My husband and I have been together for two years we got married have a beautful newborn! I thought he was proud of his family but he's not! He will not post a picture of me and our son on social media or anything I believe it's because he doesn't want anyone including his exes or if he's talking to anyone else to know he married with a kid! Should I be worried about this!?

Been married 46 yrs. and he has almost always done this. I was abused verbally, physically and emotionally by mother and her family. Brother was sexually abusive. Living with this emotionally abuse with spouse. Can't take it any more but have no one that I can turn to. No real friends thanks to mother no family either I'm desperate and thinking of leaving this world. I HAVE NO ONE.

I know I'm a good person.

I was with him for 4 years, we did a lot together including travel, living together etc. The relationship ran its course and we both decided it was best to move on. We went our separate ways peacefully. I haven't spoken to him for 1.5 years. We're both 33. His new girlfriend is 21. I work at a small shop in the city and she just so happened to walk in today which to me was odd and it honestly seemed planned. She made a purchase, my co-worker helped her and then instead of leaving she decided to linger in the store and make conversation in a loud tone with another customer who she didnt know. She made it a point to repeat several times to this customer that she works at a local restaurant where my ex works and then to proceed to tell her "I work out a lot, my boyfriend likes girls with nice bodies" " I love being in shape and looking good" The only way I can describe it is that she was making one of those convos people do in public when they're trying to show off that they wouldn't normally say without an audience present. She was saying it loud enough for me to here from my office. The reason I know who she is is because she liked a couple of my photos on instagram by accident when she was creeping on me and then she swiftly unliked them but I got the notifications on my phone and clicked her profile a couple months ago. I saw she was dating my ex and she was his co-worker. Did she do this on purpose to try to get under my skin or do you think it was a coincidence?

We are married 4 years, have two children aged 3,5 and 2 years. I am 30 yo and my wife 28. Since my wife gave birth first time we practically stopped having sex. For example in the last seven months we had sex 5 times. I understand that she is staying at home with two small children while I work and that it is hard for her, but it seems like she lost interest in sex completely. Don't tell me to try and talk to her, because she gets defensive and every time I try to talk about it, we end up fighting. And it is basically the only thing we fight about, because everything else in our marriage works just fine, or even excellent. So, my question is for those in a similar situation (similar age, kids...) how often do you have sex? Am I exaggerating when I think this is not enough sex? Also, if you have similar expirience to share, please do

Last week, I was playing a game w/my son on my husband's phone. In came a txt from a mutual friend who said she would be cooking dinner today for her boyfriend's birthday. He and my husband used to be co-workers. She specifically asked if my husband would be able to make it w/o any mention of me & let him know there male roommate would also be there. The last time I heard from her (2 wks ago) she reached out to me via text and referred to me as "beautiful soul"... she and I have never had any issues. My husband and I on the other hand have not spoken to each other in wks bc he attempted to move his brother into our home, once released from a 6-year prison sentence w/o even asking me. I reached out to the parole officer and put a stop to it and he thinks I should apologize... Not happening. We have three kids; they come first and there's a level of respect both he and his brother should have had for me in the first place. Anyway, he didn't know I knew about the dinner and I waited w/o saying anything to see if he would go...he did. My questions are, is it too much to think my so-called "friend" is also a Bi$@# for not mentioning me in the text???? We spent Christmas together for goodness sake...really???? I feel like she only wanted males present. Lastly, was it too much to txt him Fu@# him for going and Fu@# her too for texting my husband?

Mother, brother and husband were and are abusive. Emotionally, physically(not spouse),verbally abusive. I have a stomach ulcer from all that has happened. Since I've been a child.

So my parents are divorced. My father left home with a somewhat quiet divorce. But when I met him he seemed to have lost it. He was half sober and was very negative in speech. I just refused him and said never to come anymore and see me at school. After that we didn't meet for a long time. He was puth in 'jail'. He is considered mentally disabled. I feel sorry for him but since I am still a student I'm broke. I've been thinking of renting a house after 1 year and living with him. What do you think I can do to help him.

but I am not buying that. We separated for 8 months and decided to move back in to work on our relationship. Well since we moved back together, he has constantly been looking her up on google, facebook and instagram. Not just a random monthly look up, he looks her up about 3 times a week. Why is he doing this ? I dont get it.

My wife is pregnant with our 3rd baby shes been really depressed lately. I asked her if she was ok she said she is but she's not acting like it. It's after 1:30 she's still in bed I can't get her to wake up she said she doesn't feel well she doesn't act like she's sick. She said I really hurt her I didn't even do nothing I don't know why she's so upset. She asked me to leave her alone I don't want to she also didn't sleep very well last night either. How can I help her feel better ? What should I say to her ?

She does like dressing this way, even though her nipples show through slightly.

Americans are marrying and having children later in life. More and more and doing either at all. Increasing number of children are also being born out of wedlock.

I work doubles 8am-12am Sat and Sundays. Fridays are supposed to be our date nights. Last week he went to spend night and weekend at friend's house until I got mad at him and he said Tuesday and Friday we'd hang out this past week. Two days this week he called me when he needed me to help him jump start his car or to help him because he locked keys in car. I was there for him and was late for class one day. Last night after date night from around 6:30pm-8:00pm.,we had dinner and I asked him to stay the night because I didn't feel like being home alone. He said "I have to go back home to get a few things then go to Mike's place later. Plus you have to get up around 6am for work and I don't want to get up early if I don't have to. I told him he'd have to get up at 7:00am not 6:00am. Then he said "You go to the gym too." I said "Tomorrow Im not going to gym"...Then he said "Well you just had a big meal, maybe you should go to gym tomorrow. I told him "You had pasta, a bigger meal than me, you just don't want to stay over." Then he said "You're making a big deal. I just don't want to stay over." Then he said "You're looking into things. I just don't want to be on the road late or get up early." I said "You don't have to be on the road late if you go to your friend's house in the morning and stay here".....Then I dropped the subject because he was making annoying excuses. Turns out I saw he was active on instagram at 7:30am this morning. I texted him at 8:30am to let him know I got to work ok. After I texted II saw him was on instagram again. It was 9:20am and he still didn't respond to my text. In the text I told him I got to work ok, have a good day, love you". During the week when he texts me when he gets to work I respond. So I sent him another text "How'd you sleep?" and he said "Hey babe, glad you got to work safe, I slept ok hbu?" ...I am so pissed. We both live at our parent's house. His parents argue a lot so his excuse is he'' be at his friends every weekend. I am mad he would not stay the night because "He didn't want to wake up early"..YET I saw him online at 7:30am.. ...He just wanted to be at friend's house as a third wheel. The friend just had a baby and lives with gf. My bf is being so annoying. He told me he wants me to be happier...then he'll give me an engagement ring. How am I supposed to be "happier" when he acts like this. He doesn't know I can always SEE HIM ON INSTAGRAM when active.

This morning at about 6 AM my wife's cell phone rings waking both of us up. It's her mom. I hear my wife say, "I'll be there shortly." She she gets up she tells me that she has to run her mom to the hospital because she's having trouble with her hands. I asked my wife why she called her to take her because her dad and 16 year old grandson are both there in the house and they all can drive and have several cars there. My wife said that she doesn't know and that's not her concern. My wife's mentally challenged sister is there too but at that hour she's probably still sleep. Our nephew doesn't have a license, only a permit, but the in-laws bought him a used car a few months ago and literally allow hi to go wherever he wants. But when you need him now she didn't want to bother him. When I questioned my wife as to why her mom called her across town when there were people available to drive her right there in the house she now thinks I don't care about her mom. I do but if I'm to the point of having to go to the hospital the last thing I'm going to do is let people in my house sleep then wake someone up way across town to take me. My wife thinks now that I'm saying her mom isn't important.

I'm having the hardest time getting my wife to understand budgeting and finances. She refuses to make any changes so we can get on the same page financially. She's responsible for the rent and I'm covering the majority of the other bills. Every month she always pays the rent last and every month we get court papers but her thing is as long as it gets paid before the next month then we're good. Yesterday while at work I get a call from our rental agency. I couldn't answer it at my desk so it went to voicemail/ 5 minutes later I get an email from them saying they received out rent yesterday but we're in an eviction status because my wife didn't pay the additional $150 for the court fees because she is paying it so late in the month. NO, this isn't the first time we have had this discussion about late fees but my wife seems to think that if they have accepted rent late in the past they will continue in the future. I've been trying to get us to set up a joint account and put ALL our money into it but she doesn't want to do that simply because she has her car payment being auto deducted from her account and she doesn't want to make the 1 or 2 phone calls to change it. I really thing my wife just doesn't want me to see what she's doing with her money. However, she has been harping on us going on a cruise or us going on vacation this year because she's tired of not doing anything. . How do I get my wife to understand that in order to get things in order you have to put other things on hold. We get court papers nearly every month but she thinks we're good as long as we don't get evicted. This morning she gets up and tells me that she has a hair appointment but she just got her hair done 2 weeks ago. We can discuss being almost evicted one day only to see that she's budgeted money for her hair because "that's just what women do."

My husband has been way too emotional lately. He's always been kind of that way, but now it's over the top. He just called me all kinds of names that I won't repeat and it hurts. It hurts that this person is whom I married. I have 2 young children and I am a stay-at-home mom (I did just get a PT job actually). My family is too far away. I have nowhere to go. When he yells, I don't feel safe. He chases me around the house too. Never hit me, but who knows. I usually go upstairs and stay in one area till he cools down. It's mostly because of his mother. She's very manipulative and has to have things her way. For example, the in-laws were invited tomorrow. Night before (her signature gesture) she announces that more people will be coming with. Not asking, but telling us that. I don't mind, but please ask! She did the same to my wedding. I found out an hour before the ceremony that she took charge and invited about 10 people. It was odd and awkward because it was a very small ceremony, all guests being hers basically. I tell him I am not satisfied she does this. We don't host her often (for that reason) but she's only an hour away and always annoying the crap out of us. What can I do?!

My wife and i considering divorce because of our opposing political views. Of course we've always known we support opposing parties but we never let that affect us much. We went out and voted together and made it a rule to never mention who we voted for even though it was quite obvious. We started having issues when Trump was elected president. i wont mention who supports what but i personally feel as if we shouldnt let political views get in the way of happiness and she agree's as well but the bickering and arguing is overwhelming at times Is there anyone else going through this? literally all couples that i personally know for some reason always shares the same political views as one another. Im not going to change nor is she, is divorce really the best thing ?