I had sex with this guy on the 4th date. He said he wanted to be with me and take me out . He said he enjoys my confidence and that I'm a cool person . When we go out , he pays everything. Is he faking since people say after sex, men don't take women seriously ? After all, we had sex on the 4th date in which people say the chances of a relationship are out the window ? So why is he asking to be with me ?

My girlfriend was raped when she was 13. She was at a friend's house and her uncle (a 21 year old bulgarian) came drunk from work and took her by the air and locked her in his bedroom and was physically stronger than her and not just raped her but even broke her ribs. While crying that she tried so hard to fight him and scream but he was stronger, he punched her face and pushed her on the desk and chair. I felt like she was trying to say that it was not her fault cause she tried to fight him with all her strength. That bastard is still in jail and her friend (her niece) moved shortly after the tragedy. My girlfriend afyer 7 years is still afraid to be touched (refuses hugs, afraid if I put my face close to hers), basically in a few words she's traumatized. If she hears someone speaking russian or whatever slavic language gets alarmed and begs me to go home. She has never been kissed. She hates physical contact and hates men. She stays almost always at home. Her family is supportive, her dad beated the s*** out of him when it happened that they had to give him a restriction order. My gf keeps asking and crying why it happened to her, she was a shy, sensitive girl who wore sporty and modest clothes, was much more like a kid than a teenager (I saw her pics, she was cute but not attractive), she also fought to defend herself, asks why it didn't happen to her friend who was much more sexual than her. She said he took everything she had and now she cant get herself back.

Just wandering what y'all think and I appreciate y'alls time looking at this question. Btw I am 6ft I weigh 176lbs and I am muscular with a 6 pack Here is the link to the photo of my face https://ibb.co/Q9C64t5

I kinda wanna give it to my girlfriend

I send out hundreds of emails on dating websites and get no replies. I get a whole lot of emails flooding my mailbox from women. I email these women and they want me to leave my dating website right away, and typically download a weird app that nobody hears the tell of, for me to communicate with them. I am not too app friendly as some may have viruses and sometimes I can get them briefly on facebook messenger, which I get the same thing from them 'please download this app partzu so we can chat and video chat' I say 'we can do everything on here on facebook messenger this is stupid' they get insisted and angry and want me to download the strange weird app. They also give me their mothers number, as they briefly tell me that they are up in their 20s, they say that their phone is broken and won't work, and demand that I send her my pictures and get to know her personally on her moms phone using her moms number. I was afraid to send her pictures on her moms phone and let me get to know her personally on her moms number, I made up something like "I switch from iphone to galaxy and my text messages system is screwed up" She gets angry saying "Iphones are smart, why did you switch over! that is dumb!' the ones that wants me to get on the strange weird app, wants me to tell me about myself and to send her lots of pictures of me, it is like she is guiding me or luring me rather than talking to me. most of them leads me to a porn website.

I m at an age where I should learn how to cook (early 20s) and my parents constantly told me for years that I need to learn how to cook, however, when I want to try, they won t let me. They seem to do that with many things. Judging me without letting me actually try. I honestly see these types of things as simply opportunities to judge and say what I can t do (you won t ever be able to take care of yourself, marry a man that can cook, etc) Yesterday, my dad literally said I need to learn, and I found a recipe I wanted to try and today my parents refuse to let me. How do I go about this? I can t just watch someone and learn, I m a hands on person who learns by trying.