(Okay so I'm freshman right now and I used to be friends with a girl named Katherine) . Well in 7th grade me and Katherine were best friends but we got in a fight (that I caused) at the time I didn't have the guts to apologize and we just stopped talking for ALMOST THREE Years!! Now we're in high school and my sister is best friends with Katherine's older sister! And my sister always tells me how Katherine always wants to talked to me and how she's scared I'll yell at her. But in all honesty im scared to talked to her cuz I still feel horrible about what happened in 7th grade! I have only one class with her this year and we only say hey to each other. I want to say more then just hey, I want to know about all I've missed out on in the three years apart. SO WHAT DO I DO? WE'RE BOTH AWKWARD AND ARE SHY! this makes it even harder then before! Like what do I say to her??? How do i start up a conversation??? I need serious help!! I need step by step guidelines or scripts to say to her!! I can't do this on my own, I want to be friends with her before school is out because my sister wants both me and her to hang out with Katherine during the summer.

i have this best friend who i have known since our last semester in college. we were even roommates. we have known each other for about 10years now. over the years i had lend her money and she had always told me she would pay me back when she gets caught up. i just found out that her and fiance is putting offer down on a house. they also getting a new stove and new washer and dryer. when i asked her when she going start paying me back. she told me that she can't cause she would be broke. she owes me over 5,000 dollars. also 3years ago we lived together and we had 3 rules in the house. 1 no drugs any kind 2 no smoking and 3 who ever came over they had to respect our roommates stuff. she met her fiance when she was living with me. when one of his visits i smelled weed. i don't like drugs and i don't want to be around people when they do drugs. and when she was moving out. 1 thing i loved about mine and her friendship was that we could talk inappropriate and be sarcasm with each other. we loved doing crazy and lame things together. and no matter how bad we looked doing them, we would have great laugh about it. but when she was moving out and moving in with her man. i found some cool things for us to do when i visit. like going on hay ride and doing corn maze. her response to me was, he (her fiance) thinks they are to lame and no fun. when i did visit them i was scared if i told them where i want to eat. they would turn it down.

I have a friend (yes it is my friend, not me) that has being doing cocaine for a few months. I told him that I think he should stop and he has told me 3 times that he has. Should I believe him? Is it really that easy to quit cocaine?

so why are people so vicious and rude? why do people feel so inclined to put others down and call them names when they don't even know them most of the time? like why is it so necessary to be mean to strangers?

So right now my sister who is only older than me by 2 years is going to a party. I personally was not invited, so I asked her if I could just go along with her, she said no. A few minutes later she calls MY friends and invited THEM over to the party. I am just really hurt because those are my friends, and she completely turned them against me, and now they don't even talk to me. Though my whole life I have been hurt and never ever went out or had true friends, I know someone in the answers might say that this is how life works, and eventually I will find my true friends, but now today proved me the fact that I'm always the one that's there for my sis, and she always ends up being a ***** to me. All my life people treat me like ****: my teachers , my family, just everyone in general, and I am just done . These life events caused me to have anxiety and now that I told this to her face she is flipping me off. I'm just done. I have no one.

It seems like I dont care about making money, having a job, or how I treat people or anything like that. I just want to talk to people

Any help they have to be not vell known

I noticed lately that I m all alone and I just feel sad all the time and angry at everyone I just sit at home and play Xbox all day I go to school I come home I play Xbox go bed and then do that all over again I don t have much friends I feel like no one likes me because they never invite me to parties that they go to I guess I m just alone. On top of that my parents seen to not care about me they always pay attention to my brother and sister and with me being the youngest it seems as if I ve disappeared to them. The only thing that really helps me is music and listen to it all the time but it seems as if somethings missing. Ive thought about just giving up but I want to keep fighting and make it through but it seems as if the end in 20 years away. I guess I kind put this on here is so I could poor it all put because I don t really have anybody I feel comfortable talking to about this stuff I was wonderin how I could get help somehow thankyou

I am having a b-day party for some of The girls from my class its 11 and we are 19 in out class. But The problem is that i never really speak with The 7 others, and taget do very Well together, so i thought that it would be a problem, But now it is and i Dont know What to do cause i Dont have space for 7 more:(

I've known my friend literally all my life and for the best 2 months she's been talking about how some girl has been flirting with her and stuff and apparently that girl is coming to our school next year and she's so happy. I have no problem with that except apparently she doesn't trust me enough so she feels the need to blur out her name? And she sent the screenshot of the text she got to this group chat I'm in and my friends were wondering why she wouldn't tell us and she's like "I don't want you to judge" and I kind of understand since she's in a group chat with 8 people but what about me? I thought we could tell eachother anything and the fact she doesn't trust me really hurts me. Do I have a good reason to be upset?

Well, I'm in a "squad" of 4 girls. Obviously there is going to be the leader and the one that "controls the group". A boy was hanging with us one day and the leader was buying her food. He said "aren't you guys going to wait for your leader?" That got me thinking about the whole thing. I'm a follower! Is it a bad thing and should I be offended?

I'm 17 and I've had a few people in my life who I've considered my best friend, but they never considered me theirs. It seems like everytime I do make that connection with someone, they already have a best friend who they've known for longer, or they have their own group of friends that I'm not included in. I've always been a quiet girl. I've only ever had three or four best friends in my life, but never at the same time. I know a lot of people don't want to talk to me because I'm quiet, but once I do get to know someone, I think I'm pretty fun to be around, it just takes a while for me to get comfortable. My last best friend, who I don't talk to much anymore because she changed schools, would sometimes ask me if she was my best friend. I would say yes, but then when I would ask her, she would say "Not my best friend, but you're a good friend." I just feel like why would she even bother asking me that if she doesn't even consider me her best friend? I don't know, any advice? Thank you.

She is the worst person I ever met. She s mean, rude, annoying, and nothing like a friend u want to hang out with. I ve known her for 3 years but suddenly it s gotten to the point where I want to kill myself when I m around her. I ve tried to tell her I don t think we can be friends about 100 times but she won t leave me alone. Every time I say maybe it would be best if we don t hang anymore she is first mad a me and tries to blame me then gets all depressed and texts me I don t think I can live without please don t leave me to die. Which makes me think I m the only thing keeping her from killing herself, then I end up saying ok forget about it. What do I do

My friend is very mean to MY friend and my friend's friend. I think she's trying to break relationships so that she's the dominant friend. Btw she is SUPER competitive, self-conscious, and has had episodes of jealousy(with me as well as other girls) What should I do???

Can he still fix everything? Forgot to mention that they both got rejected, and that boy still wants to go to Prom just to make everything happy for her and everybody.

Okay, so I told this one friend that I would take her to the PVRIS and Elle King concert and stuff, but then something happened with this guy who made fun of me to impress her and when I told her, she was like, "Oh he sucks" but then she still wants to be with him. I m like, " Really? I was your friend first!". But then there s this other who I forgot what her name was. I want to go to the concert with her because she s been really nice to me. I feel like my brain is saying to go with my other friend and I don t know what to do. Plz help. What should I do?

I'm having a debate with some people about true friendships .. one topic is friends with money when do you offer money do you feel like you owe it to them bc you say their your friends, how much do you know about each other and personal lives , ?

I dumped her over text friday night after 9 months and I don't think she saw it coming. She didn't want me to do it, but I left it telling her I don't want to talk about it anymore and goodbye. She didn't try to argue, and the last thing I got from her said "I'm not a mind reader. The key to any relationship is communication. But if that's what you really want I can't stop you." then yesterday I came home to find hunting gear I bought her on my kitchen table, a diamond necklace, and diamond earrings along with a few other things. She took what she had over there home with her, but left what I got her, along with the key she had to my apartment. Didn't leave a note or anything. I texted her asking why she gave them back, and she hasn't responded. Why did she give the jewelry back? Is she really mad or just doesn't care? This happened once before and she begged me to stay.

I am currently in second semester in University of Physical Therapy. All my friends are in other universities far away from me. We still meet every other weekend and on holidays. In my new university, i don't really have any friends. I've made a few acquaintances, but not any "actual" friends. This makes me sad sometimes. I come and go there every day, i don't talk to anyone a lot while most others are in groups, talking and laughing etc.. My high school friends have made new friends at their unis. I would like friends, but i also want to focus on my career. After i get my first bachelors in almost 3 years, im switching to medical school. After that i'll go for a masters. I have a long way ahead of me and i know i won't succeed if i don't really devote myself to it. Sadly, i don't have enough time for both friends and a pursue in career. I can try to spend more time talking to people, doing things with them etc.., but then i won't have enough time for studies. I live 1 hour away from my university, so going out with people there isn't that simple. I feel like im missing my youth. By the time i get the job i want, though a well paying one, i will be past 30. Is it worth it? Should i be laid back and spend more time on social interaction? Will the decade long(or longer) pursue of a career be worth it in the end? @Sami: Thank you for your input. Making friends doesn't come naturally to me, it's not as easy for me as it is for other people. I'm not anti social or anything, i just need to make extra effort if i want to achieve anything close to a new friendship. Doing that would eat up time i could spend studying. Like i said, there never is enough time for both. Friends make life more positive, but so does money. In the end, i can only rely on myself for a good life. I just i haven't wasted it till then.

First term is over, everyone has their group of friends and partners that they go to during group projects. I always went into a group with my friend, but she hates me now and doesn't want to talk to me for a stupid reason... anyway. My teacher said there will be a group lab / project. These usually involve 2 - 6 people in a group. I have no friends in that class now. Everyone else has their friends. What to do? It's awkward when you need a group and everyone has one and then you're sitting there all alone. And the teacher ends up putting you with some random group who were happier before the new addition. What to do in those situations? I'm depressed, have anxiety, and have the self esteem of a rock, which doesn't help at all. Would you try to do the lab alone? Ask the most approachable person to be in their group? Work with an ex-friend (which you have to sit next to anyway) without even talking to her? Or do you just tell the teacher so you can be put into the group. Sometimes I even ask to go to the bathroom before he lets people choose groups so when I get back minutes later, it just looks like I missed the group picking. This is long. Like super long. I wouldn't blame you if you didn't even read this.

My friends and I hang out in a group of 4. My friend boy1 and girl1 are dating but boy2 - who s best friends with boy1 - hates girl1 bc she s very immature and constantly acts like a child even tho she s 17. I understand where he s coming from bc I get annoyed with her sometimes and so do other classmates. But recently, boy2 has been distancing himself from us. Besides the fact that this makes me a constant third wheel, I miss us all hanging out together, I miss boy2 and I miss his happy side. Is there someway to fix this friendship or will I have to choose who I start spending time with at school? Also what could possibly become of all of us? Literally any helpful insight or advice would be lovely!

Recently my friend and I fell out. A week ago, we were really close, and she confessed that previously she had a crush on me, so I confessed that I had a crush on her a while ago too, and we had a friendship like brother and sister, and asked me to send her a paragraph about what I like about her, so I did, using what she said she liked about herself as bits inbetween, which included her butt and boobs, but I only repeated what she said. 3 days ago, she got a boyfriend, and I never knew so I asked why she stopped caring about me as much and she said that she had a boyfriend. So I said "What a surprise" because she's always had boyfriends, which I know weren't the best words but I was furious that she had tossed me to the side for someone she had met 3 days prior to dating. I explained that she meant a lot and I was just mad, to which she told me I was clingy and creepy because of the paragraph I sent her, and then her boyfriend started telling me I was a creep as well because I was "harassing" her, when I sent the paragraph whilst she was single, and that I got jealous of her talking to other guys, when I never cared, I just jokingly said "Oh, that your secret lover? ;)" or something. But now she sees me as a negative in her life and she's not forgiving me. Can anyone explain the errors I've made?

. In some kind of way they all seem super nosey or complain a lot. I understand because I used to be this way. Especially at work. The. I found out I was gossip and witnessing the gossip throughout the office I decided to keep my personal business private. NOW that I have pulled away some females are going in overdrive to find out my business or getting upset. The older I get I realized a lot of females are nosey and love drama and I want to stay cordial with everyone but keep my distant. Maybe I just don t know how to be a friend. As a only child I ve learned to deal with myself and I am very outspoken. I miss having a female friend at times but not so much. Is this weird

My friend acts too much of a coward. At school, he lets people hit him in the back of the head, take his stuff, call him a *****, tear up his classwork, and etc. I try to defend him but he has to man up and fight for himself. He's gonna be going to high school next year. It will get worse if he doesn't man up now. How can i man him up or how does he man himself?

I m a 22 yr old guy, i currently go to university. I have a friend, she and I are pretty close. One day we were sitting and one of my friends told me that she has a crush on me. He was just telling me he thinks that she has a crush on me. He judged by the way she was talking to me and stuff. I have a crush on her tho, so when he told me it got my mind thinking. I don t want to ruin our friendship, should I tell her I like her? Will that affect us? Right now I don t know if she likes likes me, but I was just wondering if I should tell her? I ll appreciate all your answers!

This boy I know, him and I are best friends, he always pushes people away who care for him so much. I care about him more than anything, but he makes it so hard because he is such an *** to me. At first, I thought it was only me, but its not. He treats all of his friends like complete **** sometimes. One day he is nice and very caring, the next, he ignores you and is so mean to you for no reason. I m pretty sure he cares about all of us alot, but he is just soooo mean sometimes. Also, he can t keep a girlfriend. He likes them alot then doesn t and breaks up with them and gets all depressed and stuff. I m kinda sure it isn t the girls most of the time, because I was once one of those girls. I didn t do a thing and he just breaks up with me, and does the same to them. He pushes everyone away and is always depressed and idk what to do but it kills me so much.I want to help him, or atleast know what is wrong. Any ideas??? He is 17, if that matters at all.

I know that's the least important thing in the world to worry about but I just want peace. So what do I do? My friends don't really agree with her, she just thinks something becouse of a misunderstanding

So this man james has been bullying me and my friend who is blind. I have autism and for four years he just won t stop bullying me, he shouts at me and if I am talking to new people this person comes over to me and tells the other person how nasty I am. He then works in a care home with disabled person, what can I do to make him stop I have been depressed about this? Please help me

I used to not mind it much but now they always do it, especially one she mocks everything I say or how I say it... It makes me a bit self concious, I can't help but say things that they think is 'weird' because to me they don't seem weird so it makes me not want to talk at all! Most of all I hate it when they mock the way I say things, thats mostly because I find it hard to control my reactions to things and they often seem over the top than what I actually feel about the situation, is there a way I can learn to control them? How do I tell them that it upsets me when they do it because I'm also the kind that doesn't show their true feelings to their friends, I always pretend to be happy and that I don't really care but I really do...

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So I we broke up about a year ago. We didn't fight or anything. We barely talk by messages, how can I get a friendship back? I am NOT trying to get a love relationship back I want a friend relation. What should I do?

I have the urge to kill myself everyday. I don't tell anyone about this because no one would care and they would think I just want attention. I feel so worthless and that no one would care if I was gone, forever. Everyone would be happier without me. I feel like it's always me who make the worst of everything. I have a lot of issues in my life, but when I talk to people I try to act like nothing is wrong so that my problems wouldn't bother them. I want to die. I feel like if I do people will have less to worry about. I am not asking you to judge me and tell me I'm over dramatic, I just needed to say it. If you can give me an advice I will really appreciate it, thank you.

So I was her best friend and she was mine that lead to a relationship wich didn't work out too well. We broke up in And it was peaceful we didn't try to kill each other, we didn't yell, but instead gave each other the " last kiss". So it's been a year since my breakup and I miss our friendship not the bf/gf but I want to be simple good friends. The problem is that we grew apart and we don't talk during school, however we occasionally and rarely text each other. What can I do to get her friendship back to we hang out and constantly talk? What would you want me to do to get my friend back?

I bet when you clicked on this question you automatically hated me. I think I'm subconsciously hated by everyone. Always hated just never aware. I think sometimes I lack self-awareness and talk to people, but I know they don't want to be my friend. It's everyone. Every single person. For instance, yesterday I commented on a persons status and I was shaking and subconsciously biting my nails after I wrote it. They didn't reply. That was my fear, rejection, and it seems like every time I try to "put myself out there" I get knocked down. It's not just that. During the 3 month holidays I didn't go out and meet "friends". Not once. Whenever I tried to meet up with someone, I'd ring them up and ask if they were still coming, and they "forgot" about it. Or maybe they said they'd meet up with me to lead me on and felt bad about rejecting me to my face, so they just cancelled at the last minute. I'm an embarrassment. People ALWAYS tell me to be more outgoing but how can I when I'm CONSTANTLY getting rejected by everyone? It just feels like sometimes I don't want to live because I'm really lonely. I don't have 1 ******* friend. NOT 1 FRIEND! I try to make friends online, too. Whenever I write them a message asking them how they're doing, THEY DON'T REPLY. What is it about me? Should I just give up? It doesn't matter what path I take I'm always pushed to the side.

I have a close friend who used to be really popular but now all the 'popular' people hate her for some unknown reason and she thinks this has made her become unpopular. She always moans about it and brings herself down all the time, saying stuff like 'I'm surprised guys even talk to me since I'm not popular'. I on the other hand, have never been in the popular crowd. Nothing wrong with me, (not to be cocky) but most people say I'm really pretty. But all the guys I hang around with are nerds but this doesn't bother me at all because they're my best friends and I love them and would never leave them to become 'popular'. Anyways sorry for the long backstory but what do you think? Does popularity even matter at all? I mean will anyone even care once high school is over?

Ok my friend from high school is judging me again saying that I've blame the teacher on my failed work online course which she never been to Phoenix online course in her life then she just blocked me on facebook and deviantart and it's making my heart breaks.Then she just unfriended me on facebook and don't want to be my best friend anymore just to be cool with her fake friends.She said that I'll"Never grow up" which I already have growing up paying bills, babysitting my baby naphew, going to college and takig of my nieces.Which she never understands that because she has a job and spends her money on cosplays and anime conventions and hanging with her fake friends.Should I say sorry to her or should she say sorry to me? Please no rude,disrespectful and nasty comments because I don't feel right I just buired my cousin she has passed away from sickness.

I was at the grad party of my guy friends daughter. His ex wife was there, no biggie, however the lady he dated before me was there also. They are still friends, infact we 3 belong to the same dance community. I felt a way because almost a year ago he told me he still had feeling for her(she started coming back around). It ended because she wanted more and he wasn't ready. Four months ago he told me he no longer had feelings for her other than as a friend. last week as he often does he initiated the what are we doing ??. I told him preoccupying each others time. He didn't like that answer said it was more than that btwn us. I said maybe however your words "he isn't ready for anything. He stressed that that was how he felt "then", now he is asking himself if its still the way he feels and asks himself what he is going to do with me and what did I want for us. We couldn't finish the convo he had a call and I had to leave (running late for an appt.). Well anyways I felt a way because the past girl was there and a few times they talked and laughed. I tried to not be bothered and say they are just catching up he and I talk daily and see each other at least 2x per week. Let him have this moment. I guess it just bothers me knowing a year ago he had feelings for her, rather then me letting do since 4 months ago he said he doesn't. FYI he is the type to keep in touch with exes. in fact he is good friends with an ex and her husband. Thank you Piero. He is very open and honest. Sometimes too honest yet I appreciate it. Yes I have trust issues. I seem to hold on when I he tells me the heartbreaking things such as his feelings for her yet I look over when he tells me the heart mending things such as him not interested in her anymore?

like i literally have no friends and no life. the only time i leave the house is monday-friday for school. i just wanna kill myself man i feel so useless :( nobody even calls or texts me unless i start the conversation..fml

Me and my best friend have been to the beach together 2 times in the 5 years we have been best friends. My family is going to the beach in July and we are staying for a week. Our hotel is going to have 2 bedrooms and 2 bathrooms. Me and my sister could stay in the same bed (there are two queens in one of the bedroom and a king in my parents bedroom) and my friend could stay in her own bed. My sister is also friends with her, so it wouldn't really matter. My dad would probably be on board, but not to sure about my mom. How do I convince them? It wouldn't be any extra money, besides restaurants and my parents aren't really eating out that much, and that really isn't the problem anyway. How can I convince them?

Basically she inherited MILLIONS and I live in her house. Recently her friend came from abroad, and she is inviting her all the time to her house (where i'm living). It's making me a bit unconfortable as when she comes they speak there language, and i'm still unconfortable living there with her two children from her deceased husband. It just kills me when she tell me, my friend is coming in an hour (you could have told me) Or why not tell me le's spend time alone tonight?

Okay, so basically we used to be good friends. Up until about 5 months ago. But now, there are a bunch of flaws with the friendship. First, she always butts into me and my other friend's conversations or gatherings and wants me to herself. Also, she is extremely awkward and doesnt pick up on social cues so when my friends give her a look like "Uh, wtf?" she doesnt leave. She only addresses ME, too, and this makes me really uncomfortable. Speaking of uncomfortable, she also touches me without my permission and that makes me upset that she doesnt respect my boundaries. She also says creepy, out there, weird (and not in a good way) stuff all the time, and its beginning to damage my social reputation when she talks about or to me. I know I want to let her go, but I dont know how I should do it. Should I confront her face to face and tell her the friendship is over, or avoid her from here on out?

So I like this GP and I went in because I had like a breast pain thing. He said its just anxiety. He's really attractive and I've started masturbating over him recently. So if I just make an appointment with the GP again and try to fvck him in his GP room will it work if I ask him to do it? I'll try my best so no one knows and I'll tell him to keep it a secret. I'm in the UK by the way. I have to book appointment by telephone. They have like a CCTV thing inside the rooms but I doubt they would check.

There are a few bullies at my school and I tried everything except violence including ignoring them. The problem is that when you don't do anything to scare them they continue. I want to be the better person but I know the choice left is to hurt them in some way. Or at least pin them to the ground and tell them not to test me. Any ideas? Bullies are all around me at school I encounter them all the time.

My freshman year was terrible. I made friends and all but non of them are super close friends because I just came to this school this year and everyone else knows each other for 10 years already. I just hung out with a guy in my class and since it was our first time I knew it would be pretty awkward so I tried to fill in silence gaps as much as I could. In the car I just tried to talk to him. In my head I was thinking this is a pretty even conversation only thing I saw was I asked most o the questions and he answered them but I wasn't rapid firing them I just chained them together with things he said in the conversation. He also made very little eye contact with me, in te car he just looked straight forward when he was talking. Close to the end of our hang out I asked him who he would consider his closet friends and he said pretty much all the guys that have been there for 10 years. When I dropped him off at his house I feel like I failed, I feel so dull and freshman year didn't go well at all. All that I would wish for is to be his close friend and get into the guy group and just hang with them a lot. What can I do for the remainder of the year and what should I do next year.

I'm a girl and me and my friends (girls) tend to get stubborn about who eats more. I eat quite a lot many people have asked me how I eat so much but stay in shape. For example, my friend who knows I eat a lot, went to a buffet with me. I get little by little because that's how you eat a buffet and she asks me "why are you getting so little? Look at mine, I got way more than you" and I said "oh don't worry, you've already heard and seen how much I eat" and she suddenly says "I literally ate my whole refrigerator when I got home yesterday" and I said "thts me everyday" and she says "oh I'm pretty sure you're not as bad as me." This is just one instance with one friend. Another example is my sister doesnt eat a lot, she always eats half of whatever she's eating but when friends come over she starts eating everything and i'm like ??? Why are girls like this? Why do they like to compete over who eats more? I don't really brag because it's not that great of thing to brag about, it's just that people know I eat a lot from seeing me. But other people, they need to PROVE that they eat a lot... Why is this?

Hello everyone! It's been 3 or 4 months since me and my best friend are no longer friends. And it's been 5 months since we started fighting over some dumb sh*t. So here is the pre-story. We know each other since 8th grade and now I'm almost 10th grade (graduating 9th currently) so we had a lot of memories together, we had a strong friendship, just the two of us. But the end of 2015 (it was December I believe) and I started having a crush on this boy from my class. He is like the perfect match for me and I really believed that we could of been something more than just friends. So the first person I told was my bff. She was happy for me but also overprotective becase it wasn't the first time that I liked a boy and he didn't feel the same about me. So a couple of weeks later (like 2 weeks or so) I wanted to start getting closer to that boy. So I called other friend of mine and told her what the situation was. But this friend of mine hates my bff and my bff hates her. So it's kinda confusing. Whatever.. I started going out with this friend (let's call her Lizza) and the boy that I like (let's call him Mike), with time Lizza and I become really close. (I also used to hate her back in 8th grade for a couple of months - 1 or 2 m.) And since my bff hated her she never camed with the three of us (Mike, Lizza and I) out. I used to call her to come but she always said no. And after one month or so (the end of January 2016) Mike, Lizza and I become very good friends. Lizza helped me a lot and I am beyond thankful. But I guess my bff was starting to get mad even tho I was telling her all we do, and even tho I was working hard on our frienship. We had some serious fights. The first time we had a fight she called me to apolagize, and to tell me she was just jelous, I forgave her. The second time I kinda realised that maybe it's not just her fault, maybe I'm wrong too So I apologized a couple of times, told her that she is my bff and that she will always be it, then it stopped all of a sudden, she got calmed and forgave me. After these two fights, came even more fights, and all because she was jelous. I just wanted to spend more time with Mike, and the answer was Lizza, because she was closer to him, she was just helping me. Every single time after the second fight I was the one apologizing, I was feeling guilty, even tho I was always there for my bff and proved it with every single chance I got. Feb. the 14th ( Valantine's day) I went out with my crush, Lizza and one more boy. I called my bff but she said no again. I begged her to come, she kept saying no. So I went out without her. All day long we were walking and talking and my crush was such a gentalman and bought me and Lizza a baloon since we were both single. Right after he bough us a baloon, I saw my bff with her ex-best friend. Obviously they were friend again. She barely told me hi... I got dissapointed. After all these fights I kinda saw it coming but it hurted me a lot. I got home at 9pm or so. Opened my facebook and cheked my messeges. My bff texed me: ''I guess Lizza is better, so have fun. PS Monna (her bestie) told me that she saw you making some funny faces at my back. Bye!'' I was never ever this mad about something. I was working really hard to keep this friendship, I apologized every single time, I talked the things with her and did everything I could, and she texed me this dumb *** message?!?!?! Ha! Naw, hun. I then responded: ''Thnx'' I was MAD. After that we stopped texting, or talking. Right at that moment Lizza's bestie stoped talking to her becase she found a boyfriend... wtf. So Lizza and I started getting closer and closer, now we're best friends. To be honest she is real rude with everybody and thinks that she is better than almost everyone, but she is a good friend, I appreciate her and her rudness, even tho she is rude with me too, haha. Now my ex-bff is back together with her bestie Monna. Me and Mike aren't dating, we're still friends, I'm still working on that future relationship. I really like him. Tbh I miss my ex best friend at times, I see her everyday and I still feel guilty for what happened. So y'all already know the whole story, now is question time. I want to be in good terms with my ex-bff, but that would mean that I may let down Lizza (they hate each other, remember) But I want to be in good terms with her because I want to forgive myself, and stop feeling guilty. My mom says that I just should let go because she says that I am not guilty. Am I really guilty? What should I do? How? Lizza has now two best friends - me and that bestie that stopped talking to her because of a boy. I feel like my ex-bff misses me too, even tho she is now friends with her ex-bestie. I don't now. I just want to be in peace with everyone. That's all. PS Thanks for the help in advance. Love y'all. Peace. Love. Happiness. I wrote the whole story like different updates, because I don't know how to write like a whole question. Sorry for my bad english it's not my native language. PS I asked myself one question: Am I happy now? The answer is yes. I met a lot of new pople, I made a lot of new friends and I feel wiser, after all I'm only 16 and I still learn from my mistakes. Plus not everyone that you lose is a loss but... was my ex-bff a loss or no? She was really jelous and barely let me have other friends.

I've lost a big bet with my best female friend a while ago, and the cost is I have to rub her feet whenever she wants (which is quite often.) It's not so bad except she wears flats often enough, so her feet usually smell quite a bit. I also had to kiss them once for around 10 minutes. That was really bad, they were disgusting and salty, and like I said, they smelled. Anyone else have bets like this or something else that was horrible or big?

So I ve only had 2 friends I really hung out with throughout high school, I had other friends but I would only hang out with them cause they were my best friends and I knew them since 8th. Once one went to college it changed, her vibes were different and so was her attitude with me. Then it was just me and my other friend for a while, she ended up getting a boyfriend and we barely hung out as much. I started hanging with this girl ALOT for almost a year now but last night I brought her with me with my old high school friends and I was in the back back in the trunk just listing and I don t know Spanish but they were talking about me and my friend I brought says "dumbass" in Spanish! And everyone starts laughing. I was high and I HATE being confrontational so I was just back there looking lost. I don t know what to do I m going through bad anxiety I think and I don t feel the same now. I just feel like since I m being weird now all my "friends" are changing on me. What should I do?? I just feel lost and hurt cause I m so comfortable with everyone since I grew up with them

My friend and I are on my schools baseball team and we take showers after practices and games. Sometimes we are the only two who could make it to a Practice and sometimes afterwards he will start rubbing soap on me and kinda start running my abs and muscles. Idk why but I seem to like it when he does that, do I have a mental issue or something

Okay I had this friend online for 4 months, and we had a good times and good talks, but she has anxiety and depression she always tells me her stories and I try my best to give her advice, but when I do it's like she says I'm doing something wrong or I'm giving the wrong advice? I try my best. Also, if I don't talk to her or something she would threaten to self harm herself? and that's what makes me forgive her. She said she would not do it anymore, but then she did again one time I told her I would like to be left alone I forgave her again, but she constantly makes me feel like ****, to the point where she took a toll on my health and had chest pain. So recently, she cursed me out because i told her i busy, but i just said it because i needed her to leave me alone, shes to toxic for me, so then after she blocked me, then the next day she freaking wrote me again so I blocked her, and blocked her for good but now her friends are writing me saying how she would like to talk to me and how she's hurt and etc making it look like am a bad person and making me feel bad, but I know in my heart that I'm doing the right thing, well I hope I am :/ I can't keep letting this person walk all over me. I gave her chances and now I'm done. I hope this is the right thing what I'm doing

Ive been best friends with this guy since 6th grade(we are in 10th grade) anyways, I have him on my baseball team and we have to take showers afterwards. Well today he and I were the only ones left in the locker room and I was taking a shower when he asked if he could rub my cock. It led to us making out, washing each other and me ******* him. I'm just wondering, are we possessed or something or some kind of mental problem?

So one of my closest friends went a party recently which i couldn't attend. I asked how it was the next day via text. My party is next so apparently they were talking about that. One of the girls said it was good because i knew alot of people. Then the friend i texted said this in the text (x being the other friend) 'She was saying you've got lots of friends lol but me & x were like she does?!' I responded & said ive got friends but not lots..maybe its friends i met from here & here.. She responded & was like 'hahaha thats what i was thinking..its like she (the friend who said i had a lot of friends) doesn't really know what's going on' I've not said anything about it since but its really hurt me.  Why would my best friend put me down in that way?

So I m in middle school and some of the popular kids are nice...but some of them are REALLY mean. One guy (let s call him Will) he teases me and makes fun of me and talks about me and embarrasses me in front of everyone. I have no idea what to do about him! He s so mean and the worst part is, he lives in my neighboorhood so if I see him around the neighborhood he humiliates me again because he s usually with his friends. Some of his friends laugh and some don t because they are nice but the ones that laugh are the really mean ones. His best friend (let s call him Parker) is rlly mean too. He is one of those friends that laughs when Will is mean to me. He used to make fun of me a lot! Will and Parker talk about me a lot and make me seem like a bad person which is the worst part. I have NO idea how to handle these guys please please help! Parker also glares at me and has a mean/angry look on his face whenever I see him. So yeah please someone help and don t be rude please I m really upset about this!

I'm a 14 year old girl who has only 15-18 year old friend and I go to 9th year next year (2016-2017). I found out 3 weeks ago, that there only is one of my friends who started to smoke cigarettes and hookah. I cried a few tears, because she isn't the friend I know! She doesn't know that I found out because I found out via seeing some pictures of her smoking cigarettes and hookah on snapchat posted by others. I have the feeling somebody forced her to do so because 2 years ago she said she wouldn't. I feel like I have to do something because I love her very much and care for her a lot and don't want her to damage herself. What can I do? I don't want to sound like a mom. Help please.

I live in dubai. I have friends and all at my school (I'm 15 btw), but I feel like my friends keep leaving and I'm forced to make new ones. every time a really close friend leaves I feel quite lonely because I'm quite introverted and it's difficult for me to make really close friends quickly. My boyfriend is probably leaving too, and I feel lonelier than ever. How can make myself feel less lonely?