I want to get married and be a stay at home mom and wife. I do not want to drink alcohol or party. So I am seeking likeminded friends. I may have a hard time finding them in college, however.

This guy (let's call him Max for the sake of anonymity) and I were talking for a bit but I didn't want a relationship with him so we remained friends. We have gym class together twice a week, and he's the only one I know in that class. Lately, he's been very dry with his conversations and he'll answer things with one word answers, making it very awkward for me. Then he'll go off and talk to his other friends, leaving me all alone. We used to be inseparable in that class, and now he acts so cold and tries to distance himself. I don't want to try and get to know anyone else this late in the year, and this is the only class where I have such a big problem. Everyone else is already settled in their friend groups, and there are some people who don't like me in this class, so I'd just get hurt if I tried to befriend them. What do I do? Should I confront this friend? There isn't too much to confront, and I feel like I'd sound crazy trying to point out his subtle behavior. I can't be alone in this class, it's full of time spent talking to people and it ruins my morning to feel left out.

Me and my girlfriend like to shower together. Is that normal ?

My three best friends always hang out together and have a lot of fun. Then I found out they were going to a conceet if one out favorite bands together and I thought they were going to ask me later so a blew it off. Next thing I know it's the day of the concert and they still haven't invited me. As far as I know this is the first time they hung out without me.

Alright so I'm in 9th grade and my brother and his friends are major assholes and say they are gonna jump or kill me the next time they see me. They hate me for some reason even though I try to be nice. I don't wanna snitch or make things worse. I think the main reason they want to is because I accidentally snitched on one of them for something pretty small and I apologized but they still want to jump me. Can any of you please help!!!!!

About 2 years ago I lost my mum to canser. So natturally, when my best friends mum killed herself a month a go I wanted to be there for them, because I knew how ut felt to lose a parent. So me and this friend were hanging out. We were a drinking but not drunk (at least I was not) and we started talking about our mothers. At some point in the convo, my friend burst (out of no where really) out in anger "Well it wasnt so bad for you, your mum had canser, you knew it was coming. I wish she killed herself so youd know how I felt!" I was heartbroken. I stood up to leave but they stopped me, keeping ranting on about how it must of been "easy" for me. Thats when I looked him straight in the eyes, slapped him in the face (hard) and went home. (This was 2 days ago). I feel like he knows he shouldnt of said what he said because he looked shocked but also sorry when slapped him. Idk. Thinking back, I feel bad. Everyone greives diffrently and I know some have outburst of anger. I left them alone when he was hurting the most id seen him do. We havent spoken since, although i have heared from other friends he feels bad for what happened and wants to apologise. I dont know if im ready for that yet. Am I a bad person/friend for reacting the way i did? And was I in the wrong? Any advice on how I can help this person without putting myself in the fireing line? Any advice on the situaction at all will help thankyou.

So my 11 year old son (soon to be 12) is best friend's with a neighbor girl who is the same age. He is very into sports and so is she and they are in a lot of the same classes at school. Unfortunately there are not any other boys in our neighborhood around the same age so he and my 9 y.o. daughter spend a lot of time with her and her older sister (13 y.o.). She is a sweet girl and my wife and I both adore her. What concerns me though is that he would rather spend time with her than with his guy friends from school. My fear is that in the not too distant future things might get weird between them (puberty) and when that happens he won't have any guy friends to hang out with. We've tried to encourage him to do more with his friends from school, but he'd rather spend time with her. Should I be concerned or just wait and see what happens? One thing to add. They are just good buddies, not boyfriend and girlfriend. I don't think it's even crossed his mind to look at her that way.

Let's say you became good friends with someone, and invited them to live with you in your extra room to help you both out with rent a stuff. Lets say a few months down the line you realize they have different tastes than you: you like cats they like dogs, you like getting retarded stoned 3 times a day, they like smoking once a week (to each their own, Idk your life.) Well let's say this sudden knowledge in differences takes you by surprised and you're stuck wondering "oh should i download a hacking software on their phone so I can find out more about them on my own terms and police their every word and move on social media for my own personal gain at the expense of their right to privacy? Is that a good idea or does that make you a morally bankrupt, vindictive cyber stalker? Asking for a friend

I have a guy friend like my Instagram post on the spot or view my igstories after I viewed his Instagram Stories but I noticed he like my Instagram post first and after 5 hours later then he proceed to like his friends Instagram post. I stalked on him as I'm curious about him and I found out about this. What is his reason for liking my Instagram post first ? I just get to know him unlike he knew his friends for years? Did he like me or just supporting me?

I'm a shy person but I also love hanging out with people and getting to know new people. The problem is I can't feel comfortable when I'm with them. I normally make jokes and banter just fine with my friends but around new people, I can't talk and show my personality. I guess I'm afraid of saying something stupid. I don't want them to think I'm boring, so any advice on how I can overcome this?

Last night my friend and I were playing a game online, and I lost connection. I sent him a text saying that I'm gonna go to the store, and probably get back on tonight. A couple hours later he sends me a text asking "did you say you were done playing for tonight?" I repeated the text I sent him, but he could have gone back laterally 2 text, and read what I said. I was gonna ask him why he didnt just read what i sent him in the first place. I was gonna put an lol at the end so it didnt seem too rude

My friend says stuff all the time like "No one wants you here, shut up" "I don t respect you" Then he claims he s just joking. But it s rare he s actually nice, maybe a 9:1 rude to nice ratio. How to deal with a friend like this?

Yesterday night Me and a couple friends when to the bar I got pretty buzzed and my friend lives not too far from the bar so we all crashed at his place. He had marijuana so we smoked some of that too. As it was getting later in the night I was dozing off on the couch when my friend who's house were staying came up to me and started groping my penis area I was intoxicated and high but I still knew what was going on. It turned into a argument which led into a fight and me being thrown out. I'm sober now and I feel disgusted not because of the hangover but cause of what happened and it keeps playing in my head and makes me angry I want to murdered him (I'm obviously not) but I don't know how to get over this, any advice?

Soooo I want to throw myself a party for my 21st the weekend after my birthday at my house but I'm getting anxiety that not enough people will come. I have 23 ppl I'm gonna send invites to as of right now but some of my friends live 1-2 hrs away so I'm not sure if they'll actually come. Also, I know that my friends will probably bring friends with them which equals more people, and there is still a month till the party so I'll probably invite more people who I see on a daily basis. Also, I'll probs advertise my party on social media when it gets closer. I just don't know I'm afraid not enough people will come & I'll look like a loser---its probably my anxiety talking but ya know. Also, im going out to bars on my actual bday should I just do that only & not throw a party? idk I just wanted to also be able to celebrate with my friends who will still be underage tho.

We have been best friends for10 years and we have had our arguments and petty fights now I'm 16 and we haven't had a fight since then but I feel like she controls me and my other friends think I'm different around her I try to slowly slip away but she is too in your face to do so so when I go to school I'm with my other friends and she comes over and drags me away without realizing it's hard to tell her I don't want to be friends with her when she can't tell from the signs that I'm trying to send by ignoring her I'm afraid that if I do tell her she is going to start a fight and turn all her friends and my friends against me she will call me names and start rumors that's the type of person she is and on the weekends I stay in my nans and she calls over and I'm sick and tired of her stupid lies like something stupid she says to my dad she does basketball when she doesn't, she told me for Christmas she got me a big makeup set and a big surprise so I bought her a really good present and she gave me a pj set it's not what she got me that mattered it's the fact that she lied and I try to say why lie all the time and she thinks it's a habit and then laughs. It was my nans 1 year anniversary this week and I was very upset but she didn't even ask if I was ok a friend is supposed to be there for you no matter what and she's just not a good friend my mom has always told me but I never really took notice but she always makes me upset and she doesn't realize someone plz help me out thanks

I notice it's harder to make friends when you get older. I've been on my own for 2 years but I've been ok with it. For fun I just go to bars to meet people. I like to see games on tv or live music. Sometimes I try to get out there and meet some women. I'm a outgoing person but I find it hard to make friends as you get older. I used to play poker tournaments and it was the same thing just to get out there and meet people. I got along with everyone. The same thing at this bar I go to. You can see the same people but you won't make good long last friends at bars. Maybe just people you can meet and talk too. I can make friends easily. I did have to drop some friends that weren't good. I don't care about being alone but I still do stuff on my own to be social.

My best friend (let's call her R)'s significant other and I don't get along that well. We've known each other for about 3 years but after I realized he kept canceling 'hang out' events that involved me and some of R's other friends who are also my friends, it became pretty transparent. Anyway, they're the type of couple who read other's texts/skim through each other's stuff, so I genuinely no longer feel comfortable being too open with R via texts or even sharing things with her, because I know it's being shared with her partner too, whom I not only distrust but who I think also falls within the severely judgmental type of personality. I think it's getting in the way of our friendship of almost 6 years, where I tend to keep things to myself now from her, and she doesn't like me being closed off but I don't know how to tell her that I do trust her partner and do not want him knowing about my life? What would you do in this case?

My good friend I see all the time, I messaged her saying "Hi beautiful" and she blocked me on messenger.. why would my own friend do this to me? i'm sure her other friends say hi and they don't get blocked...really hurts..

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My best friend lives with her whole family meaning her cousins family and her grandparents as well. So her cousin got married in April of 2018. Obviously I know weddings are a family thing and I knew she was gonna be busy with wedding prep and stuff but basically she started acting weird and heres how initially she didn't even invite me to the wedding, like she would tell me all about the prep and the pre wedding events and stuff but only a week before the actual wedding when I brought it up how she didn't actually invite me or ask me to Come she was like Ohhh oops ofc u have to come. I didn't think much of this at the time but after she invited me, literally multiple times a day she would be like maybe you shouldn't come, you'll just be bored, whats the point in you coming etc. At that point again I didn't think much of it, I actually don't know why now that I think back to it I should've been more upset but I brushed it off. the day of the wedding I was supposed to go over to her house and do her makeup and we were supposed to get ready together. This was the plan for the last week, then like 3 hours before she texts me and tells me not to come because she's too busy and her and her cousins are getting ready together. It was at this point that I got mad but again I let it go. I text her again an hour before the wedding to tell me when she gets there so ill reach the same time and she says, do you really want to come?? o I was like she clearly doesn't want me there and I didn't end up going. I didn't end up saying anything to her at the time bc it was her cousins wedding and I wanted to be supportive. I kept thinking that I should bring it uo but then I had exams and she had exams and then things were really crazy. Yesterday she brought up her cousins wedding again, I mentioned this to her and how I felt like crap, she replies with "sorryyy...' and I was like ????? I told her she made me feel like **** and that the reply I got. I mean I get it its been almost 9 months and maybe I should've brought it up sooner but I honestly expected more. the she replied "idl why I did that oops.." so I didn't even know what to say, I was feeling super embarrassed bc clearly she didn't give a ****. Now im just trying to move past it bc I don't know what to think. should I say something again? im super embarrassed already since its been so long since this happened I kinda wanna just move on pls help? got an invitation from the host of the wedding and yes I was on the guest list, her grandmother even called me up making sure I was coming. this question is not of wether I was invited or not its why my my friend was acting weird and how to move on

Okay this is going to be lame, I warn you. But okay. So my friend has this crush who she wouldn't tell me the name of. I kept insisting and she kept denying for some days now. Then yesterday, the topic of her crush came up and I was like "oh come oonnn", as any usual friend would. It was us two with two other friends so we were all teasing and stuff. Then all of a sudden, as in out of the blue, I remembered a short 3-second memory of that friend holding her phone and me looking over at it, and seeing a random name pop up on the screen. I asked my friend if that's ever happened. She said no. (she doesnt have a phone) And the fact that I could only remember 3 seconds of that moment, as well as that it was a very hazy and foggy memory that I couldn't remember more of no matter how hard i tried, made me conclude that it was a dream. So I told my friends that I had a dream about this which told me the name of my friend's crush. They were surprised and begged me to tell. So I told that friend the name. In utter surprise, she looked at me with big eyes and said yes, that's correct. I was like, "noo, you're lying". And she swore she was telling the truth. Then my other friend was so amazed and kept saying "that's so cool, that's so cool" I don't know how that happened??? (AHAH I guess this isn't really a question. just a story I guess. that needs confirmation maybe??)

The one of them always humilate me in front of others,she told me that a good looking guy is not for my ugly face,she discourage me when i want to achieve something good for my self by saying me that is impossible and she always try too hard to make me feel ugly and bad for myself... The other does not insult me in front of my face but she destroy my friendship with other girls..she go out with them without tell me something and when they ask about me she told them that i dont like them Why they are so mean to me??? I have never done something bad to them

So my current PT said she wants to go snowboarding, but she does not want to go alone. Can I go with her, or invite her to come with me? Is this legal? How does this affect our doctor-patient relationship? This of course is strictly professional. Were both female so there will not be a chance of a romantic relationship forming.

So Sometimes I'll do something nice for my friend, like buy her something when she is low on money. However, she overly thanks me too much? I will hand her the gift and she will immediately thank me a hundred times, hug me a hundred times and give me a whole speech about how nice I am. She will then call me hundred times the rest of the week thanking me, text me how grateful and thankful she is a hundred times and show up to my house a bunch of times to say how thanks and how bless she is. I wanted to give her my tablet because I got a new one and know she wanted one but I don't feel like hearing her constantly thanking me and being all annoying. If she does it again I might not give her anything else and maybe be done with her all together. What do you think I should do?

Im 18 and I'm finding it almost impossible making friends in community college I started on Monday and have made no progress and dont think I ever will. I only have 4 classes and alot of those people in those classes Are either busy with their own lives and dont even care about making friends. Or completely out of my age group (meaning around late 20's and older) . And let me just say that I dont mind having no friends....For at least at the moment. I have found it comforting seeing other people by themselves and know I'm not alone. But I don't want this to always be the case. I want to know I'll make friends soon one day it would be nice. (And yes I have tried looking at the clubs) but there is not a club that i find interesting or would give up my time for. Also including the fact I have limited transportation. So you can see my problem here. Does it get easier when I transfer to University in 2 years? Or will people already have their friends and will it be the same all over again?

We share the same friends and he tells them we have no issue but than sometimes he'll talk crap about me or if my name is mentioned he'll get annoyed and say don't mention her it irritates me. Why can't he hear my name?In our group chat I was hanging with a guy friend we share and he was in the picture I sent to the group chat and my ex said I ship. We don't talk and aren't friends so I took it as him being petty. But than at the parties our friends throw he will lightly talk to me and be cool. Or if he sees me at the gym he will be near me or look at me. Why is he acting like this? I personally just want us to be cool as we are in the same friend group.

There's a girl I was best friends with for many years and eventually throughout school years we formed a very close knit friend group. But as time went on, she became extremely cynical, negative, and often mean. We assumed that this was because of her bad home life (her dad is an addict, etc.) so we ignored it for awhile. But everything came to a head when we were both looking for jobs one summer. We live in a very small town with limited jobs for teens, and since I knew that she needed the $ a bit more than I did, I only applied to one place (a place I had wanted to work at since I was a young girl). Long story short, she lied to my face and applied to the same job behind my back. This, combined with months of her rudeness, inconsiderate attitude, and all around negativity ended our friendship and we didn't speak for months. She even switched schools by the time next year rolled around. But after a few months, I felt guilty and called her, attempting to smooth things over. She basically spit the attempt back in my face and started spreading lies about me and the others in my friend group. Now it's becoming harder and harder to avoid her, but at this point, talking things out doesn't seem to be an option AT ALL. What's the right way to go about this? She's blocked me on all social media and I want more than anything to know if she's made new friends, because even though it's terrible... a part of me wants her to remain isolated and alone since she treated us so terribly.

So I hate my graduating class and so does the whole school... I am the only freshman in this class and everyone knows it. I hate it because everyone (mainly the sophomores) always talk about how much they hate the freshmen. I am very sensitive and because of hearing all this **** I become very quiet. I just want to disappear because being a freshman sucks, does anyone have tips to go through this year.

I am playing a sport at my highschool and my older cousin is on the team. (I'm a freshman) Today after practice a couple of my close friends told me they heard her say, "Yeah she's my cousin and I hate her she's a *****." I don't know what to do...We are not close but I have never done anything to her. I'm so upset