Sometimes im insaiable cant stop thinkingnof sex Then randomly i hear about sex and i have no emotion and think"sex is overrated and boring. Why would you want that?" And just think sex is silly.

Sometimes I manage to ask 2 but isn't he my husband? Cant I ask him anything?)Well when it comes to me it is not the same,which is what pisses me off.He asks me millions of questions & I entertain that. MEN PLEASE ANSWER.Wht is it tht u get pissed by thisOr are there men alive who don't find this an issue?My husband tells me being my husband,he will control me.He asks me something& I should get it done WITHOUT ANY QUESTION! Im almost done with my marriage & at times feel like cutting my wrist,jumping out of a moving car ☹.I need help.Women & men, advices frm both needed on what to do to savethis marriage. IM FED UP!!Please ADVICE! Just knw I have no issues with my inlaws and they respect me too.Only my husbands a problem now.I feel depressed& alone. I NEED OPINIONS AND SUGGESTIONS FROM BOTH MEN AND WOMEN on this. I am unable to take this now. I went through hell to fight for him and marry him only to realize he wants a puppet! Only to realize whatever I do means nothing! Im at the verge of dying.

My husband got into a bar fight with some guy last weekend and absolutely obliterated him by repeatedly kicking him in the testicles. The guy cowered and cried and puked his guts out. Now everyone is mad at my husband for taking a "cheap shot". I thought the whole point of fighting was to hurt your opponent as much as humanly possible? Why don't men kick right for the big king crab when fighting more often and why the hell are they mad at my husband for winning a fight efficiently? Is this a cultural thing in the south? We moved here from Massachusetts last year if that explains anything. Help!

I am at the beginning of a nasty divorce. My soon to be ex husband has figured out a way to hack my bank account, social media accounts and email accounts. He has tracked me to places using my Apple ID so I went and got a new phone for myself and created a new Apple ID. Nobody knew about this new phone yet, nobody! I put new phone in my maiden name and had the address on the account to my mom's house. Today, he called me on my new phone. Any ideas on how he found the number?

I have been married for 10 yrs with 2 kids. My wife is beautiful but not sexy anymore since gaining weight after the kids. I met my now gf at work. She is sexy to me with no kids or baggage. We have been having sex on business trips for 2 yrs. Problem is my gf wants a baby. She is in love with me. I love her as a person and for the sex. I am in love with my wife. I don't want to divorce because my wife is a safe choice. She cooks, cleans, raises the kids, and has sex. I think about my gf when we have sex but I don't love my gf the way I love my wife... I am so confused. How to get out of this mess I have made?

We just got married and I am currently on my honeymoon. It seems like all my husband wants to do is have sex but I am not feeling it. I was a virgin before the wedding night. He was very rough and there was no romance. I asked him to have candles and rose petals but he did none of that. Basically just ripped off my wedding dress and went to town, Now on the honeymoon I want to go out and explore the island but he says he wants to stay in the room and order in. He wants to stay in the room and have sex all day. I don't want to. How to avoid my new horny annoying husband?

I would like to change my name after my divorce (to something brand new, not my last name before the divorce). Can I get a fee waiver for that specifically?

I'm young still and have years and years to still decide, but I feel like I would regret it either way so I'm really on the fence about this.

My children are 6 and 7 and are not involved with any aspect of this issue at hand. The worker is trying to say that they have to speak to everyone in my home. We are not the ones being investigated.

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Like the title says, my ex husband is having a baby with his wife of 8 years. She's pregnant with a boy, which is what he always dreamed of having. To make the burn worse for me, he's naming the baby after his best friend that passed years ago before he even met his wife. When we were together we wanted that name for our baby, but we never were blessed with one. All of our mutual friends are praising him on social media for honoring his friend that way, and complimenting his wife for being considerate of his wishes. I feel really bad about myself that my ex husband is being given everything he's ever wanted by someone else. He now will have everything we wanted when we were married, except I don't have any of it. How do I get over this? I don't know why this hurts me so much.

My parents have been figthing on and off for the past 6 months to a year. It's causing me a lot of anxiety. I'm turning 28 and saving up for a house so I hear a lot of it. They will both put us in the middle( I'll be honest I'm guilty of venting about it to them). My sister's and I have collectively gone to them and asked to not bring us in the middle. If it's something that's between them they should work it out. They can have minor fights or big fights then act like everything is ok. To my knowledge they dont discuss it and move forward ( if they do its news to me). I don't see them going to counciling because they tried when they first got married 18 years ago and it wasn't good for them. My mom was previously married to my father. I saw a lot of nasty fights and was put into the middle of things. All I wanted was to enjoy being a kid. I didn't realize until my parents fighting recently began how that caused me anxiety. I am looking into therapy to help me cope with that and other issues. I'm concerned they're going to divorce because of how they fight and deal with conflict. They often through that word out and I told them never to say that unless they mean it. I know they don't have the self esteem to get a divorce. But it's a scary sad thought. How can I help my parents out?

My husband left me for a woman who's practically on welfare, still lives with her mom/parent and no car. Sure she's young but that has nothing to do with it. Meanwhile, I have my own apartment, have a good job and a car. He's also successful and has his own business. How can he go with such a loser? What's wrong with him?

If a woman sleeps with a married man it's " what a homewrecking whore" When a man sleeps with a married woman you don't hear anything at all. What gives ?

I've been with my bf (31) a year and our relationship is really great. He is in med school and will start applying for residency this fall. He's already made comments about how he assumes we'd be living together during his residency and asked me if I'd be willing to move. All exciting and great. But He has never confirmed his stance on being engaged or married prior to moving in together. When he saw me reading a random article about An engaged couple with MIL issues, he said he was wasnt ready for engagment any time soon. Which is fine but it caught me by surprise because he's mentioned us living together when he starts residency multiple times. Idk how to approach the conversation lightly but I think it's an important to be on the same page when it comes to the future because I've always believed you have to be married or engaged prior to living together, on top of that I'd be quitting my job where I get paid well and have great benefits, and leaving my nice condo (I own) to follow someone who I am not engaged to? I've been ambivalent to jump into this conversation because he has not said that he loves me, yet. I've been patient and not pressured him about that, but if we have totally different Visions about his residency that seems important to discuss soonish right? Any insight on how to talk about this? Or when to talk about this? I don't want to wait until when he gets his placement to be like oh I'm not moving actually since we aren't engaged.. that seems weird..

My ex wife whom I pay child support to recently remarried to a business man. Long story short she now has a total of 4 incomes which increased her total household income tremendously. Wondering if I could appeal to get my child support obligation reduced? I understand that it's not the responsibility of her new husband to financially support my kids but I'm sure he's now paying her bills etc. Which increases her cash flow. Correct me if I'm wrong but 4 incomes is a lot and I feel I deserve a reduction in my child support obligation.

getting off doesn't always have to be romantic, why would you be mad if your SO went off to masturbate because you weren't in the mood? I don't get mad or pitch any kind of fit when I am turned down, but sometimes ive been at work all day thinking about sex and I just get so turned on I need some kind of release

I have a coworker who is from Colombia and he told me that he's worried about his marriage because in Colombia, he was able to afford so many things and give his wife every little thing she wanted, and now that he's living in the US, his money doesn't go as far and now his wife is resenting him for it. I have also heard stories where a wife leaves once the money runs out

Before my wife and I were together, my best friend and I did everything together. We would always travel, spend weekends together, to parties, office parties, etc. My wife and I have been together for about a year now. Throughout the year, I spent my birthday with my best friend. I didn't think she would want to do what "guys" want to do. I spent a few weekends with him. I didn't think she would want to tag along and do "guy" stuff. on our annivassary I invited him because it was a special day for me. Just like how I join his wife on their annivarsary. We also spend holidays together, such as Halloween, Christmas, and Thanksgiving. Of course my wife was at those events but I mostly hung out with my best friend. We grew up together since second grade and were 30 now. My wife complains that I spend too much time with my friend and I told her in the beginning that my best friend and I are two peas in a pot and she accepted it on date number 1. anyway does she have reason to be upset? I just don't understand what her problem is. Is she jealous? I'm straight. its not like were "together"