my fiancé wants glitz and glamour huge venue and the very best food. I want something modest, small venue, and I also want to wear a beautiful black wedding dress which he made fun of me for. He claims he wont have quote " poor red neck wedding" but to me I don't want all the glitz and glamour I tried to compromise maybe have a middle-level wedding humble but still magical. he flat out refused the wedding planning has been nothing but fighting. i dont want to wear a dress i dont like a venue i hate and just be unhappy my wedding day. i dont wanna put my foot down though and cause further argument honestly my wedding has become nothing but a pest that im ready to just get over with :(

Is it a must dat every newly married couple must go/have a honey moon?