My best friend since kindergarten is getting married in March. This is very last minute, as they got engaged on New Years Eve. (They've been dating two years). The thing is Callie has been dreaming of a big wedding since she was a little girl. She was putting away money since she started working to pay for a wedding because her family didn't have a lot of money. As late as Christmas she was buying brides magazines. She knew what kind of dress she wanted, what her colors would be, and what kind of flowers she wanted. She even had a wedding reception playlist. Then she asked me to be her brides maid and I said that even though it was only 3 months away, we could still have a great wedding. Then she said that it was just going to be very small wedding, with just the family and me. No brides' maids, no groomsmen. No flowers, no music, and the reception will be a dinner at a nice restaurant. I asked her what happened because she wanted the prefect princess wedding. She just said that he "convinced" her that a smaller wedding would be better. But the way she said it made me sure that she wasn't convinced at all, that she was giving in to what he wanted? I'm sure that he doesn't hurt her. He is all and all a nice guy. But he is very, very tight with money. (OK he's cheap). She's not even getting a wedding gown, just a white dress from off the rack at Macy's. All he has to do is show up? So why would he "convince" her to give up her dream?

Is there anything I can do? The 2 places I use it are sort of in valleys. The phone will allow me to program music but I don't know how. Thanks

This happenes a few months ago, my girlfriend came to greet me before I would embark for about 2 months on a ship. She was upset the whole time and didn't say much. At the very last moment she started crying, but crying like a baby and hugged me so tight and didn't want to let me, begged me not to go, and was physically trying to not let go of the hug. I am physically dtronger and taller ghan her but she put such a string grip on my back I can never forget it. When I came back she was nostalgic about me and depressed and said she felt lonely and hopeless without me. I think her depression is making hard for me to work without feeling at fault. I can never forget that episode. What did it mean? She was afraid of missing me or she desperately needed me? Did she feel abandoned when I had to go?