My ex affair partner and I had a whirlwind romance a year ago before he married. It was i love you's every minute of the day. We were inseparable. Almost felt as if we were meant for each other. Things ended but but over the last year we would still hook up when we could at work getaways. We last had sex a month ago while on a ship cruise while his wife was next door. I didnt want to but gave in coz i still have strong feelings for him. A coworker made a joke that i was pregnant and now he found out. He said to my closest friend that he would be responsible for it and was very excited. He asked another friend about me being pregnant. It was a joke gone wrong and now he thinks its true. The only strange thing is that we barely speak. He makes it obvious that he ignores me but asks my closest friends about me all the time. He stares at me all the time. Him and i barely speak. He gives attention to all my friends but me. He isna taurus male. Why would he behave like this? Please dont judge me as these things happen in life and sometime feelings and attractions overcome common sense.

He is my tenant and I'm his landlord, both of us are in mid 30's. The tension between us wasn't good for the past few weeks due to some arguments and misunderstanding and I guess we still do business and just let it be. He came back from business trips and was carrying large haversack but because my door is small as he walked in the door, he got stuck and can't walked through, I happen to see that hilarious sight and I laughed it off and commented , "omg! That was funny! " and I let off a giggle. Do you think it is kinda rude for me to laugh at his sight getting stuck while going through that door? But it is really funny?! Do you think he would get embarrassed and offended? Because like I say, the tension between wasn't good these few weeks.

We have been friends for one year. He tried to hit on me the first few times but he stopped it when he realized I'm married and that I'm not the type to cheat on my husband. We grew to become very close friends, I know that he cares for me a lot, like no one else does. My husband (who is abusive) has left the house for one year now. For almost one year now, My friend calls me every night and we talk about everything and nothing; but I don't understand why he calls this regularly!! It's almost like he "checks-in" every night, I feel that even best friends dont talk so often!! He asks about my day and tells me about his, opens his heart to me if he is upset about sthg. Sometimes if he is angry, he shuts down on all our mutual friends but not me. I almost never initiate contact, but he does all the time. He doesn't call any other girl, i know it because he is with me on the phone every single night, even though girls are begging for his attention as he is almost every girl's dream-man. If I tell him I'm not well, he almost immediately calls me or asks to see me and offers help. Please am I over concerned?? Or are some men just really good friends??? I just never call my friends that often!! At the same time, if he had some feelings towards me, wouldn't he ay lesst try to hide them a bit by not calling so often?? I dont get it and i dont want to ruin a friendship because i'm overthinking!!!

For like 3 years I've heard things but it's barely hearable tbh and now I'm realising it's a ghost or more than one ghost because my phone types by its self, interacting with what I think, I feel vivid pokes to the face when I'm trying to sleep, and funnily something will break but with a quick prayer it starts operating again... it's obviously some teenager ghost but he won't go the hell away and I wish I could blight the living donuts out of him, it is really annoying because I can be sitting in a room full of people and I'll glance at something which looks like a man/boy/teenager with a spoilt personality disorder sitting on my sofa, and when my backs turned it tryes to make my life misery, I really wish I could strike the **** out of it but I technically can't do anything, I have tried saint benedict prayers to no success, on occasion I've just felt a sudden fire inside and told it how it's going to be and It usually runs without hesitation but yeah I want it to go to the blackest part of hell and burn for eternity now.. Btw it's not only me my friends say they've seen someone, heard someone say that "I'm a dead man" etc and yeah... it is what it is,, how can i securely destroy this a**hol*

-If that is too weird, what would you suggest me doing first? -this would probably be a coworker -I am socially incompetent

what does it mean?...please let me know

I ran into my former mother in law at a mall and she told me her daughter, my ex, was getting married again. She told me who she was marrying and he was a casual acquaintance. I thought it was appropriate to send her a nice wedding gift and wish her and her new husband a long and happy married life. She thanked me for the gift but said not to contact her again as her husband did not want her in contact with other men especially me. I emailed her back and said I understood and I would not contact her again as I did not want to cause any problem with her marriage. About 4 months later I got a call from my ex's new husband wanting my help to get his computer back up running. He said "I know this is unusual but will you help me". Unusual, I thought it was weird. However I thought why make a enemy when you can make a friend so I agreed to help him and I told him how to fix his computer. He seemed happy. The last thing he said was "Please don't tell my wife I called you" and I said OK. He has called me a few more times asking for help with his computer and each time I helped him and each time he ask me not to tell his wife he had called. I am not sure how I should feel about this. He doesn't want his wife to talk to me but it is OK if he talks to me. Should I stop helping him with his problems until his wife knows about this. Advice please on what I should do.