My mother has been married three times to three different men. The first one was my father, the second one was my brother's father and she did not have any children with the third one. Each time she got married she took her husband's, so in total she has had four last names if you include her maiden name. After she divorced the third husband we all thought she was gonna go back to her maiden name. Much to my surprise, she went back to her second husband's last. She feels the closest to my brother and wanted to have the same last name as he and his children. But I was wondering how she could have done it. What is the process? I understand about getting your maiden name back but going back to a previous husband's name seems like it would he hard to do. I really don't want to ask her. Thanks.

I do almost everything in the house i work long hours and no meal. He response is i work im tired im top of that close eveywhere

I moved into a nice condo in Salt Lake City for law school. I met my beautiful neighbor and she was so nice she invited me over for dinner amd we had salad and lasagna. We knew eachother from BYU and youth activities as kids. I texted a friend about her and he told me she's married. So fast forward a few days later and she brought over milk and cookies and sat on the couch with me barefoot and sat on my lap seductively. I told her the only reason I slept with her the other night was because I thought she was single. She began to cry and told me about her failing marriage and then kissed me she said she doesn't love her marriage and that her marriage has been over the moment the wedding ended. She told me that her marriage is abusive, sexless amd she feels trapped. When I got this condo I didn't know she was my neighbor. Well we've been seeing eachother secretly for 6 months and she even bought me a Rolex watch and told me that it was for her kind lover. My friend and I went on vacation to St.George for the warm weather and hiking. A friend of hers saw us and told her husband and he was furious he threw her down the stairs then waited for me to come home and attacked me. I suffered a broken leg and elbow from defending myself. My friend has been visiting me since I'm staying in my moms house in Provo while i recover. How can I tell her everything is okay. She was hysterical and I told her I love her and that I would let anything affect us.

"A guy hit on me today, and this is how I turned him down. ______ Funny right?" Is this type of conversation common in a healthy relationship? Would it help the spouse see that their significant other is sexy to others, and give both of them confidence and practice in staying true? The only thing I can find online is about rejecting your spouses sexual advances and how detrimental that is. Does talking to your spouse about how you turn down people who hit on you help build and strengthen the relationship / fine tune your ability to reject people who are not your spouse? Is it hurtful?

Taking money from my wallet/ getting cash from grocery checkout and even having friends buy her things. I'm already giving her about $200 a month for clothing alone) ...when confronted, she started crying/shaking uncontrollably and tried to run away. Once again I became the bad guy. She blames my nosiness for her spending and because she was so hysterical, she managed to never answer my question as to why she needs to go behind my back to shop, when I give her everything she asks for in the first place. Help!!! I am the only income earner in the family.

My wife and I had our first baby. She's a girl. She's 4 months. At first, we were both equally excited during my wife's pregnancy and when our daughter was born. But now... My wife and I both work a 9-5. My wife likes being a working mom. But she also loves spending time with the baby because she "doesn't get to see her all day." After work, its dinner, bathing the baby, cuddling with the baby, etc. On weekends, she is worn out and mostly wants to spend time relaxing with our daughter. I do like getting to cuddle up to my girls but at the same time, I wish my wife and I could have some alone time where we go out as adults. The baby sleeps in her crib through the night so we do have that time. But whenever I try to ask my wife to switch it up and do something, she's like, "I don't want to go if I can't bring her... I'm tired, etc." Don't get me wrong, I like baby time but I don't want all my free time as that either.

My husband and I had sex tonight for two hours. I tried to get him off the best I could but I got exhausted towards the end and gave up. He than says "should I just jack off than?" I told him go for it. But I am hurt. There I was all dolled up and he can jack off to porn but not with me? We only have sex twice a week and im the initiator. We only have sex when he wants it otherwise no sex. The reason I stop trying is bc the man exhausts me for two hours I got sore than was not in the mood to keep trying (with no success) to make him come. Dude wtf. Is he cheating on me why can't he get off but says he will jack off? Do u not see how this could hurt me. I hate him for this. This has happened several times it's nothing new. But during our two nights a week quickies he can ejaculate. Just wtf and why