Hi I am 17, a guy. I met this gal in 8th grade and I had at least one class with her Freshmen year and last year (Sophomore year) together. this year we don't have ANY classes together, and I barely see her around campus. I added her on Snapchat (quick add) and she added me back. last year in PE, we would always talk to each other. now I don't see her. when I do see her on campus, I say hi to her and she says hi to me back. should I message her on Snapchat to catch up? I don't want to creep her out or anything.

My friend today posted the picture of a grave on facebook and she wrote the following " Hey buddy. I haven't forgotten about you. I can almost hear u saying "How could u forget my birthday?" I haven't. 13 years without you on this earth and still feels weird not being able to call you or hang out with u. Last week I ran into your little brother and boy he totally looks like you. Anyway you missed so much in these years. I remember how funny u were. I remember how u told me u wanted to become a teacher one day. I got married and became a mom !!! What I would give to see your Arnold Schwarzenegger impression one more time. Met my son's teacher last week and for a second I thought how nice it would've been if you actually became my 5 years old son's teacher. I know you would've been one hell of a teacher. Hope to see you again one day.Happy birthday in heaven" I did NOT know that person but reading those words made me cry. Should I say something to my friend? Text her? Or just don't say anything? We work together so I'm gonna see her tomorrow at the office.

It has been 10 or 11 years since i sent a letter throw Mail. I just sent a Letter by Mail to my Mother I haven't spoken and seen for a very long time. Telling her I was mad and hurting and that I loved her. What was your emotion when you got a letter in the Mail by Family or friends.

i tried wiping it off with water and a towel and it caused a tiny hole through the paper. there's a lot of pages, but i'm concerned she'll be upset.

ive been texting this guy for a while now that i met on facebook and we deicded why not talk on the phone. he called me and i answered and we said a few words like hello and what are you up to? and he goes ill call you right back and hangs up. He never called me back and its been 5 days. we havent spoke since

Also my sister is being actually mean to be not just like sisterly mean. I don't think I'm that annoying. Everyone have things they don't like about other people but apparently all my friends actually hate me. This started about a week ago my sister was upset about somthing elese and lashed out on me by saying "you no —— and ———, they don't actually like you. They think your really annoying" I didnt think much about it because she was angry. I thought she was just making it up. But then today at of nowhere she says "I was talking to ——— today and he thinks you're really annoying like all the time not in a funny way, all the jokes you make actually bother him" I don't know what to do because these people are in a club with me so I have to spend hours with them every Tuesday and Thursday. How do I not be so annoying, because I don't even notice when I am bothering people.

I recently lost an entire group of friends and I sometimes get jealous because some of the people I am still friends with still associate with those who bullied me, how can I keep the friends who still talk to my old friends who outcassted and bullied me without feeling left out or as if they're talking about me too?

I'm 18 and am slightly overweight. I have had what I call "almost-eating disorders" since I was like 10, which means that I several times have been trying to lose weight, been really anxious about etc. Today, my really already skinny friend said that she already has lost some weight and wants to lose some more. This made me mad. Honestly, it made me really upset. Obviously I didn't express my emotions towards her, but what I feel, is it wrong? Does it make me self-centered, bad friend etc? It's just...if she's unhappy with that body, imagine how she would feel with mine...(I know I come off as quite self-conscious now, which I am sometimes)

I was talking to a friend of my guy friend, and his friend hugged me to greet me. I saw with my peripheral vision that my friend kept staring at us from afar. Then, after his friend hugged me, he came to greet me too and he said: " So, you met ( name of his friend)". ( he knew that I did not know who his friend was until yesterday) And It seemed like he got serious and kind of sad. Was he jealous I was talking to his friend? Why would he keep staring at us?

This random *** girl who overheard my friend talking about me, openly talks about liking me to other people in the class and wont stfu.

She enjoys to kill my self esteem and she says always nasty hints about my look and she smiles in a mean way when she do that

I have a friend who used to be quite close until we moved to different cities to study. She is nice I think, but there's only so much of her company I can take before I need a break. We haven't contacted each other for several months now, and I started to think that we have our separate lives now, and I was okay with that. This week however, she sent me a text that she divorced from her boyfriend and was diagnosed with mild depression. That didn't sound so nice and I asked her whether she wanted to meet. The answer is yes, but the problem is that we are both university students with limited amount of money and the travelling costs. And she doesn't want to go anywhere, even though technically it would be easier for her to come to me. Now I know that depression is a serious matter, but I'm getting a feeling that I'm going to have to pay and travel to meet someone who only contacts me when she's feeling bad, and otherwise we could continue to live in our own bubbles. I know I'm being really selfish, but I wouldn't want to bother just to have her rant about her life and things I don't understand (read: romantic relationships). Is this feeling something that I can overcome? And do I have a responsibility to help her?

My best friend moved out of the city to a different place. I feel lonely, and sad. I don't have many friends here and I am single at 35. Anyone experienced a similar thing. How did you go about changing things?

When I get nervous, my voice tends to crack. Usually when I talk about my crush with my best friend, talk about college or something else that causes nervousness. Why is that? Is it just a reaction?

So I met a guy on a game forever ago, I had come back from a haitus and on the game there was an event. Was fun and so on and I had made a new friend, well this friend and I started playing other games together, watching videos together and so on...we pretty much did everything together. Heres where things get weird. After sometime he started getting clingy and he always wanted to do everything with me. I wanted to play games with other friends and voice chat and now everytime I vc with someone he always feels he should be invited as a guest of honor or some crap, if not he complains that hes jealous. Later down the road I have a talk with him and tell him yes being a psycho path to the point where my fiance even hates him and he even butts in to wanting to play games with me while Im playing online with my fiance. It just sucks because lately hes been buying me lots of stuff and complimenting me and just wont leave me alone. I have to go offline on steam to play games with others, I have to hide my status on anything I'm using from him and lately he also tries way too hard to remind me that we are "best friends".

So I am 13 and I am SUPER awkward talking to anyone! I started figure skating about a month ago and this girl she skates to and she is also in all of my classes at school. She seems really awkward to but I am scared of making any bad moves bc I want to be friends with her. And i don't want to sound really clingy and stuff either. Any help would be nice! thank you!

So there was a car accident today on the road and the car that was involved in the accident was the same exact car that I have. My friend text me asking if I was the one in the car accident and I told her no and she asked if I was sure. Was she worried about me?

I had to walk away from a friendship last year that was too needy and filled with passive aggressive resentment. I'm just trying to better myself. Now one year later, this friend is trying to get in touch with me by using sympathy about her grandmother who passed away last year too. I feel bad but there's not much I can do. She talked crap about me to the grandma, so the grandma didn't care for me anyway. I wasn't even invited to the funeral. What should I do?

I said a pretty dark joke to my friend, about how her turkey is going to end up dinner, and she got extremely offended. I m used to that type of humor, but I keep forgetting that they aren t. I tried to apologize but they won t take it. What do I do?

Well I was smelling food... And they sait I was smelling them so I don't know what to do.

So we had an affair before he married a year ago. Things got sour and we cut ties before his wedding. I was never invited to his wedding. Over the year, he would behave very safe around me. Then he would flirt hard and then go quiet. He kissed me, we hooked up and then he kept his distance. He came chasing after me again 3 months ago and then went quiet. Recently, he texts and calls me everyday. Just as a friend tho. He is very polite and sincere to me in his texts etc. Why does he all of a sudden want to be friends? Does he still have feelings for me or is he genuinely interested in being friends only?