I'm no longer that young. About mid 30s right now. I'm a self employed web designer. I met a young woman in a bible study and we dated for a few months and it didnt work out well with her. When I was 25 to 27 years, I really had a lot of friends (I lived in an apt and I made friends with the young people in the building). Yet, those friends were just friends. We hung out a lot, watched movies, traveling. Some of the female friends were married later and we are still friends until now. So I'm out of ideas how to meet single women. I also tried online dating but most of the girls there are not there serious about finding a lover. I texted them and they just hi, what do you do blablabla but when I asked a serious question like "have you ever been married before?".... they didnt reply the message. They are just "experimenting".

My husband choked me using just 1 hand last night because I was trying to leave the house at mid night because I wanted to go to my parents home. I just wanted to take a break away from him since we've been arguing a lot The Whole week. So while I was at the door trying to open it, he was trying to close it while my hand is in between so it hurts because the door is squeezed my right hand. He was trying to close it so tightly so I won't get out. Then he went in and put his hand on my neck and then pushed me while choking me so I won't leave. He even pull my clothes to sleep in bed. He also pushed me because I wasn't listening to him. He was very angry and it was the first time he did that to me after 10 years of being in a relationship. We've only been married for 1 year. I just needed space so I can just rest in my parents house. He said why won't I stay and take care of our child. It was at mid night and everyone is sleeping. Even our son was sleeping. I was shocked that my husband can do that to me. But yeah sometimes he calls me Fake, *****. Every day he calls me *****. It hurts and I didn't look at him that way. He was actually a nice guy before we became bf and gf.

I'm looking for a little bit of clarification here. My ex husband and I were married for 13 years from 2002 to 2015. We divorced in 2015, it's coming up on four years now. I was a SAHM during our marriage. I stayed home, took care of our house, the kids and was a good wife. My husband filed for divorce in March of 2014. Our divorce was final in May 2015. We did have a slight dramatic custody battle. Our children are 15, 13 and 11. He is in upper level management for a Fortune 500 company. He pays child support every month and is a good father to our kids. I was receiving alimony until I remarried my current husband (we married in March of 2018). I still do not work, I stay at home. My husband seems very frustrated with this because we live in NYC and our rent is quite the bit of money (along with five kids as I have three daughters and he has two daughters as well who are my stepkids). He wants me to work, even part time to help with the bills. I am looking for work but I am not interested in working very much. He is not as successful as my ex husband but he has done just ok. Well here is the thing. My ex husband is dating a black woman from Brooklyn (we are all from Queens). She works for NYPD as a lieutenant. My kids like her. She was a single mom with two kids before meeting my ex husband. What makes me surprised is that I would have never thought he would date such a career oriented woman. I thought he preferred submissive women who wanted to be homemakers.

I am in university in a group project and this guy in my group is always picking on me, acting possessive when other guys pay attention to me. Every time I suggest something in the group he changes it even though it's the same thing I just mentioned. Like if I put "and" in a sentence he changes it for "also" he even said he did it out of spite. He has better grades than me so I don't get why his constant need to go out of his way to do stupid things like that. He also has a wife I don't think he'd like me so I'm lost. Am I missing something here?

But, wants to be protected by his less aggressive kids from the more aggressive child. He also displaces anger onto the less aggressive child bc they are "less threatening." And, tries to improve his relationship with the more aggressive child by blaming the less aggressive one

We have been together for 4 years, lived together for 3 years. Purchase a home together and raised a puppy together. Our relationship is great - balanced, fair, fun, loyal, spontaneous, loving, caring, supportive.. everything I've ever wanted. We are each other's best friend. We just went on a trip of a lifetime and I thought he'd propose as it was beautiful there and a ton of photo opportunities. And we live in a very cold state which is terrible this time of year and not romantic or photogenic. He wants to be married and have kids one day.. I'm sick of waiting. I'm sick of being asked by everyone around me if he's proposed yet. I'm sick of the constant reminder that we are the last of our friends to get married even though we've been together the longest. Money isn't the issue, we both make great money. We've talked about engagement so many times and I'm in tears currently because we are now home from our trip and I'm still not engaged. We are 25 almost 26 and I have a maternal clock and want to enjoy every step of the way but also have kids before I'm 30. I love him but am angry and sad at this point and want a proper commitment. Why won't he propose? Am I doing anything wrong? At what point do I give up or give an ultimatum?

She's depressed and he is always trying to cheer her up and cater to her needs. If she's having a hard day he goes on groupon and finds couples massages, snow shoe packages, makes dinner reservations, takes her to a movie, takes her shopping, anything she wants she gets. She got upset that he liked other girls photos on facebook so he gave her his password and even made her the administrator of his Facebook business page so she can read all incoming messages at her leisure. He took her on 3 vacations and paid for airfare, hotel, food and shopping and they've only been together for 8 months. She complained that she was tired of living with her parents and having to do chores like laundry, folding clothes, mopping kitchen floor because she's depressed and doesn't have the energy so he rented a luxury apartment for himself a month later and added her to the lease, moved her in and let her furnish it to her liking. She only works part time so he pays for her phone bill and gives her gas money. He introduced her to his family and friends and is always eager to show her off and say "this is my gorgeous girlfriend" YET she's always complaining on Facebook about how men use women for sex, men are weak and need girlfriends to mother them, how she's being used by a narcissist, how most men are narcissists, how money would solve all of her problems and make her life better so she could travel even more and how men only like her because she's pretty. Why?? Her bf does anything she says

My fiance (M32) told my two year old, who is not biologically his child, to "knock it off" because he was carrying around a bowl of crackers. I got upset and told my fiance "Don t talk to my son that way. He is only two. He doesn t understand knock it off, he understands the word no." And instead of listening to me, my fiance told me to shut the f*** up. And then he told me that he doesn t want to marry me if that s how I m going to do things with my own child. And then he took the engagement ring back and I slept on my son s bedroom floor last night because he said I m not allowed in our bedroom. I am a 21 year old female. When we fight or get in an argument, my fiance always tells me to get out of his house or that he hates me and wants to break up. We ve been together for three years. He also is always high on pot. I don t have a problem with him smoking outside of the house and whatever, but he s always high. There s never a time where he s not high. I don t smoke or drink so it s really annoying to me that he can t be sober for one day. Also - his mom pays his bills, house utilities, phone, car insurance. He works so he s fully able to pay before his own stuff. The only thing he plays for is weed and video games. Meanwhile I pay all of my bills, and for everything for my son. What should I do? My family tells me to leave him. But its just really hard.

We have only dated for 2 months and I can tell that he is very emotionally reserved. We were in bed the other day, just talking and I asked about his ex wife. He said: "She was a beautiful person, inside and out. She meant well but we married too young. She had a lot of growing up to do and at the time I felt that I had to sacrifice too much off myself for her happiness. I know I hurt her a lot when we divorced and I do hope she finds happiness and I wish her nothing but luck and lots of love in life. But you move on. And I have learned that you can not be together with someone and forget yourself in the us. So that's what I'm doing now. Focusing on me." Sometimes I get the feeling that he regrets divorcing her. He rarely speaks off her. But I also feel like I can not push too much because we are not there yet. How do I know if a divorcee is ready to actually move on for real?

Me and my wife dated for 4 years got married then had a baby. We were adults when we did it she's 26 I'm 21. Not many people do it this way anymore so when we did it for some reason it just felt wrong because lots of girls seem to get married and pregnant between ages 15 and 19. Is it wrong to do it this way ? Also when you see all these teen pregnancies on tv then waiting to get married in their 20's after they're kids are 9 or 10. Just doing it the right way feels wrong

I've only been married for a few months, my husband and I have known each other nearly all our lives and we waited half a decade to get married so we could really get to know one another. Nothing about us is rushed. We're happy and facing the average marital problems that most people do early on, and most importantly we learn how to work through them. My mom though, she's constantly in the way of us. She makes up these outlandish stories about how we have a failing marriage and how unhappy we are with one another. I can hear her blabbing to my dad about her theories trying to convince him that nothing is right. Even on the phone she's talking to family members about it. In March, he and I are moving into an apartment. We moved in with my family so that we could get all of our finances straight before more money had to be shelled out, and there's just one last thing to pay off and we'll be debt free. My mom has always been a heavy gossiper and I would even go as far to call her a busybody, because she's always on the phone talking about someone else. Now I'm the target for some reason. I finally confronted her and told her to stop making up tall tales about my life, she knows nothing is wrong, and that because I'm so close to moving a fair distance from her, don't make me leave on a bad note. She hasn't really said much to me, but she does continue to talk about "my problems" with other people. Can anyone relate to this?

Friend's wife and he have had marriage problems for some time. Now suddenly over a span of 2-3 weeks she has nearly lost her mind and may be on the edge of insanity. She wants a divorce but the Bible says no. Can insanity happen that quick? What are the causes of insanity such as incompatible persons who stay together because of marriage vows. All around her want her in a care facility since divorce is a sin. She might even be a danger to herself if she does not live where she wants to live. Give details of this serious matter and we know what the Bible says about divorce and suicide, so stick to long term or short term causes of such mind confusion which is all day long. Thanks.

My wife is upset she's afraid that one of our cats had died she hasn't seen it this morning she's looked under the trailer she's called for her. She's seen the others but not this one. She's not very old she'll be 2 this summer she doesn't have thick coats like the others do she doesn't hardly eat she's worried she might not make it through the winter. She's really worried about her she hopes she's hiding somewhere she's never done this she always comes in with the others. She's not gonna know what to do when our daughter wakes up she doesn't know if she should cry in front of her she's only a week old so she won't know what's going on. How can I help her feel better ? Is it ok to cry in front of your kids ?

Till marriage like the old days? Men are getting sex nowadays without any marriage. This is resulting men getting the cake and eating it too. And men aren't getting married nowadays because they are getting it without marriage. In the old days, women had to keep their virginity till marriage, this way horny men had to get married lol. Whats happening today sucks ! This way, the society and family life will decay in no time 😭😭

Personally, I would haveso much sex with him when we get back home if my husband fought my dad for me or threatened to call the police

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My husband Is a picky eater but sometimes he purposely says he doesn't like certain things to get a reaction out of me. Yesterday I cooked. He came looked at it and claimed he did not want it. our son was watching the whole scene. I didn't say a word. He walked away then came back later and apologized and got a plate. He said he liked it and gave a bunch of excuses as to why he acted the way he did. I was annoyed and he got turned off by the fact that I was annoyed. Later on I approached him and tried to make a list of things he doesn't like so that next time we will accommodate him. he said that I didn't have to cook two separate meals if he didn't want some he will just eat something from the freezer. I let him know it was ok to have different taste so that's why I was doing this. fast forward to later on. He get angry tells me to turn the lights off and stay on my phone in the dark because he knows I will fall asleep with the lights on. I told him I will make sure I do that before I fall asleep. He turn the lights off on me while we are talking. I reiterated that I was not done. Mind you he is not sleeping in the room with me at the moment. he goes back and forth and comes to try to get a reaction out of me, and finally lets me know that I won't do what he says, asks me if that is how this marriage is going to be from now on. I didn't say a word because he was raising his voice as a means to scare me into doing something. he walked away. (I am going to counseling)

I've been married for almost 3 years now. i was young when i got married and went through a lot of things already. I was 23 and now i am 26. our relationship isn't bad, however, since we been married and had our first son in 2017, he feels the need to go out almost every night or on his weekend off until 5-6 in the morning. he has 4 brothers and they hang out at their moms house in the basement drinking all night. i know we are still young and i shouldn't keep try keeping him with me all the time. however, sometimes i feel neglected as a wife even though he says whats the problem your sleeping when im out. I wake up from knowing hes not home. and he says its not always my fault my brothers want me to stay longer and i cant say no because then it looks like i have a "curfew" and they laugh at me. i guess what i am trying to ask is.. would you married woman feel lonely? is it neglectful ? would you like your husband being out a lot of nights until 6 in the morning ? or should i stop worrying and let him be out since hes only at his moms hanging with his brothers who are family. because i know were both still young, i dont want to keep him "trapped" per say. thanks in advance ladies

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