So me and my sister often have arguments and we argue about who looks better, I know it's stupid, but she always says I'm ugly, takes pictures, talks ****, points out my hair and eyebrows, etc. Does that mean I'm really ugly or does she say that because she's insecure about herself?

This is a serious question from a young woman who is emotional and vulnerable as hell right now. I've been friends with this older man (11 years older) for almost 2 years. We used to be closer than we are now, but we still consider each other to be friends. He's married with a family, I've been with my boyfriend for 4 months. I've been so in love with my friend for almost 2 years as well (we met in June 2016..he was my boss and we became friends in March 2017 and I fell in love in late May 2017). We go to the same church (we no longer work together and haven't since mid-2017) and have somewhat of the same social group at church, so we know a lot of the same people. I know his wife and she's been really sweet to me. My boyfriend has also met them several times. Anyways, how do I quit being in love with my friend? I do love my boyfriend, but I know deep down I can't give him ALL of me while I'm still in love with my friend. It's not even like I see my friend every week. I saw him this past Sunday after a month and in that month, we only talked once. On Sunday, we went to lunch as a group of 13 and the entire time, I was trying to look at him and not be caught by his wife. He just looked so good (he's been exercising a lot to lose the tiny bit of weight he had on him) and I really wanted to check him out. I feel so bad. My boyfriend senses I have feelings for my friend, so that makes it worse. I want to keep him as a friend, but how do I get over him? The worst part is, I think deep inside, there's always been this "feeling" between us. I can't explain it. When we're alone, we can just talk and talk. When we're around others, he'll barely speak to me and he seems tense, almost like he is worried to be himself with me around others. Being alone together almost feels natural and comfortable and right. The conversations never have a dull moment or awkward silence, unlike with most people. Also, when we're alone together, we mostly talk about work...his job, my job or good times from when we worked together. We flirt the tiniest bit, but never talk about anything inappropriate. However, there was one time where the piece that opens his sun roof fell off and in between my legs and without ANY hesitation, he reached his arm in between my legs and reached down to get it. I was worked up for days, having had him THAT close to my crotch.

So I am a young mom who is a junior in college. I am also in nursing school and pregnant while also having a 19 month old in towe. I am finding myself to be absolutely exhausted between school, pregnancy, and my toddler, that I feel absolutely miserable. Any tips to help me handle all this stress and exhaustion other than having my husband help with the baby (hes not currently available). Also, I can't take less classes either because nursing school will not allow it. Not to mention I am also about to pick up a job, which will only be about 12 hours a week. Need advice and tips. Also stories from similar situations would help too.

I met a girl a couple years older than me and she seemed flirty right away and seemed to be trying to get my attention because she jumped on an opportunity to help a guy I talk to. She talked loudly and showed skin. She laughed at my singing. She laughed hard and long at a bad joke I made to someone else then asked me to repeat it. After that she waited after class with her friend to giggle wait for me pop out and say boo. She began butting in my conversations to laugh at lame stuff I say, ask me to repeat stuff to her or respond to stuff I say trying to talk to me. When I talk to her she waits after class with her friend to pop out say boo. She smiles at me a lot and laughs at the dumbest stuff I say and finds any excuse to talk to me. Her friend doesnt talk to me at all and the one time she talked to me and sat next to me she was unhappy. She was upset when her friend was close to me or next to me. While talking to me her whole face gets red and she smiles but she hides her face and makes no eye contact. When i say hi first she blushes and smiles. She giggles and says my name when I mind my own business. When she sees me in the hall she cant look at me and say hi first. She builds off what I say to other people to try to talk to me. She can only approach me with her friend and only does flirty stuff with them. When I take the intiative to talk to her she asks me to sit with her for selfies and get close to her. When I talk to her alone shes awkward can't talk very well