My parents are really annoying. My father has annoyed me twice today and my mother has also gone and pissed me off. Seriously, my mother has become a complete *****. My father has been how he is for as long as I can remember, but over the last five to six years my mother has grown pretty nasty. I want to change things now, so I want to start like this. How do I use the law of attraction to get other parental figures into my life? As for using manifestation for other things, I'll get to that later. This crap in my life has been long overdue, and now I've had enough. I've had enough of my parents bullshit. I'm tired of them always making me feel small. I'm tired of fighting with my mother every single day. I stopped deep conversations with people a long time ago. It wasn't on purpose, it was just a trait of mine. I don't bother to waste too much breath with my parents because they just talk crap half the time. They argue, and they bring me down. I've felt this dark aura with my family for a very long time. They have ways of getting you unsettled and making you feel like the bad guy. Or maybe that's just depression and anxiety. I can't really tell these days. I avoid my parents whenever I can. I wonder whether to look on the bright side and say that I've already taken action just by using that simple step or not. And ONCE again, thanks to my mother just now, my self-esteem has dropped. And just asking again, ways to use law of attraction?

In a few months, I'll (f/26) be moving to my own place (3br) with my 4 month old baby girl after things not working out with my ex/child's father. My sister (f/24) and 4 yr old nephew will be living with us. That wasn't my plan but our mom doesn't want her living with her anymore. I'm just worried about this turning into a long time thing instead of temporary like she says. She's always lived with our mom. She isn't working and plans to go to school for emd. She once started school for medical assistant but never finished. Also she's sexual active with her child's father (who thinks he should have a key to the house) and they don't use protection, just the pull out method. I'm worried about her getting pregnant again, every other month she has a pregnancy scare. Is it wrong to be worried? What do I say to her to make sure she does what she has to do to get on her feet?

Sometimes my daughter gets scared and she wanders into my room(she is 12) I tried to comfort her and get her to sleep in her own bed, but she persisted she is too scared

He is suggesting dropping the court case on condition I adopt my own child (looks like in my country it's legal...) and he would be paying us a lump-sum to cover maintenance and court fees for closing the case. Can I get in trouble for accepting his offer? We have a court case running for the last 4 years but all I want is drop the case stop with all the lawyers and start a new life with my little one.

My dad always has something to say about my weight. I don't believe I'm fat. My dad and mom always assure me that I am not "fat." I'm 5'4 and 120 lbs. But for some reason my dad always talks about my weight! Everytime I buy things that fit me JUST PERFECTLY he says "You sure that will fit?" For everything. Every single one of my clothing items. Or he'll say "Give that to ___(my baby sister) I'm going to prom in a few weeks and he recently made a remark like "Your dress doesn't fit anymore?" These are some of the few comments he makes about it. Sometimes he tells me I'm not fat so I'm so confused as to what he's saying these things for. It gets me upset! We don't really have that good of a relationship, he doesn't live with me so it's just weird! I don't talk to him that often so I'm not comfortable with telling him how I feel. Help why does he do this?

Our family never calls or visits, but wants us to visit and call them often? --We always initiate interaction but it's never returned? I'm not posting this to complain or whine or anything, but we can't make heads or tails of this.

I wish my dad taught me how to change the oil in the car rotate tires. i asked him and he said no its not a woman's job. uhg, i didnt choose to be a woman and whats wrong with just knowing how to do that. i guess i will have to go to school for it.its not like its going to be my job, im not going to be a car mechanic. my parents also never talked to me about relationships, what to look for in a boyfriend and my mom never taught me about periods, my school did but too late, i got it before we had a lesson. I'm glad it wasn't a video. so i had to learn it all online because people including me did not feel comfortable asking questions about that.

(*including brother- and sister-in-laws?)

My family likes to fight. The guys in my family do anyway! I have 6 uncles and they have kids who some are adults already and a few are teenagers. They all work out a lot of times so they're fit and strong. A girl from my school has been very disrespectful, pretending that i'm not around when i really am. Like when I'm next to her she just ignores me and never talks to me and talks to everyone else. I was wondering why, until my teammate came to me and said that she wants to fight me and says all these disrespectful things about me. I don't know if its true or not but she does act like she doesn't like me by ignoring me. Now her family is just full of veterans and military guys. Fun fact, my cousins clearly work out more than them. Just because they're in the military doesn't make them stronger. Her dad is a retired army soldier, MY DAD is a football couch who works out with the team. Yes, he's strong and big. Her dad's a veteran and an ARMY veteran, meaning he did no hard work like the marines or seals. Her uncles were in the national guard and army as well but not anymore. Those branches aren't even dangerous. My uncles are employees but they are bigger than hers. Lastly, my cousins are football players and boxers, hers are navy sailors and soldiers. My cousins look bigger than them too xD My family said that if anyone messes with me, tell them and they'll make sure they will shut their mo

Last night I was just chilling with my sister who is 13 (I'm 15) and she asked if she could go get my 9 year old sister and bring her upstairs so we could do some fun stuff, I said sure not knowing what she had planned and on the way out she grabbed her butt and giggled. About 10 mins later they both come upstairs in bathing suits and then they got me onto my bed and started undressing me, first my 13 yo sister gave me head and then was sort of teaching my 10 yo sister to do it too. About half an hour later we all had our clothes off and we were all just kissing eachother. My 13 yo sister suggested my 10 yo get on top first before I got fully hard and she did, it was sooo akward. She took some time to get used to it and then she had me go full out and then my other sister had me do her too, and then I fingered both of them at the same time. Then we al hopped in the shower and did everything imaginable, I didn't even know my sister had any idea about this kinda stuff, it's hard to stop them. My parents were out of state at the time so they don't have any idea. They both want to do it again and idk what to do PLEASE HELP...

So my boyfriend of a year pointed out my mother seems to be quite mean to me. She yells at me a lot over the stupidest things and doesn t feed me what I should be eating so that s given me anemia. Also my whole life I have been made fun of for my hips, waist, hair, arms, chest, feet and hands, my nails and my teeth, and any time i have been girly at all growing up or if I cried. He, along with his family, say it s emotional abuse and neglect but I don t know, they want me to call the courthouse and get help. So I guess my questions are 1. Should I call? 2. If I do call, what will happen? I m truly just scared and don t know what to think about it all so I d really appreciate help. Also I m 15 if that matters.

My family likes to fight. The guys in my family do anyway! I have 6 uncles and they have kids who some are adults already and a few are teenagers. They all work out a lot of times so they're fit and strong. A girl from my school has been very disrespectful, pretending that i'm not around when i really am. Like when I'm next to her she just ignores me and never talks to me and talks to everyone else. I was wondering why, until my teammate came to me and said that she wants to fight me and says all these disrespectful things about me. I don't know if its true or not but she does act like she doesn't like me by ignoring me. Now her family is just full of veterans and military guys. Fun fact, my cousins clearly work out more than them. Just because they're in the military doesn't make them stronger. Her dad is a retired army soldier, MY DAD is a football couch who works out with the team. Yes, he's strong and big. Her dad's a veteran and an ARMY veteran, meaning he did no hard work like the marines or seals. Her uncles were in the national guard and army as well but not anymore. Those branches aren't even dangerous. My uncles are employees but they are bigger than hers. Lastly, my cousins are football players and boxers, hers are navy sailors and soldiers. My cousins look bigger than them too xD My family said that if anyone messes with me, tell them and they'll make sure they will shut their mouth.

So my mother is doing pain pills and she lies about pain pills and money,even steals money from my old,even sick,grandmother who pays rent and bills. She also steals my grandma s paiN pills and money,that she needs,she takes me and her other children,who are under the age of ten,on pill runs and even does extanges right in front of us. She lies to everyone in our household,to my grandma and me,even when she goes nothing out of it,she refuses to live in the real world and even lies about stuff I say and what my grandma says to her to make us look bad,I work and have to help support her and my siblings. She won t stop and has no intention of stopping and is starting to smoke weed as well,i m losing my mind and need advice on what to do.

Hola a todos, quería saber de su opinión acerca de mi familia, bueno es que empezando siempre desde mi infancia he tenido problemas con mi hermano ,el intenta siempre ser el dominante el que manda bueno lo eh aguantado casi toda mi vida pero últimamente se ah vuelto insoportable x.x me exige todo a las fuerzas, me trata mal, me pelea, no es de las personas con las cuales puedes discutir ya que te grita en toda la cara y me eh llegado a quejarme con mis padres pero siempre el les miente y terminan castigandome siempre a mi porque el se hace la víctima, en pláticas de madre a hija le he comentado mis problemas y ella siempre me ignora dice que siempre trato de culpabilizarlo a él, hoy en la mañana estaba alzando mi recámara y el llego gritandome por un deber que no era mío y se me salió la palabra: jodete! El se hizo la víctima y mis madre en lugar de llamarnos la atención a los 2 , a mi solo me empezó a regañar y seguramente me castigaran el celular, la verdad ya no se que hacer me tienen harta x.x a veces me dan ganas de salirme de casa y hacer mi vida sola, irme a vivir con algún familiar pero es que con solo 16 años no me dejan ni siquiera salir con amigos ni nada x.x (el tiene 18) Creo que fuí un poco larga ,quería sacar todo lo a llevo ahorita dentro de mi :/

As strange as this sounds, this is true. All my life I've been kept from girls as I have very controlling mother and get bullied in school. Very shy all the time. Unlike people my age, I can't have posters of girls on my walls because mom doesn't like stuff on the walls. My life with the opposite gender has been bland. I was afraid to look at a Victoria's Secret magazine out of shame that I shouldn't or at least I felt that way. Then one day, I just caved in and began lookin through the magazines and drawing portraits of the girls in lingerie. Then I began putting lingerie pics of the girls on the computer screen. The only thing is, it's my moms computer but I use it a lot and am not allowed to make other accounts. Never did I get yelled at for having them up. Often I get a rush knowing the pics are up at all times. Then I moved onto playboy. Now all I was told is that my mom doesn't want to see me put all sorts of girls up but only stick to one. I wonder why. Therefore, I chose this girl. Did I make a good choice? http://27.imagebam.com/download/nttNRXzXjPrFKnPGlPLsCQ/9334/93331963/Amber%2C%20Tiffani%20CotW01.JPG I got Confident and even asked my mom if I could have this pic of the girl like this. I was nervous but my mom said I could have it up. Was shocked with the response and glad I'm allowed it. I like how she is in this picture. Would you even say this is an r rated pic to begin with? Why or why not. http://8.imagebam.com/download/tpgGGazOJVFMlLcVHD7poA/9334/93331975/Amber%2C%20Tiffani%20CotW02.JPG

She literally bitched about having a b she said it's a "bad grade" *****, if i got a b i'd be greatful as fück! I'm also in a long distance relationship with a girl who is great. She felt the need to criticize me on that choice. She's always criticizing me on my own personal choices she is very nosey and bossy

Last year I saved up 600 dollars to buy a brand new IPhone 6. I never have a cell phone and at the age of 17, I thought I would buy myself one. I payed for the phone, my dad pays for the bill. We have AT&T and my dad wants to change to cricket. He is taking my phone (which I saved up 600 dollars MYSELF to buy..) and he is selling it to cricket. He said I could use up to 100 dollars of that money to buy a phone. I asked him what he is "planning" on doing with the remaining 500 dollars? And he said he is going to buy himself and my sister phones...he won't let me use it. That's my money!! I'm only 17! I'm not responsible for them. He calls me "spoiled" but I worked my butt off for that money! Am I being spoiled?

We were home alone I'm 15 and she's 13 and our parents were out. We were just watching a movie together when a kissing scene came up, we looked at each other and we both had smirks on our faces and then we just kissed and ended up taking our clothes off and went the whole way. I fingered her, licked her and kissed her, and stuck my penis in her vagina. I pulled out and cummed all over her face and she didn't mind. Now we do it every chance we get and are not telling our parents.

I woke up to my dog barking really loudly, she wouldn't stop barking. Then, my sister comes into my room and steals a pair of my expensive underwear. I try to stop her and my mom is trying to distract me. My mom starts talking in a little kid voice bc she thinks I'm stupid or something. Then, I go out in the kitchen & they're like we shouldn't have gotten you anything for breakfast, because I was just asking why they didn't get me a cinnamon roll. I'm so pissed already!! What do I do?

I have better grades and more friends, and my mom loves my half brother more

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My father was never consistent and his idea of being a dad was visiting us once a eek for an hour at my moms. He was a nice guy and good with us most of them time and paid a child support check however he did not want much involvement in our lives besides that (never took us on the weekends, spent much more time with us than that than once a week for an hour, never was there for the discipline, the diaper cleanings, etc) He was the one who divorced my mother and left her with us. IS this a bad role model for a father? He was never abusive but sometimes I view men as people who don't have much responsibility and I accept the minimal form most men and am ok with it. Does this come from my fathers role? He only spent time with us when it was convenient for him.

So this girl i know sent me a video of her drinking vodka I reply : you looks hot while doing that 😳🔥😊 Did i says something weird lol? It just i find that hot when a girl be herself and let it go out

She didn't bought me iPhone for my birthday. She is not buying me good cloths. All she get me is cheap cloths. She even disconnected cable today. I fed up and we got into big fight. She started crying telling me all her crappy problems like, his my father left her, how she is working hard day and night. I mean, if she can't afford why the hell she had sex in the first place... Please help me what to do...

Why would a women friend her male friends girlfriend on Facebook when she doesn't even know her, hasn't even met her and she lives out of state? To make it weirder her male friend broke up with the woman and is no longer friends with her on Facebook yet his female friend still is? Also this male friend would also call the female friend and talk about problems and things like that he was having with this girlfriend at the time and his female friend would listen so she is somewhat two faced pretending to be his girlfriends friend.

I m 14 years old and yes, I know I m "too young to know better" but I d rather take an interest in things that actually matter rather than the pop culture bullshit kids my age are brainwashed by. I live in the UK and my parents are Labour voters who don t really care about politics. They ve been lousy parents and they don t even care about the real world. They just sit on their arses watching TV all day. I know that sounds quite harsh but they really are awful. I m a Communist (Marxist-Leninst). I m not a stupid Liberal, I don t beleive everything should be free. I know enough about politics (more than most adults, never mind teengers) as it s something I m really interested in and want to go into in the future. As I know so much about politics, I feel like I can choose a stance and justify it. I know I sound like just another annoying, naive, liberal white kid. But I just don t know what to do. They always mock me for it, and I try not to let it bother me. But they always laugh at me for doing well in school and having these beliefs. I know Communism itsn t perfect, and I know it s faults very well, but everyone is allowed their beliefs. Am I really that stupid and inexperienced?

Also, please say: --how often you attended a place of worship as a kid (And what your family's religion was while you were a kid) --whether you grew up in a big city, suburb, small town, or out in the country

I drive 40 mins to school everyday. Im 16 and my dad gave me his old hand me down, which i am very greatful for! However, im scared that i have to take care of myself. My family doesnt have a car to come get me if something happens. (Dad is out of the picture now). My mom had cancer so i had to take care of myself, but not like this. I struggle with anxiety and vertigo so Im scared. :(

My biological mum had me when she was young (18) and she struggled to cope with the pressures of raising a baby. Her sister (Aunt) helped her but in the end she ended up raising me. It was only when I was 10-11 when my mum tried desperately to start being a real mum. Things began to pick up and she has spent the last 8 years trying to make it up to me. I've lived with my Aunt and her daughter for most of my life and it kind of feels like I have two homes. When I'm not with my actual mum she often comes and stays with us. I sometimes feel like I'm a burden.

Same question as before but if she didn't have a son to clothe and feed, will this still be ok? Even when i have gone on 3 dates with her and paid for each one and she buys herself sneakers and a router for her computer.

Last night she was mad because I did not invite her to take a picture of her with the rest of the family, not telling her how beautiful she looked, etc. so she said that she saw the relationship finishing and if that was the case she did not want to attach too much to our daughter. if that was the case then I should prepare documents to take my daughter with me. Then left to the bathroom , leaving the baby crying. She did the same today telling me that she will not attend the baby that much so that she did not attached to her. I got so mad but can't see her acting on her comments. That's because she is always with the baby and taking care of her. But, how can you say these things about your newborn?

So I am a guy and no I am not trolling and I know I asked these questions over a million times but I want a real answer. Well anyways I have 10 older brothers and five of them are related to me however I don't see them that often and the other five are just really close family friends and our parents are really close to each other. The ones that are not related to me are your typical cocky jocks and yes they do pick on me but not in a mean way. They act like tough guys in front of everyone else however with me they treat me like I am their younger brother and they always hug me and protect me and they are not shy to do it in front of other people and no one questions them because they are afraid of them. Besides from showing affection in public they always make me be acids because I am overweight but I am not obese and if I don't go to the gym they get on my case. If I get a bad grade in school they lecture me about it. I think because my older brothers are really not around me that much I guess they decided to be my big brothers. My related big brothers are not Jerks they just moved out of thr house and to a different city. Anyway do what my older brothers do weird?

I didn't get into any of my schools that I wanted and my parents aren't letting me go to a four year. I've worked so hard and there are people who haven't worked so hard and they are going to a four year and getting into my dream schools. I just feel so sad and IDK what to do?

I used to be Muslim but I don't practice now. I met this brother for marriage and I was seriously considering him and returning to Islam but one night he was in a bad mood and was very tired and he should never had come on Skype with me..he wasn't talking and when he did he wasn't very nice. my adult son was here and he saw n heard it. he came onto the cam and really ripped into this brother about treating me with no respect. That brother threatened to come beat my son. the whole thing go blown out. anyways..this guy wants another chance after a month and I really liked him up until that night. I want to say yeah..come see me again in person. but I'm worried that him and my son may never be ok with each other. what do I do?

I'm a 14 year old girl. My mom is a university professor. She left on a research trip a couple of weeks ago. She's coming back this weekend. Today I was playing a game on my dad's phone. My mom texted him. I thought it was going to be something like 'pick me up at 7:00 on Sat'. I looked at it (I know I shouldn't have) and it did not say that. It said 'We haven't made love in so long. I want you so bad. When I get back I'm going to take off all my clothes and spread my legs. I need you to suck on my pu*sy :P" I honestly was shocked. I know my parents have done it, but it never really occurred to me until I read that. If I ever said anything like that my mom would flip, but she's saying it to my dad over text. Maybe it's silly, but it really bothers me. Just the thought of them doing it is revolting. When we pick up my mom I don't know if I'll like it because I'll know what she and my dad are thinking. How can I forget I ever saw that and just view them as my normal, non-sexual parents?

Basically, my sister argues with a lot of the boys in my form and today one of them made a picture that made her cry. I was getting screamed at because I just sat there. Am I wrong for sitting there?

I'm a mom of 4 kids. My youngest just recently moved out of the house. I thought I was going to get empty nest syndrome pretty hard, but I haven't. When my daughter first left I first started to feel empty nest syndrome, but I lost it really quick for 2 major reasons. One is I have a lot more time to do other things. I'm an English professor. I have to write a lot as apart of my job, but there's a book I've been wanting to write for years that has nothing to do with my work. However, because of my responsilitities as a mom I never got around to it, but I've been able to spend a good amount of time writing it because my kids are gone now. The other big reason is my relationship with my husband. My relationship with my husband is the best it's ever been and I think it's because we have more time for each other now that our kids are gone. We've started a couple of hobbies together as a couple, we have a lot more romantic date nights, and the sex is better than ever. I feel closer to him than ever before. I feel guilty for not missing my kids. I feel kind of bad that I can't honestly say I want them back in the house. In fact, I really like having them out of the house. Is it bad that I don't miss my kids living with me? Why/why not?

Once again, my father proves just how much of an ******** he is. I'm not going to beat around the bush for once because I'm fed up now. I'm tired of all these bad moods and I'm tired of my parents bringing me down all the time. My mother gets me down every day and lowers my self-esteem. But my father also has his moments, and when he does, my self-esteem really drops. I'm tired of feeling inferior just because of all these medical problems that I have and these disputes that I constantly get into with my mother because of it. A lot of the time, I wish there were certain types of people that I had in my life. I wish I had a different set of parents. Not actual blood-related different parents, but I just wish there were people like those around. My mood gets spoiled very very easily. Everything suddenly tumbles in my head and then I'm occasionally beating myself up over it. All my parents do is fight with each other and bring me down all the time. I'm sick of them. I'm sick of these bad moods of mine. All this time I've been scrambling to try and get different ideas, but to be honest, there are a few ideas that KEEP on popping up. One of those ideas is this one. About two weeks ago, this exact same thing happened. I got annoyed by my father. What should I do?

My grandma lives about 4 1/2 hours from where my family is located. I've been considering taking a trip on my own to visit my grandma as she's been ill. It would take me 4 1/2 hours one way & 4 1/2 hours back. I would have to drive through downtown Manhattan to get to her. So in total, it'd be 9 hours of driving. Is that a lot for 1 day? Also, I've NEVER driven through NYC nor do I have any experience driving through a large city. Would this be too much for a 1 day trip?

so ill start with this, I live in a Christian house hold where we talk about our problems. my step mom walked down the hall to put some towels in the closet, and saw me masterbating with my door wide open. please help me, She told my dad. and now neither of them want to talk to me. I don't even think that they are mad, just disappointed. someone please help.

I`m a 17 year old guy and I never played sports.The thing is that there`s no soccer team here.Its all basketball and track.I really wish there was a soccer team since that`s my favorite sport,but my school is super small and I doubt many people would tryout since they preffer basketball.My town also has a soccer team but its mostly grown up men who usually by the end,end up fighting cause of stupid sh!t.But yeah,I feel pathetic for not playing sports.Its even worse when people ask me if I play sports cause I am actually a very tall guy.But is this bad?Also I mean I am in clubs and recently was in the One Act Play,but I feel like that is mostly for girls.But please help.I feel like a disgrace to my dad.

My Mom loves Pop she would never try to hurt him. And Pop loves Mom he would never try to kill her. We re just your average all-American family trying to live the American dream

I am 22 but I still hate it when my mother says this. She had been divorced for 13 years but she still tells everyone this to try and justify what she did. My father was an alcoholic and my mother divorced him because she didn't want us growing up around it. I blame myself for this because alcoholism is a disease plus my father later got better. Yet, I am so scared my Dad's relatives will blame me and my brother for the divorce since my mother says "I had to protect the kids" and that my mother's father might have blamed me (he was against the divorce on religious grounds) I never minded my father's drinking at all so it was my mother that had the problem, not me or my sister. Yet, I constantly fear people will blame me.

I don't want to accidentally leak that he is on probation or that he still has a vile temper. Obviously I won't say anything but I fear accidentally I will say something that makes my mother think I leaked it (my mother is a big gossip so she fears I am though I am not). As much as my mother gossips about others, she does not want the info about her son, my half-brother, getting out. The aunt's son had similar challenges as a teen but is now fine so my mother doesn't want my aunt to know my mother's son, my half-brother, is doing poorly when the her (the aunt's) son is doing good. So what do I say? I am seeing the aunt tomorrow at a funeral.

I work for my step-father so it is no problem attending but people are amazed that at 27 I am at like a funeral a month with 10 out of 13 of the funerals I attended in the last year people in my mother's family (one was a friend's father, one was my Dad's uncle, and one was my step-father's nephew) the rest all mother's relatives. So how do I explain this to people, I am sure they think I am morbid. Today I went to one and am again tomorrow (this morning's was my Dad's uncle but tomorrow is my mother's older cousin).

I am a 17 years old girl and I have two little siblings and I live with my family. My mother and father has been married for like 20 years now and their love for each is indescribable. My father has been unhappy for a very long time now and he shares his sadness and everything just to me. He is very sad and unbroken. He says that mother nowadays just thinks about money and that she hates to see other suceed and so on. My mother is a teacher and my father works as a cleaner, but he owns money like a teacher do. We are not poor, we really can take care of ourselves. But he says that she just wants more and more and more. She wants him to open a restaurant just like he did before, but he doesn't want to because it's a very hard and exhausting job and besides, we don't need more money. She really breaks his heart all the time, when she always thinking about making more money and want to be rich when we don't need that. He loves her very much and wants nothing more than to be happy with his wife and family. There are other problems too, she hates his family which he fully understands because they didn't treat her so good but he has always been on her side and told her to just stop thinking about them. But she always talks about how she hates them and how bad they are which just breaks his heart, after all, it is his family. But the worst problem is that she is not aware that she always thinks about money and wealth, if we tell she would say no. She thinks that money buy happines. He says to me that if she'll continue behave like this he'll leave soon. She doesn't know that my father and I talk about this. We do this in secret, which makes me feel bad. My mother is not a bad person, she loves us more than anyting and she's a very sensitive person. She is very in love with my father, she can't think a life without him and so thinks he But he says that his love for her will end as she thinks about money and wealth. She just thinks about buying houses, cars, clothes all the time. She is not aware of what she already has. My father always thinks about the poor people and whenever he opens that topic she'll be like: Stop. She doesn't think about them. My father is really heartbroken and sad and always shares his sadness with me in secret when my mother is not home. He doesn't want to leave her because he loves her. The worst part is my mother doesn't know that me and my father talks about this. I want to talk to her, because she doesnt know how he feels and I know that she's very dependent on him and she would anyting to him. I want to talk to her but my father trusts me with all his heart and says that I will just make the problem worse if I tell her. I don't want to break my promise to him, but I want to do something. My mother always keeps promises to if I tell her not to tell my dad that I told her. I don't really know what to do. Any advices? My father doesn't think she's a bad person. He always says that she has a heart no one else can have, that she has a heart of gold. He's just tired and sad of her behaviours. I'm sorry for my english guys Should I tell my mother that my dad talks about this to me. Because she has no idea. I feel bad hiding this for her.

I am not going to tell my mother I got a Mother's Day card for my step-mother but my mother resents the hell out of the fact that I have a relationship with my step-mother also. So even though my mother won't know is this still a betrayal of her?

@rick29148----I thought of that and then I realized at least when she is gone I don't have to talk at my visit, all I will have to do is mail a flower to the cemetery.

I got diagnosed with cancer last year. I feel like my mom just used me having cancer as an excuse to do nothing because in Novemeber I was done with chemotherapy and months later my mother is still not doing anything. She used to say that she is "stressed" and said "I'm tired just like you." And would sit around. I didn't mind at first but I now realize that she could've been using cancer as an excuse to not doing anything. I mean, my dad felt terrible when I had cancer he was always stressed, but he still managed to travel 1 hour to work in the mornings and 1 hour back home in the afternoon. He also didn't stay home all day. There would be times that he would go to AA meetings (it's like a meeting for people who have an addiction to an alcohol or drugs.) right after work. He was always busy wither I had cancer or not. My sister also was emotionally stressed. There would be times were she would cry, or there would be times where she was always tired, but she managed to go to school for 7 hours and tryout for things like dancing and cheerleading. Those are reasons why I feel like my mom was takin advantage of me having cancer.. My sister and dad were stressed and tired while I was in treatment, but they still did a lot of things. Yesterday my mom also said she was "too tired to make dinner" so my dad made. I don't know what she could've been doing to make herself tired because I was at school the afternoon. Is this just in my head?

So, I'm the first child and I have one younger brother. I'm turning 15 in June and my brother is turning 13. Both my parents have been over protective and strict all my life. I'm only allowed to hang out in our neighborhood for about 1h each day, every other day on school days. I'm not allowed to go outside once it starts to get dark (I don't blame them for that), but the sun goes down at around midnight where I live during the summer and even then I'm not allowed to go out past 7pm. My phone gets taken away at 7pm each night, I'm not allowed to close the door to my room and I have to go straight home after school even though it barely is a two minute walk. I always listen to my parents and have almost never done something they've told me not to do. I'm still a kid after all, and like every single other kid I feel trapped if they're forced to stay at home all day long. I've tried talking to them (without screaming and getting angry, I've even tried balling my eyes out in front of them), but nothing seems to work. It's gotten to the point that it doesn't make sense anymore. I have good grades and care about school as well. I'm not allowed to hang out at my friends house unless their mother is at home, their father doesn't count (apparently every man is a pedophile). This isn't everything, but it's some. I think I'll give up if nothing changes soon. It really just mentally drains me trying to talk with them about this stuff. And thank you if you've read this far.

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I'm Sally and I'm 13, earlier today my big sis was attcked by my drunk mom when she was trying to protect us, I can't call for help because phone lines are cut, my big sis is barely moving after she was kicked please what should I do? I'm so scared it's never been this bad before. Help me!!!

I always , always talk about my family and like how my mom is and how my dad was with her and how mean my brothers are Its personal but i still share it , i need to stop and hope they forget what have i said , well they always forget but i always say it again I need some advice to stop over talking about personal things Please help me 😭