I hate my stepfather he's always a control freak always trying to tell me what to do, and criticize everything i do, I swear mexicans are the worst, I wish trump would deport them all, I told my mon go run to your sp*c go run to him, cause she always sides with him, I will NEVER date a mexican, I will either date an asian or white woman, thats it, and no I'm not a troll I am serious, I can't f*cking stand him

i m 14 and i don t have a job and i feel EXTREMELY bad when i ask my parents for things (btw we aren t rick or poor, i d say average, i think my parents make between 50 and 55 thousand a year not tryna brag tho) i recently started trying to clean around the house to help out cus i feel so bad. i ll ask my dad if i can get something or if i can get something with my own money and he barely says no and sometimes i wish he would because i think about how there s people around the world who don t have the luxuries i do. i also don t whine to get my way, i used to as a child but not anymore. i also have an older brother in college that my parents pay for btw. pls don t just send yes or no in your answers we live in a very rural area so the salary considering my location is pretty average

A grown man and his mother talk like babies and have nicknames for each other. Almost role playing using baby like voices. Both are adults and function well in society but when together they act like toddlers.

It has been really uncomfortable for me to sit in the middle seat of a vehicle for a really long time. It started when I was 6 and riding between my mom and little sister in a Uhaul and the truck had a dead battery. I just remember mom buckling us into our seats, then leaving us in the truck for a few minutes and then yelling and screaming when the truck wouldn't start. I was trapped in the middle and had no way out. I thought I had a good chance to get over it last fall when Mom volunteered to drive a truck full of donated supplies for our church. I agreed to sit in the middle. This turned out to be a horrible mistake. The truck was older than I was expecting and had not been driven in a few weeks. My sister and I had to wait in the truck for over 10 minutes while mom talked to people from church. When my sister noticed I was getting uncomfortable, she started invading my space and pushing my buttons. When Mom finally got in, she had a really hard time getting it started and told me I need to calm down when she noticed I was getting uncomfortable. I also had no personal space riding in the middle between them. It was not a good experience and has made me even more uncomfortable to sit in the middle. I am wondering how I can get more comfortable riding in the middle seat. A friend of moms has offered me a job with his landscaping company this summer and I want to be able to ride in the middle seat of a truck if need be and not be uncomfortable or on edge.

my mom wants everything to go her way. She doesnt care how it affects anyone or if its right or wrong, she wants it her way. When someone tells her shes wrong she walks away and hangs up on you. Whenever i disagree with her (even when i stand up for myself from her bs), she tells me, karma is going to get me one day. **or hangs up on you

so iv been with my fiancee for 6 years now and we were thinking about getting married in 2020 however her parents are moving out of state all the sudden and my parents are alive still as well but my dad is handicap and needs my help from time to time my parents are 60yrs old and my mom also dosnt drive to top things i told her i cant just up and leave because with my dad being handicap now they need alot more help so my finacee tells me shes moving to the same state with her parents even if i dont go and i said so much for working as a team being a unit huh you totally went all selfish and are only thinking of your self now cause any little thing that goes wrong she has to cry to mommy and daddy about / borrow money from them cause she dosnt know how to budget we have no money saved after living together in her parents current home with them cause im always buying everything cause she works 2 part time jobs and sometimes dosnt work for 3 weeks at a time im always told im the bad guy cause i buy her flowers and cook and clean and wash dishs and do the laundry and clean our room also pay for her phone bill and smart watch plan/ pay off her credit card etc............ im tired of it i feel like im being emotionally and mentally abused to cause any time i try to talk about this stuf with her she just blows up and starts to cry and and cusses me out and calls me a looser.............i dont know what to do anymore besides go home get drunk and go to bed ...............

So we recently moved into a nice, small home and my mom put my name on the lease (yes, even though I'm only 17). I decided that since I'll be 18 in about 6 months I should start saving to move out, so I got a job. Mind you, we work at the same place. I, however, have to go to school so I don't get near as much hours as she does. Her income is 2x as high as mine. We don't have a car so shes always making me buy Uber's. She always asks me to buy food, pay bills and now I have to pay her back for doing things a mother should be doing for free (just being honest). Where the main problem for me is , I have to pay $580 a month for braces, yes, by myself. I NEVER ask her to help me, all I need her to do is put the money on her card. What does she do? Spend it. I've been mon He behind on my braces bill because of her. This is gonna **** up my credit, my name on the lease is gonna **** up my credit because she can't keep up with bills... I only have $130 saved right now and a $580 bill coming in a ******* week. & she calls ME selfish. She's driving me crazy, can someone please give me some advice. I love her but she's not giving me much of a chance here. I'm trying to prepare to MOVE OUT. It's like she's trying to trap me here .

So my mom shouts at me for the pettiest things. Here's an example: I have to volunteer the following day for an extra 2 hours, so like any normal teen that has emotions, I got sad and upset (but I only showed it on my face and did not say/talk back to my parents). My mom gives me this huge lecture, compares me to my friends (who are her dream kids she says), and always repeats that she hopes she gets my friends/better son in her next life, and says I am going to rot in hell and repeatedly calls me words like ******* asshole and dumbass. It really makes me want to go to the extent to plan out methods to kill myself. Is this normal for a mom to do?

My parents got divorced when I was 9 years old, up until now he never appeared to be interested in our life's. I'm 16, He came back out of nowhere asking if I wanted to stay with him a couple of weeks, I said I did want to and my mom doesn't really get in the middle, she really wants my dad to share with us. So she was ok with it, I understand that parents have the right to get married again and get their own life right. So I am pretty happy that he wants me to be a part of his life. Anyway, he lives with his girlfriend and she is nice and all. Dude, I swear I could hear those loud bumps in my room at night, is normal. My mom explained it that having sex is natural and ****, but I surely didn't want to hear it every single night. So I asked him to take me back home and I don't want to stay with him anymore. He keeps insisting and I just don't want to tell him. Hey, I just don't want to hear you both ******* every single night so loud. How can I tell him in a non disrespectful way?

My mother passed away two years ago and I lived with a mentally ill brother until he went to a home a year ago. My cousin became representative payee for him and she said his $1,100 monthly goes to the home. I naturally lose my mom's monthly amount of $1,300. I have a brother that lives hours away and he said his plan is to help financially to keep mom's house gone where I live. He will pay property taxes when I ask but I don't like to ask. I don't feel I can afford to keep house. Should I ask my brother for help financially or should I just start selling the house even if he doesn't want me to? This brother is not in mom's will.

I have 2 grandchildren. I retired to care for them. I babysit about 60 hours a week. I live with them so they frequently leave at night to run errands and leave me with the kids. I m getting up at 5 a.m. to accommodate them and working until 5pm and the pay that I get is my bills paid. When i talk about my 2 week vacation a year they are frustrated and say they don t know who will watch the kids.... when tho my vacation is 8 months away. Now they want me to watch them on a weekend night so they can have date night. I very rarely get a thank you and I feel as though i m scrutinized too much. If the housework isn t perfect and dinner isn t made their demeanor is cold towards me. Last night they left to run to the store at 8 (for her bfs beer and cigarettes) and I laid the baby down and when they got home they were angry because she had a wet diaper. I m tired. I want to have a life. I m widowed and would like to find someone to have fun with....a friend or more than a friend. Any advice?

Hi, I have a 23 year old sister who feels entitled to go in my room and use my mirror. She has a mirror in her room, but always barges in to use mine. I tell her to use her own, but she never does. And if I tell my mom about it, she won t do anything about it, or she can t. I never go to her room or use her stuff. I just feel that I am being treated disrespectfully. Is that spoiled behavior? What do you think

I feel really guilty but I didn't want to impose so only made a faint reference to "would love to see him". I got a reply from his mother, traveling with him, in reference to something else and she said "we are going into Manhatten for an hour and then hanging out here till we leave tonight" but she did not say "come see us". So I was afraid of imposing and figured I'd wait. I saw him last in October and will see him next in May at a wedding. Was I wrong and how do I get over the guilt? Was his mother's reference a faint way of saying come see us? His mother is my aunt. I have Asperger's so don't trust my instincts. His mother I saw last weekend but he was only here this week. They are leaving early tomorrow to go back to Fort Worth where they live.

My mom is about 5'5 and almost 200ibs. She is overweight and out of shape. She complains to me nonstop about her "being fat". She literally eats junk food and never works it off. I am pretty fit, workout regularly, and on varsity track as a freshman. But whenever I ask her to diet or workout with me she never is willing. I am just really worried for her health, she has high blood pressure and other conditions too. I am so nervous about telling her why I really need her to work out with me.

When I was shopping yesterday, I stumbled across a camera I liked so much that I decided to buy it. It came with a book on how to load the 35mm film which I bought from Wal*Mart after the store I got that camera from. I was about to put it in for the very first time until my aunt suddenly appeared. "Oh, I'll put them in for you," she started. I tried assuring her, "Uh, it's ok. I got it." "Let me do it!" "I know what I'm doing." "Please!" "No." "Please!" "What part of NO don't you understand?" "Why you won't let me!" "I told you I know how!" "Honey!" "No means no!" "Please" & "No" went on limitless times and she asserted that she put in plenty of rolls in cameras, so I finally gave up arguing against her from exhaustion. Since I was blocked in somewhere, I unwillingly handed both items over. When I tried using my camera, it wouldn't work so I opened its door. The film was loaded totally wrong and it's ruined. I want to let my aunt know that she loaded it incorrectly and now she owes me a new roll but my mom won't let me.

I'm 13 and my older sister is 15. she is constantly making fun of me for everything I do, like she thinks my clothes are ugly or stuff I do is lame and she makes sure that she says that right to my face. I never say anything like that to her. She always talks about me and laughs about me with her friends behind my back. We never talk, even at home unless she wants something from me. outside, she acts like I'm a stranger, as in she never talks to me, and acts really annoyed when I talk to her. We are constantly fighting, or she finds something to be mean to me about, and I have tried talking to my parents but they don't really care and say I'm just being too sensitive. I end up crying in my bed a lot. I've tried talking to her seriously about how I'm feeling but she doesn't care, she thinks I'm being stupid or just exaggerating everything. She's that sort of person who never gets emotional or doesn't care about most stuff. For the past few years she's had this behaviour towards me. It's probably because she thinks she's too cool for me now. Please help!!

Me(18) and my boyfriend(19) of two years want to go on a trip to beach this summer for a week but my parents won't let me, even though we already had sex and I told them that I'll use my own money. They are telling me that they went on a trip without their parents after they got into collage and they won't accept any other kind of mentality, they won't accept that a lot has changed since they were teenagers. Both of them grew up with strict parents, who were not allowing them to even sleep with a person of the opposite sex until they get married. They won't understand that times have changed. My boyfriend is the most caring and sensitive person I've ever met. How can I convince them to let me go? Or what lie should I tell them?

For example, some parents force their kids out of the house at age 18. While other parents have kids who are 25 or older living with them.

I will never understand why my father hate me as a son. He treats differently than my brothers. He will more friendly with my brothers have a conversation. He will started a fight with argument . He will talk about my disability and he will bring up my past mistake in life.

My Step sister caught me making myself throw up. I begged her not to tell anyone she told my stepmom. My stepmom confronted me and wouldn't leave me alone till I told her the truth then she told my dad. I HATE MY STEP SISTER'S GUTS I'M NEVER SPEAKING TO HER AGAIN We had a STUPID FAMILY MEETING I CUSSED MY STEP SISTER OUT THEN I CUSSED MY STEPMOM OUT she just kept telling me that she loves me AND I KEPT YELLING AT HER I SAID MIND YOU OWN BUSINESS WITCH YOU ARE NOT MY MOTHER AND IF YOU WAS MY MOTHER I WOULD HAD COMMITTED SUICIDE AT BIRTH then I CUSSED MY DAD OUT AND Yelled I DON'T YOUR STUPID HELP!! they are talking about putting me in a hospital and making me go to counseling I AM NOT GOING TO SOME QUACK now they are watching every move I make. I'M 15 years old it is my BODY AND I CAN STOP anytime I want my DAD AND THE THING HE IS MARRIED NEED TO MIND THEIR OWN BUSINESS!! now I am going to CUSS MY STEP SISTER OUT AGAIN FOR BETRAYING ME!!!!

My parents found out that my brother who is 23 moved his 20 year old girlfriend into his house with him recently. They have been together for about 4 years. My Parents are extremely upset about this. My dad kept saying he doesn't like this over and over again. He said it's not right. He said he knows my brother is grown and paying his own bills but he still doesn't like it and he's entitled to say his opinion. He said if that girl gets preganant it's going to be a problem. Both my mom and dad are pretty angry about this but my dad seems more angry than my mom. He said my mom would be going ballistic if I moved in with my boyfriend ( which she would, i agree). I remember when i spent only one night with my boyfriend for my birthday and my mom was losing her mind. I'm 26 btw, but i still live at home as i cannot afford to move out. My brother has a much better paying job than i do. My dad said he raised my brother better than this. He said He has no idea how my brother's girlfriends parents allowed that because there's no way it would ever fly with me. My dad was saying how that's a sin against the bible and if something happens to my brother then he is going to you know where. my dad said christians not supposd to shack up. my brother was telling my dad all these reasons for why it was more convienent to live with his girlfriend but my dad said it doesnt matter he still doesnt need to shack up period. Literally every single time my brother comes to visit my dad bringsit up now my parents are trying to force him to get married immediately. My mom said he doesnt have to have a real nice expensive wedding they can get married at the court house. My mom was telling him how he could propose also and where even though my brother wanted to propose in Paris. My brother was agreeing with my parents that he should be married and he said he will propose soon.

Their other grandmother, their mother's mother, died of Alzheimers. The family has four kids, all adults now, and only one went to the funeral. The others stayed back saying they were too busy with work and one was busy with her kids. Is this disloyal and wrong? I could never dream of missing a grandparents' funeral. Was this wrong of them? They did not see this grandmother of theirs a lot (their Mom's mother) and saw the grandmother we share a lot more. However, it is still their grandmother and they still knew her. Would you miss your grandparent's funeral? Is there a moral rule for this?

I feel really guilty but I didn't want to impose so only made a faint reference to "would love to see him". I got a reply from his mother, traveling with him, in reference to something else and she said "we are going into Manhatten for an hour and then hanging out here till we leave tonight" but she did not say "come see us". So I was afraid of imposing and figured I'd wait. I saw him last in October and will see him next in May at a wedding. Was I wrong and how do I get over the guilt? Was his mother's reference a faint way of saying come see us? His mother is my aunt. I have Asperger's so don't trust my instincts. His mother I saw last weekend but he was only here this week. They are leaving early tomorrow to go back to Fort Worth where they live. Anonymous: Not trolling, I am asking as a serious question.

I started smoking because Im tired of all the **** im going yhrough and tired of life thats why I just want to kill myself by smoking I yold my dad that I started smoking and he got mad at me and I told him I wanted to try new things I know it wasnt the right words to express what I was feeling at the moment while we were talking he told me something that got stuck into my mind he told me that if he saw me in the streets he wouldnt help me or even pay attention to me that made me feel bad and I got mad at him for saying that I sometimes feels like he doesnt love me he doesnt show any affection towards me and him saying that shows how truly cold he is towards me I feel hated even by my own father I know smoking isnt right but im doing it for a reason and all im asking for help but he doesnt understand me thats why I just want to die and never wake up if I could trade my life I would do it without a doubt

I have saved up 300 hundred dollars for a pair of boots. My mother did not let me buy them. She said that it was a sin to buy something that expensive. I have been wanting those boots for a while and I saved so that I can get them without injuring my parents' wallet. Please how do I convince them to let me do anything. I feel very limited in anything I do.

So I am dating this girl and she has an amazing dad who cares for her, but her mom (even though she is a nice lady) seems to only want to be around her soon to be third husband, and rarely around her two kids (one is in middle school, my girlfriend and I are first time freshman in college). The times where my girlfriend tries to make plans with her mom it's always the same "I'm with him" or "let me see if he wants too." She seems to never put her kids first anymore. What caught me was when I was helping rearrange her office (she is a principal) she had about 6 or 7 pictures of her and her fiance (up to this point they have only been together for maybe a year) and absolutely none of either one of her kids. Is this normal?

Trying to teach adult stepkid who is a snowflake respect. He got kicked out of apartment and was a fed furloughed employee.Also blocked him from leaving their room all day which cause a lot of screaming bc he wanted to look for another job. I also accidentally froze the pipes because I wanted to save money by not running the water lize the landlord said.Last night the snowflake watched Colbert which is banned in my house so I refused to shut the front all day when it cold and snowing out which caused a lot of fighting. my gf is sick of the fighting She thinks snowflake shouldn't yell. I don't get how they can cold with the door open. I mean we have the heat on.

While being a full time student? I think it's ridiculous but my parents say I'm being immature and ripping the family apart . Sib is 19. Both my parents are only children so don't understand I'm not here to take care of their adult child.

My mom died 3 days ago.. And my car I leave the country channel on 24/7 and when I got back in it I turned it on and the rock channel was on and AC/DC started to play (She loves AC/DC she went to their concerts when she was young) then I sleep with the door closed well two times already I wake up to it open. My grandma and sister said they didn't open it and asked why and there are no drafts in the house (Thank God) lol it's too cold for that and when I close my door it stays shut unless someone opens it... Can this be my mom looking in and checking on me and my daughter?

I am a little upset with my husbands family . His dad is retired and they live 35 min away . They raise one of their grandchildren . They have seen my new baby at birth , thanksgiving and Christmas Eve . We have invited them but either babysitting his sisters kids if they are just busy . We take her over there most the time . I don't understand why they won't come visit at our house sometimes ? She gets scared bc unfamiliar faces . They think she has gas 🙄. I am not sure to be mad ir not , I cannot take her over when my husband works bc he has the car . He works three days on and three off so they only see her on the off day. What should I do about it , I thought they would come around more when they came to the hospital

Hey I'm 18 & have always been an overall responsible daughter. I've good grades (91/100 average), I don't party much, never drink (legal where I live) etc.. I'm basically the kind of kid who reads & does math for fun. Also, my parents are somewhat strict. Anyways...The thing is, I broke up with my boyfriends last friday, I was sad & I asked my mom if we could talk. She was busy (as usual), & said no. So I asked her if I could go sleep at a friends house & just hang out, rant, etc.. She said no. I asked why & she literally said "I'm not going to talk abt it, i'm busy." I was really sad, & needed someone to talk to, so my friend picked me up at my place & I stayed over. I know it was wrong for me to disobey, but I did let my parents know where I was & texted them every so often to let them know I was ok. Got home the next day & was grounded. This is what my punishment looked like: 3 weeks without: going out(nights out). Meeting up with anyone(no friends)not even during the day. Can't use my car...This means I can't workout. I'm a competitive runner & this is a huge bummer bc I have 2 marathons, a 23K, & a couple of shorter distance races coming up in the next 10 months. I can't go to practice. I'm basically locked up. I have stellar grades, never disrespect my parents, clean up my room. Do you think this is fair? I mean I agree with a punishment, I just feel as if its a bit too much? Boyfriend... Typo

My 15th birthday is coming up and I really don't want to do anything for it. I'd be happy for it just to pass like any other day. The idea of having friends come over, or going out to dinner, or having family come over honestly just doesn't sound fun. My mum and dad have both taken days off work despite me saying I really just wanted to stay home and do nothing. My dad is pressuring me to go out, go shopping, have lunch, go to the movies and that honestly sounds awful to me. I don't want attention, I don't want gifts, I don't want to go out and do anything. Why am I like this? The thought of my birthday just brings dread. Honestly what I really want to do on my birthday is be alone in my room and just sleep & watch Netflix. But now that they have taken time off work I guess I'm sort of expected to do SOMETHING. I have tried many times to tell my parents I really don't want to do anything but every time I do they just say well what about if we did this? I feel so bad because I want to be excited and happy on my birthday but I'm just not. I don't want to disappoint my parents. I know it's a bigger deal to them than it is to me and they just want to fuss over me, but is there anyway I could get them to see that I don't want to celebrate my birthday?