So, I have this friend and we'll be talking and ill say something and she'll just decide to hit me on the head or on the face because what I said was dumb or something.Ive experienced this before with another friend who would always hit me and I don't get why everyone things I'm some doll that they can just hit around anyways when I would bring it up and tell her to stop hitting me she'll just say you deserve it and she doesn't hit any of her other friends from what I see. She'll also call me stupid and dumb when I do things or don't know things.She also thinks I'm her slave and will do anything she wants. One time in class we were doing the simplest question and I got it but she said I was wrong when it was not a hard question and called me stupid.I wanna stay away from her but we are partners in a group and I don't just wanna stop being her partner because then ill be alone.Also if I stop hanging out with her ill have no one to hang out with. Any advice? Thanks

Currently, my best friend is ignoring me for some internet guy she plays video games. I think she likes him or something even though she knows basically only his first name. I've "met" him before and he just seems like an attention hungry teenager, he came across as very annoying but that's just from my experience so idk if he is always like that. Anyways, yesterday she told me about him sort of "flirting" with her and was acting like it was super serious or something. Now, I love her, but.. she was being really dramatic about it. I think she just blew it way out of proportion and i tried to gently let her know, but all of the sudden she just started ignoring me. I knew she was online, but she was ignoring me regardless. It wasn't like I said "Lol no way anyone could like you" or something, i was just trying to get her to realize that it's some random online guy, and that she really has NO clue how old he even is. He could literally be 10 or 40, she has no clue. Later on that same day, while she was STILL ignoring me, I found her online, with him again. She has sort of done this before, ignoring me for an internet guy... and I just don't get why. No matter who I'm with I would never ignore her for them, and it kind of hurts that she will do this to me when it comes to boys. What should I do? I want her to stop ignoring me... Susie, I'm not, don't you see the point im trying to make? There is some random guy, who is apparently flirting with her, who hardly knows her, hides most of his personal information, and is on a game that many kids play. As her best friend, yes, I am very concerned, her parents don't know about this either.

Im a dude, and i was involved in some work drama. i was friends with this girl Veronica from work. She was super nice and she had an amazing peraonality. Everyone even noticed she would flirt with me, but i knew nothing would happen because she was happily married. 2 specific coworkers didn't like us, so alot of drama began happening at work. So our supervisors asked me and my friend Veronica to stop talking. I was even removed from her department, but i still needed to go to Veronica's department once a week to get papers. Later more and more workers began reporting Veronica ( i dont know what the reports were off) but everyone on our floor knew i liked Veronica. And since she was good friends with me, on of the supervisors kept asking her "if your married why do you still let another guy who likes you come and talk to you" even tho me and Veronica were not allowed to talk, we still talked when nobody was watching. She kept telling me her job was in Jeopardy. i trusted her, So for Christmas i bought her a gift card. Later she sent my supervisor and email saying " that she feels uncomfortable coming to work because she keeps getting dirty looks. She said that my precense is threarening her at work.. she also mentioned that i gave her a Christmas gift." Soo im suspended for 2 days. Why did she have to mention i bought her a gift?????? Why did she betray me??????? She even told my supervisor that i still go to her department

My friend has been bumming off me. He expects money and expects me to give it to him. He also super rude. He doesn't show no love for my effort in letting him use money. And if I need it back he can't give it back because he's 'broke'. There was once I offered to buy him a burger and I told him ONLY one but he still included 2 extra ******* burgers. It's weird cause he use to have a lot of friends, but I found out everyone stopped talking and hanging out with him because he was bumming off them too. So he's basically known as a bum which is embarrassing. Is it an appropriate response to ghost him? He's an ugly person inside and I really don't want toxic in my life. It's not like I'd ever hang out with him again anyway. **** that. Do I have to even explain to him why I'm cutting him off or is ghosting okay?

Basically we've watched porn and jerked off on opposite sides of the room in the dark. We are both straight (as far as I know) and I'd like to see his dick because I'm curious about my size. How do I ask him to do it in the open or is there a tactic I can use?

Ok I had many friends at Euclid and my dad although thinks the kids are bad there but the thing is I hate these 2 people at there this first kid was name Jamari he would always beg for me to buy him stuff so I bought him 1 thing and I thought he would leave me alone the sending day but it didn't and I would snitch but I ain't no snitch so yea now the the second kid is demarco he would always start **** would me and his friends although he would always try and play fight me I would but I think I would get in trouble so I didn't now on the other hand at my current Cleveland central catholic it's just full of bad kids the kids there would disrespect the teachers and get kicked out already 6 or 7 kids got kicked out while at Euclid there were only 2 or 3 so it wasn't that bad at Euclid and looking back I miss my friends at Euclid it's kinda not the same anymore as it used to be so I was thinking should I come back or stay at my new school

I'm a junior in high school. I decided to have a friends with benefits relationship with someone I thought was a friend. One thing lead to another and he had sex. It was only once. This happened about a week ago. After that I went back to acting like normal which was the agreement. But he started ignoring me and acting strange. We agreed that we would keep this to ourselves but he would constantly talk about what happened to others when he knew I was in the area. Soon I said I did not like how he was treating me and said that we should stay away from each other for the time being. He just blocked me after that. He started spreading rumors saying I would have sex with anyone and that I begged him for sex. I acted mature and ignored it. All of today people have been pointing at me and most of my friends have left me for his side because we have mutual friends. But today I learned he has been telling others that he has video of us having sex which I did not consent to. A few people have come up to me and told me that he is offering to show people it. We are both minors and I'm scared. I don't know if the police could do anything about this but I want it to stop. I'm the new kid at school and I don't want to move schools again. Plus I'm scared to tell my parents. What should I do. I need help! I feel so gross.

was bullied from K-12 and a little bit in community college. When I started my first job a few months ago, I thought everyone was cool with me but then I find out that almost all of them went to a party without me, even one of the other newer employees. I've never been to a party in my life and I'm almost 20. And they have a Snapchat group without me that they talk about all the time in front of me. I asked one of them when they were talking about it and he was like we added you before but then you left. I asked if he can add me and he was like idk how but ask this other guy (I was close with other guy). I texted him asking if he can add me and he left me on read. I don't get why people don't like me. I have tickets to a concert but I have no one to go with so I might have to sell them. Being a girl my parents aren't going to let me go by myself. Yeah my parents are strict:( I wanted to go to the beach by myself but they wouldn't let me. I want to do all of the things I want to do and actually hang out with people but people not liking me makes it not possible:( @jayden ur missing the whole point I don't have friends to go with...

so is it ok to miss someone so much if they are your friend and your cm (church mom)

sometimes it's better to be invisible. i moved because i couldnt make friends and i was miserable and i kept refusing to go to school but now ive only been to this new school for a day and i cant stand it anymore. ive never felt so mentally exhausted in my life. theres only 7 people in the whole middle school so everyones constantly watching me because im new and i get homework from each subject every day, as well as it being exam week. im so tired and i feel like a brat for hating it despite me and my mum moving because of me.

They are two guys i knew but they were not my friends I spoke couple of times with both of them at messenger but still dont know them well I have gone for a coffee once with the one I think that just mean that all of us can hang out together and have fun like friends but i did not like the phrase"if you are open to suggestion

I find it pretty sad that at my age (a 25 year old woman) I'm still asking this. This is something I feel I should have moved on from a long time ago. I'm only asking because I'm frustrated with my life. I had a bad experience regarding other women with a dance studio. I didn't fit in, but I won't go into detail. I never did anything wrong to some of those ladies, but two of them didn't like me for unexplained reasons. I feel like I'm only bitter because that meant I would have to start all over with being social (I hate starting over). My mother & godmother would tell me that some of the women are being jealous, but I don't care. If anything, their dismissive behavior towards me only influenced me feel jealous of other women myself who are happy with their groups of true friends, while some of my friends abandoned me years ago. All I want is to find true people who like me for me, but it's difficult to find. I want to start over MS/HS by not being an easy target for bullying and social rejection so I can still be friends with the people I went to school with. It seems to me that everyone my age is already set with their friends & they don't want to initiate contact with new people. That's why I would sell my soul to the devil to redo those days. People talk about how the "popular" kids turn out to be losers, but I don't care. Despite some of them not being that successful, I see a lot of them still being friends with people from HS & being much happier than I am.

I m afraid of people from my past seeing me with my new friends and people from my past interacting with my new friends. I don t like the people from my past and don t want them to be friends with my new friends. It bothers me. I can t stand them being friends and being something more would kill me. Although the chances of all these happening is quite unlikely it still bothers me. I can t stand any connection between the people in my life now and people from the past.

Last week my life went into a tail spin. I found myself without a car and no one to help me. A complete stranger asked if she could give me a ride home (not that far for her) and I agreed. Since that day last week, we developed a friendship and a ride arrangement. She has agreed to pick me up daily and drop me off daily to work. I pay her for her services however, just fyi. She is currently off work for several weeks, so this just happened to work out. Yesterday she told me that she is leaving to help her sister out of town this weekend, and she has agreed to lend me her car during this period of about 3 days. I couldnt believe it when she told me since I have only known her 1 week. Also, she knows my living situation isnt the greatest, and has also offered up her home to me and asked if i wanted to stay with her. Again, I haven t even known her 1 full week yet (only 5 days!). I believe in my heart that her intentions are good, but I find it strange that she is helping me so much so quickly. Am I right to wonder why she is doing all of this so quickly? Btw, I am a woman, and she is a woman. This is only a platonic female to female friendship. Just wanted to make that very clear also

i love my friends to death but sometimes i feel like they r holding me back from having fun. there has been several times when i have suggested something a little rebellious and fun and they have cancelled or said no to doing it so i can't do it either. trust me they r good friends sd but i feel like i am missing a connection with someone to be my fun self. i don't go out a lot or go to parties and feel like i'm missing out ( i am in high school btw). what should i do? how do i find a fun friend?

Okay so I am sixteen, my birthday is in March 2002. In June 2016, I went to a summer camp where I discovered that I was gay, like into other dudes. It was a struggle for me because it was a religious camp and my parents are religious and whatnot. At this camp I met a girl who was very nice. One day she was crying and I asked her why; it was because these mean boys called her fat which she wasn't. I felt bad, but I had my own sh!t to struggle with since a lot of those boys called me a ****** and said I was going to hell, and I didn't know how to reply so we just drifted apart after that. We saw each other one more time and it was just awkward, it was in June 2016. I hadn't thought about her for nearly three years until this week, where she randomly popped into my head for some reason. I started to feel super guilty about it all, and I really want to find her. But, I only know her face and first name. I don't think there's any way for me to ever contact her again and I feel guilty about that, REALLY guilty because she was so kind and never bullied me. I'd really like to have her as my friend but I don't know where I would begin to look for her. Like I said I am gay but lately she's been eating up my conceious and I don't know what to do. I know that she had many female friends to back her up and help her feel better, but that's besides the point. I never told her I was gay because that's when I was first discovering it but I think she'd be cool with it. WHat do I do?

I have had the same group of girlfriends for 5 years now. we all met in middle school and we were in the high school dance team. being an openly gay man who is very flamboyant and wears makeup on a daily, I mean I was on the dance team for christ sakes. anyways, I of course would always be bullied by closed minded boys, and some girls. which naturally it was easier for me to be friends with girls. they would always defend me when I couldn't defend myself and I thought they were genuine. recently, they have been hanging out with a certain group of guys that aren't afraid to show their blatant homophobia with me when i'm around. and when I am, no matter how cool and open i try to be with the boys they just don't catch on and get away from me and choose not to be around me at all. they seem to not be comfortable hanging out with a gay guy. everytime we take group pictures I am always cropped or blurred out by them. It's gotten to the point where I just had to tell my friends. so I told them how I dont feel comfortable being around them anymore and how little they make me feel. they simply just responded with "that's just how they are." I literally couldn't process what they had just said so I stayed quiet and snuck away from them and went home. what should I do. these girls shaped me a ton and it saddens me that they choose their new friends over me. what can I do? I seriously don't know what to do.

I like my best friend's brother. I met him when I was a freshman in high school and he was a senior. I am now a senior and he is in college. In the last three years, his sister and I have become super close friends. What do I do

Let's face it; high school absolutely sucks. And what sucks even more is surviving it on your own. I really only have one friend, and I don't normally see her in school, so I spend my lunch periods alone and don't have anyone to talk to in classes. I haven't switched schools or anything; I've been going to the same district since kindergarten, so I guess it's kind of strange I don't have friends by now. What are some tips for making friends so late? This might sound strange, but since I've been so unsuccessful here, would I have a better chance at making friends if I switched high schools? I get bullied here (not a lot) but people have preconceived notions of me so it's hard to make friends with them after going to school with them but not interacting for so long. What do y'all think?

And no friends. My mom doesn't want me around and pushes all my problems in my face every time there is an argument. "You have no friends, you act like a 12 year old around people, i have seen 8 year olds who act more adult. You are a lazy leech who won't work, i didn't sign up for a daughter in her 20s who is incapable of doing anything." Yeah okay. I don't try to find stuff she struggles with (i dont know what she struggles with cause she probably wouldn't tell anyone or it's just not as obvious and life effecting as mine). So she is just cruel and i dont get what she thinks that will do? Is it going to magically make me a different, social person? I already know my life sucks cause i cant talk to people. I am in college and face that reality every day where others around me make friends easily. I am not seeking pity here cause I've heard her b.s. so many times that I am practically numb to it. What hurts though is that she doesn't give a rip about me, and I have no one who does and thats probably a result of me being unable to carry a conversation with even family members. I mean no matter who I talk to its like no one wants me there. I cant help being quiet. Any ideas? Thanks