Ok so, we start at the origin of the story: 7th grade. I had an instant crush on this guy. I liked him for a really long time and had a difficult time getting over it. I finally did once he got a girl and the crush went away. We become good friends and maintained that friendship. I got a boyfriend, we broke up. He broke up with his girl. I started dating this other guy, and we remain friends. I really love the guy i'm with now despite how much he might get on my nerves and can be a little insensitive at times. He's below my usual standards but we had this instant connection that I couldn't deny and fell for him. recently, the friend I mentioned earlier confessed he started liking me right before me and my boyfriend started dating and I just need advice on how to handle these situation. How do I avoid hurting someone else or even myself in this situation? and how do i avoid old feelings coming back for this guy that i've been friends with for so many years?

My crush called another man "my honeybun" in a post from Early last year

m 29 years old, and haven't been dating for over a decade and never had the desire of marriage or having children. I don't hate kids, but I just don't want to deal with them myself, because I suffer from severe anxiety (and partly due to I've Asperger, but people refuse to accept it due to that they see me as normal". I'm also A-sexual, with no sexual needs for relationships (though, dating still happens, but not so often), I still prioritizing friends more which is rather lacking. I often go with the motto: "I can barely take care of myself for the last decade, how can I take care of somebody else?" Even if my social behavior get improve, does it require a child to replace the previous one. IF a possible relationship occurs with a guy and I told them this I often get this response: "Well, if you don't want to raise it, Give it to me, I'll raise it, because I want children". Often when I bring up the topic, the complain that I MUST have children in the future, otherwise I'm selfish to the future husband and that I WILL change my mind. Um, WHO/WHAT is selfish? (I probably won't date this type of person though as I doubt it will turn out well, but this pressure still put pressure me sometimes). When people ask me about relationships and I like answer because I don't believe family topics should be discussed *after* you settled down. I've been in situation when the pressure become to threats "if you don't want kids, you cant' date". With relatives, It's already cleared up.

They randomly start talking to you, look over at you a few times, hold the door open for you like or being friendly?

One of my photos had an ex-friend tagged in it again after the tag disappeared from my instagram months ago. I also remember searching for her name on Instagram before and her page was no where to be found until now. My friends and people she's following also couldn't find her from their pages or a while either. We both don't follow each other either and the reappeared tag isn't in her "photos of me" section either. Did she deactivate her account a while back and just reactivated it? Why isn't it in her "photos of me" section?

The gray aliens, you know the kind of aliens popular across the world. They are they like this? Some of them have eyes no mouth no nose or nose slits. Some of them have eyes and nose slits and a outline for a mouth. Some of them just have a fake mouth and nose slits, some of them have real nose slits and a mouth Some of them actually has a nose. Some of them has a rectum mouth. Some of them don't have eyes but a mouth and nose slits. Some of them looks really human with an alien face. They typically communicate telepathically, while most of them wobbles their head at each other, therefore communicating with each other. Any reason why they aren't all the Same?

My friend and I were playing a game with our mics, and than suddenly he hiccups really loud so I was like "jesus christ!" So he started laughing, and he was giggling about it for like 5 minutes straight, so was like what so funny, and he said my reaction was funny, and he just kept laughing about it so I was like okay it wasnt that funny, then I was just silent for a while, than he was like "alright, I'm gonna go, see ya

who you have not physically spoken to in years. I had an intimate relationship with a man years ago, things ended very abruptly and I feel as if nether one of us ever got closure from the relationship. I moved away, now I'm in a relationship with a man who I have a toddler with. We are happy and in love. However every so often have this aching feeling and heaviness that consumes me and I can't help but hear this mans voice. I haven't spoken to him since the night I left him. It wasn't a terrible break up. But I was young and immature and I couldn't face him and snuck out out of the house and just left...I didn't speak to him again, until one day when he contacted me through social media. We had a small conversation where he said he was happy for me and soon after blocked me. I just can't make this throbbing ache go away. I'm so confused. Obviously I have regrets over how things ended but I have a family now, and I can't go back and change anything. I'm afraid that his memory will haunt me forever. I know I sound crazy but there are moments when I feel like he's in my head and I can't escape him. I need to stop feeling this way.

I'm sick of being 19, having no boyfriend, no friends, feeling ugly yet also feeling attractive sometimes too, I wish I did look like other girls at times, I'm sick of being broke and no one giving me a job, I'm sick of having constant mixed opinions of wether I should join the army or not, I have 0 qualifications, I have applied to join but might of been a mistake as I'm not anywhere near Army fit, I can't get motivated, I'm emotionally tired, I hate having no social life, no one really cares about me, it's taking a toll on my head as I'm starting to feel dizzy, tired physically too, I don't even want to die anymore, I just want my life to be stress free for once, there's always something, I'm sick to death of it and sick of worrying.