estoy en la secundaria normal y.. nose porque pero se podria decir que soy conocido, todos me quieren y tal. creo que se debe a que yo siempre soy amable con todos pero pese a eso, me siento solo, muy solo.. hay chicas a las que le eh gustado y eh sido tentado a hacerles caso pero es que simplemente no son mi tipo y pues como siempre la chica que me gusta solo es mi amiga..

Hi everyone! Recently I've discovered that one of my roommates had mentioned something to a mutual friend that has gotten back to me and I wanted advice on how to handle things. So I live in a house with 3 other people, one of whom I share a room with and the other two girls each have their own rooms. So the girl I share a room with didn't have a car on campus (we are college students) last semester so I would always offer to take her to the grocery store because she really didn't have another way to get groceries. One of my other housemates apparently said that it is common courtesy for us to invite her with us, despite the fact that she had her own car and wasn't free at the time that my direct roommate and I would always go to the store. She claims that we never spend time with her, despite always inviting her to Costco because she doesn't have a Costco card and would otherwise have no way of getting to Costco, and we also always watch movies with her and hang out with her. We obviously don't want her to feel left out, but honestly my roommate and I barely see each other and we are just closer. She also said that she is offended because my direct roommate and I meal prep together and never invite her to join us but she has also never asked us to meal prep with us or said that this bothers her. She also started meal prepping for herself at the beginning of the year and didn't seem to want to do that as a whole apartment. I just wanted advice on how to handle this.

First off yes I know, It sounds stupid. Second off 13 year olds are more mature than you may remember. So the thing is my friends and I have really sucky lives. I have parents who don t understand my mental illnesses and constantly make me feel stupid. I know it doesn t sound serious but it hurts me more than you may thing. Thing is it isn t abuse so I can t call social services on them, not like I really want to. My friend has divorced mormon parents. They would disaprove of the fact that she s bi and also she has severe self esteem issues and her mom does not help. She is an only child and usually feels alone and isolated. My other friend has a dad that she is terrified of. She won t call social services and I m not sure if he s abusive or not. He still yells at her and her parents make her feel horrible too. Last but not least, my last friend who has christian parents. Her mom is a "recovering" alcoholic and her parents take her older golden brother places and leave her alone a lot. She is never really able to go anywhere and honestly her mom scares even me. We all are able to take care of ourselves and we are far more mature than we should be. I want to know if there is any way to get out of our situations together. I would leave but I can t abandon my friends like that. Any serious ideas?

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I have been friends with these since 3rd grade and I am in 9th grade now, they are total nerds dude they carry round comic books and like mcjuggernuggets and I call it mcjuggernuts ahaha anyways they are nerds they like starwars and they role play star wars characters they are dorks! but I don't got no one else from school to talk to because they got friends already so I don't know what to do should I keep talking to nerds or what should be done ?

I rushed as a sophomore at an ivy league college. Rush here isn't that hard. Most girls get a good amount of houses back. I'm frequently told that I'm very attractive and fun to be around. I've never had a problem making friends. I didn't think any of my conversations went poorly, in fact, I thought they all went all, but my results were abysmal and everyone that knew me was confused as to why so few houses invited me back. Greek life is big at my college. 1/3 of people are in it, except not me of course lol. I'm really resentful. I feel like I was rejected by a 1/3 of my college for reasons I don't know. I didn't say anything weird. I don't have the social skills of a toddler. I'm not hideous. All I wanted was more female friends. I unfollowed every girl in a house that didn't invite me back (I didn't know those girls that well).

My friend actually is diagnosed Bi Polar and has a few other mental issues and It's something that I can never completely understand and I get that. The thing is though when he goes through his mood swings he doesn't give a **** about other people around him. There have been a few time where he will invite people over and then passive aggressively try to get everyone to leave only after being there for five minutes. This one time he actually threw a party and kicked everyone out and then canceled it before half the people even got there even though some of the people actually called off work to be there. Then an hour later he tried to invite everyone backover again and then got all pissed off when nobody wanted to drive back there and acted like everyone was a bunch of jerks. Another thing he does is when he gets in one of his moods he doesn't give a **** of what he says to people. He will say some really disrespectful things to people but then he doesn't understand why they won't talk to him anymore. He really doesn't think before he speaks and sometimes gets him and the people around him involved in hostile situations. When he is in a good mood hes fun to hangout with but when he gets in his low moods it can be really irritating when i could have made other plans but then its too late.

So my best friend Mary has made a new friend and they have been doing everything together. To texting all the time to going out at night. But my thing is that I don't really care like I'm happy she has a new friend bc I hated doing all that every night and having to deal with Mary being drunk and taking care of her. I'm soo relaxed now and I love it. Just wanted to know if anyone else has felt that way with someone that they don't care if they don't hang out that much anymore

Before we can be friends, gotta check your State Is first, if you're Brock. We can be cool, if not, we can't be real friend man!!!

If you saw a girl eating alone with a hello kitty lunch box as a high school senior?

I have a best friend that I ve known for a long time. However, the problem with him is that he always feels down about himself because his parents always bash on him upon his education status (and compare him with other people like me). And, for me, I ve been trying to grow and improve my social status, but he keeps bashing on me that I can t make new friends because I m too this and that. While I told him I made (x) new friends, he says they re fake. Should I even continue to be friends with him? I usually convince him and try to motivate him, but he always say that life is boring or happiness is non existent. I don t want to stop talking to him completely, as I know he doesn t have that big group of friends and is popular, but is it even healthy to have a friend that s always negative?

I have this friend, and I ve known her for 3 and a half years now, but for some reason she will never tell me her last name or anything. I ve told her everything about me, and it makes me sad. Is this saying she doesn t trust me?

Ok imma cut this down VERY short. If I explained everything it would go on forever. - I have a bestfriend Amy. We are so similar and get along the best. Couldn't ask for a better friend. -We (or just her now) have this best friend Chloe. -They were best friends first. But not that long really. -Chloe doesn't invite me to thing but invites Amy to stuff RIGHT in my face. -This makes me feel depressed. -Amy is manipulated by Chloe. Any prefers doing stuff with me. -Chloe is a very jealous person. -Chloe always wants her own way and won't stop until she has it. -I'm upset a lot more often than usual. This all has been happening since October or November 2018. But has got worse from there to now. -Amy says she doesn't want to hurt Chloe despite how horrible she's been to me. -So it's okay for me to be hurt for doing nothing wrong. -I've experienced this type of thing beforewiyh other friends but either one of us have backed off even if it was difficult. Cos some people aren't meant to be friends. -But I can't do that this time. Amy is different. I know this was a way to describe the problem but I've tried before and made description of the problem too long.

Why do some friends leave when they see you're going through a rough time for a long time?

It felt amazing! It just happened and neither of us stopped it.

Is it ok for me to not expect to have forever friends? I'm a 27 year old female and I have a friend that's 59 and she is a true friend but I do have problems socially and it's hard for me to handle having any friends but especially her. I just get really overwhelmed and I have considered several times just to walk away from her because the friendship with her has been hard to handle but she says she is not going anywhere and she has told me several times that she says I have pushed her away but I have apologized to her and she says I'm ok and she has been knowing that I have a social problem so if I did decide to walk away from her would she let me? And I'm not talking to her about maybe considering leaving the friendship because that wouldn't be right for me to say that to her

so yeah ik it's kinda weird, i'm not 18 but i really wanna ******* escape from everything i mean nothing is good rn and my life is a mess. I daydream too much, i just wanna take a airplane and move to another country. I have a internet best friend who lives in Oklahoma and ik the address tho & yeah i wanna go there cuz here... life it's impossible, i'm sad and i need a new life and i don't wanna kill my self i just wanna move and my parents r so rude and they never understand me. idk what to do i'm crazy ik but sometimes i just wanna take a bag with something in like my phone and something i need and go away forever. p.s. sorry for my english but i'm from italy i tried my best.

I have a friend for 10 years. We live in different cities so we're having a very short time to reunite. She was always asking me "Are you going yo come to my city?" and I really wanted to come because I missed her a lot. And I came to her city and she was supposed to take me to sightseeing but now she always ignores me and she wants to stay at home because she has stupid stuff on her PC and phone. I don't want to go back to my town but I don't want to spend my money for her guilt trips too. What should I do?

I kind of get ignored a lot and I'm just not the loud type so I won't scream to get attention since I'm very laid back. but I'm kinda getting tired of it all so help?

I broke up with my ex 2 years ago and have been with someone else for a year now. I broke it off when I moved to Ireland for a whole year for an internship after college. I wanted to start my life over and didn't want to be in a relationship anymore. We dated for 6 years and it was one of the hardest thing I ever had to do. Long story short, I'm guessing he found out from our mutual friends that I've been with someone and decided to text me about it. I regretted breaking up with him when I was in Ireland but it was way too late. I was blocked from everywhere and there's no way I could've made it work from a different country. Below is the conversation: Him: You know you could have just told me that you cheated on me. That would have made it easier for me to get over you rather than being left without a closure and an actual reason. You were living your best life in Ireland while I was so broken. What happened to not wanting a relationship? You threw our 6 years away just like that to be with him? Me: I'm not sure where this is coming from but I never cheated on you. We broke up 2 years ago and I met Nick a year ago. The night we broke up, we talked for 2 hours. I did not leave without a closure. I was hoping to be friends but it seems like you still don't want anything to do with me.

I know people but have a hard time socializing with them. I just want people to talk to.

I grew up with learning disabilities so i made 4 differnt friends in same class since 4 grade after 8 grade comes i had congratulated so i thought i had enough friends at that age and thankful at the time so facebook came our friend mutual friend name Courtney got angry at me few time and told couple people and one name is Jessica and she said and told me she have agree with Courtney i am annoying so year go by i thought umm maybe Jessica have changed her attuide toward me and i guess i was wrong so i guess after a week making other account after 2 years not message i message her on instagram i guess she had message me on my other account saying DUDE GET THE HINT ALREADY AND LEAVE ME ALONE!! I HAVE ASKED YOU TO MANY TIMES!! NOW YOU ARE HARASSING ME!!!!!!! but i havent message her over less in 2 years i am want to know what happend and she answer that toward me, is this being mean to me this have been her and Courtney attuide i get, will they get Karma?

My friend is getting annoy of this guy because every time my friend ask him a simple question he put him in seen on facebook. Than this guy respond saying hey or hi so my friend put him on seen and this guy gets mad at my friend and send him text saying answer me !!!!! And my friends say you ignore my conversations why should I respond

I'm 41 years old and my neighbor is 34, whenever we talk she calls me "Mom" or even sometimes "Mommy" it kinda offends me because I feel like she's calling me old and she thinks of herself as some young teenager or something. Should I be offended over this?

No, not in a romantic way. Anyways my friend ( we'll just call her "Reese") Just recently has Reese started acting weird , I didn't say anything at first , but now it's just getting to be too much . To give you guys some background,She's been my best friend for two years and she's been a person I felt comfortable talking to when I was feeling down . She's always playful and talkative But recently she's been anti social and distant , she never talks to me and whenever I do , she just shuts the conversation down instantly. She doesn't even sit with me at lunch anymore and she constantly threatens or belittles me . She doesn't even text or ask to FaceTime anymore( we did that every day) and when I try to text or call her , our conversations are short and dry ( she only answers with "ok") What should I do? Should I just leave her behind and move on with my life or should I talk it out with her

I've known a guy for 4 years and we text back and forth often. We became friends at a job we both used to work. Some weeks he flirts with me and other weeks he doesn't. I'm pretty much the same with him and I like him. I don't know how to ask him out or tell him I like him more then just friends bc I fear if he doesn't feel the Sam's I might make things awkward. I feel like he likes me more then friends but is too backward to ask me first and is waiting on me to take the first steps, but I could be wrong. He was just flirting with me the last couple of days so tonight I said I was sick of being single and can't wait for mister right. He responds and says, "I wish I knew someone to hook you up with." I wonder if he's hinting around he wants more or if he's saying, hey I like to flirt but we're not going any further so don't wait for me. What do you think?

I moved in 8th grade so i didnt have much friends now i thought my 4 group of friends was enough for my age so anyways I had an old friend just argument with me ever since i have added her friend on myspace once so i deleted her and told her (we had) then moved to facebook and she apologize to my sister and my mom once back in 2012 and said she wasnt her self at that time and she said it wasnt right to be mean and fighting to me so a few times in later i kept asking every year to hanout while i am back to my homestate anf she start to argument and say mean things to me again then 3 year later i found out what happend between her and her boyfriend and idk how bad it is but she still took her anger at me,so what is best way to apologize to her where i get her keep me back as friends on facebook? I wont annoyed her when she if she does or should she should be apologize for yelling at me? (20 points) and between her and her man her ex boyfriend at time he told me he slap her but she i dont think havent told anybody what should i do? i just want be friends with no arguments