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- Question: How to talk to people?
- Question: I have no friends...?
- Question: Am I an embarrassment?
- Question: I'm jealous of my friend?
- Question: So my two friends have started dating...?
- Question: My best friend told my crush I like him?
- Question: Does not caring make me a bad person?
- Question: What does You don't need me mean? or...if we didn't talk again you'd be fine?
- Question: I feel like my friends dont really care about me ? :(?
- Question: How do I get friends?
- Question: Should I show my internet friend my face?
- Question: Why doesn't my friend tell me anything?
- Question: Birthday present for my friend, need help?
- Question: I hate my life rn. My friends are leaving me for a rat. I hate it. Then they are spreading rumors to each other.?
- Question: My life is full of crazy drama (including idiot siblings to crazy friends and a crush) I need a cool name for my new tumblr blog.?
- Question: Why are people so fake?
- Question: My friend and I were sexually harassed by the same guy?
- Question: Need Help. School Issues?
- Question: Am I right to be mad?
- Question: My little stupid story?
- Question: Why do people say that I'm awkward?
- Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do?
- Question: My best friend asked me out !!!!!!!!!?
- Question: How do I stop my best friend from taking drugs?
- Question: How to deal with drama at in Middle School?
- Question: What does "try me" mean?
- Question: Was he showing interest?
- Question: Why are SOME black people so rude?
- Question: How do I make friends?
- Question: My friend hates my friend?
- Question: Why am I never invited to parties?
- Question: Should I go to my best friends birthday dinner? I'm really pissed at the person that's going to be there.?
- Question: My dad says he doesn't want to cook because it cost a lot of money to buy the ingredients. he says he would rather eat subway everyday?
- Question: I hate school... please help! Too many problems!?
- Question: My friend found a baby sitter job and the person,who hired her want to add her to there payroll. Is it good idea does she have.?
- Question: School lunch help?
- Question: How do I surprise my girl friend?
- Question: Would you ever tell a friend they are making a mistake when they get engaged or do you keep your mouth shut and hope for the best?
- Question: What is it called when people will do everything and anything or even rat out a friend to protect themselves and their own interests?
- Question: I have a chicken that laid a soft egg this morning. What should I do with the egg?
- Question: I wish i had someone close and has similar interests. Maybe like a childhood friend?
- Question: A guy threw an egg on my face when I was passed out, how do I get revenge on him?
- Question: Why am I feeling jealous and how to stop?
- Question: Me and my friend are immature. Is it normal to laugh at everything like literally everything.? ����?
- Question: I dont want to talk to my best friend anymore?
- Question: Why do my friends ignore me?
- Question: Is it normal to want to have sex with your GP?
- Question: My bestfriend went away to college and now we dont talk what should i do?
- Question: I need some help with how to tackle a bully?
- Question: Losing my best friend?
- Question: How do you make a best friend?
- Question: Pushed to My Breaking Point?
- Question: Why does my bestfriend get annoyed when I'm happy when she already has a good life?
- Question: Opinion on this idea for saying goodbye?
- Question: My friend sent me a picture of a decoy butterfly (she is obsessed with butterflies) But I don't really care. What should I reply with?
- Question: I need to get over my ex.?
- Question: I keep getting made fun of for being light-weighted and skinny?
- Question: Am I overacting?
- Question: Why are gay people so pushy?
- Question: I want to die I don't cry about it i just think but sometimes i regrert saying it but other times i don't?
| Question: How to talk to people? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:56 PM PDT So i am TERRIBLE at talking to people. I just don't know what to say. My friends make it look so easy at school and other places outside of school.. when someones talking to me i just usually say "oh" or force myself to laugh so im not completely quite. Either way its still awkward AS HELL. Im a loner, i guess you can say socially deprived. But unlike most of the people i know i actually like being alone. So i guess thats why it makes me so awkward to talk to people i dont know. They call me the shy one in the group. Anyways any advice? Thanks! |
| Question: I have no friends...? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:55 PM PDT Ok well I have like 4 friends that actually care for me (which makes me smile since it is hard to make friends). Anyways so there was this girl who I didn't like. My friends liked her and left me. Then they realized I was right and came back. One of the girls "C" and me were good friends. We talked about the other girl when she would annoy us and stuff but not everyday. C would call her a b* and cracker... Today C and my other "friend" both sided with her and basically ignored me. They acted like it was my fault and C acted like she never said anything about her. Then when I got home I texted one of our mutual friends to tell her that me and C weren't friends. Then she took screenshots and sent it to the other girl. In the message I said "I need to rethink my friends". What do I do now? I hate my life rn. I am in classes with them and I sit next to one of the girls in 4 classes. School has 8 days left, and the girl they ditched me for is happy now and I am depressed. I can't tell my parents either. I am so mad and sad and depressed. |
| Question: Am I an embarrassment? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:51 PM PDT My bestfriend and I have been friends since 2009. Everything was fine and until she started hanging out with a group of people and they were very trendy/preppy people as I have large stretched ears, a shaved head and piercings. Ever since she started getting involved with their life I felt like a complete embarrassment, I asked if we could all go to the movies with some of my friends and her friends and she just glared at me was gave me a harsh no "because you would make them uncomfortable". I invited her to Bumpershoot, a music festival, and she looked at me and said "I already made plans, sorry" and I know it sounds silly but me being her closest friend ever and not even being mentioned or invited kind of hurt my feelings and sort of pissed me off. Then I asked her if she still wanted to go to Warped Tour and her reply, "idk anymore", like okay. We just got over a break that was about 3 weeks because our fights were getting stupid and crazy and I feel like talking about it hasn't helped either. I just feel like I can't fit in anywhere and no-matter if I change my style or my f*cking "Instagram feed" she wants nothing to do with her, her friends & I together. I feel like either she's a different person around them or I am an embarrassment? I really don't wanna start sh*t again but our friendship is getting stressful with her only ever hanging out with just me. I don't want to lose her but I want this to be over. Maybe I am too sensitive? Any advice is appreciated. |
| Question: I'm jealous of my friend? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:50 PM PDT so my friend set me up with her friend (they've been friends for 2 years) and he's my bf now and whenever they hang out I get really jealous especially since he walks with her to her car after school then turns around and walks back home. he says they're just friends and i trust them both but i get really possessive when i see him hang out with her |
| Question: So my two friends have started dating...? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:48 PM PDT So my two really good friends have recently started dating because I realized they liked each other and encouraged them to begin talking to one another. she has been my best friend for 9 years, he has been my friend for 3. they had met before but a few months ago they really started talking and became friends too. I've been helpful to him because he didn't know her as well as I did and I tried to give him hints as to what to do and where to tsk her on dates. at first it was cute to have her call me after a date and gush about him while he was texting me at the same time wanting to discuss her. but now he's started becoming jealous when I hang out with her or when all three of us hang out together and she pays attention to me. this has literally never been a problem before and now our friend group is planning a trip for the summer and he texted me and told me that it would be weird if another couple, him and her, and I went because it would be an odd number. I could see where he was coming from but my feelings were still hurt, especially since I'm newly single. he basically told me to find someone else that can distract me or not go with them and plan a trip with my single friends. I'm really starting to regret helping them get together now |
| Question: My best friend told my crush I like him? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:48 PM PDT Today, at school, I was casually talking to my crush. I have liked him for the whole school year. In the past, I have refused to tell my best friend (let's call her Friend A.) about who I like. This is my first real crush. I'm not sure weather or not he likes me back. My other friend (Friend B.) has liked a boy in my homeroom for as long as I can remember. He knows, but does not date because of his religion (I see no problem here). He also likes her. Back to my crush. I was talking to him today and Friends A and B walk up to us. Then, Friend A. yells out, "I know who you like!" (Let's call my crush: C) I think it is pretty obvious that I like C. My problem is what he thinks about me. That's what I don't know. The bell for our next class rang just after that. I'm not sure if C heard Friend A., but I'm pretty sure he did. I have class with him everyday. I don't want our friendship to be awkward if he doesn't like me. So now, I'm kind of stressed out. In not sure what to do. What do I do? How should I confront my friend if I do? What do I say to my crush if he brings it up? Ps: Do you think my crush likes me? We talk almost everyday, weather it is exchanging a few words between classes or having a whole conversation. He smiles at me in the hallways and I smile back. He often will start a conversation. We have a little game of tag. In between classes, if we see each other, he will poke me in the arm and laugh. I'll poke him back (laughing too) and run away a little bit. |
| Question: Does not caring make me a bad person? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:46 PM PDT So I had a conversation with someone about being rich. He said that he would donate to charities and help people including his family and friends. But I on the other hand don't care. I don't care for charities or other people but me, my family, friends, and friends of friends. I don't care because it's not my problem nor my obligation to fund or help your life. If I saw a family or individual about to die or in dire need of help (not financially, if they're injured), I would lend a hand and help them get better. That's the only thing that will get me to notice others. Unless I'm looking for a relationship, I may mingle with whomever sparks my interest in that position. Am I a bad person? |
| Question: What does You don't need me mean? or...if we didn't talk again you'd be fine? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:44 PM PDT My best friend and I had a falling out over something simple. We've been friends for so many years. Anyways, one night last week we made plans. we just hung out. I had to cancel to focus on school, and she lashed out. We talked friday night and made up. She apologized and I apologized. She admitted that she wasn't feeling as confident lately, so I assumed that maybe this was coming from a place of insecurity. In fact, the end of our conversation was good. We ended on a good note. She even agreed we'd talk again and hang out. It was just that in the beginning she said that I didn't need her nor her me. She said that if we didn't talk for a while we would both be fine. I was confused, because we are best friends. She was mad because I canceled on her last minute and she'd waited all day, but this was so strange. |
| Question: I feel like my friends dont really care about me ? :(? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:41 PM PDT I have these group of friends (around 9) that i was friends with between middle & high school Most of us are in college now while a few of them are still in their last years in high school. Im currently taking a break from college but soon going back though. I dont know, but on so many occasions, I feel so different from all of them. They all seem to get along, and I do too, but I feel as if Im just there like a ghost. Like on our group chats, when they hang out and I cant make it they continue to hang out, while when the others say they cant make it they all sympathiZe like "nooo:(" "you can come earlier?" Etc. another time was recently they wanted to hang out to watch a movie and when i replied they just sent emojis and went to the next subject. i sound super selfish, but I just cant understand what I'm doing wrong. When I make jokes, they dont laugh at them, but laugh when the rest takes on a joke. I wanted to leave the group chat becausr I dont see myself being that group. They're all nice and funny, but I feel like I'm just an extra. It's really sad because I really love them, but i feel like Im an outcast. I realized that they really dont care whether Im there with them or not. At this point I'd rather just shut myself away from them. I feel like crying right now. Im not a weak person, but lately I've been becoming too sensitive & I dont know why. I feel so immature, If you saw me in person I dont think you would believe this post I wrote but gah. Idk |
| Question: How do I get friends? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:37 PM PDT all my friends have friends but i dont, why? |
| Question: Should I show my internet friend my face? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:31 PM PDT We've known each other for nearly a year and know each others names and everything but we've never met. She showed me her face just because she didn't want me thinking she was a potato😂 and I kinda want to but at the same time I don't. I can kinda trust her but then again she lets her friends read my messages and... Ugh idk. |
| Question: Why doesn't my friend tell me anything? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:25 PM PDT I usually tell her everything, she is aspiring to become a singer and when she does her videos she makes me wait for it to come out and doesn't tell me anything about that. If she is doing something like in LA or at school I have to wait for like the entire school to find out!! Literally we are best friends and its getting quite annoying. |
| Question: Birthday present for my friend, need help? Posted: 09 May 2016 04:07 PM PDT Hi, so I have an idea on what I want to do for my friend's birthday, The problem is we've been having some very hard times in the past and I was thinking of creating a song that's touching and emotional to show how much I care for her as a birthday present. Luckily, I have a piano that I use mainly everyday - I even picked a few keys to start with. The problem is picking the lyrics and I guess another major thing is my voice isn't well trained enough to produce certain notes when I want and keep balance of breath and time managment and her birthday is close to the beginning of next month..! Please help. |
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| Posted: 09 May 2016 04:02 PM PDT I want to start a new tumbler blog were I just write random things that happen to me, (mostly crush stuff and funny friend stuff) random but I dont know what to call it ideas ??? |
| Question: Why are people so fake? Posted: 09 May 2016 03:48 PM PDT I've been through a lot low self esteem and inner problems within myself. I have this one friend that's never been there for me. He always thinks he knows everything and talks down on me, but for some reason he's one of the most likeable people at my high school. Last week he talked down on me again so I lashed on him and told him how much of a fake friend he is. Now I'm going to talk all types of **** aND constantly call him out his name. If he says anu thing to me or looks at me wrong, I'm punching him in the face. I don't care if a lot of people in the school like him, I'm going torment him and make his life a living hell, cuz he deserves it for being fake |
| Question: My friend and I were sexually harassed by the same guy? Posted: 09 May 2016 03:22 PM PDT We're in high school. During PE on Thursday, his friend told him he should take advantage of his time before he asks out a girl he likes. Long story short, he slapped my butt. I'm going to call the guy who slapped me, A. That day, I didn't feel bad and didn't say a word to anyone except for my friend who witnessed it as well. Anyway, he didn't say sorry that day. Today, however, A was dared to grope my friend's boob. And he did it. Also, today he bragged about slapping my butt. Keep note, this was before he groped my friend. He said sorry to the both of us and asked what he could do to make it up. Keep in mind, he's had a girlfriend since Thursday. My friend is being biased and doesn't want to tell on him. I don't know what to do and I'm feeling bad. I'm thinking of telling the office because it'll stop him from doing these kinds of things in the future. |
| Question: Need Help. School Issues? Posted: 09 May 2016 03:08 PM PDT Hi, once you all read this you will all probably think I m really dumb, but please I need help. So in my class today I drew a Nazi Symbol as a joke but I asked on of my buddies to erase it but they didn t and our teacher called in the principle. I erased but I told him it offended me because one of my grandpas friends is a Holocaust Surviour. I just feel bad and don t know if I should keep this to myself or tell someone I did it. Please Help! |
| Question: Am I right to be mad? Posted: 09 May 2016 03:04 PM PDT Me and my "bestfriend" have been friends for almost 5 years now and there's this other girl that she's close to and she started hanging out with us. Today I was walking with her when the bell rang for lunch and she was like "I gotta go get my bestfriend" and then she ditched me to go with her. One time I walked home with them and they were ignoring me the whole time and trying to walk fast away from me I was all left behind. I am so hurt she's mad at me because I didn't wait for her to walk home today. I feel like a third wheel around them all the time and for her to call her bestfriend in front of me is so annoying she did that on purpose |
| Question: My little stupid story? Posted: 09 May 2016 02:44 PM PDT Here is the thing, a yaer ago, I bothered my neighboor, maybe in return, they have been bothered us by making noise ever since. I mean, everyday,,,,,, I thought that they woulf forgive me if I don't make noise anymore. However, they didn't stop, they start to make noise when we sleep and during the night. I do want to apologize for what I have done. However, I didn't go to apologize. The reason is that I am afriad if I apologize and they still keep doing it to me and my family, so I hesitate. It has been a year now, I feel like I have completely messed up their lives. .. .. . .. . .. . |
| Question: Why do people say that I'm awkward? Posted: 09 May 2016 02:28 PM PDT People tell me quite often that I'm awkward lol, but i don't ever feel awkward. I have a small circle of friends, which are my best friends I've had forever, of about 4 and they tell me quite a bit that I'm an awkward person. I know that I USED to be very self conscious, low self esteem, blah blah, but I've grown out of that(I'm a 15 year old girl btw) the thing I don't get is that used to I had social anxiety and felt awkward myself when being around others, but now I hardly ever feel awkward when talking to people, and I don't get nervous and blush like I used to. I act myself at school for the most part, I'm just really chill and don't really talk that much unless someone talks to me first. Maybe that's my problem :/ I usually don't start the conversation unless I'm with my friends, so maybe I come off as stuck up and mean maybe?? I'm not like that at all though, it's just if I don't know that person how am I supposed to just start a conversation with them? I'm really bad at small talk lol so I just don't say anything until they speak to me first. I know this is kinda long, I just would like a little insight on what you think about this. Thanks:) |
| Question: What do you think of this situation and what should I do? Posted: 09 May 2016 02:26 PM PDT Ok so when I was taking the bus to go to school today I didn't know where I was going and got lost. The bus ended up passing by some old school I used to go to in middle school. When I was in the bus I saw some girl that I used used to be my sisters friend that I used to go to middle school with that I didn't like but didn't show it and I was sure she secretly didn't like me too. I would always stay around my sister(she's the younger one) and she would be sitting there. So all 3 of us were always together but me and my sisters friend didn't like each other. We got into arguments and fights before because of my sister. She was very far away like a distance when I saw her when I was sitting in the bus. I think she saw me in the bus from a distance because she was looking my way and wouldn't turn around. This annoys me that she would remember me because I don't want to remember her and I don't want her to remember me and the reason she would look my way from a distance. What do you think of this situation and what should I do? |
| Question: My best friend asked me out !!!!!!!!!? Posted: 09 May 2016 02:25 PM PDT ok literally about two minutes ago a boy that is my best friend asked me out on snapchat I don't like him back and I don't want to ruin our friendship please answer quick!!!!! what do I say |
| Question: How do I stop my best friend from taking drugs? Posted: 09 May 2016 02:13 PM PDT My best friend always takes drugs, all different kinds of drugs (Pills, Cannabis, not hardcore drugs like Cocaine and Heroine though) and she always drinks until she passes out. She always says that she has stopped taking drugs, but she takes them anyways. She has told me that she knows that she's addicted, and she doesn't feel mentally good, and she goes to therapy and has been in rehab, but still, she takes the drugs. I don't wanna lose her and I don't know what to do? She's already been in hospital twice, and both times she almost died for taking drugs. I've talked to her about it multiple times but it doesn't seem like she's taking what I'm saying seriously. Should I just move on? Best regards from Sweden. Forgot to mention that she has bad habits like having sex with different people, stealing, not listening to her parents, and she did self-harming, and almost never eating. |
| Question: How to deal with drama at in Middle School? Posted: 09 May 2016 02:13 PM PDT At school there has been a lot of drama and rumors being spread that are becoming annoying. People are saying there is a lesbian couple in our hallway and spreading hate about them, which is downright wrong. I've tried telling them to stop, but you know how people are when nasty rumors are being spread. There is also the average "Oh, why aren't you talking to this person (who just so happens to be your ex)?" drama going on. |
| Question: What does "try me" mean? Posted: 09 May 2016 01:49 PM PDT So me and my friend were talking about high school and me being a late bloomer, I didn't really pay attention to slang so I ask her if anybody ever tried to mess with her in school, like say mean things, purposely annoy her, stuff like that. Then I told her saying she didn't have to tell me if it's too personal but she responded with "naw people would try me, they would talk to me anyway" I didn't really get that. Lol, can you help me? |
| Question: Was he showing interest? Posted: 09 May 2016 01:37 PM PDT Awhile ago I added my classmate on instagram, yet we didn't like each other's pics for some reason. Today I spoke to him for the first time in person (other than past small talk). He laughed at my jokes, and asked questions. Once home, I saw that for the first time ever, he liked a pic I posted 6 days ago that he didn't like before we spoke. Was he showing me interest? |
| Question: Why are SOME black people so rude? Posted: 09 May 2016 01:36 PM PDT Like most of the time they make fun of me and alot of other people. They are really immature in my classes, there are some few other races who are immature in my class, but they don't take it too far. They also always want to fight for no good reason EX: Me walking in the hallway accidentally bumps into someone because of the big crowd and they are like "You better watch it son or I'll lay your *** out" I'm apologizing saying that "I didn't mean it because there was huge load of people in the hallway that someone accidentally pushed me into you, sorry." But they don't care. Believe me when I say this I AM NOT RACIST I have about 5 black friends and we get along fine, but other then those 5, most of the others are really rude. I try my best to be polite and friendly, but they're just nasty to me. |
| Question: How do I make friends? Posted: 09 May 2016 01:34 PM PDT I'm 14 years old and have no friends at my school. Like, a lot of people are nice to me, and people like me, but I never had a girlfriend and I haven't been to someone's house/someone been to my house since fourth grade. I'm in EIGHTH now. I am a bit of an introvert, but it gets kinda lonely. Well, pretty lonely. |
| Question: My friend hates my friend? Posted: 09 May 2016 01:05 PM PDT As my birthday is in the middle of exams I am not having a party but I'm having some friends round for the night but two of my closet friend really dislike each other. One of them has said that she would be civil with her because she doesn't want to ruin my birthday but the other girl who is one of my best friends is refusing to come because the other girl is coming. How do I get her to come? |
| Question: Why am I never invited to parties? Posted: 09 May 2016 12:47 PM PDT In school I am part of a big friendship group but there are like groups inside the big group. People in other groups have parties quite a lot but I am never invited. Everyone in my group is always invited as well as everyone in all of the other groups and i don't understand why I'm the only one who is never invited. Why do you think this and how do I stop it. Thanks x |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 12:47 PM PDT My friend has a surprise birthday dinner and I don't know if I should go or not. SO basically, the Person 1 (let's call her) was planning the whole thing even though the birthday person hates her. SO Person 1 asked me to get the birthdays person locker combination because they wanted to out a present in her locker. So I got it for them which was difficult. So they're decorating her locker today after school because her birthday is tomorrow and they asked me to stay to help and I was like I couldn't since we already have the surprise dinner at 5, and I really need to finish my homework.So now she's being a ***** because they couldn't open the locker even though it was a basic master lock. She' s saying that she needed me to open the locker and that I should have stayed and that is the one thing she needed me to do, but all she said to do was get the combination? So I'm really pissed and I don't know if I should go to the dinner because even though I'm her best friend and I don't want to see Person 1 AT ALL. Should I go or just stay home? |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 12:45 PM PDT does anybody think subway is better than buying actual groceries? I told him that once you get the base stuff it's really not all that much money. we just dont have any of the base stuff, that's why it seems so much. but he doesn't seem to want to do the math. He said that groceries was more expensive than eating out. He will eat get frozen pizzas or go to subway or burger king on a rotating basis. When i was working i used to buy the groceries and cook for the family. nobody else in the house really cooks except for me. my dad says it is too time consuming to cook as well. but since i had got fired i haven't had much money. i made chicken and spaghetti for me and my brothers the other day and he was huffing and puffing the whole time and he had an attitude while we were in the store. I had to get some ingredients for the chicken, some oil oil, pasta, sauce, etc.. and it was about $25. He was like "25 dollars for one meal" and i was like " the base ingredients will last you for a while. you wont have to buy the salt, pepper, etc.. for a while". He only buys orange juice, milk, and water every blue moon because he says it cost a lot of money. he regularly buys soda, chips, and frozen pizzas. when he buys a jug of orange juice he will complain about it not lasting ( 5 people in the house). he said he would rather eat out everyday at subway than to buy all of the ingredients to cook food |
| Question: I hate school... please help! Too many problems!? Posted: 09 May 2016 12:41 PM PDT Please help, everyday I come home and start crying. My family know nothing about this and I know they won't help. I don't know any people to go talk to and I'm quite young so I have no idea how to find them. Anyway, I hate school because mainly the embarrassment. It's like I have some sort of curse which makes me embarrassed EVERYDAY. I know, I know, it sounds so stupid but I have no friends and my life is terrible. I hate school so much. I hate drama especially. I hate going in front of people with the other loners which is already bad enough, people always make fun of me for having no friends and I'm so awkward I just can't make any no matter how hard I try. What I'm really stressing about is my drama performance in 2 weeks. I'm with the people who make me look worse for starters and our performance has to be 'funny'. I am not funny and whenever I try nobody laughs and if they do it's at me. It feels like the worse thing ever. I talked to my teacher and she doesn't care and I have to play a wolf (Yeah it's stupid). Being the shiest and most awkward person who gets embarrassed somehow every single day, this is the worse role ever to play :( I cry everyday about it and I can't have a day off. Please, please help me if you can :( I'm so lonely it hurts a lot I can't deal with embarrassment. I need a fresh new start in life (can transfer school) but it's too late.. :( Sorry I meant in the end that I CAN'T transfer schools |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 12:39 PM PDT What is a payroll my friend ask? |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 12:23 PM PDT Ok so for most of the year I spent lunch time going to the library and doing homework but now, as the end of the school year approaches I have almost no homework and I don't need to study. So I've been looking around for a lunch table to join. The first one that I used to sit at at the beginning of the year is now really immature throwing food and stuff (in high school) so I left them immediately. Today I sat with this other kid that I kind of know and it went fine. The only thing is is that he said he normally sits with this girl but she was absent today. So today it was just the two of us. I don't want to intrude if it's just him and this girl so tomorrow should I find somewhere else to sit or sit with this kid again? |
| Question: How do I surprise my girl friend? Posted: 09 May 2016 12:18 PM PDT My friend is currently on a one week trip to Germany. She means really much to me so I wanted to surprise her when she gets back. I literally have got no idea what to do or what to give etc. Do you guys have any idea what to do to make a friend smile? TIA |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 12:13 PM PDT I have some friends who have made some really terrible choices for marriage partners and I was talking with another friend about this yesterday. He felt like he was being a bad friend because he isn't going to say anything to a mutual friend who just got engaged. This friend of ours is totally making a terrible choice and I feel like deep down inside he know he is because he is constantly justifying he is relationship with her. For example instead of saying "I'm marrying her because I love her" he says "I'm marrying her because we've been together for years and i can't break up with her now. The poor girl has been waiting so long to get married". So my other friend think she's being a bad friend for not saying anything, and then he says if he DOES say something then that also makes him a bad person. So what is the right thing to do? |
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| Question: I have a chicken that laid a soft egg this morning. What should I do with the egg? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:41 AM PDT |
| Question: I wish i had someone close and has similar interests. Maybe like a childhood friend? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:35 AM PDT I wish i had someone to cares about me, helping each other when their in need. it could be a friend, one is fine as long as its someone whom i can cherish. Some may say don't wish for things just search and do it yourself. But let me ask you this how are you able to do such things when people around you including close related whom you rejected because of what they done in the early stages of childhood or surrounded by people who hurt others for the sake of their own benefit and not help others. i had friends though i could not constantly repair the bonds i tried to interact with them so we (me and my friends) slowly lost contact with each other. This is because we have different interests so we don't need each other. Sometimes its best to move on. Every time when i try to push myself i end up giving up (its hard to describe it but i feel like i need someone to push me forward and cared maybe fight against each other to see who is better?). For me to constantly push forward i need motivation times when i do put all my will into it i feel like dying and going insane (not a mental condition) i cannot handle it and end up giving up. I really wish i had someone close and had the same interests. Someone who i can care about and put my effort into caring him/her, have competitions seeing who is the best then work together and surpass other people,someone to talk to personally. i know i am asking a lot and for such a person to exist could be nearly impossible. |
| Question: A guy threw an egg on my face when I was passed out, how do I get revenge on him? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:26 AM PDT So the other night, my group of friends had a " Friend Party." We invited a friend named Gerardo. Gerardo is a racist dick and I always hated him but my friends wanted to invite him so I had to put up with him none the less. So anyways... I decided to drink some alcohol and I eventually got so drunk that I passed out on the floor.. And while I was passed out Gerardo drew pictures of ***** on my face and than threw an egg at me and took a video of it and posted it on snapchat for the entire world to see... well when I woke up I thought that it was this guy named Jackson ( me and Jackson were angry at eachother just a week earlier) so I thought it was Jackson who threw the egg at me and so I got mad and punched him in his face.later I found out it was Gerardo and I was so angry I tried to fight him but my friend held me back. Gerardo never apologized and its been a while and I need to know how can I get revenge on him.any tips?? plz and thank u |
| Question: Why am I feeling jealous and how to stop? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:21 AM PDT I am an exchange student. I live with my host family and I am very happy and attached to them. However I am often compared to their former exchange student and it annoys me. Also I've seen posts on Facebook, where they post stuff about how much they miss him. i feel envious and like I am disappointing them and can't live upto the former one. I know its not rational. |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 11:20 AM PDT |
| Question: I dont want to talk to my best friend anymore? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:20 AM PDT I dont want to anymore. My best friend is so ignorant, stubborn and acts like one of the most bad people I know. I cant even fight with my best friend anymore because he always says i am the bad person andthat i treat him like trash. I do understand in some moments i am emotionless but it is not my fault. I feel empty inside when i talk to my friend. Every time he wants to start a fight i just apologise right away because I dont want to deal with him at all. I would say the things he wants to hear like i am sorry, you are right. I just feel like the last piece of trash when i talk to him. I started ignoring his messages and responding after an hour or two every time i get a message. I am starting to feel depressed and he wouldnt understand that. He constantly puts this pity on himself saying he has a bad life. And I cant comfort him at all, i just cant. I cant even force myself to comfort him because he has roof under his had, a mom, sister, younger brother who love him, he has food, bed, warmth. He doesnt even have a problem he just puts pity on himself because of the past. He lost a few friends and he has been puting pity on himself since then. I actaully do have real problems with depression unlike him but I never burden him with my depression like he burdens me. I dont burden anyone with my depression but he burdens me with his pity. |
| Question: Why do my friends ignore me? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:19 AM PDT My two friends and fellow classmates (I ll call them A and B) started ignoring me all of a sudden. They re always talking about a show that I kinda don t like, and when I want to talk to B about another show that I enjoyed and we both watched, she ignores me completely. Now, I don t intrerrupt them, of course. And when I DO get to talk to B, she just complains about how her ship will never be canon, and when I talk about anything else than that show, she says she "doesn t care". A only watched that show and I don t have any problems with her. What am I to do? I really don t want to lose her as a friend since we have so many common interests! |
| Question: Is it normal to want to have sex with your GP? Posted: 09 May 2016 11:15 AM PDT So I went in because I had breast pain. I kept complaining. He tried to convince me that it's nothing serious. I sat in front of him, I found him attractive and now I just want to have sex with him that's all. So if I book an appointment with the GP and try to fvck him in the GP room will it work? I'll tell him to keep it a secret and I just want to do it with him once. I doubt anyone would check the CCTV in the room. Will it work if I ask him, I really want to have sex with him and I'll take condoms with me. |
| Question: My bestfriend went away to college and now we dont talk what should i do? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:58 AM PDT Im at home at a community colleg |
| Question: I need some help with how to tackle a bully? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:57 AM PDT Okay so I'm 16 , 4ft 11 and a female (not really relevant but just thought I'd state this anyway incase anyone suggests that I fight them) and my friend is being bullied. He's always had trouble fitting in with people and so for the past year me and my other friend have tried to make him fit in with us (which he does and enjoys sitting with us) anyway, other boys from our year at school often shout things and say things to him as they go past, for example they like to call him a "fat oath" and they always say "great group of friends you've got there *insert his name* which one are you f*cking?" and just other horrible stuff. Today as they walked past they threw a piece of tree bark at him. I try so hard to stand up for him but I'm not the most confident/ outgoing person and I struggle to think of things to say to them so I normally just tell them to go f*ck themselves and to leave him alone, I'm not the type of person to let other people make others feel like complete rubbish and no matter how hard I try they won't stop (I've already spoken to teachers yet they don't take my friend seriously and refuse to help) so does anyone know of any good comebacks that I could say to these boys which will catch them out and make them look stupid? I want to say stuff to them that will embarrass them and hopefully make them stop; stuff like "Just because you act like a dick, it doesn't mean it will make yours any bigger", I need some good come backs like that, can anyone help? |
| Question: Losing my best friend? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:51 AM PDT My best friend and I were insperable. We were always hanging out and doing stuff together. We've never had a fight or anything. but lately I feel like we're drifting apart. When we became friends I was in a relationship with this guy, she there for me then and when we broke up. We both got into relationships recently.. this is her first 'real' relationship. Since they've been dating we barely hang out or talk. I'm happy for her and all but I feel like she's going to be the type to her boyfriend over her friends. |
| Question: How do you make a best friend? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:33 AM PDT I have some friends but I haven't had a best friend in years. I know all these people who seem to like me and even seem excited to see me, but I struggle with trust issues and constantly doubt if I can let myself get close. These two girls are part of that group and I want to be better friends with them. I want a best friend but I don't know how to go about it. |
| Question: Pushed to My Breaking Point? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:32 AM PDT I'm a 14 year old guy and I try to be nice to everyone, they are nice to me and I try to brighten everyone's day, and my friends like to go to me for emotional support. I get mad at people sometimes but not that mad. Although, there is this one kid who makes me so mad. I try to be nice and he calls me gay or stupid for trying to be nice. My friends will unleash everything they have on him so he doesn't mess with them. I try to remain calm and just be nice to him and nothing works. I have to hold back everything I wanted to say. I am struggling to stay calm and I literally have to bite my tongue from screaming at him! I am also tempted to yell at him because these people keep flaming him. He once walked in and called my friend "Fat rolls" for literally no reason at all. So this girl said "Shut up, this is why you don't have any friends" to him. He puts on this smug smile and walks away. I want to punch the living daylights out of him. He's always trying to act so cool, and amazing. I DESPISE him. I'm concerned for him and myself because I really really want to pop him in the mouth. Any advice on this? |
| Question: Why does my bestfriend get annoyed when I'm happy when she already has a good life? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:24 AM PDT Don't get me wrong, I'm really lucky to have a friend like her as she's a person I can be myself around and she's really supportive but she gets so moody or annoyed. Our other friends prefer to hang out with me as I'm always laughing, making others laugh or advising others while she is really shy so she doesn't like it when I speak to them so I try not to hang out with others yet when we were younger girls use to tell her to not me friends because I was apparently too problematic but she never stood up for me then. She complains about how tough her life is which maybe true as everyone's life is hard but she doesn't understand how blessed she is to have two loving parents with a good job as they can both help her with her studying and applying for college while my dad use to abuse because he wanted a son and I'm a girl which made me suicidal at a very young age and he left five years ago when I was 12 causing me to get depression, I barely see my mum as she's always busy as a single parent. My friend tries to support me a lot but she doesn't understand how hard it is to not want to hurt myself, she says "why do you want to die? Just stop thinking about everything!" Without understanding how lonely and unspecial I feel. Teachers compare our grades a lot or say I'm a bad influence on her which she just tell me to ignore yet she gets really annoyed when our art teacher compliments my fashion or when our psychology teachers jokes around with me or when boys talk to me. |
| Question: Opinion on this idea for saying goodbye? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:23 AM PDT HELLO so for most college students, the end of the semester is very near. This particular female student, i thought she was sweet and helped me a few times throughout the semester. i see her as a friend, and usually walk and chat with her to her car. Before she leaves i wanna try to hug her and then land a kiss on her forehead/cheek, then just walk away like nothing happened. opinions on this? |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 10:19 AM PDT |
| Question: I need to get over my ex.? Posted: 09 May 2016 10:01 AM PDT I was in deep, deep love with them. Now, we've broken up, and we're just friends. They seem to have easily moved on, but... I'm having trouble. I don't think they cared nearly as much as I did, and I want to stay friends, but I don't know how, since my feelings keep rising up every time I see them. How can I get rid of... or at least calm down, my feelings? I don't know If I can eliminate them, but I want to at least be a good friend. |
| Question: I keep getting made fun of for being light-weighted and skinny? Posted: 09 May 2016 09:48 AM PDT So on Friday, there was a girl 2 grades above me who accidentally pushed be back a little and then I slipped on some leaves. Another person from her grade-he is a boy who is the most popular person in the school started laughing on the ground and then went to his friend saying "AHAHA SHE JUST TRUCKED HIM". This is a sincere lie, and I don't know why people would make fun of me for it anyway even if she did. She's 2 grades above me, and I'm pretty sure everyone knows I am skinny already. So now, at school everybody keeps talking about how I was on the ground. My parents allowed me to stay home today because I threw up, but I don't even want to show my face at my school tomorrow! |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 09:45 AM PDT Alright so me and my friends Mary and Ella where having a sleep over and they decided to do the passing out challenge.i didn't do it not want to.ella used to be dependent on weed, but she stopped.Welts holding her breath she found the light headedness to be rather comforting and made a comment like'icould just use this instead of weed'.i thought nothing of this at the time but now am becoming worried.Alright so after about two times passing out my friend Mary wanted to do it again and we did but this but this time it was different.Me and my friend Ella lied her on the bed after she passed out and all the sudden she started to twitch as though she was having some sort of seizure.I got scared because Mary has a bad heart condition and I was worried something bad was going to happen.My friend Ella, however laughed and said it was cool that she twitched.I thought this was really wrong and strange of her and got mad.i told them they we weren't going to do it anymore because it could be dangerous.After some reasesrch I found out it could give you brain damage and could become addictive as well as lead to death.I told them this but they didn't think anything of it and continued to talk about how cool it was they did this.We did not to it again that night.Alright,so a week later (Saturday)I receive a text from my friend Ella that she just did the passing out challenge again and that she started to twitch and make weird noises.i was pissed and now they think I'm over reacting. Am I? |
| Question: Why are gay people so pushy? Posted: 09 May 2016 09:41 AM PDT I'm not trying to be disrespectful. But they push people to accept them and it's kind of getting annoying like I'm not going to be mean or anything to you. But why do you have to force me to accept your actions that I don't believe is right. |
| Posted: 09 May 2016 09:38 AM PDT how can i stop this escpilly with being a Muslim |
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