Today I got yelled for replying " what," he yelled non stop, but I can't do anything bc im leaving under his roof and I'm 17. He yells everyday, if it too cold he yelled, too hot yelled, can't find something he misplace yell like wtf. Idek what to do anymore. If he sick, the whole house have to be depress with him, he will literally make everyone feel miserable. Even if there is nothing to yell about, he will just find a way to trigger himself

My grandmother is always saying horrible, hurtful, nasty things about me. I'm sick of it. I always give her second chances but not anymore. I know she hates me, and it makes me hate her more. She's 77 this year. Sick and probably doesn't have much years left in her. I'm going to stop this pretense and stop talking to her and going with my family to her home and doing things for her. When she comes over here, I'll leave. I never thought I could hate someone so much. I figure I'll let her live out her last few years, without me. She pretends she enjoys my company. But I don't care. Let her enjoy not me.

My sister said she feels cold she wants me to lay in bed and cuddle with her. We went out to play in the snow that's been a couple hours. I feltbher head she feels a little warm. She said her feet feel kind of cold I don't see how since she has socks on. The house temperature always stays at 70 degrees. What's wrong with her ? Is it wrong to cuddle with her ?

I'll be straightforward, I hate driving, it stresses me out gives me horrible anxiety and overall despise it, I prefer to walk or take the bus. I'm in college and 19 and want to take the bus instead of driving but my parents probably won't let me (safety reasons). How do I convince them that I don't want to drive and would prefer to take public transport instead?

My parents have been separated since my full sis and I were10/6. I'm not close to my dad and gave up having a relationship with him since we are now 24/20 but I have a half little brother (10) and little sister (6) from his second wife that I love but don't know/am not close with. I don't think they're parents will ever let us have a real bond but I want to start sending them things just so they know we love them & are thinking about them. I want to get them something unique because I know they'll already have the latest toys and apple products I just don't know what 10 year old boys or 7 year old girls like these days, all I know is he's into sport and she's a girly girl and loves dance..

My sister is 26 years old she's still a virgin. She says it's wrong because all her friends have had sex even her best friend some even did it in high school which is why now half of them have kids. She has had a couple boyfriends but she's never stayed with one very long. She's back with her ex boyfriend she hopes they stay together. Is it bad she's still a virgin at this age ?

So, my brother has a Samsung phone. And recently o deleted his stuff off it not knowing it was important stuff. And he s got extreme anger issues and if he finds out he ll most likely kick my ***. Should I tell him or should I find an excuse? Because when I mean he ll kick my ***. He ll literally abuse me. And I m actually a disabled person. Which may make it worse. Because I don t know if its actually right to beat up a disabled person. Maybe someone can help me out here.

Im recently divorced, i have 3 children ages 6 2 and 4 months. When i gave birth something happened to my back, ive been in so much pain i cant carry my baby so ive lost my job and had to move in with my mom. The issue is my ex was abusive and my 2 yo looks just like him and my mother hates him. Shes constantly screaming at him over every little thing, and hes two, he acts up. If it was just him and i i would move into a shelter but its not its me a disabled 6 year old him and a newborn and im disabled atm. I dont know what to do but this is making me sick. I try to defend him but she just goes off more and it makes things worse for him. She is emotinally abusive to him and i and i know i need to get out. Its not right for my 2 year old to be cursed, screamed at, and grounded to his room for weeks at a time just for talking back. Im not sure where to go i have no money and i cant get a job rn im trying to get my health in order, i get no money from the father or state.

My mother passed away 3 years ago and my brother that lives 5 hours away said he wants to keep the house and can help financially. I was living with a mentally ill brother until he went to a group home a year ago. When my away brother and I were going to a restaurant when we were driving in there he said is this where your new apartment is? He knows I live in moms house. When he said something about the apartment is he hinting that he thinks I should move to one?

I wonder if I can just tell the baby dad that I'm pretty sure it's someone else's baby to keep myself and the baby safe. The baby dad and his whole family are NUTS. Now if he ended up taking me to court I wouldn't lie about him being the father obviously. But it just wouldn't be a good situation to let my baby grow up with him being the father and being around him and his family. Help please

My little sister had some young adult men rev their engine at her a yell out that question. What does this mean? Did they call her fat? Or make a crude remark about her big butt. She is very self conscious now

Im 32 and my older siblings all have families of their own. Even their children are having families and ive stayed the same. I have no partner and i live at home. Society kinda hates me. I know wat my future is, taking care of my elderly parents. I dont wanna aspire to anything cause at 32 society believes ur too old. Its getting scary to think i know my future and probably death.

Hi, me and my sister were having an argument with each other in the car. She pulled over and kicked me out of her car. Me and my sister were never close when we were younger, then recently we've haven't been arguing for years, till this incident happened. I went to walk home from work and I called my mom to pick me up, 5 times, then I decided to walk home. Anyway, my mom thought I was kidnapped for some reason and my sister was driving. She told me that my mom was going to call the police. And I asked my mom, why did my sister had to come? Then she had pulled over. I told her that she is not my sister. I think I meant it. I still want to cut ties with her. She has hurt me so much so often in the past, but the thing is that I still think about her. I really don't want her in my life. It happened 3 days ago. So I want to pretend that she doesn't exist to me. Am i a terrible person?

I live with my Dad and so does two of my other siblings. I help my sister with her kids in the morning, I work evening shift. Everyone in the house work mornings. My dad expects for me to do the cooking and cleaning because I'm there in the mornings. I get of late so I sleep in. I used to clean and cook but no one else would and it would get right back dirty. I'm the only one that pays rent but I hate cooking. I'm buying a home soon. But I don't think it's fair. They mess up all day, I get home at night it's a mess and I'm suppose to clean it? I literally stay in my room when I am home. Am I wrong?

I'm 18f. My step-siblings, one 39m the other 41f told me that they hate me. The older one actually told me that she wishes she wasn't my step sibling and never wants to talk to me. She said this for no reason. Our parents have been married for six months and all they do is treat me like sh*t. Whenever they come over, they'll check my room to see if I'm keeping it clean enough. They're always asking my mom and my stepfather if I'm doing my chores or if I'm behaving well enough or if I'm doing my studies. They're always looking for something to blame me for. What makes it so hypocritical is that when they were my age, they both did jail time and a lot of crimes. I'm sick of it. What should I do?

When is the proper term for when my parents were separated? Is it before or after I was born?

My mom has always been a secretive person for as long as I've known her. My siblings have never asked but she's never told us anything about our father. She gets out of work but doesn't come home until 1 or later in the morning drunk and sometimes doesn't come home at all. She tells us absolutely nothing about her life. If were ask her where she's going she won't tell us and we know there's no point in asking. we also all have a gps locator on our iphones but she turns hers off after she leaves work. I understand that because all my siblings are older (the youngest is 17), she may feel like she's free to do what she wants pero, we worry for her and what couldve happened to her when she doesn't come home. We don't have to know everything pero, a simple name of who she's going out with would be nice. im afraid if something happens to her once night we wont know. Shes been a great mom but we don't know much about her.

And? I wonder who's fault that is that i have social anxiety and don't make friends? Couldn't be hers right? She didn't toss me in daycare and at the hands of other strangers and spend barely any time raising me right? I guess when you do that, you can convince yourself your children's problems are not your doing.

i've always thought babies were ugly.

My dad says the N word, hes white and also hes said it around me before, he says if i get low marks in english then im going to be homeless....? and he said im gonna live in a "project??" and then he said only n------ live there...? (he only said this because my english teacher is a pathological liar) he hates people with tattoos, dyed hair, and piercings (he will literally make fun of them when hes driving..) he yells at me and my mom over the littlest things.. and he always says things that make me feel bad about my self..? he gets mad if i get a C in science class...and i remember him hitting me but this was only once and it was because i hit my mom but i was very young ... im just wondering why does he act like this..? its horrible..at least in my opinion ..btw if it helps im a 13 year old female..

Im a senior in high school and I am going through somewhat of a rough patch. You see, I already am mentally out of high school but I am still technically a student. I never feel like going to school or doing really much of anything for that matter. My parents keep saying "its too early for this." They get really mad when I slip up or miss a class and my mom yells at me. Because I get upset, I drink. I just cannot imagine myself taking her yelling sober, I am just sick of it and want to live somewhere else. What should I do? Is it bad that I use liquor to deal with stuff? When I drink, im not worried about the mean stuff my mom says to me. I just see it as the only way right now. I get that its "bad" for you but why is that? I mean other than the fact that it has calories which can make you gain weight, why is it bad to go through a few month phase of drinking heavily ?

Myself. I'm 18 and my sister is 25. She constantly puts me down and calls me every bad word ylu could think of. She also speaks to my mom disrespectful in front of her and without her. She calls her the b word when my mom annoys her. She has severe anger issues, and once even called two people the n words and said they couldn't drive. Today she called me a retard and I told her not to call me that again or I would get up. She came up to my face and called me it again. When she walked away I picked up my phone and threw it at her hip. I then calmed down but she started hurting me and I pushed her off and my mom was able to separate us.t? am usually very calm mannered and have never been in a fight. Today was the first day I lost control of myself. I am not making excuses, I know I shouldn't have thrown something at her but at the same time I feel like it is best for me To not have someone in my life that constantly puts me down. Am I wrong? Be brutally honest please

I'm a 36 years old woman. My mother died in a car crash when I was three years old, so my father raised me alone. I loved him, but he was cold and emotionally unavailable with me, a very strict and authoritarian man. I don't remember one instance where he told me that he loved me. He always wanted me to be perfect in everything. He pressured me to get perfect grades, he pressured me to study Law, which I didn't want to, but had to do it nevertheless since he was holding financial control over me. I eventually dropped out of college and got a job as a tattoo artist. He hated it. Also, I'm a lesbian and he hated it even more. He hated my lifestyle. We had a huge fight once, he told me that he didn't want a daughter like me. I told him to burn in hell and that was the last time I've seen or spoken to him. I missed him and regretted my words, but he didn't make any attempts to get in touch. Yesterday I got the news that he died from lung cancer. I learned that he left me all his estate. And I'm still not sure how to feel about all this. I'm not sure whether I want to attend his funeral or not. Is this okay?