I am 26 I still live with her because I can't afford to live on my own and I want to go back to school soon. Anyway we always go out together and end up fighting about my irresponsibility, (btw she was an immigrant") she tells me you're irresponsible and you haven't done anything with your life you're a screw up and a disappointment She made me so angry and I told her you're not one to talk because you have been in this country for 30 years and don't have one thing to your name! Not even a car or a house!!! Of course I didn't mean anything I said! But she's so horrible and I try to bite my tongue I can't!!! I can't do it many people told me that's what I need to do easier said than done another thing is ignoring her that doesn't work either cause when she talks crap about me I have a lot of things to say about her too!! I'm seeing a therapist on Monday. But it's hard I need help idk what to do. Advice

I'm 15 and a pretty quiet person, but not that shy. I don't talk to my family all that much, a few sentences a day with my mom. She thinks I'm weird and very shy, probably depressed. My sister thinks I'm retarded, she constantly says that I'm an idiot, that I may excel in school, but in life I suck. I don't care about this, since she herself hasn't achieved anything in life and lives in very poor conditions. There are many reasons for her to think like this, but 95% comes from her being a drama queen. I do lots of "stupid" stuff, but it's not anything too bad. What should I do about this ? Should I lash out against my sister ? I don't mind her saying that stuff, because I consider her a subhuman. She also has a very explosive temper, she's a "know all" *****. I'm not depressed, I have friends, girlfriend, but I love spending time alone. What should I do about this?

He doesn't have a job, because he lost his job in December 2018. He's real lazy and annoying. He wakes up every day at 11 AM, and plays 7 hours of Fortnite on his computer. He never gets up to do anything except maybe use the bathroom once or twice, and he never eats breakfast or lunch, but he's still f*cking fat. At 6 PM, he drives over to Chick Fil a and gets a southwest salad, a number 1, large waffle fries, 12 chicken nuggets, a large soft drink, and a milkshake ,and eats while watching crap youtube videos. Then he finishes at 7:30 and resumes playing video games for 3 more hours. He finishes gaming at around 10:30 PM, and then he just watches TV for 4 hours and eat junk food like oreos, chips, and drink several cans of soda. My mom has a job teaching AP Biology and AP Chemistry at the high school, but the money is barely enough to pay for all the food my dad consumes. And he's really fat. He takes up 3 seats on the plane, and because of he's so fat, my mom never shares a room with him, and he just lives in his own room, with his computer and TV, and never leaves his room except to go to chick fila

I don't know if it's me that's going crazy or my mum 😖, she says so many thing's that its outside from this world and hard to believe, even my sibling's says that she lost her damn mind, although for me in some ways I do believe her in some certain things.. For the past 6 years my mum has always been saying that she see ghost's and help them pass to the other side, she says that she's also a healer and also visits people in hospitals and in home's to heal them for free, she even healed a dog one time(she doesn't charge money from people, she do all these thing from the heart)... sometime's when i'm in pain she try's to heal me by touching me and send energy in me, it makes me nervous and won't let her heal me lol.. she sometimes tells me thats she's also not afraid of the devil and shes ready to fight him!!, there's this one thing also that she f**ks my mind about.. she says that Elvis and Marilyn Monroe came to speak with her, one day I was in the kitchen and she told me that Freddie Mercury was there with us!.. 😵😳 Please I need help and don't know what to do and I'm scared that this situation will get worse by time!! She's 55 years old and I know that in her past life she had gone trough bad things and suffered alot.. Sorry for my bad English, hope my writing is understandable...

Hi, i'm 17 and i currently live with my mom and stepdad in England. I'm not happy with my living situation and haven't been for years, my Dad lives with my step mam and brother (step brother but he's my brother lol) in California, my dads asked me to come live with them for years and i've always thought i can't go due to my age and mom being my legal guardian however i read that this doesn't matter now i'm 17? I'd be upset leaving somethings behind but i think it would be for the best especially for me mentally if i go to my dads but can i legally do it and could my mom stop me in anyway?

My daughter is 10 and wants to know why her best friend will no longer be attending school with her. I think we should see a Psychologist but my husband feels that we should just sit her down with her youth minister and talk to her about it. Either way I have no idea of navigating this and I am not going into details for many reasons. Any suggestions on this? Other than we do need to talk with a professional and her? I dont plan on giving any details other than she moved but she is smart and kids are talking because their parents are talking.

My brother got sepsis and has been in a nursing home for almost a year now. He has mental illness and gets monthly social security. My cousin became representative payee for him. I met my cousin last night and talked. She said the nursing home may want back payments for his nursing stay. My cousin will say she has money built up in his account but doesn't know how much. I feel she hides facts about the money. Could my cousin really not know how much is in the account or is she just not wanting to share the total with me?

I'm just 14 and I'm really scared...my dad always talks about how terrorists can get a hold of nukes and one day it'll cause a nuclear holocaust .... i dont wanna die like that

This is so frustrating and humiliating. How can I get him to STOP?

Okay so I'm planning when I'm 19 and I've finished school to move out of my parents house. First reason is because my dad is very abusive and has been my whole life. Second reason is i don't want to follow my parents steps because they forced my brother into a job and collage he didn't want/didn't want to go to and they threatened him if he decided to change collages. I'm currently 16 and I'm planning to move to the US with a friend who's like a sister to me and I've known her since I was 14. So im going to be moving out to the US with her and I'm just worrying now about how I should tell them. My mom has a right to know but my dad is a manipulative asshole and i don't know how he's going to react. Or how I should tell them. If they say they don't want me to leave, I'll still leave no Matter what they say to me. Little details; I'm from the Balkans region in Europe. I'm going to be taking my dog with me but I'm really worried about how they're going to keep her on the plane will they let me take her on the plane with me or will they put her with the luggage? The friend I was talking about she's 5 years older than me and she's like family to me and she's helped me through a lot. That's about it any advice would be very appreciated!!

I am 16 years old. Last month my dad took me to the doctor and I had to get blood work done. Doctor told us that I was anemia and had low potassium. My stepmom makes me take iron pills everyday. She won't let me fix my own meals. She wants to make sure that I am eating enough potassium a day. She is also worried because I was on my period for a month. And she grounded me I didn't tell her that I had my period for a month. I just want her to back off a little that's all.

This little scumbag digs through the trashcan and rips my USED pads to shreds... (Yes, I know dog's can't really control that. That it's more of an instinct and I should throw my things in places he can't reach blah blah blah. I know). I always lock the door, but someone else always ends up opening it again... And I can't really hide the trashcan anywhere 'cause then someone would ask why and I'm not really up for answering questions... And there's actually nowhere to hide it... And the dog's HUGE. "But Darcy! You should watch him better so he won't walk into the bathroom!" Sure, that makes sense, but why should I have to take care of him if he's not my dog?... So that sucks... [End of gross bit] And you may be wondering, "where is your brother when all of this is happening". Playing his damn video game... That's where. He doesn't walk him (so the house constantly smells like **** and piss), he doesn't WATCH him (he destroys everything in a 30 mile radius), and **** like that... He's in no means fit to take care of a dog... I love the guy... And I want him to be happy... But I'm absolutely miserable. What should I do?

I really don't like my brother's dog. Don't get me wrong, he's cute, but he's a DEMON. My brother has always wanted a dog, especially a pitbull. And after years of complaining over the fact that I have a cat and he doesn't have a dog the "poor thing" finally got one (My father brought home a puppy out of the blue without warning us). The puppy was very cute (as are most)! So I thought it wouldn't be so bad?... I was wrong. :))) From the moment he arrived the puppy whined non-stop. And I guess that's normal?... He was only a baby after all. I had my doubts about the dog at first (and I would later be proven right, but we'll get to that later). The first night we had him he cried... SO MUCH. And you know who had to watch him instead of enjoying their sleep? M e. Not my brother. ME! And I guess that's my fault?.. I should have tried waking my brother up- And I did- But he wouldn't listen. So I stayed up (again, my fault). I assumed as he (the dog) got older my brother would take more responsibility for him and maybe... just maybe... the dog would become less of a problem and more of a family member?... BOY, WAS I WRONG! Timeskip to present day: The bastard bites and attacks me NON-STOP for no damn reason! I'm the type to rough house with my brother. And when I do he JOINS IN. And you can't even IMAGINE the pain of a 7 month year old PITBULL digging his teeth into your flesh over and OVER again (or you could. I'm just being dramatic). So that sucks! [There's a part 2.]

So there is this girl on social media called " lovely peaches " I'm not sure if you heard of her , but she's kinda popular. Her insta is lovelypeaches4ever2001 ( she has multiple accounts and parody accounts with actual pictures of things she's posted ) she's a terrible person. She has a 10month old daughter and has constantly admitted to letting her boyfriend have sex with her. She talks on SoundCloud about how she wants to kill her own daughter and how she's a hoe , because she was sex with guys. She's a poor baby that doesn't deserve any of this, what can I do about it? I feel so helpless and she said that since she's now 18 she has full custody. She talks about how she wants to drown her in bleach , like actual footage of her saying it. It's so sad and upsetting this is happening and I feel helpless.

Just because she's my mom doesn't mean I have to be nice to her if my mom is not nice to me than I'm not nice to her.

He's really hot and I slept with him. We had been attracted to each other for a long time. We were alone in the house all night and it eventually happened. Now I can't look my Mom or Stepfather in the eye. What should I do?

I heard my dad moaning and saying my mom's name and now it keeps running through my head and I can't breathe and I want to cry I don't think I'm ever going to get over this and I don't know what to do

I'm 24, I never got education beyond 10th grade, and now I'm living with my parents. I was not allowed to wear clothes after age 16, and I was forced to crawl around. Why? Well in 10th grade I was being naughty and rebellious, so my parents decided to quit my education once I finish the school year, and treat me like a cripple. I've talked to my parents about this, and they told me that my only other alternatives are being in a wheelchair or being in a stroller. When we go outside, I get to wear only a diaper and a bib.

I didnt even want my job to begin with but my friend kept pestering me my mom kept pestering me and then one day my friend just randomly gave me an application and my mom forced me to fill it out this is the second time she forced me to get a job somewhere I didnt want to work. (At a restaurant) I hate my job because 1 no one there is my age except for the waiters/hosts but I never see them because I'm a dishwasher 2 they didnt fully train me so I dont know how to do some stuff and dont know where half the stuff they give me goes and they get mad at me for that 3 they keep making me do other people's jobs that I dont eve. know how to do and get mad at me when I dont know what to do 4 I always have to work 2ish hours later then I'm suppose to Everytime I say I wanna quite my mom bitches at me and says how she wishes she could just come home and play videogames right away but she cant because she has to cook and clean and go shopping when first of all she does cook but my step dad helps or does it him self, and my mom doenst clean or shop every day and when she does I HELP HER and she sits on her *** and watches tv and sleeps as soon as she gets home, she forgets the fact that I have school to worry about and the fact that I do do my homework and study but she thinks I just sit on my *** all day doing nothing when infact I wake up go to school work out do homework, SOMETIMES play games then go to bed almost every week day She was never like this with my brother

so i have 1 brother and 1 sister.but as i grew up , i just feel my parents are more towards my brother than me and my sister. they set his career and bought flat in a city to live , and always talk about his career and success. but they never care about my career or my sister's. they pray to have him success and for me its just get marry and that's it . it doesnt matter how my husband will be or not? when i told my dad about flat , he just told me will ask your husband , i dont understand why my life is all about guy whom i need to depend for rest of my life .why cant they just accept me as my brother?

I'm a 16 year old girl, and I'm just at that point where I just don't want my mom to see me naked, but I'm afraid if I tell her that she'd get all offended or thing I was up to no good. I just don't want someone walking into my room or the bathroom when I'm in there changing or using it, yknow?

Ok so my friend was homeless after she got kicked out of her moms about September 29/2018. She has been staying with me since saying she will get a job but still hasn't. She constantly has attitude and makes me feel unsafe. How should I tell her to leave

Last year his mom had passed away and it was one sister that doesn t like me but I ve never met her in person not even on the phone call his mother and him were very close to me and they always look for me called me and cared about me they didn t allow me to view his mother and now I attended my fiance s funeral but when I got there they close the casket they didn t let me see him even the owner from the funeral home treated me so bad I m traumatizedThey made fake facebook pages and tried to make me think he was cheating. I cried i beged and they laughed. Our relationship was long he was happy with me. Why did they do it. He was head over heels for me and he was my world

I'd just like to point out that I'm a 15 year old girl. I earn my money by mowing lawns, helping my neighbors with simple jobs, I thrift cheap items and then flip them for more money on Poshmark. I don't get allowance nor does any of this money come from my mom. I earn about $400 a month doing this and I put most of my money in a savings box I have in my closet. My mom constantly asks for money for me and me not wanting to get in trouble gives it to her because she promises to pay me back next time she gets paid. She has never paid me back and has taken atleast $800 from me. I feel as if this is completely unfair- and while I have no problem helping out with bills etc the fact that she takes most of my money I earn is rude and ridiculous. What can I say to her? I've brought it up with her and she tries to make me feel guilty or whatever by saying that she raised me and deserves to take the money from me. I'm sorry if this whole question seems jumbled I'm just kind of pissed off right now and just ranting because she just asked me for $150 and I obviously obliged. I can't just say no anymore because she will yell and scream at me until I give it up.

I'm 15 years old and I have 0 friends, none. I do the most pathetic thing, I made fake Instagram accounts with pictures of fake people I found online and I put them to follow me and I even create fake conversations with them just so my parents will think I have friends, I also go out by myself all the time for a walk and I lie and tell my parents I went out with friends, should I just tell them that I have none? this feels bad lying to them.

The living room and kitchen are connected and they're just there all the time whether eating or watching TV til they go to sleep right now I'm so hungry and want some water but I am an introvert and it's just one of those days I dont wana see or socialize and I can just hear them outside and it gets me a lil irritated. I dont wana see them, dont want them to ask me questions or try and talk to me. We are all paying to live here I wish they'd just take the TV to their room and stay in their and let me use the kitchen to make myself something without having to feel weird-____- I'm gona get a bunch of snacks n water to keep in my room. Any other ideas on how to feel less weird when I'm forced to be around others ?? Im antisocial and depressed even going to the store I have to go outside and walk past them i

When I was 14 years old, I was abused by my uncle Thomas (Dad's sister's husband) He also molested my brother. Thomas and his family have helped my parents financially in the past like helping us move. We told our parents right away & we cut communications with them. However, they never called the police but I told a counselor and THEY called the police. Thomas was arrested and ADMITTED to what he did. What happened after this completing traumatized me. Thomas's wife,& other family members came to our house calling me a liar and saying that i was making stuff up. The way they said it to me was horrible. My mom asked them to leave multiple times but they refused to leave my home and kept getting in my face trying to manipulate me into telling the police i was lying. They verbally abused me and my 12 year old brother. They said i was breaking apart their family and it was all my fault. At the time this felt horrible because I was a child. Forward to 2019, I found out my dad got in contact with his family/sister. I'm now 19, I can't tell my dad who to talk to but shouldn't he have some respect for me at least? After all those things she said to me? I do admit I talk bad about her too and my dad gets all defensive when he hears me talk bad about her. He says, 'that's my sister you're talking about! Have some respect. He also says that no matter what, she will always be his sister. Am I wrong for wanting them not to talk? Am I not his child and shouldn't he respect my feelings? I know I'm making my dad sound like a horrible person but I dont think he is. My dad is a very hard worker and has provided for my family all of our lives. We never missed meals and always had a roof over our head. Maybe he's just too nice?

While, you cannot judge another person's heart, I think you CAN judge their character based on their actions/beliefs. This particular question is about my Mother who claims to be a Christian, but whom I believe is not. Based on the following. 1) In public She is nice as pie, but in private bashes gay people, black people, and complains about Her "hard," life. Which is a middle class stay at home Mom to an adult child! 2) She is hateful and causes strife when She's around. 3) She is often negative and angry. 4) She is especially lazy and blames others for Her own sloth. 5) She is openly hateful(in private) rather then welcoming or uunderstanding to people that believe differently than Her. Overall I find Her detestable and unpleasant. Thoughts?