How so?

I've spoken to a few people who've gone to couples therapy and they all say that either they or their ex disliked their therapist. I don't know anybody who's been in a successful marriage or long term committed relationship.

All i can think of is sex. Sex with this guy, him, that man, getting rammd every which way. Its really crazy. I just want to be lusted after and i cant stop drooling over every thought and every cute male. I'm a young woman so it makes sense but its so overboard that its taken over my mind and its not great since i am not married yet so i cant have sex.

My husband hits me. He physically and mentally abusive. I also found out he has been having an affair for the past 5 years of our 11yr relationship. What should I do

I was browsing through his internet history and saw sites that make me wonder. What should I do?

I explained all this to my boyfriend when we first got together. Shortly after I met him I lost my place he offered for me to move in with him. I told him I didn't think it was a great idea but did it anyways it has been a rough year even though I help with bills a little buy groceries and household products I still have not gotten fully back on my feet. Which is why I told him this in the beginning. The stress of me not working full time, has gotten to the both of us we had a huge argument I pack my bags and left. I told him I'm not breaking up With him but until I get my life together I don't want to be in the house with him because I feel less then a woman not being able to provide like I should. He said some pretty nasty things and I totally understand but I've never been in this situation before not having things. But now I have nowhere to go seems that I may have to sleep in my car I'm a little nervous but you got to do what you have to do I just got a job I'll I should have money in two or three weeks and maybe I can get a hotel or something I have no friends I have No family. I love him and I understand his frustration but I'm made to feel bad daily it's stressful. I'm not lazy at all! I do have the job now and I should be really happy and proud of myself but all I feel a sadness.

I said PRETTY and not Curvy high maintenance woman. some examples of PRETTY woman: Emma Watson and Kristen Stewart "How do you equate curvy with high-maintenance? ".... PRETTY women dont always have curvy body. while a woman with a curvy body spend too much time on plastic surgery and fitness trainers. A pretty woman is not always a high maintenance (because she has a pretty face without any plastic surgery) but a woman with sexy dress and a curvy body is a sign of a high maintenance woman (because of the money spent on fitness and plastic surgery). do u understand? lets define PRETTY: "a face that is not just attractive but also you can see that this woman is sweet with a face that tells you that this woman has a kind heart. Without make up and she looks more beautiful than any Julia Roberts".

work 2 pt jobs i been watching you tube videos on real esate and i am learning from it. i have to eat dinner alone when he is working at the second job. when he is home i cook for him what can i do when im bored.

if you do oral on a guy, and swallow his semen, you can actually feel the sperm swimming wildly in your stomach for a good 20 seconds. the stomach acid then kills them. married men have stronger sperm, they last a bit longer, I don't know why.

I am remarried and have a teenage son from a prev. marriage who has some mental/emotional issues. My in laws are not his grandparents biol. They have tried to pretend they are his grandparents but he does not accept them and they do nothing but bad mouth him and he is banned from their house because they are afraid he will "make allegations that are untrue against them". I told my hubby that if my son is banned, I also wont go. He also mentioned that his mother makes little remarks/digs about my relative's wealth and how much this relative or she feels doesnt have (his dad is a CFO who owes debt on everything he has but wants to pretend he is a rich celebrity and brags about his $ to evry1). My hubby has said his mom goes on telephone warpaths bad mouthing my kid and my family and saying my mom spent her relatives cash and my family and I feel this is not their business and is a lie. We are sick of it and my husband sees nothing wrong with this and wont tell his mom off. What is right here? I am not speaking to his mom. FYI- his folks have NEVER apologized for anything they have said to me or my family but expect me and my family to apologize. They have also spread lies that I cheat and have AIDS when I am in a wheelchair! His dad hollered out that my son needed to be "institutionalized" right in front of him when he misbehaved/played a prank at their house. They are always prying for info on my 1st marriage, making up lies about why my divorce happened, and making digs at my son/me and telling my 2nd husband (their son) and I what to do and how to raise my kid who is not even their kin!

I just got out of the hospital for something serious and my husband is demanding i watch the 2 hyper youngest kids so he can go out of town with his band and play a show and have fun. The dr has told me to take off 2 days and have light activity and I cant lift the toddler, he told me if I wanted his parents to watch the kids, it was my responsibility to call and schedule it/drive the kids to see them 1.5 hours away. I thought he was cancelling the show but he decided since they discharged me he is going and is pawning the kids off on me. Is this right?

My husband and I got divorced a few months ago. We've dated for over 6 years. I have 2 younger kids with him. I care about my kids so much, and I'd do anything to make them happy. After about 2 years of being married. I've noticed our relationship changing. We weren't as in love and we'd never even spend time together. I also started liking another man. I'd hate myself even thinking about getting a divorce. I'm scared I'd disappoint my kids in anyway. He was also a very good man. My parents respect him very much. He's also helped me a lot in the past. I'd cry myself to sleep every night. I didn't want to live the rest of my life married to someone I do not even like. And it also wasn't just me, it was also obvious that he was not in love anymore. Eventually, we both spoke about it, and figured it was best to get a divorce. We let our kids choose who to live with, and they both chose their father. I'm still in good terms with my x-husband, and see him regularly. The guy I'm getting feels for supports me a lot, and he just makes me happy in every way.

3 words for me: OH HAIL NO. :)

I am sure there are people here who watch porn and have wife and kids. Is this considered cheating too? I am a highly users on a webcam site AdultFunCams.com and I really enjoy what I do. It's not that I don't love my wife, but when I am on this webcam site I can command these girls what to do and give them some tips and its reallly fun and urges my sex drive. its somthing I cant do with my wife (I sometimes tell them to go masturbate in public for example, I can't do that to my wife you know?) so ... is that bad?

I call my wife kitten that's my nickname for her. Is that normal ?

Dating your partner... what do you feel like he offers you in the relationship? Not in a money or objects kind of way. IM IN THE UK. But I'm dating a man with two kids and going through divorce, I feel like actually my eyes have opened after nearly 2 years, and he doesn't offer me anything? I don't feel security, or knowing I can rely on him if I'm in need. If I was to get a flat tyre after 7pm, he wouldn't be able to come and help. We can't book holidays because of his kids and his wife's schedule. We can't go out spontaneously because of his kids and when he has to pick them up as he also has them Saturday 4pm til school Monday morning so our weekends together are write offs. He can't buy a house as his name is still on his mortgage with wife. I have to drive to his and home (we don't live together). I feel like I have to compromise on everything because of a family he has already created? I don't have children so maybe I'm being selfish.

Wife is on 100mg zoloft for anxiety and depression, she's been on it for a while now but here lately our marriage has been having problems. She said she feels numb towards me and that she's felt like this for a while but just sucked it up, she said she needs to find herself and make herself happy even if we have to separate or eventually divorce. I don't want to lose her she is the love of my life, i really want to say it is the medicine. If so what can i do? And how long before she can start feeling something towards me again? She has to get a refill on her medicine soon and she said she will tell the doctor about how she's feeling.

A wife who is cheating on your army husband gives him divorce papers the day he returns from Iraq. He then proceeds the next day to commit suicide in fear of losing his family (I know which doesn't make sense but sometimes nothing really does). Is she entitled to his life insurance still? Or does that money have to be put aside for the two children?

I have an ex who I am still very in love with and she resents me. We broke up because she wants me to stop riding motocross (been doing it since I was 8 and now I'm 20) and I told her that I love the sport too much to leave it now. She made me choose between her or motocross and I told her what kind of man would I be if I changed my lifestyle because someone tells me to. And she chose for me. And I see her every now and again with her new boyfriend and she shows a lot of affection to him in front of me and I can't explain the feeling I get. Its a feeling of that should be me. And then ill go through a period of not seeing her for a while and wondering how she's doing or what she's doing and when I do see her once again in a store or a bar, she still holds this bitterness toward me and emphasizes how much better her new boyfriend is to me and then she tells me things like she's gonna be his wife, and finally, I saw her at a small get together at an old friends house and i walk up to her and even though I still feel the pain from her leaving me, I tell her I'm happy she's not alone, she stares at me with fury in her eyes says "Jesus Christ why can't you just crash your bike, break your neck and rot in the ground." she then went on to tell me that she never loved me in the first place. Then she said that I'm a horrible disgusting selfish human being and a waste of space who should have been aborted for choosing motocross over her. and I left the party and I did cry. I love her

I am an European citizen got married in Canada in 2015 and I've been separated since 2016. I never applied for a PR card and I'm currently residing in Alberta for more than 1 year. So I qualify for divorce. What are my best options for a non contested divorce? I don't have an income and I don't care if my (soon to be ex wife) takes all the house hold items, I don't want to argue with her about anything, I just want the divorce. I don't own any property (never did even before marriage). We have 1 child and the only thing that I would want is the right to visitation but only when I'll have a job and can afford it because unfortunately I understand that I cannot have parental rights if I don't pay for child support. In 2016 she had a job, I don't know if she does now. If she has a job I don't care about asking for alimony, all I want is divorce, she can keep everything we had in her house. We never owned a vehicle and I also don't own one at the moment. I don't even wanna talk to her, I was in a pretty bad mentally and phisically abusing relationship and I want the divorce to be over and done with. Is it safe to fill for an uncontested divorce since I don't want to claim anything from her?