My fiancés mom has epilepsy and as a result my fiancé has it but only small side effects. He gets the headaches and sometimes will have a seizure. When he has these headaches he talks real funny. Yesterday he called me by his sisters name then said their was too much water around him. Today he tells me during his break at work that he couldnt remember what the room he was in was called (its a breakroom) then tells me its loud because of many "dead people" behind him. He needs to get a refill of the headache medicine his doctor gave him but for some reason keeps putting it off. Next time I see him i will make him call the doctor to get a refill. I am going to be his wife I have to act like one. How can I get him to stop lying about having a headache? He tells me he wants to tell me but he gets upset that he would put me in a position where i would "worry too much". I keep telling him "dont be afraid to tell me when you are not feeling well". Then for feeling bad his solution is to buy me a gift... he doesnt need to get me so many gifts. I care for him and want him to know i am here for him etc but it doesnt seem to get through to him. I am not leaving him so thats not an option. I just want him to stop being so afraid. He was close to 300lbs when i met him and now is 247lbs last time he weigh himself(he is 6'1) so i am not sure if weight has any factor. He is going to be 27 years old. What can I do? I keep trying my best

I've gone a couple dates with this girl. I really like her. I think she's really sexy I think she's smart loyal etc. I know she's the one. But I don't want to have sex with her. I'm tempted to try but I'd rather abstain to show her I care for her for more than just her body. I don't want to objectify her. I want to do things right with her. I want her around my family. It's not that I don't want to do it because she wears a lot of revealing clothes but I know she's mine and I don't want to rush it. I want us to be positive examples

Asking a girl I'm dating to watch her language. I don't like nasty words

My boyfriend drinks a lot. He typically has 2 bottles of wine every night but recently he has been trying to be better and not drink as much. Last night he was at work and he was on a work break and he asked me to buy him 4 bottles of wine. I told him no that buying him wine wasn't my job. He got defensive and told me that he wasn't going to drink all of the wine that night but I still thought it was ridiculous that he wanted me to buy all of that wine. After work I was supposed to meet him at his place after work. I was waiting for him in the parking lot for 30 minutes because he went off and bought 6 bottles of wine to spite me. I got extremely angry and drove home and then he got extremely drunk to spite me more. Is this a sign of a toxic relationship?

My mom is my very best friend. Her and I have been through everything together. However, this past year when school started (im 17, turning 18 this year) I was dealing with finding a way to manage school, work, friends, family, and a boyfriend. My mom lets me spend time with my boyfriend and I work 4 days a week after school, she isn t strict. However, she guilt trips me constantly by saying im never home or i never spend time with her. I work 4 days a week, go to school from 8-3pm, and still try to keep my grades up, spend time with my friends, AND spend time with my boyfriend. I only have 3 off days so during those I am trying to cram in all of those things. but it still is not good enough for my mom. if i hang out with her on say monday and then work on tuesday and wednesday, then ask to see my boyfriend thursday she will let me, but she still will say but you are never home i miss you you dont spend time with me, even though i spent my whole afternoon monday with her and see her in the mornings before school and text her like ALL day and tell her everything. It is too the point I feel like i need to break up with my boyfriend just to spend more time with her. Idk what to do i feel so lost and she doesnt ever see it from my point of view.

Women who steal their children's child support money while Grandma raises the kids; while simultaneously and intentionally alienating the biological father from his kids...what are the courts doing about them? I know a man goes to ******* jail for not paying, so why doesn't he have access to an account balance for that support money to see how it's being used on?

This is driving me crazy because it is so hard to read my husband. In the past, he has said that he doesn't want any more children but recently he has agreed to having one when I mentioned it. We have no children together. He has 3 girls from a previous marriage and I have 1 girl from a previous marriage(All over the age of 8). We would like to do gender selection to ensure that we have a boy. When I mention it, his answers are really short and he doesn't seem excited about it at all. I even asked does he think we should schedule a consultation and then go ahead and start on the process or just schedule a consultation to find out about the procedure and wait to start the process. He chose the second option. But before when I told him if I'm moving too fast or if he felt like he wasn't ready to let me know, he said okay, he would. I am so confused and frustrated because if he doesn't, it's pretty selfish to drag me along knowing that I want another kid, and this has been a 7 year relationship. What should I do?

I have written letters to her justifying what I want and how much our friendship means. But want to wait till after college and take that challenge known as the second step of friendship. Well all jokes aside, these past 2-3 years we traveled hungout and I've made her food. We don't talk everyday since I feel that can really become annoying and I could lose my welcome. I was told women don't change their minds once they say no. But, from what I've noticed the nos and turning into maybes and yes. Can someone help me understand? Do I have a chance? I understand time will tell. But, I'm really interested from another persons point of view if I have a chance. Also if there is any extra advice I can be given to make it a bit easier on myself let me know. Thanks