Basically, pump n' dump sums up my relationships with women, should I change my rules?

My boyfriend who I just got back together with didn't see me all through Christmas. I haven t seen him since the 17th December. I was supposed to meet him before Christmas but that day he went out with his friend who he hadn't seen in ages & got too hungover. My boyfriend hardly has any friends and is a bit of a loner, so I wanted him to see his friend. But over Christmas he said he was embarrassed he couldn't see me as he has no money, as he does t get paid over Christmas, just gave his rent & won t get paid until the 18th. We live far apart. He was alone at Christmas, texting me all day, but he said he was no fun around Christmas. He has no family around. Today he text me that it was his first day back & he is working near me, so we can get a drink when he gets paid. I just feel like he controls when we see each other. So you just go weeks without seeing me, because you are broke? Or am I being unreasonable? I would have come over and seen him. Costs no money, but he didn t even seem to want that.

When I was in college I went on a study abroad trip to Russia, I speak it fluently so I would flirt with the local babes. Me and this one girl lets call her Dasha, dated while doing the study abroad and I got a Facebook message from her. She's living in Brighton Beach NY, and she has a son and she knows that Im the father. She sent me a picture and the kid at three looks just like me minus my eye color, he has his mother's green eyes. She said that she thought I should now about my son, she is a single mother who works as a waitress. She told me that she would've told me sooner but she couldn't find a way to contact me. Heres the catch, she said that the her son has amblyopia and needs surgery on the eyes and that she needs my help for paying for it. Im 25 she's 21. What do I do? Im so overwhelmed.

We been engaged since August 2018. Basically we made the decision to have a baby. We are 25 and 26 years old going to be 26 and 27 soon. We have full time jobs and part time jobs. We are actively looking for an apartment. The problem is we arent married yet. What should we do? Get married by the courts and have a wedding ceremony in the future? If we decide to have sex this week when should we check for pregnancy?

My boyfriend who I just got back together with didn't see me all through xmas. I haven't seen him since the 17th December. I was supposed to meet him before xmas but that day he went out with his friend who he hadn't seen in ages & got too hungover. My boyfriend hardly has any friends and is a bit of a loner, so I wanted him to see his friend. But over xmas he said he was embarrassed he couldn't see me as he has no money, as he does't get paid over xmas, just gave his rent & won't get paid until the 18th. We live far apart. He was alone at xmas, texting me all day, but he said he was no fun around xmas. He has no family around. Today he text me that it was his first day back & he is working near me, so we can get a drink when he gets paid. I just feel like he controls everything. So you just go weeks without seeing me, because you are broke? Or am I being unreasonable? I would have come over and seen him. Costs no money, but he didn't even seem to want that.

The restaurants around where I live have a sjw atmosphere. It is not as you would go in there and be dined in by a bunch of doll waitresses, Is this the management or the demographic group?

Are there guys out there that are happy being single forever, who like to live alone and are not willing to give up their freedom for any relationship responsibilities, no matter how much they like the girl? Or have they just not met the right girl? Do some guys want to be eternal bachelors? And I don't mean that they are players, just they don't want marriage, kids and a 'proper' relationship. What do you do when you find someone special? Do you push them away? I know guys like this, but not many girls who would want this.

I went on this church thing like 7 years ago. I went to go fix some houses and paint in a native reservation with the church group. Both girls and I were like 1 year apart. I was the oldest, soon to turn 19. Anyway, there were two girls I liked sitting next to each other. They were playing this card game. There's girl 1 and 2. Now 2 I had liked forever and 1 new that. 1 suggested the game. While we were playing 1 started like running her feet along my legs. Real quick, I've had 3 seizures like 3 years ago, takes 4 years for the brain to fully heal. But anyway! Every time I think about this event lately I can feel her feet going up my legs and my brain just goes blank with imagination and I feel my "genitalia" "pull back" like I start to feel uncomfortable. I mainly feel her feet moving along inside of my legs from the bottom to top. Idk I've been feeling like I've been molested maybe but I'm not real sure about the different types. Like at the time I enjoyed it, I thought she was just flirting, even mentioned it to my mom. She said oh okay who blah blah. It came up tonight and irl I just don't like it. Memories from my past keep popping up now and then. Was I assaulted or what? Is it just nothing? If it is I'm not trying to be rude, I'm just lost.

So I found that this guy is moving ahead with another girl (to marry her) and was being good to me at the same time. When I got this knowledge through him, I asked him right on his face about it, that what he was doing with me all the time when he had plans for future with another girl and why was he getting physically intimate with me?

My wonderful mother posted one of those "I bet you can't find this letter" posts where there's a whole bunch of other letters. Now. There is a relative that we all despise that commented quite the smart booty comment. My blood was boiling. "It's right in the center.....thanks for sharing" I KNOW this relative may not be acting hasty but you do not know this woman. My question is can you help me with a great comeback. Nothing too rude. Has to be professional yet a good stab.

My friend said even if you get along with your parents it's stressful because sometimes after a long day of work you just wanna relax on the couch without having to look at somebody else. She said there is a certain amount of peace and happiness that comes with your having your own place. She was like" and there are times when you wanna blast your music out, and if you have significant or somebody over it's awkward with your parents always in the same area because you can't completely be yourself". My friend was like " i always got along with my parents the day I started getting irritated with their presence was the day I knew I needed to move out. Even if you love them the relationship will bbe strained because adults need space and privacy"... I never thought about that. Opinions?

My boyfriend and I haven't made love yet. I am really shy and insecure and he understands me and respects me. He never actually asked me anything, and he looks kinda shy too (he blushes when i tell him he's the most handsome one). But he does something that makes me question everything. When we sleep together (we do cuddle and hug each other) in the morning once, as soon as we wake up, he has opened my pj and bared my breasts, kissing and nibbling me on my chest. It was the really first time and he also blushed when I asked him 'what are you doing?' but he felt at fault (I was just joking) and stopped. Why did he feel like baring me, and why made me lie down so that he could kiss my breasts, although they're small and there's not much to kiss or fondle? Why doing it if then you don't have sex?

Stay with him till he dies because she has no other options. What a sad life that must be. Is it okay to feel sorry for her or should I not concern myself with the tragedy that is her life?

What does it mean when a guy has no real friends, no family and no desire to find love? Does someone's past affect how you see relationships? For example his Mum died when he was 21, his sister moved country with her husband & took some of his inheritance, & his dad cheated on his mum and now has a new family who he has never met & doesn't want to. He is 35. Now he just wants sex from girls, isn't open with his feelings & spends most of his time at home or at work.