If a couple were to get divorced and the one who would normally get alimony was caught cheating with irrefutable evidence, would they still be awarded alimony?

My boyfriend and I have been together for 4 months. We know we want to get married and have kids together and spend forever together. My parents are both in Heaven. I have a brother, but other than my brother who I live with, my boyfriend is all I got. I told him he needed to ask my brother for his blessing when it comes to proposing to me. My brother said it's okay. My boyfriend admits he's going to propose within the next month or so. Is it weird that I know the ballpark time of when he's going to propose to me? By the way, I'm 28. He's 26. We don't have sex. We're not virgins, but I realized before we got together that I want to wait until marriage to have sex again and he accepted that. We wouldn't get married until late next year. His parents already call me their "daughter-in-law". When you know it's right, you know. My parents married 3.5 MONTHS after they MET, so I don't think we're rushing things.

Is it because no Bitchez in they right mind gonna want sex more than they husband, and that it's always guys posing as Bitchez?

Background. I was told it was not physical. She texted him boudoir photos she had done for me as a gift. She texted him for two months. He knew all about me. Sex one night stand would have been better! She's rollerskated since she was a little girl. She met him when the rink in town was closing. Now it's closed and there are small events and he is at everyone. I know because this skating community has closed Facebook groups. They post videos and photos every week and there he is. She's in the groups too which I don't like. I feel caught in the middle. She likes almost every post. All event announcements for the week she likes. It's obvious she wants to go. Do I take her and have to see him every week and feel like crying or throwing up? Or do we continue to not go and I continue to feel guilty? I've taken her skating to real rinks in other countries. I've built a skating floor in our garage. I've privately booked halls and taken her skating. That's not enough. She wants to go where the old crowd is even though she was not friends with any of them. I wonder if deep down it's more then skating with the old crowd. Maybe it's to see him again. I'm going friggin crazy 😰😰😰

I have, she was so pretty, I decided to keep doing oral on her while holding the tube to the side until she finished. then I told her about the tube hanging out- what good would it have done if I told her while I started licking her? she wouldn't have had a s few climaxes. now she can deal with her tube with a clear mind. I did that- I did it. @quentin, I only wish it was a tampon string, I seen many of those up close, but this was a fallopian tube prolapse. I eased her anxiety, I let her climax, then I told her what to do next. I did that- I did it,

I have a friend, that's married with a step son and his daughter from his first marriage. His daughter his rude and obnoxious and he stop having anything to deal with her because of her being cruel and just mistreated her father. Does he have to leave anything to her in a will or inheritance in the state of Alabama?

I just made some eggs and came to the table to eat my eggs and talk with him. He left the table abruptly because my eggs "have a stronger odor." I feel so disconnected from him when he thinks my food stinks. Anyone in the same boat?

My man told me that he has a boot fetish. Like he enjoys seeing me wear black leather boots with my jeans and leggings. I told him I'm unsure because I've worn boots in bed, but what do you guys think?

I guess this is more of a vent than a question..... I hate my husband, he's so not the man I dated and married. Now he's just a selfish miserable human being. I can't afford to divorce him and financially care for 12yo's twins and 13yo twins. I can't afford to live in the town we currently live in and I don't want to move the kids from this school district as it's an amazing district. I'm just stuck with no friends, a **** of a husband, I work 2 jobs 7 days a week, so no life. I'd be afraid to go through divorce and child custody and potentially lose my kids because I work too much and can't afford to have them and survive on our own. Misery until they grow up and move up where I'll die alone

I'm 19 but he's 33. What do someone mean by marriage is the end of my academic career? I don't get it. Do people mean I missed my precious time due to marriage because I missed partying? What can I do so I can do those things? I won't be cheating. I just don't want to miss anything. I'm very depressed cus people are bringing me down about I'm missing lots of things which I never knew about. Can I also at least go to another country to study?

so i've been married to my husband for about a year and a half now. and things are different from how it use to be. we live in his moms house. we have a bedroom. and whenever he gets mad at me even for a small reason. he tells me to leave his house. which i personally think is unfair because he knows i can't go back to my moms house because there's no room for me. and i don't have enough to move out still. i don't know what to do. he always makes me feel unwanted. he'll stay mad for days. and every second passes he just gets more and more mad. what should i say to him. how can i make him realize that he's hurting me

My husband, who has a thing for younger girls, told me today that his daughter, who's a senior in college, wants to bring one of her friends home with her in March because they are going to a concert and she doesn't have anywhere to stay. Apparently, she doesn't live in our city. My husband said he didn't have a problem with it but I'm a little wary about letting some young 22 or 23 year old hang out at our house for a weekend. Should I be worried?

I love myhusband he's sweet andcaring but I'm just not attractedto him and I'm ashamed to visit family and friends withhim what should I do We're newly married and in our 20s I don't wanna hurt his feelings he was very attractive but he just got ugly within a year

I met him at work, we saw each other everyday. Within 1 month of us talking he took me to Cali and we took a roadtrip down the coast. Complete with fancy dinners, holding hands while he drove, making out on the beach, cuddling when the sunset while wearing his t-shirt, flowers the whole thing. He paid for it all, picked me up at my front door of my parents house, drove us to the airport, paid for my plane ticket and all the food and everything. When we got back home he introduced me to his family and friends. He took me to all of his flag football games and out to dinner with his team after every win. 3 months later we were living together. He found us a nice 2 bedroom apartment and the extra room was my art studio. He was cooking me meals and paying the rent while I went to community college to take classes (he's 20 years older). He even encouraged me to hang up photos of myself as a child on the fridge to encourage me to talk positively to myself (i have low self esteem) and said things like "imagine saying the things you think about yourself to that little girl in the photos". He made me the admin of his FB business page and gave me his passwords. We had amazing sex. He gave me massages, filled the bathtub with rose petals. YET he wouldnt make me his girlfriend. Eventually I had no choice but to break things off because there was no growth. Now I'm depressed and he's depressed so no one wins. Why do all of that for me but not do something as simple as make me his gf I'm 21 and he's 40 Was I just his meantime chick to pass the time because I'm young and pretty Was I used? I fell in love this wasnt a game to me He's never been married, he has no kids, hes not currently married im on all of his social media that he;s had since 2007, he doesnt have a secret life

I love him but I'm embarrassed to go visit my parents because he's goin bald and put some weight on and I don't want my parents to be disappointed of who I married

my will state my kids are to go to my ex husband and I am to be buried where every he will be buried my mother didn't start her crap until I told her about the will do they have to follow my wishes

I'm writing this because I honestly don't know how I should tell her. We're in our senior year of college and we're set to graduate together this may. We've been together for over two years and we've been talking about everything we're going to do after we graduate and we've made plans on things to boot. Over the summer I've meet a few doctors that are regulars at the bar I work at and have been talking to them about what they do. Before this I felt like I had my mind set on what I wanted to do, but now I don't feel the same. I know in my heart that I want to be a doctor and make a difference in what I do. The more I think about it the more I know it's what to do. What makes me scared to think about telling my girlfriend is that it's going to take me a lot more time to finish school. I'll need to complete my premed prerequisites and possibly a post-bacc, and that's just to get into a medical school. I know that I'm going to have to devout myself more than I ever have to anything else before and that things are only going to get harder from here. How should I tell her? I know I'm asking her to put her life on hold for me so there's no easy way to do it, but what is the best way.

My husband and I have 3 minor kids. He loves me so much but he has tried to cheat on me few times. His reason was because I wasn't having as much sex as he wanted. My reason for that is because raising 3 kids were my top priority and I cared less for our intimacy. It was more of a chore to have sex. He regretted every time and said he doesn't know why he did that to me. Anyways, after what we went through he was starting to snap easily and was getting worse so I took kids and left him and moved 10 hours away from him a year ago and we are in middle of a divorce... already spent $10K combined on lawyers. But we both realized we really need each other to raise our kids to provide what's best for kids. We are best partner as parents and can be best friends but not the best couple... He's on some prescribed med (anti-depress I think). He tells me it's helping him to suppress the strong need for sex and he's now "calm" and says he realized he's been really selfish. I'm at the age where I actually want to have sex but he hurt me mentally so badly over the years and I don't even know if I can trust or love him again but I need him in my kids lives... I need him as a father of our children but I don't want him as a husband. He suggested we can have a post marital agreement for "just in case" and not divorce right now. I told him we can live separately in his house and see how things go but I'm not sure if that's a good idea... Opinions?

Last year I met my soulmate and he's the only man I love, so I divorced my husband to be with him. (my boyfriend now lives with me and my kids) Since I have full custody of our two children, my ex husband is supposed to be paying child support and alimony. My boyfriend lost his job so now our ONLY income is what we were expecting to get from my ex. The problem: My ex husband called me up and said "**** you", and he quit his job. And now he just sleeps in his car and he's unemployed.. Now my kids and me and my boyfriend have NO MONEY coming in at all! And my ex REFUSES to get a job. Can the judge make him get a job?

He calls names like B***h or S**t or W***e? is this ok? i feel ok but i don't know.advices please!

He has been separated from his wife for 2 years, he also does not have a car. He is 51 yrs old i am 34 yrs old. On the other hand i am very financially stable. What would you do in this situation? He does work.

Ok this question doesn't regard to me, but mostly people I've gone to school with. Ever since we graduated, I've noticed that some people who used to be my classmates, are getting either married or having kids at the age they are, or they're having kids and are not married at all. So I'm wondering if it's smart for them to be doing it, especially if some of them are not in school or working.

My wife is having our son in June. How can I help her ?

She has figured out that she can't effect him directly, so she uses the kids. She will twist his words or actions to make him look like the bad guy, which upsets him. She has done terribly awful things, but he would never tell them because that is their mother & they should never think ill of their mother, which I agree with. She is the one who wanted the divorce & has been awful to him even while they were together. She will point something out & twist it to make it look bad & tell the kids "see, this is why we aren't together" she tells the kids he is a bad father, she wishes he would die, etc. In front of the kids. My boyfriend never retaliates or a thing because the kids don't need to see or hear arguing, which I agree with. What hurts him is when the kids say "daddy, why did you say this? Why did you do that?" It is always something that I know is untrue that she has twisted. It hurts him for the kids to see him that way & ask him those things because he can't really give a plausible explanation without revealing this awful actions & lies from their mother. He always says maybe he deserves this & maybe he could've been a better husband & father. He stayed for 8 years & tried to fix things when he found out that she had been using their money for drugs instead of paying bills, cheated, etc. She was the one who wanted the divorce. In my opinion, he was more than understanding & tried as hard as he could. How can I get him to realize that he doesn't deserve these things?

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I was born with a congenital kidney defect and am regularly in the hospital w/infection/failure- I am in bad pain and very ill and he refuses to take me to the hospital (yes I can drive but should not) and he wont watch the kids nor will my mom (who also has a kidney failure issue) because he said "it takes away from his band who is playing a benefit this weekend and his music career is more important and his job, and it takes money out of his pocket". I have sepsis and no insurance because he refuses to pay for it (cant afford he says). Is this normal? I tried to call an Uber to take me to hospital and he threw a fit and said no. I cant call 911 and leave my toddler alone, my worthless mom whos a hypochondriac narcissist dont help either she promised to drive me to her own job (retired trauma RN) the local hospital today and wont answer her phone now and reported me to my 95 year old grandma for asking for childcare)

Rant incoming: I can tell men how to be gentlemen, chivalrous, providers and what to do to make their wife feel loved and secure emotionally and financially. I have told boyfriends before what is wrong with them but they would rather shut off, close off emotionally and not share their feelings or thoughts and just pretend I didn't just give valuable advice? Then they want to get all revengeful and have machismo towards me. Heck even if I said something neutrally like "porn is bad for guys to watch", and didn't talk down on him or mention his porn addiction, i get shut off by guys. Lol. I guess men just wont take any advice from women? So why seek our respect then? Any thoughts?

A 5th of vodka is 750 ml, and my wife drinks 500 ml every day. It is getting old. We have a daughter who is 4. How do I get her to stop and start caring about her daughter like when she first delivered her! She won't sign custody to me, so until she does divorce is out.