Family: Question: How to put my 4 year up for adoption?

Question: How to put my 4 year up for adoption?

Posted: 03 May 2016 01:12 PM PDT

She doesnt listen to me i feel like she hates me i cant take her places without having to deal with her throwing a fit. I absolutely hate her and if she was gone tonight i would not miss her or even care or worry about her i ******* hate her shes annoying and loud and reminds me to much of her sperm donor i thought i was strong enough to do it but i swear shes stupid or something because she just isnt my child i dont want her or care about her. My youngest i have bonded with and love and cherish but i hate my 4 year old idk why its just how it happened plz just tell me how to get her out of my house tonight

Question: What to do?

Posted: 03 May 2016 12:59 PM PDT

I have a Father who is being Frankly an asshole, usually I am able to tolerate it and give him my respect but everything I do recently is seen as disrespect saying that I treat him "like he is some idiot on the street". I'm truly getting fed up with it.

Question: El Salvadors advice on Zika Virus: Dont have babies for 2 years. Agree? Disagree?

Posted: 03 May 2016 12:51 PM PDT

1. Agree or disagree? 2. Why

Question: Should I move back to my home state? Where all of my friends and family are or should I tough it out and see where life takes me here in ok.?

Posted: 03 May 2016 12:41 PM PDT

I recently got promoted within my company that have been with for ten years, but the promotion was just too much for me and I got too depressed and couldn t handle it. I moved 2.5 k miles for the job and I barely know anyone. Should I stay or go back home?

Question: I don't know what to do about my dad?

Posted: 03 May 2016 12:10 PM PDT

So let me tell you the whole story I am a 14 yo Pakistani boy who was born and raised in the U.S and my parents are always fighting it's mostly my dad who starts them, and for dad doesnt let my mom talk to her friends and we have to ask him permission to leave to go to my friends or my moms friends house. And nowadays I think he's being paranoid because for some reason he hates the family that my moms sister married (she married my moms friends brother)and they've been our family friends since who knows how long. He thinks my mom secretly talks to them on the phone and now since I've finally realized that my dads being a dick I'm starting to take my moms side and he doesn't like it,he always says if you don't listen to me I'll beat you and I'll send you to Pakistan but I am not afraid of him and now he dosent want me to talk to my best friend who I've known since birth! He is so ******* paranoid and I don't know what he's paranoid about. He says my moms still talking to them secretly when I know she's not. Just so i could prove my dad wrong I looked at my moms recent calls secretly and nothing was there! But then he's still bullshitting saying that "I have proof and phone records that she still talks to them" and I'm like "show me the proof" and he's like "I don't have to show you anything" and he hangs up. He's also asking me to find out my moms skype password by threatening me because he wants to see her messages. So please tell me, what should I do?Does he have a disorder?

Question: My daughter threatens that she wants to leave the house and I know there is just a phase of this but...?

Posted: 03 May 2016 11:56 AM PDT

She really doesn't enjoy talkin to us or being with us she would rather be in her room , if she is with us she says we make her angry and she feels angry because of things we say and I don't know what to do

Question: Are my parents lying about my sisters condition?

Posted: 03 May 2016 11:51 AM PDT

My sister has a heart condition and sometimes gets lightheaded and passes out. however she has a lot more going on than a heart condition when you look at her. she is extremely skinny and looks younger than me. im 15 and she is 23. im not saying she looks so good she looks younger im saying she hasn't physically changed since she was my age. Another thing is the way she acts. she literally acts and thinks like a 10 year old. i can't even say "shut up" (normal teenager talk) because she will start to cry. she is still thinking about what she will do when she grows up but she is already 23. she told me she is going to move to maryland because bethesda is there but she has no job, has no money, and has no idea how to handle the money. the best she has ever handled money is when she spent all of it in one day on a bunch of candy. Her memory is also really bad. you could be talking to her and the next second she start asking you what her name is. maybe my parents are trying to protect me since im 15 but when something doesn't add up i question everything and to me a simple heart problem isn't what is causing everything else.

Question: My daughter keeps acting out on me and saying I treat my sister better than her?

Posted: 03 May 2016 11:51 AM PDT

but I don't , my daughter gets very moody and angry and I don't know how to help her?

Question: How to deal with a hypocrite that has "extreme" anger issues?

Posted: 03 May 2016 11:42 AM PDT

My brother was a bully when he was younger, and still is a bully. The funny thing is that he tells his son that bullying is wrong, but he does it on a daily basis. He berates people in front of public places, he screams at his gf and degrades her, he tells her that his kid will listen to what he says and not what she says, he wants to be in control. He has extreme anger issues, I mean it is the worst that I have ever seen, and tells her that she can't see her family and she should do what he says. He is racist to blacks (still hates them to this day) and he bullied black people in school and others in school, he would push people against their lockers and says hateful things to them, he would make fun of disabled people with mental problems, and got written up for that. Even my mom was laughing inside, and just could not believe what he was saying. He has extreme "road" rage issues. He had a verbal confrontation with his co-workers one time at another job, and he threatened to kill them with a gun. The cops came, and he was investigated for that. It looks like his girlfriend finally realized that he was not the same person that she met, he turned into a monster. My brother was asking her why she was always away from the house whenever she returns from work, and is always at her parents. My brother is too hard headed to realize that his personality is killing their relationship, and it looks like she can't take his rage much more. i meant to say whenever he returns from work, not she returned from work I always knew about his personality, and that is why I never talk to him and will never have anything interactions with him ever.

Question: It is ruining my life. What should I do?

Posted: 03 May 2016 11:21 AM PDT

I am so sorry if this gets lengthy but you need to know my story in order to answer my question which I will leave at the end. I am a 16 year old girl. I have a 27 year old brother, Ben and a father. My mom died in a car accident when I was ten. After that, our dad went a bit crazy and started drinking a lot. He sexually and physically abused me for years until I finally told my brother what was happening. I was removed from my dad's custody and put into my brothers. Now, my dad is in prison and my brother and I live together. I have nightmares a lot about that happened and I am deathly afraid of older men (mid twenties or older). My older brother is literally the only guy I am not scared of. However, it doesn't help that he has friends that live with us. They think I might have PTSD and I see a therapist regularly but nothing helps. I am always scared. What are some other ways of coping that I may not have tired? Thank you for reading. If you want to know more, just email me. ellie.ramsby@yahoo.com

Question: My daughter in law keeps spending my son's money?

Posted: 03 May 2016 11:19 AM PDT

My daughter in law doesn't work. She is always at home with the kids doing nothing all day. Whenever I visit, her apartment is up and down with toys and never washes the dishes on time. They have 3 kids under 4 and she can barely handle one. She just got a job at a kids clothing store and she asked for my son's debit card. He gladly gave it to her. She works part time for 7.25 while my son works ALL day in construction for almost $20.. That first day she came out of "work" she brought a bag of clothes for her kids claiming that it was 50 percent off. My son asked how much she spent and she is a scoundrel.. She gladly told him that she spent $50 for all kids but she didn't get anything for herself because she has so many clothes. My son told her not to spend a lot next time and scolded her. She got mad and told him that he shouldn't do that in front of me because it was personal. Now she drives back and forth to work without money and I'm proud of that because that's why she needs to learn that she has her own job and shouldn't ask my son for money. How am I going to tell my son not to let her borrow any money? What is the best way to tell him hat she has to learn to spend from her own money? And how do I tell her not to ask for any more money because all my sons were raised to give their parents money? And before anything, no I'm not a troll! I'm just very strict with how my children spend their money.

Question: What to with a dad that want me to go to United State but I don't want to?

Posted: 03 May 2016 10:47 AM PDT

Look he always insist for me and my brother to go with him but we don't want to. He being doing this like since we were like kids. I honestly don't know what to say to not make him feel bad.

Question: Is it normal for a older sister to be mistakned for a younger sisters mom.?

Posted: 03 May 2016 10:45 AM PDT

Almost every time I take my five year old sister somewhere some one thinks i am her mom i am only ten years older then her. Its probley. Because we are close I just want to know if this happens to other people a lot.

Question: My whole family obsesses over my twin sister and treats any accomplishment I have like it's nothing, they act like I'm nothingWhat can I do?

Posted: 03 May 2016 10:45 AM PDT

Question: Why are so many kids in foster care unappreciative of their foster parents?

Posted: 03 May 2016 10:44 AM PDT

I was adopted out of foster care 7 years ago, when I was 6 years old. The parents who adopted me are really amazing people. They have helped me work through a lot and they have supported me so much. We went through some rough times together, but we made it. They are still foster parents and we recently had a girl who is around my age move in. She is always trying to run away and she is really disrespectful to my family. I remember being appreciative for a family that was giving me a chance and treating me good. I don't get why she is like this. A lot of the kids that my family has brought in have been like this. She always says that my prents try to act like they are better than her parents and like they are her "saviors". That's not true. They are just trying to help. This foster home is better than a lot of them. It's hard to find people that are doing it for the right reason. I feel so blessed every day that they decided to adopt me and get me out of foster care.

Question: How should I tell my youngest daughter that her dad is not her biological father? Sintia E?

Posted: 03 May 2016 10:42 AM PDT

Question: My mom seems less perfect, now that I'm older?

Posted: 03 May 2016 10:42 AM PDT

I feel kind of weird, in regards to my mom lately. The thing is I'm afraid I've met the "true" her. My dad was a terrible, alcoholic, and due to this my mom was meek, and she spent a lot of time with me. I was a shy kid growing up, so having a nurturing mother was great for me. Well when she finally got away from my dad I was happy for her, but I feel like I've lost her, emotionally. She constantly talks **** about people, pretends to be happy with her new husband when it's convenient for her, but then turns around and complains about how annoying she finds certain things about him to be. She used to love spending time with her kids, now she avoids my sister like the plague, and never wants to do anything like she used to. There's also her personality she'll alternate between relatively nice, the way most people are, to the most condescending, passive-aggressive, person one could meet. I feel like I can't talk to her anymore, because I never know when I'll say something and she'll use it to lecture me about something she doesn't like in regards to me, and I try to take criticism in stride, and have listened to her advice, but after multiple years of it, it's kind of apparent that I think she just likes having someone to talk down to, who won't say anything back. I love her too much. It honestly scares me that when I'm old enough to move out I'll have such a negative relationship with her, that I'll never want to see her again. Can anyone please help?

Question: My mom s obsessed w/ tv & whenever I talk she glares @ the tv & yells at me after I finished my sentence like I m trying 2 annoy her. Help:(?

Posted: 03 May 2016 10:39 AM PDT

Question: How to elimitate my mother?

Posted: 03 May 2016 09:21 AM PDT

She says I have to do the dishes

Question: Is it ok for me to not do mothers day with my boyfriends family?

Posted: 03 May 2016 09:08 AM PDT

I love my boyfriend very much however he does not make me feel welcome around his family and although some of them are nice to me others ignore me and do not talk to me. He has a son from his previous marriage and told me his son got me a mothers day gift (which is odd since his son misbehaves around me a lot). HIs son has a mom still even though they are divorced. I also have mothers day activities to do with my family as well and really do not want to go to my boyfriends. Is this ok? Why do I feel this way?

Question: Why are cons so envious of Obama's daughter, a member of the upper class, having an easier time getting into an Ivy League?

Posted: 03 May 2016 09:05 AM PDT

Question: 19 Years Old With An Apartment ?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:59 AM PDT

I'm 19 years old and im thinking about getting an apartment ! I have a job & Im also in college. I don't have any kids. I'm really just sick of my mother. she acts like having the title "MOM" give her the right to mistreat me ! I literally stress and cry everyday because she's the biggest ***** ! do you guys have any advice for me ? I said I would give myself 6 months to save up and then move out ! would it be hard for me or could I do it ?

Question: What are my options for taking time off or a leave of absence from my State of California job to help with my disabled father?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:59 AM PDT

My dad recently broke his leg very badly and is completely immobile now because of it. My mom is the only person available full time to help him, but she can't do it all alone. I am currently employed by the State of California and I have only been in my position about six months. I am not sure what I can do to take time off to help with my dad as I have not accumulated vacation/sick time yet. I really don't want to jeopardize my job, but I also need to be around to help out with my dad through this long healing process. What should I do or be considering?

Question: Why does my "ex best friend" behave like this?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:57 AM PDT

I was walking down the halls with my current best friend Ella who I ve known for 2 years ever since I stopped being Ieva s friend. I used to be friends with Ieva until her friends ruined it. I put my hand around Ella because we re best friends and we re always there for each other. When Ieva saw she looked really sad and started staring at the floor she looked like she was going to cry. Then when we had a break from classes I was walking with my friends as usual and I ran into Ieva, as soon as she saw me she started hugging this girl whose a friend of her friends. I was shocked when I saw this but ignored it and continued on with my day. Afterwards I saw caught Ieva staring at me in Maths. Why does she behave like this? Is she trying to make me jealous or something and could she possibly have a crush on me?

Question: Can she do this? Ex?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:46 AM PDT

Is this legal --regarding child support? My son is 17 and will be graduating high school this year. I haven t seen him very much throughout his life because his mom moved away with him when he was little. I have been paying child support since he was 8. I found out his mother pocketed all of my payments and put it in a savings account so he could afford to go to college. I m livid because that money was meant for essentials---food, clothes, etc. PLEASE UNDERSTAND THAT IM NOT UPSET THAT THE MONEY WENT TO SUPPORT HIS TUITION. What upsets me is that she made a pretty penny off of the interest. so you mean to tell me she provided all that for him and didn t NEED the child support? She just WANTED it. Can I sue her and get my money back? I want the interest she made off of it. I feel that it's rightfully mine. And anyone who says I'm a POS father. I'm not. My son got his brains inherited from ME.

Question: My ex all over the place about being a father making me crazy.?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:39 AM PDT

So I forced him to pay child support. One minutes I hate your a ***** I hate paying for my kid. Been a year never got a cent on my own. Now it's I want address to send money. Yet he threatens my dad about sending social services. Then it's I want to see my daughter before it was I don't want to be a father. It was tried to help when he kicked us out never game me a dime. Now it's I want to take my daughter weekends. It's making me crazy the behavior.

Question: Is my dad a sociopath?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:38 AM PDT

Since I was a kid my dad has been to me, but so friendly towards neighbors, and other people that don't know him. For example my dad would CONSTANTLY say very cruel phrases to me not just when he had a bad day at work I mean literally nearly every day throughout my life, and he would say those mean things to me dozens of times a day basically nonstop. A few times I've caught my dad beating our family's pet dogs punching, kicking, and one time my dad grabbed one of my dogs by the collar, and threw it into the wall. My dad was alot of aggressive towards my dogs,and I, but he wasn't nearly as mean or aggressive towards my mom or sister. My dad is unbelievably immature his job is literally a 5 minute drive from his house, and he is often late to work. My dad would always blame everything on me. For example my dad got a ticket from driving without a seat belt on before, and he came home that day screaming at me, and blaming me for him getting a ticket, I was at school when this happened. Another time my dad got written up at work for showing up late, and as usual he came home having a tantrum, and blamed me. Those are just a few examples of dozens, and dozens of times where I was blamed for something that I did not do. My dad would also shove me into the wall, and tables at my house, and say "it was an accident", but he would shove me into stuff time, and time again. They were never accidents.

Question: Why am I disappointed at the thought of returning home?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:35 AM PDT

I am an exchange student abroad for an year. It was hard at the beginning but now I feel more free and at home than I ever felt, I hate the the thought of going home and feel sad. There is no mixed feelings. I have nightmares of going back home only t wake up in my host country. However I am leaving in a month. My sister is very emotionally and physically abusive. While my dad protects me, he tends to take his frustration out on me and never apologizes. He can be wonderful at times but he has an issue where he will never admit he is wrong. He also keeps insulting my host family and making fun of them which makes me angry. I dont want to go back at all. I love my family but this year feels like a slice of heaven being taken away from me. Does it make me a bad person to be disappointed?

Question: Os it okay for my mum to hit me at the age of 12 ?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:31 AM PDT

m mums a pregnant lady abd she just moved me from my old school .one day i hadnt read my namaaz and she got really and angry and decided to slap e on the face shes always discouraged me by saying i worthless and had no brain , she said that i shouldnt of been born into this world which really got to me and i attempted suicided but because my younger sister came i decided not to and to hold on a little longer . my mum has hit me from the age of 5-10 and it has just started again now . I don what to do about this :(

Question: Child's mother moving?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:08 AM PDT

Is there anything I can do? My child's mother, and her fiance are looking at buying homes. The closest town is 30 minutes for me one way. It sounds like It can be 30-50mins depend on where they buy. It's also in a completely different County. Why should I be bashed because she wants to live in a tiny little hick town in farm land? How's that better for my kid. There's nothing to do. Seriously there isn't even a Dunkin Donuts for the Kids or a pizza hut. There's just little old looking stores. She says that's the charm of it. Can I do anything?

Question: I'm 19 male, my mom wants to kick me out?

Posted: 03 May 2016 08:08 AM PDT

I live in Florida, today's morning my mom was mad at me because she gets to know that I wanted to get a car, she hit me in the face a couple of time and choke me before I went to school, she was mad at me because I answer her, however I'm stil a senior, I graduate in jun 1 of this year, but for now I don't have no where to go, can I do something about it, I don't have an official job, and about the fact that I wanted a car was just a thought that I had, ain't gonna buy anything I'm illegal, I don't know what to do, at least I want to know if there's is a place that can have at least for a week so like that I can get some money and rent a place? I don't want her to hit me or choke me again

Question: Am I wrong to do this to my daughter?

Posted: 03 May 2016 07:56 AM PDT

My daughter recently had a miscarriage, she lost her job the other day it's been a rough few months. She lives near where I work so we met for lunch on Friday. She had asked me if we could meet today & talk again for lunch? I told her no & that it was becoming embarrassing that she was coming back to my work so frequently & we would go to lunch. I don't want to be the center of "gossip" around the office "oh why is her 30 year old daughter always here for lunch?" & "doesn't her daughter work? Etc." it's just embarrassing to me as a manager! Am I wrong to feel this way & to tell my daughter no? Her husband works very far away & often has to stay overnight where he's working due to long commutes.

Question: Why is it that in most families parents do not approve of what their children like?

Posted: 03 May 2016 07:52 AM PDT

In every generation parents have always disapproved of what their kids like. For example my mom's parents disapproved of the Beatles and what my mom liked to wear. I am a guy and my dad disprove of me dying my hair even though he did stuff crazier than that. Why are parents like that?

Question: Am I able to legally help my younger siblings get out of a bad situation?

Posted: 03 May 2016 07:38 AM PDT

I have two siblings, half brother and half sister. They're teenagers, and our mother has left them, has been for years now, she is currently in another state, homeless. Their father is has been living in tiny, ran down camper in his mothers yard with the two kids. He now has an alcoholic, fugitive girlfriend living in the camper now who is verbally abusive to the teenage girl. (My sister) Which is now with permission from her father is staying with me, but this is temporary and she wants to live with me permanently. What advice can you give me to get these kids the life they deserve. I will adopt them if they (my siblings) would like that. My background, 30 Married both husband I are in well established careers with a 9 year old son, in a 3 bedroom home. Sorry, for all the grammatical errors and lack of detail. I am really upset.

Question: Why is it that in some families older brothers are protective? Do parents tell them this?

Posted: 03 May 2016 07:34 AM PDT

In some families older brothers are over protective especially when it comes to the youngest siblings. For example in my family I have 10 older brothers and all of them are your typical Jocks and I am to but the only difference with me is that I am a guy and they are still overprotective. Like I said I am a Jock and I do want to fool around with girls but my older brothers will not let me even though they did the same thing I want to do. When ever I do date they make sure she is a nice girl and that I don't do anything stupid like have sex even though I want to. Do parents teach them to do that?

Question: My arab mom caught me jerking off! Help!?

Posted: 03 May 2016 07:30 AM PDT

I was jerking off and my mom caught me. She was sneaking on purpose because she usually has her loud slippers. She caught me and said what are you doin and said i cant trust you anymore and left. What do i do. Im scared. She would tell my dad.

Question: My dad never says happy birthday to me?

Posted: 03 May 2016 07:11 AM PDT

we never see each other but he texts me good morning every day I always said happy birthday or fathers day to him but he never says happy birthday to me?

Question: Am i that spoiled?

Posted: 03 May 2016 07:03 AM PDT

My friends are always calling me spoiled and that my parents buy unnecessary things for me. personally i dont think i am spoiled.my dad works hard and earns what he deserves his the type to buy lots of brand things but my mum is the complete opposite my dad doesnt like showing off tho he just likes buying expensive things.i dont really have an allowance i just ask for money and i get it and my dad usually gives me when i get good grades on my tests and exams. i always study hard and get good grades.My parents own two porsches.i have 8 phones all apple except two are blackberry. I only use my iphone6s daily and the rest i keep them in my parents room. 3 different ipads 1 ipod two macbook pros and one desk one. ive got two ds 2 dsi a wii ps2 ps3 ps4 and xbox1 (and i rarely use them cause im always busy with school work) i shop at places like zara , Massimo dutti , Ralph lauren,guess,all the armani lines,superdry,tommy hilfiger,burberry. i have fendi , celine , gucci , chanel handbags and two michael kors wallets . i have three mcm backpacks for school and two small fendi backpacks i have dior sunglasses. my reading glasses are from tiffany and co. my mum buys me jewellery from alot of brands and i got a rolex last year. i live in a three story house i have my own room and my own bathroom. and no i dont ask for all these things. i get most of these cause my dad travels alot for work.im not a show off person just so you know. oh and im 13 :))

Question: Should I let my 16 year old daughter go to Orlando with her friends?

Posted: 03 May 2016 06:54 AM PDT

Question: Should I move out?

Posted: 03 May 2016 06:53 AM PDT

I'm about to be 19, and driving 2 hours per day to get to and from school sucks. The only plus I get from living with my parents is free rent and occasionally free food.

Question: Would it be OK for my daughter and son to share a bedroom?

Posted: 03 May 2016 06:46 AM PDT

I may have to downsize to a two bedroom one bathroom apartment. I have a 14 year old daughter and an 11 year old son. Would it be OK for them to share the larger bedroom in separate beds? A friend said that it would not be appropriate for them to be together in such an intimate situation of sharing a room, and said that I should be sharing my room with her. I don't want to do that because then I have no privacy for myself. I plan on having a boyfriend again. What are your thoughts?

Question: Did I just step into the Twilight Zone or something...?

Posted: 03 May 2016 06:04 AM PDT

Okay, so a relative-in-law wants to visit us. Fine. They don't know when they're coming and seemed a bit peeved when we asked for some basic information such as how long they will be here and where they will be staying. My husband did not ask with an attitude at all or anything since it's his family and he wants to see this relative. I don't get it. Are we out of line for wanting to know these things? This person is really weird anyway but I want to make sure we are not out of line. Nevertheless, I thought it was a common courtesy when you visit someone to let them know if you plan of staying with them, the length of your stay, and when you will be coming. Did that change and I'm the last one to find out? Are people just popping up and the homes of their friends and family members without notice expecting to stay with them for as long and they want? I don't even know why we have to ask; this person should have offered these details when talking to my husband during the first conversation a few weeks ago. What is your view? Are we out of line for wanting to know when this person was coming, where they will be staying, and how long they will be in town? That would make sense, but that was the last question he asked, and the only reason he asked is bed cause they have other relatives near us. We have a very small one bedroom apartment which this relative knows about so we are very slow to suggest that others stay with us.

Question: Does my daughter have social anxiety?

Posted: 03 May 2016 06:00 AM PDT

I think my daughter has social anxiety she is homeschooled because she didn t want to go to public school she doesn t sleep at night and hasn t been outside in 2 months, and when I say she hasn t left the house she hasn t even stepped outside the door. She always had these excuses and and when we go in public she doesn t want to get out of the car and when we got to a restaurant she s say she s not hungry but she certainly is. And she always has her headphones in and when her friends ask her to hang out she says no.

Question: I am being undermined in my house, no one will listen to me or not take me seriously. What can I do in this situation?

Posted: 03 May 2016 05:41 AM PDT

I have stated several times I no longer want to babysit and want to find employment elsewhere. Somehow what started as me doing a small favor for my sister turned permanent and she won't put my niece in daycare though it is FREE. Not that she even pays me. I grew over being angry about that, it was my fault since I didnt speak up. I simply just want to make my own money and meet new people. I simply want to live my own life now. I am twenty, it's about damn time. My mother is too wishy washy to listen. One minute she is open to me wanting to work somewhere and then the next acts as though I am being selfish for not wanting to babysit. It irks me beyond belief because it isnt like I can just walk out. No one will be around to watch this antsy almost two year old. Hell....I might as well just had a child of my own. I'm basically raising her. Don't even get me started on how my sister watches her. Her phone is in her face the entire time that she can't see or HEAR her when she's playing on the stairs. I have to run down the stairs and get her while my sister is STILL oblivious to what is happening. I am just really sick of this. How can I get them to FINALLY take me seriously, get her *** in daycare, and find my own employment??

Question: My mum yells at me and curses me and after one hour she calls me swettie and says nice words.Every ******* time!!!!?

Posted: 03 May 2016 04:58 AM PDT

Question: Would my mother be helping my brother or hurting him if they cut contact with him because of his behavior, read below?

Posted: 03 May 2016 04:53 AM PDT

My brother is 23 and he has awful behavior problems. I will always stay in touch because I don't believe in ever cutting contact with a family member. A relative of my mother's though noted that my mother's sister, my aunt, handled her daughter perfect by cutting contact and the daughter is now doing great (daughter had behavioral problems as a young adult). Indeed her daughter is doing fantastic aside from relationship problems. Before the daughter would steal and lie. So my brother has dangerous rage. He also is abusing cocaine. He steals when living at home but he no longer is living at home and it started with anger about my parent's divorce and my father's later death (suicide death). Now as an adult my brother is making bad choices though he also is a drug addict and I feel drug addiction is a disease. So my question is should my mother do what my aunt did and say "I will not have anything to do with you until you get things together and then I am here for you" like her sister did (the one whose daughter is now great)? Or is that cruel for a parent to do as I feel it is?

Question: Hi, so I can I move out I'm 18 but I'm a junior in highschool? My mom keeps saying that I can't, but she scared of loosing child support.?

Posted: 03 May 2016 04:52 AM PDT

I just live with my mom. So I can't move.

Question: Dear parents what would you do if your 18 year old son said he is in love with a thirty year old man and that he wants to marry him?

Posted: 03 May 2016 04:43 AM PDT

Question: My mum yells at me all the time even for things my brother does.She beat me up after I had eye surgery with a stick?

Posted: 03 May 2016 04:38 AM PDT

My dad yells at me because I m the reason my mother yells and my brother laughs at me.They control me because I have no money on my own.If I find a job I wouldnt want to pay for the rent if I move out.My grandma lives with my cousin who flirts with me because he is a jerk and I cant live with her.HELP MY PATIENCE IS RUNNING OUT!!!!!

Question: Need help seriously. NO TROLLS or PRANKS, I'm quite serious ( PART 2 )?

Posted: 03 May 2016 04:37 AM PDT

also that when we're on bed and she gets up she many times put her hand near my deick. Also when i turn away from her on bed she comes and touches her bewbs on my back and touches my butt with her thighs ( as i am taller than her ). When i'm on bed and im facing towards ceiling and dad is sleeping having his face away from her, She comes closer and touches her bewbs with my elbow and wraps her hand around my neck in a lovely way.I've touched my deick on her azz also when there is a narrow place and shes standing there with her azz towards the way, Somtimes she pushes her azz towards me also.Her azz really feels so soft and pleasing.I've tried to see her naked but She did not liked it and either covered herself or closed the curtain. please tell me if i approach for her is it possible that she will tell my dad? I'm so fearful of my dad as he is very short tempered and goes violent on me many times when i do things their wrong way. Please help me, a help will be really really appreciated. I want her so bad and i guess she wants me to feck her also.

Question: Grandmother passed away?

Posted: 03 May 2016 04:33 AM PDT

Her condo was across the country and I only have 2 of her sisters over here and my family flew over and then left my *** I've been living in her condo since she has passed. I'm only 21 half the time i am afraid of ghosts the other half I'm afraid of robbers. Don't you think my mom should be here or something? What the hell

Question: Family dilemma | what should I do? *please answer*?

Posted: 03 May 2016 03:48 AM PDT

I'm 18 about to graduate high school within a month. They make me not want to have them in my life. They constantly judge me, never understand me or even make an effort to, constantly never believing me. I DO NOT have a lying problem and i'm not a good liar so i rarely do it besides little ones, but they're too stubborn to be offered any other idea. This doesn't apply to all my family just certain members btw. They're always making me feel like a nobody, never supported. Im literally always blamed for what someone else has done. I don't feel like they care at all. They're the type of family that put you down when you're not doing well but don't put you up when you are. I just feel really negative and like I can't focus on my goals. I know I have a bright future ahead of me, I have a plan. I just don't know what to do, I try ignoring it but they always need a response. I do have emotional, mental problems with my insecurities and such but this will not help me. I constantly get anxiety over what they'll say/do. I just don't know what to do. I want them in my life because I love them but i'm just starting life and they bring out the worst in me.

Question: A simple question?

Posted: 03 May 2016 03:48 AM PDT

Say you started a shirt company. Good quality shirts and awesome designs/colors. Know as we know the reality of seeing success in this industry is close to none. How ever i believe in order to beat the competition is to offer quality and cheap prices/many colors which is what you being doing and it's been working. However many people have told you that your barely making profits which is true but keep in mind this will also keep your business in business forever. Take it as Walmart you see how they offer low prices and people prefer to go there instead of a local store?. yeah that's what i mean. Moral of the story is would you sell your shirts at a higher price and risk loosing profits/customers/going bankrupt? or continue with the low prices and keep the customers (this one guarantees you business for sure/for life stable income)?

Question: How rare is consensual brother and sister incest? Is it just underreported?

Posted: 03 May 2016 03:43 AM PDT

Question: I have an important question to ask about restraining order and custody!?

Posted: 03 May 2016 03:16 AM PDT

I have a problem with my baby's father him and I broke up a week and a half ago. He hasn't called nor ask to see the baby I asked him for milk which he didn't get her because before that he gave me 50 dollars to use on what I wanted or needed so I used them on my cap and gown since I'll be graduating & when I asked him for milk he had then said the money was for he but when he gave me that we weren't even broken up yet. Anyways I left him and the apartment due to a very controlling and violent relationship. The day I left he had been hurting himself and throwing me onto the bed waiting to hurt m while holding ou daughter in his arms. He's smoking weed, and his mom's not a good woman the fact that she had two boyfriends at the same time even with her 9 year old daughter being around. Baby's father lives under his grandma's roof right now also his uncle lives there too he's a cocaine addict and a alcoholic. My baby's father can also barely provide for himself. So I was wonder am I able to put a restraining order against him from my daughter and I due to child endangerment? And would I Still get full custody of my daughter, would there also be visitations for her and her father??? Help!!!? Fyi my family where I'm staying at all work besides myself fore talking care of my baby and going to school I'll then get a job(:

Question: Mom is pregnant at 40 and not the best timing?

Posted: 03 May 2016 02:27 AM PDT

This is a Long story, but I ll try to cut it short. My parents decided to have another baby even though their financial circumstances aren t fit to have another child. My younger brother who is 14, is having a lot of trouble in school and has recently been diagnosed with depression. What my question is, I have no idea what to do and how to deal with my mom s pregnancy because I feel that this is not the best timing to have another child. The number one reason is because they are not financially stable, (I have to pay bills when they are behind which is very often) and the second reason is because my brother is having a lot of issues that my parents should be focusing on him and trying to help. I ve been the one who has been looking after him and trying my best to help him with homework and advice as best I can. I know my parents and they will try to have me take care of the baby and most likely pay for a lot of things for him which I really don t want to do. I work and go to school full time (Graduate spring 2017) and I m hardly ever home. (because of that, my house is normally a mess since my parents seemed to stop caring about a clean area to live in) Any advice would be great, when it comes to issues like these I normally lose common sense. I m afraid to move out because I really don t want to leave my brother alone with this situation plus with our Hispanic culture, moving out when you re 20 or younger (I m about to turn 20) is like a slap to the face.

Question: My dad is dating someone my age.?

Posted: 03 May 2016 02:21 AM PDT

My dad is 50 years old. I am 20. My older sisters are 22, and 24. Younger 5 years old twins. My dads girlfriend is 20 ! 3 months older than me. I thought I was small and short untill I met her. 5'1 and 90 lbs. her arms are smaller than my 5 year old sisters!! He left my mom wen I was 2. Found Someone 10 years younger. Left her married someone 20 years younger (an had the twins) she did him bogus (first woman to ever do him bogus) he become whipped and depressed finally got over her went to Romania and found him the girl now. He got tattoo of all our names on his arm. And also got her name, and her name was the biggest on his arm. They have been dating a year. I didn't think it was serious untill he brought her to America. What if he has kids with her. The kid will be younger than my sisters baby. My nephews will be babysitting their aunt or uncle. I can't tell him anything bc my dad is the type of person that gets mad very fast. Or if he gets mad he ignores us for a little. You can't ever be right with him. He makes us call her step mom ?! Or calls her grandma bc my dad is a grandpa. It's so weird to me! I can't stand it. She was asking my sisters age, the asked mine, and said when's her birthday she found out hers was first and she's like "yes I'm older!" Or she uses my sisters I'd to get into clubs and stuff .. Or used my dads ex wife's id.. Is he going threw a mid life crisis or something ?! How can he date someone younger than his daughters ?!

Question: I have 2 brothers.?

Posted: 03 May 2016 01:37 AM PDT

When we were young, they were all beaten up by my mother, they even said one of their heads got slammed against the wall once. I had the same thing happen to me, but not as bad, I was always beaten as a child and had marks all over my body when I go to school, and my friends would ask me why. Today, my nephew was having the same thing happened to him after he fell down, I guess my mom got frustrated and started slapping him and scolding while telling him to stop crying, which only made things worst. I stood up for him and told her it was wrong because I had enough of it, and I didn't want my nephew to be brought up like that. She tried to hit me but I defended myself by holding her hand before it touched me, and she told my father I beat her. Now they all think I'm the bad guy, what do I do?

Question: Que debo hacer? ESTOY MUY DESESPERADO¡¡¡¡ debo decir que aun que parezca muy exagerado todo lo que digo es verdad?

Posted: 03 May 2016 01:35 AM PDT

por favor ODIO A MI MADRE,les contare,mi mama cambia de novio cada año desde que se separo de mi papa, pero no solo eso los lleva a vivir a la casa LITERALMENTE. el primero tenia solo 20 años era un pandillero muy tonto a mi y a mis hermanos no nos agravada el segundo era de su edad, la engañaba todo el tiempo y ella lo perdonaba y el tercero fue el peor de todos, todo el día estaba en la casa sin hacer nada y nos maltrataba a mi hermana y a mi principalmente,a mi hermana le decía pendeja y ami me decía cabrón inservible y me callaba cuando hablaba yo lo odiaba mucho. todas las beses que le decíamos a mi mama que no queríamos a sus novios en la casa nos decía "YO SOY LA QUE MANDA AQUÍ SI NO TE GUSTA VETE A VIVIR CON TU PAPA" ademas ella también nos maltrata, me a insultado llamándome "INSERVIBLE" "ERES UN PENDEJO" y no solo eso también me agolpado puñetazos en la cara y me a tirado con jarrones. un día me arme de valor y muy enojado le dije que no iba a soportar mas abusos de ella o su novio y se enojo y me echo de la casa, saco toda mi ropa y tuve que irme., el problema es que mi papa no es estable(TIENE PROBLEMAS DE DROGAS)solo estuve un mes con el y me dejo solo una semana entera tuve que tragarme mi orgullo y volver con mi mama por que me quede sin comida. mi mama ya corto con su novio pero no tarda en conseguirse a otro y sigue maltratarnos,no puedo irme con mi papa por que no es responsable,no tengo amigos(antes si pero ahora no),solo a mis hermanos y mi primo

Question: My sister wants me to sneak out with her to prove that I'm not afraid to do somehing rebellious. Why not just ask our parent's permission?

Posted: 03 May 2016 12:59 AM PDT

My sister wants me to sneak out of the house with her on Friday night. She said that we'll probably go to a convenience store, get some drinks, get some food, and then just hang out together for a while. The only reason I'm doing this is because I really want my older sister to be impressed by me. She says that I'm too much of a goody-two-shoes and I never have any fun. She said that, by doing this, I'll prove that I'm capable of doing something fun and that I'm worth her time. I'm 14 and she is 16, so I can't drive yet, but she said that she'll drive on Friday. It seems dumb not to ask our parents for permission to do something like this. They would probably be ok with us driving to the convenience store and getting some things. I'm not really looking forward to risking getting in trouble with my parents. I've seen some of the consequences they give my sister and I don't want that. My parents treat me and my sister completely differently and I think it's mainly because I listen to them and she doesn't. I talked with my parents about this. I didn't tell them anything that will get my sister into trouble. I just said that I was thinking about sneaking out on Friday and I wanted their help to make sure I make the right choice. I just asked if they can spend time with me on Friday and maybe help me work on my science fair project poster. If my sister bugs me about sneaking out I'm just going to tell her that I don't want to lose our parent's trust for something like this. Your answer and that video was really helpful Jack in the box. Thank you!!!