Marriage & Divorce: Question: I'm having an extra marital affair and guilty about it? |
- Question: I'm having an extra marital affair and guilty about it?
- Question: Need some serious help.?
- Question: Is it normal to not want to speak to your husband even after you kind of forgiven him?
- Question: How are the quadrants on coat of arms organized?
- Question: I found homosexual pornography on my husband's computer!?!?!?!?
- Question: My fiance used to be gay. Help?
- Question: My husband thinks because he works he is in charge of everything we do and has the last say. How can I fix this?
- Question: My husband blocked all my money access. Need help?
- Question: Looking for advice from moms that struggle with a man who thinks They do nothing all day.?
- Question: How do I get my divorced parents back together?
- Question: Is choosing to keep busy while married with children a bad thing?
- Question: Caught ny husband cheating on me after i had a miscarriage :(?
- Question: Is my husband lazy? What should I do?
- Question: Why is my husband smothering me all the sudden?
- Question: A question for the married women, be honest?
- Question: Do you think it's unreasonable for me to meet my ex-wife boyfriend before she introduces them to my kids?
- Question: Ex husband taking me to court for living with my boyfriend?
- Question: My husband wants me to do sexual things to other people he says you cant look at it like that just treat it like a sex toy what to do?
- Question: As a married woman, is it wrong to chat with guys online?
- Question: My wife is secretly a prostitute..?
- Question: My wife put the cat in the dryer..?
- Question: Wife says that she prefers her vibrator to my tong..?
- Question: Opinion needed please.?
- Question: Why are some people against long engagements?
- Question: Cheating - in marriage - after?
- Question: My wife wont have sex with me?
- Question: How did you forgive your spouse that cheated?
- Question: Can such people really love others?
- Question: Should I marry my crazy girlfriend for the good of our daughter?
- Question: Been married for seven years and always wanted to try anal with wife. She has been unwilling. The other day she asked me for a huge favor..?
- Question: Career , Marriage , THEN have a baby ! Why don't females understand this?
- Question: Am I too young to get engaged?
- Question: As a newly wed.. what are the problems that you encounter sometimes?
- Question: How about if the person living with another woman in texas is still married to another person in another state?
- Question: Can such a person truly love someone?
- Question: Can you offer some creative ways to celebrate an anniversary?
- Question: How many weekend nights could you be out a month without it causing an issue in your marriage or relationship?
- Question: Do you think it's best to change a lot of partners before you get married?
- Question: How do i know that my marraige in philippines is registered?
- Question: What do i do?
- Question: Is it healthy to live in a joint family or nuclear family after getting married? And what if the wife wants to live in a nuclear family?
- Question: How to catch wife cheating on facebook or phone?
- Question: My husband like the page Instagram uncut and I find it a little offending since I can see it. And when I complain he thinks I m wrong?
- Question: My husband is scared to make love?
- Question: My wife cheated on me while I was in basic training and after I came home.?
- Question: My husband said if I was paid good money he wouldn t mind showing me naked on tv. I took it as an insult.?
- Question: How do woman feel about prenuptial agreement?
- Question: Husband was crying all night I asked what's wrong and he just said can we skip work and spend time together......I have work what do I do?
- Question: Open Marriage?
| Question: I'm having an extra marital affair and guilty about it? Posted: 04 May 2016 08:55 PM PDT With the guy (childhood friend) who asked me out 25 years ago when i was a teenager. then i said no. lost connection. he moved to another country 1000 miles away. no connections. i got married when was 21 got kids and married for 18 years and 4 kids. i'm full time working mom. Things are not as it used to be. constant fights and there has been few issues with my husband in the past concerning women. though people outside think that we have a perfect married life its not true. I'm very depressed at times and wanted to just run away t times.at this time only he contacted me through VIBER (somehow got my contacts through friends ) he is still unmarried and says having undying love for me. wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. ready even wait for me until i settle things. we started chatting all the time. speaking on video calls. got too attached to him. now we both are in a state that we cant live without each other. we live in different time zones. no one still knows anything about us yet. but my conscience is killing me. i have spend all these years serving my best to my husband , kids and parents (they are living with me too) always try to be the perfect mom and wife. but time and again all i got is getting hurt. now 40 and i have decided to live the life i want with the guy who truly loves me and ready to do anything to make me happy. am i wrong? |
| Question: Need some serious help.? Posted: 04 May 2016 08:40 PM PDT Long story short, I was browsing through my dads amazon account to find the seller of my game, that I bought in 2013. I could find that but I saw that My dad bought 2 condoms and a dildo in 2014 in summer, while we were in India enjoying our break he has to come back to US due to his job. We all know each others passwords nothings private in our house. I cant even confront to anyone about this because I dont want get my parents divorced, and if I confront him I afraid he will send us back to India as we are dependent on him. My mother was with us during break, my dad was alone for like 15 days in out house in US. our* |
| Question: Is it normal to not want to speak to your husband even after you kind of forgiven him? Posted: 04 May 2016 08:10 PM PDT My husband said some things that he could never take back and now he seems remorseful about what he said but I hardly speak to him. It's like even though he says sorry, and he will get help for his anger issue, I have no desire to talk to him. Is this normal? After a fight we normally go back to talking normal but this time is just so different. |
| Question: How are the quadrants on coat of arms organized? Posted: 04 May 2016 08:07 PM PDT |
| Question: I found homosexual pornography on my husband's computer!?!?!?!? Posted: 04 May 2016 07:39 PM PDT Do I confront him about this? |
| Question: My fiance used to be gay. Help? Posted: 04 May 2016 07:08 PM PDT Essentially, I'm having second thoughts about marrying my future husband; I don't know if those thoughts are pointless. He is very honest with me, which I admire strongly about him. I appreciate his honesty, but this is tough for me. I cooked dinner for him last night, and we were laughing and watching television together, just having a good time. Then, we started talking about our previous romances and our regrets about them, etc. He then told me that he had a brief fling with a guy he used to know (one month, to be exact). I thought he was joking, so I laughed, but after I saw the seriousness in his face, I followed my laughter with, "Is this a true story?" He told me that he had always wanted to tell me, but he wasn't sure how I'd react. I told him that he is still my fiance no matter what, but he told me that he isn't bisexual and was "bi-curious" before he met me. So, I'm guessing he used to be gay? Please help. Thanks. We've been together for about two years now. One more thing: I did ask him if he was still interested in guys, and he told me that he isn't anymore, but he used to when he was younger. This still confuses me. "Used to"? Yes, this one-month fling was two years ago....shortly before he met me. |
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| Question: My husband blocked all my money access. Need help? Posted: 04 May 2016 07:01 PM PDT My husband filed the claim to our marriage to be annulled with unmind ( social anxiety, depression etc.) and fraud of me smoking medical marijuana, while I was away from home to help out my parents and said I can't come back home bc it's not my home anymore. Then he blocked all my money access And threatened me not to coming back if not he would tell my parents(my biggest weakness with cultural issue because of marijuana) 1. I do agree to my marriage to be annulled so I don't really mind how he claimed me as a crazy person 2. I don't work 3. I need his SSN to see dentist and he's not providing on purpose. 4. So what is my right? Is it better if I don't do any action as he said? Or is there any way to get my right back? 5. Any idea if it's going to be possible get annulled? Date of marriage( 9.22.2016) I have a medical record of being hospitalized for 3days for suicidal. All I did with our money was to trying to save up money as much as I could so we can pay off his credit card debt of $10,000( found out this after married) And this is what I get.. |
| Question: Looking for advice from moms that struggle with a man who thinks They do nothing all day.? Posted: 04 May 2016 06:21 PM PDT I m a stay at home mom. Have been for 2 1/2 years. I have a 3 year old and two year old. We are expecting our third child. My husband has always said I don t do anything all day. I can t take the disrespect anymore. Any suggestions on how I can prove to him my job all day is non stop. He has stayed home before and watch the kids so he knows the struggles. I don t know why he thinks it s okay to say this to me and discredit everything I do. I never say he isn t busy at work or discredit what he does. He thinks I should always ask him for anything before I buy it even if it s child related items. He stays in control of all the money. I need advice |
| Question: How do I get my divorced parents back together? Posted: 04 May 2016 06:06 PM PDT |
| Question: Is choosing to keep busy while married with children a bad thing? Posted: 04 May 2016 05:43 PM PDT Husband is ALWAYS busy:works 8 hours, brings home work, volunteered for extra work hours, works on some Saturday's, volunteered to be involved in school extra curricular activities (he's a teacher), is taking classes for a Master's degree, he's involved in local activities (marathons)...you name it--he does it. Basically, he's always doing something. When your spouse prefers to do all these things instead of coming home to spend time with the family/relaxing, is it something to be concerned about? Because it's odd behavior to me. @Blunt: My thoughts exactly. Thanks! @BAM: That motivation, ambition, and involvement with the community means nothing if you don't show those same qualities to your own wife and children. An absent husband/father is in no way a successful person. @Anon: Definitely, thanks @Swimming: Did your dad also flirt with a coworker like the man in question? |
| Question: Caught ny husband cheating on me after i had a miscarriage :(? Posted: 04 May 2016 05:37 PM PDT So last week i had a miscarriage after being 5 months pregnant and i just been walking alot around a trail to get it off my mind. But i came home a couple nights ago to see my husband in bed with one of MY old coworkers. They were both stunned and i was too and all i could do is leave. I went for a drive and ended up at my mothers house since then.... We literally just got married 9 months ago im 23 he is 25. Im just confused on whats next he's been calling me but i havent answered. Any advice? :/ |
| Question: Is my husband lazy? What should I do? Posted: 04 May 2016 04:05 PM PDT My husband quit his trucking job several weeks ago because he said they sent him all over the country without a day off.He has sat home for nearly a month now- while doing little to nothing to find a job. He does not help with the kids (we have 2 hyperactive kids plus a newborn), He is constantly looking at tv, looking at Facebook, and playing video games. Even when we go out to eat, he refuses to get off his cell phone/Facebook and lets the hyper kids run all over the restaurant (I am usually caring for a newborn and walk with a cane myself). I do work- but he does not. Is he lazy? |
| Question: Why is my husband smothering me all the sudden? Posted: 04 May 2016 03:22 PM PDT My husband quit his job several weeks ago. He does little, if anything to find another job. He sits around watching a political tv channel and plays on his phone, video games, or Facebook 24/7. He demands that I am RIGHT beside him. If to go to the bathroom, lay down to rest (I have a newborn), or anything else for ME he comes in and follows me and accuses me of not loving him if I don't allow him to smother me. Today, a friend came over to show me the makeup that she sells and he had to sit right there at the table with us and talk/inundate the conversation so that she and I could not talk. He literally would not leave me alone and interrupted our conversations the whole time, it was super annoying. I have talked to him about it, heck I have screamed at him about it even... but nothing works. At restaurants, he sits on his phone as well and doesnt help with the kids. Why is he like this and what can I do? I have tried to take the kids and just LEAVE to get away from HIM and he threatens to divorce me or follow me. He is a trucker and claims his last company refuses to allow him a day off and "ran him all over the country" too much. |
| Question: A question for the married women, be honest? Posted: 04 May 2016 03:15 PM PDT I am specifically looking for answers from older women, 40+ who have been married for 10+ years. How often do you give your husband oral sex? I mean to completion, not just as part of foreplay. |
| Posted: 04 May 2016 03:00 PM PDT My ex-wife and I have been divorced for 4 months and seperated for 14 months. She started dating this man a few months ago and she told me this weekend she is going to introduce our 9 and 11 year old daughters to him. I told her that she couldn't until I met the guy. Because I didn't want just some random dude I didn't know around my child. |
| Question: Ex husband taking me to court for living with my boyfriend? Posted: 04 May 2016 02:29 PM PDT We have a 5 year old son. He is still bitter about the divorce and throwing a fit because I am living with someone. My boyfriend is still married, they have been separated a year and he has been trying to get it over with but his wife keeps dodging everything. His lawyer is calling our living situation "immoral". Is this really an issue? |
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| Question: As a married woman, is it wrong to chat with guys online? Posted: 04 May 2016 01:27 PM PDT My husband is pretty prude and boring when it comes to the bedroom. I have found that chatting online with guys has really satisfied certain needs that I have. The guys know that it will never go any further then online play, since they are all out of state. The chats become pretty naughty and taboo, and really excites me. Is it wrong to do? |
| Question: My wife is secretly a prostitute..? Posted: 04 May 2016 01:17 PM PDT She had been staying at a hotel for the past week, and I got suspicious. Just found out that she is an "escort". She left me with our three children(all girls). How do I tell them that their mother is a hooker? What kind of role model is she?? How can I divorce her is she has three kids to take care of?? They love their mom, so I cannot leave her because they will be devastated! |
| Question: My wife put the cat in the dryer..? Posted: 04 May 2016 01:01 PM PDT She knows that I love my cat, so she put him in the dryer, and closed the door and pushed start just to scare me. Then she instantly opened the door and pulled the cat out, and he scratcher her arm. She always tells me that I am a lousy lover, and that she wants to cheat with the guy who lives across the street ect..She even tried to hit me with a board the other night, after I caught her logging into a dating site. Should I divorce her? |
| Question: Wife says that she prefers her vibrator to my tong..? Posted: 04 May 2016 12:52 PM PDT Should I divorce her? The other day she even asked me If I'd allow her to have a "friend with benefits". The most unsettling part about this, is that she is willing to get a man or a woman to be her "friend". She hags out with this guy all day long sometimes, and I have no idea what she is doing. Should I divorce her? Edit: Hangs out with him. |
| Question: Opinion needed please.? Posted: 04 May 2016 12:17 PM PDT Me and my wife got married two years ago in city hall. At the time we did it because we bought a house together and I have really good health ins I wanted her on. Ended up being great cuz she had a stroke and needed brain surgery. Just found out she will need another brain surgery too. At the time I couldn't afford a ring. I finally can and bought one and want to give it to her before her next surgery. I was thinking this weekend while we are away at the ocean. I know you can't get married twice. But I want to make it special for her. Is it stupid for me to still get on one knee and ask? |
| Question: Why are some people against long engagements? Posted: 04 May 2016 11:57 AM PDT I mean engagements that last longer than a year. Someone on here told me that if your engagement is longer than one year then you aren't ready to get married. Um, why? |
| Question: Cheating - in marriage - after? Posted: 04 May 2016 11:33 AM PDT I am divorced for several years now, as well as my new boyfriend of three months. He recently told me that at the end of his very tumultuos marriage, he stepped out/had an affair. He said he does not regret it because it was the push to get out of the marriage and he never looked back. I also had an affair at the end of my marriage but I regret mine terribly. My marriage sucked towards the end but I still hate what I did. I never want to cheat on anyone again (my ex husband also stepped out). I really like my new boyfriend a lot and I want to have good boundaries an dhe says he wants us to be monogamous. I no longer talk to my affair partner (haven't in years) and he says he has very sparing/little contact with his affair partner and wishes her the best). I guess I feel odd that he doesn't regret it but those are his feelings. I really like him and am happy we both confided this in each other and I guess my question is... will this change our dynamic? Am I right to feel odd that he doesn't regret it. Advice? |
| Question: My wife wont have sex with me? Posted: 04 May 2016 10:09 AM PDT We've been married for 10 years. I have never cheated on her. We haven't had sex in 8 months. She got upset with me cause we wer at hotel at the beach, some of the girls were dancing and I got a hardon, I was just sitting on a chair and got a hardon, she noticed. Later that day I tried fooling around with her and she said I should go **** one of those girls. I couldn't help getting a hardon, haven't had sex in 8 months, I don't like masturbating, I'm 38, she is 32. I really don't know what the **** happens. I know marriage is not all about sex, but 8 months?! Maybe some of the women here can guide me cause I don't know. My friends say I should go out with someone else, but I don't want to be that man. |
| Question: How did you forgive your spouse that cheated? Posted: 04 May 2016 08:25 AM PDT My husband had an affair with a close friend, however he stated it did not lead to sex. He stated they only talked over the phone and texted eachother regarding sex.He came to me due to my suspicion and told me what happened. He has a history of getting close to sex ( at least thats what I'm told) but never following through.It isn't fun being betrayed and by a friend or husband. and I am a faithful person so I would never pursue anyone.I am really really trying to work it out but all the doubts stay in my head and Im not so sure I can get over it. I am still angry and hurt. |
| Question: Can such people really love others? Posted: 04 May 2016 08:12 AM PDT I have known people that screw people on business deals, cheat on their wives and trash talk good people behind their backs. But they have families and say they love their spouses and children.' Is is possible to love your family and disrespect people in general? |
| Question: Should I marry my crazy girlfriend for the good of our daughter? Posted: 04 May 2016 07:48 AM PDT My girlfriend is very impulsive and abusive. She says that she is like that because we are not married and she feels insecure with me. Today she told me that I was like an " stranger" to her because we are not married. I am going back home and she wants me to come back ready to marry her. If I don't, then she wants me to take our baby daughter with me because she doesn't want to see me ever again. I proposed having a separate room or apartment for me for when she goes nuts. She did not like that idea. I am thinking that maybe it would be better for my daughter to be with her mom, even if I don't get to see her again, than to take her with me and have her growth without a mom. What do you guys think? But she has a 8 years old that is very happy. She is over protective and he doesn't talk to his father. Still, I am sure my daughter will be happy too. I am only afraid that my daughter one day could make me responsible for not having a mother. I wonder what is better for her, to growth up with father or mother if only one was an option. Thanks! |
| Posted: 04 May 2016 07:42 AM PDT I told her I would give her what she wanted if she was willing to try anal. She agreed. Two days later she told me she wasn't comfortable, we talked, i listened to her concerns and we left it there. She has now made several comments in passing like she expects I will honor my half of the deal/favor. I don't want to be the bad guy and I rarely ever 'negotiate' like this with my wife, but I have no intention of honoring my concession, if she won't honor hers... thoughts? |
| Question: Career , Marriage , THEN have a baby ! Why don't females understand this? Posted: 04 May 2016 07:26 AM PDT |
| Question: Am I too young to get engaged? Posted: 04 May 2016 07:25 AM PDT I am 20 and my girlfriend will be 20 in June. Am I too young to get engaged I mean I can always have a long engagement. We're not planning on actually getting married until we are about 23. |
| Question: As a newly wed.. what are the problems that you encounter sometimes? Posted: 04 May 2016 07:19 AM PDT |
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| Question: Can such a person truly love someone? Posted: 04 May 2016 06:59 AM PDT A know a single woman 37 who would hang out with a couple guys that were also married but partiers. They were all self-admitted alcoholics and the guys would brag about cheating on their wives. One guy once said, "I can give them what their husbands can't.: This woman had an affair with the guy that said this, then went and married another guy and started a family. Could such a person really love someone if they have no respect for people in general? I am not questioning drinking and multiple sex partners. I see nothing wrong with that. I was questioning their choice to disrespect others, friendship with those who do, possibly hurting others or destroying families for personal pleasure. As well as drinking so heavily that they are dysfunctional and a liability to those they should support. I was wondering if someone so self-centered could truly love others. |
| Question: Can you offer some creative ways to celebrate an anniversary? Posted: 04 May 2016 06:25 AM PDT |
| Posted: 04 May 2016 06:08 AM PDT Your married, you work a full time job, 2 kids in college, married almost 24 years, and have a passion for performing live music. The shows you do are on weekend nights night unfortunately as this interferes with spending time with your spouse. So, with what I've described below how many weekend night shows could "YOU" do without it causing issues with you spouse in a negative way. For me the # seems to be 2 shows a month. Thanks!!! |
| Question: Do you think it's best to change a lot of partners before you get married? Posted: 04 May 2016 04:50 AM PDT |
| Question: How do i know that my marraige in philippines is registered? Posted: 04 May 2016 03:13 AM PDT |
| Posted: 04 May 2016 02:37 AM PDT I need to move to Pennsylvania , there's good jobs there and the cost of living is not that bad Florida is worse, problem is i cant take my wife until i get work i'll be staying at a mens shelter to save money , she & her family dont want me to go , we struggle all the time ,i only live on $1.300 per month we cant do anything but eat and sleep ,her family say they will sue me if i loeave wife is uncommited to me ,i need this change for me ! i'm 55 its my last chance to be happy leave my wife sorry for my grammer! |
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| Question: How to catch wife cheating on facebook or phone? Posted: 04 May 2016 01:05 AM PDT |
| Posted: 04 May 2016 12:38 AM PDT And as soon after I argue about it and end up wanting some sex to relax and feel ok he tells me that he s not in the mood anymore and that makes me mad so I ask him to go get some inspiration from those almost naked sexy girls and then have sex with me then but still doesn t work. What should I do? |
| Question: My husband is scared to make love? Posted: 04 May 2016 12:20 AM PDT It's been 2 months since our wedding. He takes care of me n loves me. Lately I've been very busy with work. N hv hardly talked to him since weeks. Every evening i come back frm work n he makes me food n i go to sleep. He's an artist n a musician, mostly works at home. It was his birthday yesterday. I rushed to home around 9 pm when facebook reminded me.. saw him crying in his room. I hugged him.. saying sorry.. i said let's go out for dinner we'll get ur favorite cake. N he looked at me n said "i don't deserve it.. my birth should be mourned.." N he kept on crying. Finally after so many pets, hugs n kisses I came to know tht his mother had died a week after his birth n he has been guilty all his life fr it. I kissed him n tried to convince tht it wasn't his fault.. bt he kept crying like a baby. I was kissing him throughout.. n then slowly somehow it turned into a love kiss.. n I felt we were actually making love.. he kissed me everywhere with all his emotions.. bt when i invited his hands inside my clothes he didn't do it.. n started crying.. i asked.. bt he cupped my face n said i don't wanna hurt u. I said i was ok bt he kept crying. Finally i hugged him n left. This is what happens every time. Maybe his mother's death has affected him so deeply.. tht he thinks he'd hurt every woman in his life.. I wish i could give him all my love to compensate fr a mother's love which he never got.. bt i don't get time from my job to pay attention to his heart. What can i do for him? |
| Question: My wife cheated on me while I was in basic training and after I came home.? Posted: 03 May 2016 11:46 PM PDT So I attended basic training a year ago and while I was in training my wife cheated on me. I had a break in training between basic and technical training and for the first month I was home she cheated on me again. I found out about it and after a few weeks I decided to forgive her because she genuinely seemed like she was sorry and was trying to change. Fast forward to now and she is pregnant (it's mine), but I really don't know if I want to be with her anymore. I know I forgave her, but I still am not over it by any means, and I still think about it daily. It is affecting our marriage big time and I just simply don't feel the same anymore. Any advice? |
| Posted: 03 May 2016 11:25 PM PDT He thinks that showing me off naked on tv should make me feel like a compliment and not an insult. But I don t have the greatest body and certainly I don t think that high of women exposing themselves on tv naked as respectful or even a little bit smart. I just felt like not loved not important to him. |
| Question: How do woman feel about prenuptial agreement? Posted: 03 May 2016 10:12 PM PDT I personal feel if things dont work out you shouldnt get half my stuff or vice versa, we got together out of love not possessions. |
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| Posted: 03 May 2016 09:35 PM PDT Is open marriage the answer to a long distance relationship when husband is away for months. |
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