So basically recently well today.. my boyfriend lost trust with this girl he had. She was a good friend of his. Friend of his best friend as well. His friend let's call her Ama and lets call my boyfriend Rick. So basically Ama told Rick a big secret one very personal to her. This secret made Rick scared and nervous for Ama and her safety. He won't even tell me the secret 😶 he said that he's hurt her enough and that there's no reason for me to know the secret because he already messed up. I do this sometimes as well so I wasn't really worried when he did it back to me. Anyways getting sidetracked sorry! So Rick told one of Ama's friend let's call that friend Max. So Max got worried as well and told Ama and asked her about it. I'm not sure if Max told anyone else but that's all I know. Ama is very angry at my boyfriend Rick now. I feel like I haven't given him any really good advice but saying "Give her time and apologize". I feel like he needs soo much more I'm just not really good at this ):. Any good advice?

when I was in seventh grade (I'm a freshman now) I used to put really cringey videos of me trying hard and lip-synching to rap music on my snapchat story. in general I just posted a lot on it and I'm so embarrassed that the people I'm in high school with now had to see that and probably thought I was a hoe and just gross and annoying. There was also this one thing that I completely fabricated and put on my story, saying that some guy called me ugly and hiding behind a filter. Then I posted AGAIN on it, with no filter being like **** you to the imaginary guy. nobody knew he didn't exist, but STILL. I basically put musicallys on my story. In 7TH GRADE. I'm especially worried that the guy I like thinks I'm weird for it. There were only like 40 max people that saw each story at this time, but they're people I still know today. I really regret doing them, and I only did because this popular girl that I really wanted to be friends with did them too. But apparently people thought I was desperate for friends and trying to be her. I know most people probably forget, but every time I think of them I basically collapse from embarrassment. How do I get past this? Help!!!

I share an on campus apartment with my friend (also my roommate) and 4 other girls. One of the girls, my friend, and I share a bathroom. My friend has not bought toilet paper or hand soap since September. The other girl and I have gone through 3-4 bottles of hand soap each, and my friend has only gone through one and has not bought another one. Every month she buys 2-3 packs of bottled water and gets mad when we drink the water and don't replace it. However, water is the only thing she buys. She doesn't buy dish soap, paper towels, trash bags, etc. Talking to her won't solve anything, because I tried talking to her about problems we're having with sharing a room. For example, I have work early in the morning, so I go to bed early. However, she doesn't go to bed until about midnight or later. She's completely inconsiderate or unaware of her noise level when I'm trying to sleep. She'll slam her closet/dresser drawers, eat loud crunchy food (i.e carrots), keep her desk lamp on and watch tv (even though we have a living room where she can do all of that). Anyway, this is only half of the problems we're having and I don't know where to go from here.

I have a friend that likes me. I have told him several times I don't like him. Yet, he still likes me. I have friendzoned him and tell him to remain friends. Should I avoid him? How to I tell him I don't like him and to move on ? Am I giving off other signs that he might think otherwise?

I was out this weekend and had to deal with one of those crazy "THAT IS MY BEST FRIEND AND SHE ISNT ALLOWED TO HAVE OTHER FRIENDS!" Type of people. I was at the bar with a few of my friends and ran into a friend, Amanda, who was was there with her friend. Of course, when i saw her we hugged and said hi, that's when her friend became visibly angry! Amanda introduced us, and her friend wouldn't even acknowledge me with words, only the snarl on her face. I felt so uncomfortable, I immediately excused myself. I haven't dealt with that since highschool, it really caught me off guard and I felt a bit embarrassed. What is wrong with some people, especially at 26 years old? I'm the type of person that says "the more, the merrier", so I just really can't understand why be so rude to a total stranger. I don't think I am being too sensitive, she was rude and I know it. But why be rude?

So i don't have a car and I need groceries ( bf works during the day) but she will want to be paid $20 for taking me. I just don't have the money

I told her we can go out to eat instead and she said come on let's get awkward. I told her I don't want to and she said I need to get out the shell I'm not. I told her i just don't find that entertaining or exciting it's nothing about being in a shell.

I talk to this guy on Facebook but he and I aren't Facebook friends but we talk in messages. Would it be weird if I liked a picture of him from a couple of years ago?

I m a male and i kind of wanted to see how my friend would react if when he came over i was naked. Like nothing weird just hanging out.

I'm a female who through poor life choices has lost most of my friendships. I'm really tired of being alone and would like to make new friends. But I think it's strange to just go up and tall to people I don't know in random situations.

Ok so guys I live in spain atm, but I actually live in Norway. I'm 15 and i'm living with my aunt here. I was here for 4 months and Its getting really boring and i'm missing Norway.. I have 6 months left of staying here. I can't go out bcuz I live to far away from friends and is there any way I can go home without dissapointing/upsetting my aunt in a way? Like excuses or anything

Since I am home all the time living with social security for having learning disability and I really wish there a place in my town for things to do and all my friends i knew that i have grew up with they have same learning disability and I dont talk to anymore because of this one girl always had problem with me so I believe she went tell others friends to not be my friend because i seen once in a comment she did made a comment on where i can see so now my group of 3 friends dont talk to me of her because of our problems anyways living with learning disability on a social security is kinda hard make new friends my age and i just turn 30 and i dont have big learning disability I just have trouble miss spelling so I was wondering since i am living at home now days and hard find job with new friends my age I was wonder how often should I wear my tee shirts and do laundry? All i do is pretty much sit at home watch netflix i been looking for a job it my mom keep saying my soical check comes in pays better then jobs i been looking at ugh!!! HELP any Jobs you can think of? I did few Volenterring

It's been an on going problem for so many damn years. I would have moved away had it not been for financial troubles. I live in the philippines, and there's this weird *** mentality in the streets where people think if it's their birthday they get free reign over everything. And for some ******* reason there seems to be a birthday almost every other week (if not 5 consecutive days) all throughout the year on my block and it's driving me absolutely insane! They won't stop playing their loud *** music or karaoke even until the wee hours of the morning! (I write this at 2:30 am with some weird as f*ck autotuned filipino rap song blasting outside) I've tried talking to them, I've tried yelling. I can't seem to report them because even though there's a law against all this, they're friends with the barangay captain and other officials of our place so they never get busted. Hell! The officials once told me to "let them be it's their birthday" with an annoyed scowl! And I'm just so frustrated and just want sleep and I'm so damn angry but I don't know what to do anymore. Please, any help would be amazing, I feel like my sanity's depending on it.

My friend is 23, he had a pretty serious stroke over a year ago, and almost died. Ever since than hed lived with his parents, and has only worked a part time job. His parents dont charge him rent, and they pay for his phone bill. He recently got a new job, and I was excited for him, but than I found out hell only be working a few hours for 3 days a week. I asked him if he feels traumatized after what happened, and he said no. I would understand if what happened caused some psychological problems, that makes it hard for him to work full time, but that doesnt seem to be the case. Several years ago, I had a heart problem, and when into cardiac arrest. It was very traumatic, but I went right back to work. I guess deep down I envy him. His parents let him live there rent free, and pay for his phone bill. My parents would never do that for me unless I absolutely couldnt find a full time job, which I can.

I'm trying to make friends with this girl but it's so difficult. I don't want to be all boring and "nice weather today. what did you do this weekend". What should I say to her?

Could she have been flirting? Or just been friendly? I saw her at a party a couple days ago, I had never seen her before. She has a boyfriend.

So something has been bothering me alot lately. Im a dude and i had a really good friend from work. We used to talk all the time, and she really enjoyed my company. She would always look soo happy when we were around eachother. Well sadly someone who works on our floor made a complaint saying that we spend our whole shift talking and not doing our work. Since we have different managers, her manager told her its best that she doesn't talk to me anymore or else her job could be in Jeopardy. One of my friends told her that i really want to speak to her, but she said " i would love to talk to him but everyone is watching me, so i want things to calm down before we talk. " I used to see her all the time in the hall, but now she just sits at her desk really quiet. She still said HI to me in the hall on Thursday when i saw her. but i noticed that today she said absolutely nothing to me. She wouldn't even look at me. I passed her in the hall but she was just looking down at her phone. I felt kinda sad because we have always been good friends at work, but today we were strangers.  Does she not want to be friends with me anymore???? Is it over??

I couldn't be more alone, no one wants anything to do with me, no friends, single, no guys interested, 19, I know I pushed everyone away, I used to be popular, I've been a sh*tty person, I'm friends with people in college but don't see them or talk to them outside, I never seem to be able to make friends who want to hang around with me outside, I haven't got a job either, I'm broke. I only talk to some people in my family, don't speak or see them often though. I don't get on with any of my cousins either. I've prayed so many times, God just ignores me.

I used to have two best friends who were like sisters to me and for various reasons we aren't close anymore (no drama, just gradually grew apart). Now I kind of just hang out with different people each day but it's hard because everyone else has a group of best friends who they're really close with and go out with whereas I haven't got that. I feel like a burden whenever I'm with another group because I don't fit in properly. Lessons are okay but lunch time is the worst. I feel so lonely and I just don't know what to do anymore. It's weird going from having such close friends I can completely be myself around to having nobody and having to fake my personality around different people. Thanks.

a man that I chatted with online for 2 years did not want to go in a romantic direction with me even though we did get a bit intimate with each other and kissed a bit...he said he would prefer to just be platonic friends with me for now. Why does he want to even bother to be my friend if he does not like me romantically? He also said he just wants to keep it platonic between us now too and he apologized for leading me on. He even invited me to his house for dinner with a few other friends of his last week...so I guess he really wants to be my friend. Why does he want me as his friend now? Will choose a best answer

So the past few weeks I feel everything has really fell into place for me. I got a job promotion, bought a new BMW car, and met a guy too. However, my friend has started acting very strange lately also. He currently has no job. He has been criticising my job and says the wages is really poor and highlights the fact that he has earned way more than me in the past until his firm shut down, he has also criticized my new car too and said that his mums car is much better and comfortable, and then has tried to come between me and my friends and now, my partner. He has been messaging my new partner and tried to meet up and hang out with my new partner whilst I am at work. My partner thinks he's pathetic and doesn't entertain him at all. I am not certain why but when I have confronted him about his behaviour he told me that I don't have to hang out with him anymore if I wasn't happy.

Example one : My birthday weekend she played music and I started dancing a little and was recording on snapchat. My friend literally just looked at me up and down. She didnt say go girl its your birthday or encourage me like she does her other friends. She is usually very lively and energetic. Other thing from that night she was recording me on her snapchat and I turned around and did a little booty dance and she hurried up and turned the camera from me and said she's gonna delete that one. Idk maybe she didnt want me to look a fool on camera. I am very overweight and not the best dancer. It just frustrates me that people always tell me Im boring and dont come out my shell then when I do its never enough or people just awkwardly stare at me. Example: Anytime I say anything the whole room gets quiet and people just stare at each other . Which makes it so hard for me to speak up in that social situation again. I dont know what I say wrong . I actually wish people would tell me so I can stop doing whatever that is. I mean it happens no matter where I go.

I am shy. Very introverted. I have a small group of friends and honestly, that's all i need. My boyfriend is literally forcing me to befriend every single friend he has and it's wearing on my psyche. He will tell me things like, "I see you posting pics on you IG of you and YOUR friends. Why can't you be like that with MY friends? Are they not good enough for you?" I would -never- say that about another person. I'm not even mean or standoffish towards them! I'm nice, but why be fake and act like i want a super deep, close friendship with them? I don't get it... Help?

I write movie reviews using a specific website and a buddy of mine that likes movies, who says he thinks the world of me, has decided to do the same.

Ok these people writing random letters need to stop. It's not funny doing it all the time and gets in the way when people are trying to ask questions.

was bullied from K-12 and a little bit in community college. When I started my first job a few months ago, I thought everyone was cool with me but then I find out that almost all of them went to a party without me, even one of the other newer employees. I've never been to a party in my life and I'm 20. Also guys I'm interested in never like me back. Ive had a relationship longer than 1 month but I met them all online. I just feel like I'm wasting my life and I'm not happy. I want to be like everyone else and I want people to turn to or interact with. I also have adhd unfortunately. I know it affects things but I've seen people with worse adhd have friends and partners. Confidence, picking the right people, and being friendly like everyone says is not cutting it. Especially confidence. As long as you don't complain about everything it doesn't matter. Also how anm i supposed to pick the nice people when nobody seems to be genuine. So how should I be to get people to stop disliking me?

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It's such an awkward feeling. This girl keeps copying everything that I do. The way I dress, talk and even wears the same hair style that I do. I posted "Humanitarian and tutor" on my twitter bio. She wrote the same thing too. Why is she doing this? It's annoying me.

I have been talking to this guy via facebook. He's someone I met a local store where he works. He and I use to talk when I would come to the store to shop. This went on for awhile at least a year or two. Eventually he asked me for my number. And we've talked on the phone a few times. But mostly we talk on Facebook. We've been been talking about meeting up for awhile. He had asked me to go out with him. And I asked him if he wanted to be friends with benefits. he said yes and that he's always liked me. Recently this guy added me on Facebook. He lives in my same state but 3 hours away. We are both in a group together that's how he found me. It's a group for Massage Therapist he's a massage therapist and I'm going to school to be one. So he asked me if I were married. He said he wants to get married and that he wants to marry a black woman. I'm black and he's white. Do you think this is a sign for me to stop talking to the guy from the store?

I feel really upset at the moment. I had a really good friendship with this girl from my work. I used to have a crush on her, but shes marries with 2 kids and I respect her marriage. We were still really good friends, sometime while she was working at her computer I would come and talk to her. She didn't mind and we would always laugh. Eventually we got in trouble because a lot of people think our friendship was weird since shes married. So we were asked to not talk to each other anymore or else she could get fired. Recently she had been giving me the cold shoulder, and she doesn't talk to me to me anymore. This is making me upset because I feel like this whole thing is my fault. I feel like getting someone to give her a note. because I feel upset by this. We used to be such good friends and she used to be so happy to see me, and now we act like strangers. Should I give her a note ?????? can I have some advice ?????

He never blocked we've been broken up for over a year, here and there i tried to get back with him but I never pestered him. This morning he randomly blocked me from phone, and viber messenger. Last I contacted him was a month ago, I asked how he'd been since I hadnt seen him in church for a month he replied hed been busy and said thanks for you checking in hope you're well too. I'm actually driving to Glendale now to do grocery shopping. I aid well if you have time and would like to meet let me know :) he said it won't work today, I have to rush back to pick up dad, take him to alteration which closes at 5 and is in opposite direction i just said okay. Then he asked what is new from grad school? i told him and he said very nice, very good, good for you and I didn't say anything else. So the convo was good and was beginning of December, we have had worse conversations but he's never blocked me and if he did after a heated argument later that day unblocked me. The only things that's crossing my mind is I was on a singles site yesterday, where I also met him and I told him i usually don't log onto sites like that today was random that i met you. But yesterday I logged on and a guy was new and had my ex bf's age, exact height and name was wide_shoulder which also my ex has. This guy messaged me asking to talk on messenger i said ok but we missed eachother so he messaged saying sorry i missed your message here is my number text me lets talk tomorrow and I responded saying we don't know eachother yet so I cannot move onto texting already. So the only thing that happened was that which actually explains perfectly since this morning right after i replied to him at 9:30 am, my ex blocked me at 10 am?? Wth??? He also always stares at me in church, comes out with me and says hi and when I tried going back he said I'd hurt him etc and I guess he was trying to make me earn to get him back the asking to meet up was after that and him coming down the stairs constantly saying hi, staring at me, winking at me. What the hell does all this mean??? Why would he out of the blue block me? And especially after that singles website incident?

My name is Michael, I've been at my job for 1 whole year. So since the beginning I became friends with this girl Alexa. She only works Thursdays and Sundays, and we always talk when we work the same days. Everytime I was around her she would always laugh, and she was always soo happy. All my friends liked her because she has a great personality. Well someone who doesn't like us sent a long email to a manager, saying that Alexa and me don't do any work because we are to busy talking. Since we have different Managers, Alexa's manager got mad with her and the manager told her she will be fired if she keeps talking to me. I've noticed that she is super quiet now, I used to run into her in the hall all the time but now she just stays at her desk. Her personality has changed so much.... my friend Nicole told her that I miss talking to her And Alexa said " I would love to talk to him but right now we are both being watched, and wants to wait for things to calm down a bit." On Thuraday I ran into her and she said "hi' to me in the hall. But I was working near her desk today for 45 minutes, and she said absolutely nothing to me. I even ran into her in the hall but she didn't talk to me. Is our friendship over now????? Can I please have advice???? She kinda knew I was frustrated by the way I was acting, but she said nothing.