They were not sent to a place of torment, they were punished by banishment from paradise and because they did wrong suffered sin & death. When humans die they go back to the Dust.... the soul is our life and it dies with us. It is not separate

I'm in a somewhat abusive relationship. I'm older though and cannot see getting in a relationship with someone else. I would be so lonely and likely for so long without a significant other.

Is a 21 and 22 year old getting married too young?

He spent an entire week in bed due to depression. He depends on his mom financially and gets bullied by people in his country.

My female friend attitude is changing? Before, she would get nervous getting my Christmas gift even though it was calendar. This year, she was confident and receptive in getting my gift. I would text her and she may say I am at work. Now she is responding to text during work. She told she was going out of town. Instead of being matter of fact, she said it would be just 4 days. Why is she changing towards me?

I don;t want to reveal that I was told they are separating as my grandmother on my Dad's side told me my Mom's sister and her husband have split up. My Mom had told her mother-in-law and I know that will infuriate my Mom's sister so I don't want to expose that. At the same time do I act shocked when told? What do I say? The couple has been married 32 years so I am in shock to hear that. The husband I don't see much of other then big family functions as he is not very social. So my question is what do I say when the aunt or her kids bring it up so not to reveal who said?

I will be gone for 5 days vs just 5 days How does using the word just changes the meaning

We've dated for 6 years and he didn't want us to be together unless we lived together and started to grow. The last option he gave me was for me to pay for half of his rent while he kept his place and I still kept mine. That would be about $500 dollars. Since I didn't immediately agree to it and said I need to think about it. The offer doesn't exist. He said if I really wanted us to work the money wouldn't matter . Also he explained that he would save the money for us but this after he saw my hesitation. Is this normal?

My wife's parent stayed with us. They have heard our fights. We don't fight often.After they left our place, while there was an argument, I told her that your father was saying such bad things to me. She called her up in front of me to confirm and they were likely completely shocked why this question is coming up. I spoke to them. My wife was crying over the phone. It was a bad show altogether. I become a villan in that entire episode.I can keep my wife happy. Afterwards, my wife is normal now. I have convinced her and she is fine. My plan is keep her more happy now. What her parents might be thinking now? My impression is gone now. Whatever I did for them has become zero.

Well my wife wants to get rid of my dog because it bit our other one and says it's either her or the dog. Either he's going back to where we got him or she's leaving with the other dog and then she just turned off her phone unfortunately I won't be home till at least tomorrow afternoon due to being on duty at the barricks and having a course to go to the next day. She used to be so sweet and loving now's she's just always starting arguments every other day. Any advice

Almost every woman I know who is In a relationship or married does all the house work. Their significant other gets to work, come home and relax while they have to cook dinner, clean, do laundry, take care of the kids (if they have any), take care of their husbands, and lastly if they have time, take care of themselves. They say that their partner takes out the trash and takes care of the vehicles and home. But that's not a daily chore. My house requires work maybe a couple times a year, law cut once per week, trash taken out once per week and my vehicles only need maintenance every 8 months or so. Women why are you doing all the work?

My wife just had our baby on Friday we're one of those couples who like to have sex every night. Even though it's been 2 days since she had our daughter is it safe for us to have sex ?

He avoids her, turns and go.another way. And this "certain" woman is happily married for 20 yrs.

If you wanted to go public in a relationship, who would be the one? Hand holding, kissing, hugging in the streets Text messaging at work, in front of your children Some hot guy you know for one month, short time Someone having hot sex with Someone you are in love with

His ex-wife dangles their children over his head to get her way. It's starting to affect me. I'm so angry. He has told her many times to stop acting this way and even after taking it to court, she continues to "act" like she doesn't understand why she can't do certain things, such as coming over unannounced, not allowing him to get the kids, threatening him to get full custody because she doesn't like me. She uses the kids to try and divide us because she wants from him what "we" have. Their relationship was never like ours. He was the one who asked for divorce, although she ended up filing. She wanted to stay married, but the marriage was too far gone. He and I met during the last 2 months of their marriage, however we stayed platonic until they were divorced and several months later. I just want to know what I can do and what we can do to stay peaceful with a person who doesn't want to be cordial for children, someone who wants to make her ex miserable.

I've been trying to get a divorce and he's the one who has to file it because I'm n it in the states. I'm assuming he's waiting it out because he's getting paid. We're in the same branch, im not sure if he's getting it or not. But I think he is. I want out so bad!!!

I've known this woman since late 2011. Back then, she and her boyfriend and 2 young children lived in a motel room. I'd babysit for them at least twice a week for many months, so I was around them a lot. Although she said they were boyfriend and girlfriend, they never seemed to display affection for each other. One time when I was babysitting the kids, the young daughter pulled condoms out of one of the bedside drawers. That didn't make sense to me because living in a motel room with two small kids, I highly doubt the parents were having sex. Once when I was over, my friend brought up how they had been together for 11 years and she didn't know why they weren't married yet. Again, never saw any ounce of affection between them or anything implying they were even fond of each other. There were two beds in the room so she shared a bed with the daughter and he shared a bed with the son. I haven't seen the couple in a long time (they're in their late 40's, by the way), but I know last time I saw her, she was letting herself go. She had gained weight and LOOKED pregnant although she wasn't and she never bothered to pluck her chin hairs. It's like she didn't care if she was attractive or not. Her husband was fit and would even go as far as allowing me to not only see him in his boxers (I was about 20 then), but he walked around in nothing but a towel around his waist right in front of me. My friend didn't seem to care. Anyways, I noticed lately she has seemed down in her IG posts so I messaged her and asked her about it. She said that she just figured she'd be married by now. She's still with the same guy and their kids are almost 12 and almost 15 now. They live somewhere else now, by the way. How do I respond to her message? I don't think she'll find marriage with this guy. If he wanted to settle down with her, he would've a long time ago, but I don't know how to tell her that. What do I say?

Is it possible for two people to be soulmates, but be with two different people? My friend and I are 11 years apart and when he got married, I was 12. We've known each other a couple of years and I can't help, but to often wonder if we're soulmates. I have a boyfriend and he thinks we're soulmates, but I don't feel like we are. I feel my friend is mine, but I could never say that or do anything about it. I truly wish I could explain the connection we have. We would never cheat on our significant others, but I can't help but to think we're naturally drawn to one another. Katzen, I am saying that we are 11 years apart when he got married and I was 12. I didn't know him back then, we met just a couple years ago. I'm 28 and he's about to be 39. You all are wrong. My parents are soulmates.

Married 3 months, we have nothing together. Don't live together, no kids, no property, no shared money nothing. Both in the military. I'm overseas (out the country) he's in the states. I was told we can do it on our own, file the paper work, waive the hearing, & pay the court fees no lawyers needed. He would be in charge of filing the paperwork since he's in the states. He's not sending the paperwork, he wanted the divorce and now he's second guessing and playing mind games. How can I get myself out this trap. & If I have to hire a lawyer for this what would be the total cost ?