Im 23. Successful. Happily married with two kids. Yet i feel like something is missing. I have been having conflicted feeling on what i want to do vs what is better for my family. If ya'll got advice, i'd appreciate it

He has love bombed and discarded so many women. He's 39 and the longest relationship he had was for 7 months. On average he goes through about 5-6 women a year as his primary sources with dozens of other women he chats up on Facebook, at work, at the gym etc.When he was dating his primary partner he would still follow pornstars, cam girls, suicide girls, calendar girls, fitness/bikini models and bondage accounts on instagram. He was following like 3,000 accounts of women at one point when he was seeing me. He met a 22 year old girl last year and he has really broken out of his cycle He unfollowed every single account on instagram unless it was people he knew in person, he went from nearly 3000 to about 400. He stopped following new women all together. Even if a female co-worker added him he wouldn't follow her back. He took the 20 year old on a vacation to Hawaii. He bought her lavish gifts, met her friends and family. He moved in with her, cooked her dinners, bought her flowers, paid her bills. If she told him to do something he did it. He even gave his Facebook password to her. She's young and insecure so she argues with him a lot, she's broken up with him, slandered him on FB, made jokes to friends about his dick size etc. She's even kicked him out of their apartment that he pays the rent for and he always begs for her back. It's been a year and a half now and he has gone to great lengths to keep her around. Even as far as dedicating songs to her on his FB page. She has left him and he's become depressed, he quit his job, he stopped talking to people. It's as if he actually has feelings now. He even told one of our mutual friends that he will ask her to marry him and sell his car to buy her an engagement ring because he cant lose her. I was one of his victims and he ruined my life as he did to many other women. We have a lot of mutual friends in the same friend group that told me all this. Has he actually changed? He has never chased a woman before ever. Whenever someone has left him he doesn't chase her. I've known him for 12 years and never seen it happen until he met this girl.

My wife cries when we make love or sex. Why does she cry ? How can I comfort her ?

My wife is obsessed with her favorite show she has a crush on one of the actors she said he reminds her of me in a way he kind of does look like me. She had a bad dream that I was that guy I was kissing one of the girls on the show that I was cheating on her. She's really upset and scared right now she can't get back to sleep also she's 4 1/2 months pregnant with our son. She's worried about me leaving or something happening to me. How can I comfort her ?

He said it's because I got fatter after I gave birth to our son. I need some motivation to lose weight so I can ditch him. I hate him now.

Just blondes with blue eyes tend to be the exception to the rule.

we are in honey moon, i am 16 (christian), in egypt. i had to marry him (i never loved him), because he kept on following me, he is my fathers boss so i didnt want my father to get fired. my parents begged me to marry him and i said yes. he is 31 years older than me. he raped me in my first night. i was a virgin so i was scared. he was impatient, instead of waiting he just started grabbing me and did what he did. after that night i became more scared of him and in every other night i will just get scared and when he sees how i am he just gets mad and attacks me. we were married for 10 days, he wants sex almost 3 times a die i am scared.......... what should i do? @pearlmar i am serious please @Rick he does have one, he used to meet her before we got married (i dont know if he still meets her) but he also wants me. yes i can try to divorce him but he will give them money so they will reject the divorce/will not give me divorce or he will force me, fire my father even if i said no at that time they would have forced me and the pain would have been greater. when they were begging me they told me to make my decision, its better for me to say than to make them force me, because my only destiny is marrying him. money works here, police will not do anything great against the person who has money.

At time of purchase husband worked and I was 8 months pregnant with our second daughter. Im a stay at home mom at time. He says since morgage is under his name house belongs to him and if i dont like how he is and dont want to be with him I can leave his house. Its been very dificult the last 3yrs. Trying to hold things together for our daughter. But its not working out at all. I cannot keep taking verbal or emotional abuse anymore. Please help.

the type of woman who stays home and take care of the kids..... she likes to cook. @hotstuff: "MOST women are like this. They don't want to "work..""---- really..... my sister is a career lady and she works like **** all the time.

Me and my wife have a daughter who's 3 weeks old we had sex one time since we brought her home. My wife has postpartum depression after having her she's also been acting strange. She's been very moody she's been getting sick at every little thing. We go to my house sometimes for dinner on Sundays we have a big family dinner we're there now we were eating chicken my brother asked my mom if there's any more chicken breast she about got sick when he said that. The other night she about threw up it was about 2 in the morning. She was never moody or tired or sick when she was pregnant she did just fine the only time she's emotional is if I have to leave for work. She feels warm she said she's cold the house is always 70 degress. I guess we're gonna stay here tonight since she's not feeling well she's getting in the shower it's only 5:30. Normally we wait till 6 or 7 to shower. Could she be pregnant again ? What's wrong with her ?

That the only reason this notion exists is because Bitchez who have tricked a guy into providing resources, either for the provision of children or acquisition of status, knowingly restrict sexual access to the guy. The guy committed for the reasons of sexual access. When Bitchez reach 40, they realize that there are younger more alluring Bitchez to trick away the resources they acquired, and become paranoid that their man will seek out the sexual activity he's been desiring from some young, sweeter pieceofass. That's entirely more true than some other stupid explanation, as there is absolutely no rational reason why Bitchez reach some natural sexual prime in they 40s. It is stupid to even suggest it.

We were really good friends at work then she moved to another building within our company. So now it's just an email here an there to say hi. She has walls up and can be hard to talk too. The husband is the one who wanted out. I've always liked her and know she's going through a very difficult time

My wife calls me daddy when we have sex. Why does she do this ?

I hate being married!!! I can't go to sleep early without getting woken up when husband gets in bed. I get woken up anytime he goes to use the bathroom. He wakes up early and insists on using a loud alarm. I get yelled at to help do things when he is the one who started them. I will do them when I need to. I rarely get time to do things that I enjoy. I feel like I have no free time for myself! I don't understand why anyone would want to give up their freedom and get married! Now I know. I work full-time and have a stay at home husband. Stupid of me. Stupid. Augh. Before I was married, I couldn't wait to be married. Now - I envy my single friends. When I was single, I had a lot more money and freedom. I've only been getting less than 6 hours of sleep.

She has a cousin who's married and they show their affection a lot on social media. Like they take it to another level. They go out every Friday, they have professional photographers take romantic pictures of them, they renew their vows annually, she posts shirtless pictures of him because he's buff, he buys her expensive things, they have a nice house, they travel a lot. My wife sees this and says I should be like him but they're younger than us, they can actually afford to do these things and just cause they look perfect doesn't mean they don't have problems. Her husband told me they go to marriage counseling regularly. They may be in love but they have problems too.

If a divorced man dates a divorced women, and enjoy each other etc. Then they decide to marry; would that make a successful marriage due to similar experiences ?

We have 2 toddlers and 1 on the way. I think she is moody and mean while she thinks I ignore her and don't want anything to do with her. We have been through a lot this past year or so. We have had financial and health issues. I think we may see the light, however. I have been focusing so much on the financial and health issues and it's been wearing me out. I care about her and I want to be the best husband that I can. However she is mean to me and she thinks I don't want anything to do with her. It's tough. Not sure what to do

I've been dating a man who has been widowed for almost a year. He is 62 and I am 45. He and his wife did not have any children together. But she has a daughter that he raised as his own. We've talked about marriage and getting engaged. But, we stumbled on the conversation of death and last night he told me that he definitely wants to be cremated and he has already TOLD HIS DAUGHTER. The deceased wife was also cremated so I am assuming this are plans they made together. This entire conversation left me feeling some kind of way. How can he be seriously considering marrying me yet when he dies his daughter will come in and do as she pleases? Is this how things are generally handled? Please help!

Ok, so my wife has been acting very strange lately. She's avoiding me, she won't talk to me and if we are in the same room she just says "Ugh" like she's disgusted with my presence. Then she is totally normal and all over me. I thought at first her problem was that she was just pissed at me because I have been at work a lot lately, but everytime I get back home I try to help her out with our kids. Is always work, kids and house shores, I thought well she might be a little cranky because we haven't had any us time lately. So, I called my mom and ask her if you could babysit our kids for just one night. She was happy to say yes cause she loves my kids. Anyway, I called for a free day and I took her to a nice dinner out, we then watched a movie and head back home, she looked very strange and then she started being all over me and sure why not, she's my wife, kids aren't home, why not? We started and in the middle of it she pushed me off and said "I can't do this." I am thinking about having a long conversation with her later when she calms down a little or not to, what is she doesn't like me anymore and wants a divorce, I'm freaking out, any advice?

My fiancé and I don't live together but he only texts during the week. In the beginning he would talk to me on the phone for hrs. Now he says he hates talking on the phone. Every weekend he goes to his guy friend's house while I work Sat/Sun. He does not call me or text. He only texts if I text first. I have talked to him about this but he says nothing he does is good enough, and plays victim. I get so frustrated. For example we talked yesterday at 2pm after I called. I have not heard from him since. I work until 12am and he didn't call or check up on me to make sure I got home safe. Should I leave him....what's the best way to slowly wean yourself off of a man you've been with for 7 yrs and he took my virginity.......it's hard to let go but I know I have to in order to keep my sanity The only people who call me to make sure I am ok are my Dad and his gf. They truly car about me. They call me sometimes when I am driving home to make sure I am awake. My fiancé does not.

We are still living together but this marriage is toxic. She becomes violent when angry enough. She makes decisions without consulting me. Her communication skills are non existent. I lost a lot marrying her and moving to her country. Now I just want to go back to USA but I have no where to go and little money to start over.

I've been together with my wife for 9 years, married 4 of them. She is from another country. The other day we sat down, she had tears in her eyes and said that she need to focus on herself only. She also proceeded to tell me to stop hugging/kissing her and not expect anything from her. After some talk, I got the "I care about you, but I don't feel the same as I used to" speech. Our arguments always is about how I ruined her life, that I killed her dreams and that it's my fault that she reacts with physical attacks sometimes. Everything is basically my fault. She says she need space to find a job, and we'll see "what happens" after that. I stood my ground, told her that no one forced her to move here, and that she is responsible for her own choices in life. She refuses to go back to her home country, even if she says that she had a better life there. After confiding in a friend, he ended up showing me her tinder profile. She sits on her phone all day. I'm starting to read between the lines, and has a gut feeling that something is not right. I'm tired of being at fault for everything, living in a loveless marriage and not knowing what who I married is up to. Any advice?

Particularly in the western world. "Oh I'll be sleeping on the couch tonight" you'll hear these men say. Or "I can't hang tonight...my wife won't let me". What is this almost prideful attitude that men have in their wife wearing the pants in the relationship?

What will he think?