I met someone on an online dating site. We exchanged emails for about a week. In her latest email, she suggested meeting up for coffee. I just wrote her back and said that I didn't think it was such a good idea because I am a complete loser, and can't see why any woman would ever want to be in a relationship with me. I'm not worth the time of day.

My boyfriend (ex now) said we could work on things together and if we are getting a long in a couple months we can get back together. We have been together for 5 yrs. I became distant from him because he said some hurtful things to me last year and just told me to get over it. Well I decided to try to repair us. I would spill my feelings out to him, how much I loved him, bought him an expensive Valentines gift with nothing in return which was fine with me. I would send him good night/morning txts, and he would text back right away or even call me. He would flirt with me when he sexually wanted me. But he would never tell me I love you back or tell me anything sweet. He started going out getting drunk with his friend a couple nights a week, and trying to act "cool" I was fed up so last week I asked him about our relationship a couple times and he would say i dont want to talk about it right now or I am busy. When I asked why he would get angry and tell me I am nuts. Finally a couple days ago he finally talked to me about it but was very angry and said he didn't want to be in a relationship right now he wanted to get a better job and relationships are hard work. He told me he still loves me and would be with me when he is ready. I got mad and told him he is narcissitic.. Now I am getting the silent treatment, so I am ignoring him too. Do my own thing. True love gets through ups and downs he just poured 5 yrs worth of memories down the drain. What do you think any advice?

I'm a 20 years old male, with two older sisters in their mid and late 20's. My mom still treats me like a kid. My sister's work, but they still live with my parents. I'm in school so I don't have the time to work. I go to a school that's far from my house, so commuting also takes quite some of my time. My mom keeps a lot of stuff from me. If something happens in my extended family, such as my aunt and my uncle had an argument, or my cousin is pregnant, my mom will tell everybody but me. She will go into detail about conversations of their argument or whatever with my sisters and dad, but when I ask what happened, she will be like "oh nothing, just this happened". If I ask her what exactly happened hinting her to go into detail, she will respond, I told you just this happened. Nothing else. Anything happens in the family, they will keep within the family. My mom will tell my sisters about plans a week ahead, but will tell me the day its happening "today were going to this place". My parents won't explain life to me. My dad didn't let me get my license at 16 telling me I was too young, and that I don't need it until I graduate college. My cousins tell me my parents aren't letting me grow. My cousins even treat me like adults. My mom especially, considering she hides a lot from me, I began hiding things from her, What happens in school, etc. I've began not involving her or anybody else with what happens in my life. I spoken to them many times about this, but they ignore me.

I just got out of a 3 year relationship. I am devastated. I have not eaten, barely slept in 7 days. It feels like I'm living in a torture camp. My mind is racing, I can't focus on my studies in class, I can't focus on nothing. I feel weak, I am certain I have lost weight, I have a blackish color under my eyes, I am miserable. I'd rather go into a coma and wake up with an erased memory than to go through this. I need help. Should I go see a doctor?

i feel like my need to fit in and feel accepted by others is getting in the way of my happiness, how do you care less what other people think about you and your lifestyle choices?

I was no contact with my ex, had cut all ties with him until we could get to court. We share a child so that's the only reason I would ever communicate if I had to. His mom bought him over to see our son, Understand that i can feel him i know him very well, his insecurities, hes very predictable, i read his emotions well....I could clearly see he was hurting about how he lost his family, he even hugged me tight like I'm missing you so much but I don't know how to express it so I'm just going to run away again. Which is what he did, he told me he was going to start texting me again regarding our child & As soon as the next day came he was no where to be found ? The only way I pulled some conversation out of him was letting him know I really needed this document so I could put our child in Daycare but I had to ask him to work with me. We ended up conversing for awhile he said he misses us and loves us but, I told him to move on with his life so he did. But it's like I believe him but his actions completely contradict what he's saying... It's like talking to a whole nother person that Idk again. When in my face he's his normal self but once he gets away from me he's like the guy that's moved on has a new girlfriend could careless that we have a child. Does he do this to gain information ? What is the purpose of this behavior ? I want to know son I can stop falling for it

I'm an only child and I feel like I would have benefited having a sibling. I also have 4 dogs. Started with 1, she was happy for most of her life then our lives fell apart, everyone got depressed. Later we adopted a second dog, she got happier, we got another dog her size, and another large dog, and she is as happy as a puppy right now in her life. She never liked other dog's before. So this just got me thinking.

My Mom have being dealing with some health issues with her kidney for the past few years and everytime i hear bad news i freak out. Back last year she had a major health scare and ever since that time i have been so scared and praying for Gods protection but recently she got some not pleasant news about her kidney again and she has to go to the hospital to see where she stands. Now im up all night like many other times just waiting for an answer of good news. So I was wondering what are some ways to keep the faith and stay calm and strong for her and me?? PLEASE HELP!! THANKS

This doesn't happen all the time but sometimes, when I like a guy, my mom will start asking a ton of questions about the guy. For instance, I'll mention that a guy talked to me and she'll ask me about if he still lives in the same area and starts assuming things about them. One day, she said "he is a good person to befriend," etc. Sometimes, I feel like when I like a guy, she'll start to make comments, almost like she is interested in them. I am young; I'm in my 20's. Like I said, this doesn't happen all the time, but it is annoying when it does. For instance, some guy introduced himself to me and talked with me near where I live and she said wow, he never has introduced himself to me. My mom has said hi to him before but she says he acted cold. This guy had to tell me something about the building. Later on, she asked me why he came to tell me about a thing when he could have asked anyone else in the building. She didn't say it in a mad way but you could tell she was wondering why he talked to me like she seemed slightly bothered by it. But she did ask me if he was nice. Also, when I was talking to him, my dad had come home at the same time and was staring over at me for about two minutes while I was talking to him. This guy is definitely older than me but I still find him attractive and nice. My dad said he was a nice guy. I think my mom acts this way because I have mentioned two guys I like who are older than me (much older). Sometimes, I find older guys attractive.

Christians please Yahoo stop changing it.

So my fiance' and I were watching a movie and in the movie the wife gets kidnapped and gets taken to a kidnappers house. The husband investigates everything and goes above and beyond to help his wife because the police didn't do anything. Anyway basically in the movie he risks his life to save his wife in risk of dying because the kidnapper was a serial killer. Would you risk your life to save your husband/wife would you go through something like this? I said i would and i would my husband would for me as well. My fiance said he wouldn't his response was, "no point in both of us dying." its honestly making me question our relationship. Am I over thinking? Also would you do this for your spouse?

This is an odd question, but needs to be asked. So I live with roommates and one of my female roommates always tickles me while screaming "Nipple!" - I hate being tickled, and am often running as she chases me, finally getting me in a corner and tickling me nonstop- as I laugh uncontrollably. We both think it's nuts but fun- and I decided to do the same thing to a female colleague of mine that has been having problems with the boss. I approached her cubicle last Friday, and asked if she was doing okay. She grimly said she was fine, and that's when my arm extended and I started tickling her under her chin. She laughed, but looked angry. Telling me to stop. But I knew she was probably doing what I tell my roommate. So I grabbed her chest, saying "Nipple!" playfully. As she screamed, and I chased her around the office- audible reactions were heard, including from the boss. I was told to leave for the day, and apparently my female colleague went to HR. Really? Over tickling? I now have a meeting tomorrow with them, the colleague and my boss. Was I wrong to do this? I seriously just wanted to make her feel better. Ok NOT a troll here! Stop saying I am. I honestly want answers, not judgment. Thanks.