she had a few of our mutual friends over (male and female) for her birthday, and some of us were drinking. so me and her were a little drunk, she was more than me, and we were doing the usual flirting. but she told me to follow her away from everyone else and i did and she pushed me up against a wall and kissed me. when she pulled away we just smiled and we ended up french kissing for over a minute. after that we went back to the party. but since then she has invited me over more often, since we live so close, and we always end up making out for at least 5 minutes at a time. we haven't done anything sexual yet, but i don't know if we should continue this because it may end up affecting our friendship. what should i do ??

We barely talk anymore and it really hurts. They are my only friend

He was my best friend and we talked all the time. Now the most we ever talk for is 2 hours and the conversations have 0 substance. He gets a girlfriend and now we barely ever talk, he just sends stuff to keep the friendship "there". How do I stop caring about him please, this is the first friendship I've been emotionally attached to and it's killing me mentally. He is my only friend The question mark next to friend is because I started to really like him a year ago but I repressed it and it hasn't been much of a problem just of course it still really hurts to see him with his girlfriend. Double whammy haha

iPhone as of 2019 January, I checked friend location via "Friend finder", and being said" locating" then about 10-20 second later said "Location not available" but I can still see her list on my" friend finder" Does it me be removed or?

I lived with her up until September. This girl is a manipulative and obnoxious *****. She took her hands to my infant son, stole dollars worth of items from me, spread hateful rumors and framed me for things I didn't do. I haven't spoken to her in months and I blocked her off social media. Now she's having her friends go through my Facebook and like my stuff and goes through my Twitter page. I want absolutely nothing to do with her and I want her to get lost. I don't know what to do, I have no interest in speaking to her ever again.

When the 1 October shooting happened in Las Vegas a year ago, I checked up on a friend that lives out there. When I asked her if she was ok, her response to me was, "That should've been you that should've been shot that night!" I was so angry at her for saying that. I never spoke to her again after that. I blocked her off all social media sites. She was just in town visiting. When I ran into her at a store, she wanted to apologize. I've moved on, but should I forgive her? How would you all feel if someone said that to you?

1. She's made me lie to my friends so that I would share a locker with her. 2. She left school after bitching for weeks. 3. She wanted me to call the school to complain; something I was not comfortable in doing. 4. I drover to her and from school for months, and she never said thank you 5. She yelled at me for trying to comfort her about her dead cat. I told her I didn't want to see her anymore, and she came crawling back 5. She refused to go to the movies with me for my birthday because she didn't like the movie I wanted to see 6. She made a huge deal about a sleepover that I didn't go to, 7. She yelled at my dad for not letting me go to that same sleepover (I didn't even want to go in the first place) 8. She also gets mad whenever I can't go to something. 9. She didn't even care when I told her my house got robbed. Keep in mind that I've only known her for two years. I love her as a friend, but she really hurts me sometimes, and I often feel like our friendship is toxic. Should I leave her? I kind of want to, but I don't know how...

Tonight we messaged on Facebook messenger for the first time in months. She's been busy with work and her kids. She told me she missed me. Then I showed her a picture of me holding my baby nephew. She said two cuties and then inserted an emoticon with hearts for eyes.

There is a person who has been unbelievably generous to me. She helped me when I needed it most. I kept saying "Thank you for everything" but I really want to get the point across that I appreciate her. What should I do to say thank you?

She is kinda of... closed minded. I just need help on how to ignore it without seeming like I'm ignoring her, while at the same time just not even paying attention. I want her to get by my body language or by my vibe that I don't care and she needs to just shut up. But she is my best friend, she just always thinks her opinion is needed.

My boss is coming to another department of the company where I work. I really loathe him because he wrongfully fired my best friend, and had written me up for something I didn't do. Someone is throwing him a farewell party, and I really don't want to go. I want to celebrate, but his departure--not his transition. Should I really go to this thing? What could happen if I don't?

I have a male friend that tends to get mad whenever I don't respond to him on time, just a few days ago he was upset. He was always like that is at first and he knows I have a busy job. I'm off now. Then a few times he had pretended to be angry but when was worried he was he responded to me in an angry and told me not to talk to him. Well today things took a bad turn he asked me why do I want to be his friend even though we hardly know each other we only know each other on the net. I said it's because we're a good friends. Then he asked if I would be sad if our friendship ended I said I would. I told him I was going to eat dinner and he became upset that it took me two hours to get back to him but then said it was a joke . While we were chatting again he didn't like the fact that I was giving him short answers to his question about our friendship, then he told me I didn't seem interested in talking to him I admitted that I was watching tv while talking to him and it was hard to concentrate but his questions were just hard to answer and made me feel like maybe he doesn't want to be friends with me anymore and he was just trying to find away to end it . So when I told him I was watching tv he said something like I want people to take me seriously and do me a favor don't talk to me ever again. I asked him if he really meant that and he said yes don't ever talk to him again . So I decided to block him since he felt that way. Was this a toxic friendship am I a bad person ?

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*PSA* BEFORE I GO INTO DETAIL IM NOT LOOKING FOR NO VALIDATION, I AM NOT DEPRESSED IM NOT LOOKING FOR ACCEPTANCE!!!!!!! PLEASE DONT TALK LIKE YOU KNOW ME. Now I'm wondering why I don't receive likes on Facebook, I see the people i know post certain stuff and get a like of like or steal statuses and get a lot of likes, what's the secret? I do the same and get like 3-4 likes or none at all and how do I get followers on Facebook? I have over 2k friends and it doesn't make any sense. This is for a profile not a Facebook page, *A lot of likes*