Marriage & Divorce: Question: My fiancé recently told me that he wanted to invite his ex-fiancée to our wedding. What do I do? |
- Question: My fiancé recently told me that he wanted to invite his ex-fiancée to our wedding. What do I do?
- Question: I need help!?
- Question: I have a cousin she cheated to her husband and her husband have a witness is there's a chance that her husband get the custody of their kids and the properties they have a hearing on June 8 about the restraining order?
- Question: I do missed my husband but he divorce me we married for 1yr only and we have one son he is 4 months since he file divorce?
- Question: I fall love into a beining black boy , stay with him in China .how can i do , so teeny girl for this love ?
- Question: I have questions regarding my social security income.?
- Question: Guys do you want a stay at home wife?
- Question: Husband wants a baby but is skeptical?
- Question: Can someone please tell me how to calm down & what I can do about this. I just had an argument with my wife even though I was theoretically?
- Question: If someone does not believe in having sex (at all), why do they believe in marriage? Isn't marriage an extension of the sex thing?
- Question: Does my dad have to tell my mom where the money went?
- Question: I love my wife but I'm cheating with my childhood sweetheart. Please help!?
- Question: How do I tell my wife that I want to leave her and our two children?
- Question: If a man cheats on his wife, does she have a right to throw a knife at him?
- Question: Is my wife in the wrong? Or am I just being jealous?
- Question: Can a spouse get on the same ssi if they don t hve a job when they are married?
- Question: I am attracted to a colleague and I told him so?
- Question: Are all relationships doomed eventually?
- Question: My husband wants a divorce?
- Question: My wife's dinner didn't taste that good today, how should I punish her?
- Question: I found out that my daughter dad is a now a sex offender since he got a 15 year old pregrant and I have full custody what do I need to do?
- Question: I would like to get my name off the house my now ex husband lives in?
- Question: If both couple enters a marriage with prenuptial agreement, is that marriage likely to survive or fail?
- Question: Haven't seen my wife in 14 years, and when I finally spoke with her, she said no to signing divorce papers. What do I do now"?
- Question: Is my husband acting right?
- Question: The person said no to signing divorce papers. What now?
- Question: Would you cover your husband with a blanket if he dozed off on the couch?
- Question: Ladies... I need your thoughts on this...?
- Question: Need ideas for our one year wedding anniversary!?
- Question: Am I getting it mixed up here?
- Question: My fiance stole & ingested 3 of my muscle relaxers behind my back. He's not an addict, but I guess he was hoping to get high. Ditch him?
- Question: Social security?
- Question: My own mom is cheating?
- Question: How do I begin to move on, forgive and trust my wife after her affair?
- Question: Where can i find the toxicology report for my husband online?
- Question: Any thoughts on this situation after having relations?
- Question: Is he being unfair to my son?
- Question: I think my penis is way too small for my girlfriend. Should I break up with her? She deserves better?
- Question: My hubby attempted an affair twice ..caught him before both happened. I make more than him. No sex in 2 years..he can't keep it up. Alimony?
- Question: I just need some advice on divorce.?
- Question: Can I search marriage records in Louisiana with only month year and First name of bride?
- Question: NFR: Need help with marriage!?
- Question: My first love married a girl who looks like me.?
- Question: My husband likes hanging out late with friends?
- Question: My husband have a first son to his first wife is there's any possible that I will take care my son and he will support the custody of our son?
- Question: When a couple says "I do" at their wedding, are they officially married? Or do the signing of the marriage papers ensue before the wedding?
- Question: Why did my Huband changed his attitude all of the sudden?
- Question: Is there any chance that the judge will grant the physical custody of son will give to me....my husband file a divorce and we have one child and it's a boy I breastfeed my son since I gave birth!?
- Question: What does this man want?!!?
- Question: What do you do for a living just curious? I'm studying to become a nurse :)?
- Question: Im 64 collect socialy security on death husband.can i remarry and still get it.?
- Question: My children father whom solely cares for my kids, I no long need child support, what can I do to release him from paying childsupport?
- Question: My kids are living fulltime with their father(who takes care of my kids) how do I stop the child support on him?
- Question: Issues with my husband and bad communication!?
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- Question: How come there is more marriage support and divorce advice for women online than men?
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- Question: I divorced my husband 2 months ago, but miss him so much.?
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 09:48 PM PDT My fiancé and I will be getting married in December and recently he told me that he would like to invite his ex. They were engaged right out of high school but broke up only a year into college. It's been a few years since they broke it off but we still saw her around a lot since we are from a small town. Anyway I asked why he wanted her there and he just said it's his way of showing her that it is completely over. I guess it makes a little sense since she is always trying to get back with him and constantly shows up at my house. Still I would rather not have her there in case she decides to cause a scene. I told him how I felt and he admitted that he already gave her an invitation and now I'm unsure what to do. What would you do? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 09:30 PM PDT In the last 3 days my gf of 10 months broke up with me and my parents are getting a divorce. I feel like my life is falling apart. I have cried myself to sleep every night the last 3 days. I will occasionally think about what's happening and i get over whelmed and start sobbing thinking about my life. I don't know what to do..... 😕😔😭 |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 09:29 PM PDT I have a cousin she cheated to her husband and her husband have a witness is there's a chance that her husband get the custody of their kids and the properties....they have a hearing on June 8 about the restraining order |
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| Question: I have questions regarding my social security income.? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 09:05 PM PDT I'm using my son's account since I don't have one. My name is Jannie. My disability check amount is $733 per month. I'm 65 years old. Been on this check for 21 years. They use to call it ssi but now after I turned 65 they call it something else but amount stayed the same. My son gets $745 per month off my ex-husband's social security record. A friend of mine told me that when my son turned 18 years old that he would stop receiving money off my husband's record and that I would get that money added to my check since we was married for 14 years........Is that correct? If it matters my ex-husbands social security check is $1,540 per month. I've tried to contact the social security office but they seem to always either be closed or so busy it takes hours and hours of waiting in line. My health is not all that great and the waiting in line is very hard on me. I hope someone on here may know. Thanks for your help on this matter. Have a good day. Jannie |
| Question: Guys do you want a stay at home wife? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 09:04 PM PDT I wanna be a stay at home wife |
| Question: Husband wants a baby but is skeptical? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 09:04 PM PDT We have been married for a year and a half now, we were together for 4 years and lost our virginity to each other. He always showed signs of being a great father and always said he wanted kids and he still does its just that he is kind of scared to. We talked about it and im really serious now, before we joked about it but now that im 28 and feel that i want one, i have been pushing and pushing him to try. HE says that the only reason he is against it is that usually when a kid comes the marriage changes and he doesnt really want that to happen, its only been a year and he feels he doesnt want to lose me. He also has anxiety and thinks about scenarios that freak him out and i think this is his anxiety acting up. He has a good job and so do i, im a nurse and he is a pharmacist, so our income is enough to support a child, he is just worried about all these things before the kid is even made, he thinks too far ahead and doesnt really look at the present, how do i deal with this? should i just reassure him the marriage wont change even though i dont know if it will? i dont think too far ahead im more of a live through the moment type of person. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 08:57 PM PDT correct. My wife is angry at me. I know from past experience my wife will give me the silent treatment (and only say a few words to me when absolutely necessary) for at least a few days (5 - 8 days). Is there any way to make peace with my wife or must I wait 8 days for her to forget about the argument we had. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 08:49 PM PDT Marriage is the solemnization of the intimate relationship thing, and after that, you can have all the sex you want to have, with your spouse. So, if there's a person who does not believe in having sex, period, not even with the spouse for the purpose of procreation, why does that person get married? They may as well just go ahead and have sex. But, it seems like they would not get married. Why get married if you do not believe in sex? (Yes, I know sex and marriage are two different entities). |
| Question: Does my dad have to tell my mom where the money went? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 08:40 PM PDT so my parents are splitting up. over the course of the last 5 or so years they have been investing in silver. They have accumulated roughly over $10000 in silver. Today my father went into the safe behind my mothers back and cashed the silver. He will not tell her how much money he got for the silver or where the money is at. Does he legally have to tell her where the money is since half of it is technically hers? |
| Question: I love my wife but I'm cheating with my childhood sweetheart. Please help!? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 08:09 PM PDT I've been married for four years, but knew this girl since first grade. As a boy, I liked her, as a teen I loved her but never found a way to tell her, she went to a different school two years before graduation and I never heard about her again. Apparently she moved to a different town and currently has returned, unmarried but with a daughter. We met during December at the grocery store, got to talking and exchanged numbers and emails addresses. I was the first one to both text and email, but she respond. I don't know if she knows I'm married, I never told her. She started inviting me to events, even over at her apartment. We've kissed and proceeded in things more advanced. I do love my wife but at a time like this, I feel like I settled. I don't know if I love her in such a way I do with this other women, we felt like the same people. What can I do? I don't wish to leave my wife. |
| Question: How do I tell my wife that I want to leave her and our two children? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 08:06 PM PDT I still care about my wife and two children, but I think I found the love of my life and I would be a fool not to go after what makes me happy. She makes me happy and I haven't told my wife about her, but she knows I'm married and have two children. She wants me to tell my wife and move in with her next month. She just brought a house in North Carolina and my name would be on the house and we can live happy finally. My marriage wasn't the best. My wife wasn't as sexual with me after awhile and I feel like I'm a bad father to my two daughters. They're better off without me. I will miss mostly my daughters because they are my heart. I want to do what makes me happy for once and be with this woman. She is an amazing woman and we have had some of the best sex I could ever imagine. I feel guilty, but not guilty enough to stop and stay with my wife, just guilty. I want to tell my wife but I'm pretty afraid she'd lose it. I want to leave on a good note, maybe leave her some money and pay for the divorce because I'm sure I'll be marrying this woman. I still want to be in my daughters' lives and have them visit me sometimes, but it's better they stay with their mother. My wife is just a better parent. How do I tell my wife this? |
| Question: If a man cheats on his wife, does she have a right to throw a knife at him? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 07:47 PM PDT |
| Question: Is my wife in the wrong? Or am I just being jealous? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 07:36 PM PDT My wife and I have been having some issues and I feel it s getting worse. We attended a party and I think she met someone there. I accidentally (I am being honest ) found some texts between her and another man. Normally I wouldn t care since she has male friends. But she became extremely defensive and demanded privacy. One of the texts ended with him telling her sweet dreams and another with him calling her "love". She wanted a weekend to get away and see her parents and to clear her head after a small argument. Her parents live fairly close to this other man. I know she saw him while away when she was "with friends". And when I confronted her about it she wouldn t tell me that nothing happened, just that she shouldn t need to tell me that. Am I overstepping my bounds? I want to give her the benefit of the doubt, but I feel like that is just being naive. |
| Question: Can a spouse get on the same ssi if they don t hve a job when they are married? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 07:35 PM PDT |
| Question: I am attracted to a colleague and I told him so? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 06:53 PM PDT I feel uncomfortable i told him because I am vulnerable now but I am truly attracted to him. Well the important information is i am married and so is he. I understand this is crazy to even feel something to another man but i couldn't control it. I'm just thinking he shouldn't take advantage of mE sharing my thoughts. He said he likes me too. |
| Question: Are all relationships doomed eventually? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 06:18 PM PDT Do you think a relationship can live the "teenage dream" forever? Where there's love for one another and you can't get enough of the other person. The couple still holds hands, cuddles, makes out, has sex. Or will all relationships eventually end with the wife refusing sex all the time and the husband being lazy and not helping out around the house? |
| Question: My husband wants a divorce? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 05:48 PM PDT He doesn't like the idea of me being a teacher because Ii focus too much on my job than I do him. Should I give up teaching just to please him, or go into another profession? *I |
| Question: My wife's dinner didn't taste that good today, how should I punish her? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 05:39 PM PDT |
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| Question: I would like to get my name off the house my now ex husband lives in? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 04:46 PM PDT My now ex husband lives in the house we bought and lived In years ago. Since our divorce he has paid off the main mortgage but still owes on the second mortgage. Since I left the home, he has let it go down hill. Should I get my name off the house before he gets the second mortgage paid off? I am ashamed of the home the way it is now and don t want any part of it. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 04:33 PM PDT I understand the importance of prenuptial agreement and I personally believe they are very important. The divorce courts cannot be trusted as they still favor women. So my question is rather straightforward, if 2 enter a marriage, can it survive? I don't understand why people bring trust when prenups are mentioned. Its the protection from the law, not the person you are about to marry. Divorce laws are messed up and damage everyone in the process. |
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| Question: Is my husband acting right? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 04:30 PM PDT Do you think is right if a husband leave his wife whitout money with her 4 children home ? |
| Question: The person said no to signing divorce papers. What now? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 04:29 PM PDT |
| Question: Would you cover your husband with a blanket if he dozed off on the couch? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 04:01 PM PDT |
| Question: Ladies... I need your thoughts on this...? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 03:40 PM PDT I am a happily married father of one. I have been with my wife for 5 years now. I love her and she loves me... there is nothing wrong in our marriage. I am satisfied from all angles and have no complaints whatsoever... Recently, I have started to have some feelings for a female co-worker a work... She is single and we have never ever done anything... I haven t cheated on my wife. She knows I am married so has never acted on her feelings... but she has told how she feels about me and the feelings she has for me.. but she can t do anything about it as there is no future with me... I am already married. I know the same too... we talk at work and are cool with each other... but I always have this feeling with her... like I am controlling myself... I smile and talk with her but feel as though I am hiding something... my true feelings for her... I really want to spend more time with her.. and even see her as my life-long partner... but the crazy thing is I still love my wife and when I come home to her I enjoy being with her and spending time with my son.... I never ever thought I would have feelings for 2 different women like this.... this is the first time I am feeling like this... I don t know is this normal or what. I don t want to leave my wife, never.... but at the same time I think about my co-worker and would love to have her in my life too.... What is this that I am going through?????? |
| Question: Need ideas for our one year wedding anniversary!? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 03:39 PM PDT So next week we got a hotel room for the weekend in newport Oregon on the beach cause we live in Washington well of course our weather sucks here and I checked the weather there was hoping it would be better but it won't like 67 so need ideas I love surprising him with things even though he hates surprises haha well he sucks at doing romantic things for me so I try for him cause I like it. So far I went and got some lingerie of course but any other ideas? I was thinking if I call the hotel and see if they offer anything cause he already reserved the room wish he would think of this instead of me but some men just suck at being romantic and planning romantic things. Been together for 7 years today and married almost a year |
| Question: Am I getting it mixed up here? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 03:17 PM PDT My wife and I are in a small group with about a handful of other couples that attend our church. About half of us couples were dealing with miscarriage/infertility problems. Now I found out this week that two more of the couples who were having problems are now pregnant (one of the other couples are about 7-8 months along already). My wife and I now are the only ones in the group who have never been expecting. We are currently in an international adoption program and have already had 3 referrals that did not work out for us and are still waiting to bring home a child. I am happy for the couples as they have gone through all kinds of heartbreak, but I cannot help but feel a little angry/resentful that God saw fit to bless them like this while our fertility treatments never worked for us and have been going through this exhaustive international adoption process. Even when we do bring our child home, it will still not be the same. Those other couples will be able to look into their child's eyes and see themselves while we as stand-in parents will only get to see the face of the birth parents who that child will always long to know and with whom we will have to compete with for their affection/love. Those couples will not have to contend with that and their love will be natural, while we will have to work as a family at ours. I just feel a little cheated sometimes and that maybe God is looking more favorably on those couples than ourselves. Am I off base here? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 03:15 PM PDT **He never stole from me before in 3 yrs of being together. He said he took them bc he knew I would not take them. (He's right. I was prescribed the pills, & he knows I don't take pills, so even though I got them frmo the pharmacy, he knew I wouldn't take them, and he looked at it as if they were just "up for grabs".) At first, he denied taking them, until he confessed 3 days later. Then, a month later, mysteriously the bottle disappears. Do you think he took the rest? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 03:13 PM PDT My soon to be ex husband and I have joint custody of our son and he has been on Soonercare by me since his birth. He is a year old. His father just asked me for his social security number for insurance he said...do I have to give it to him? I don't trust him and he is sneaky..always trying to make me look bad. I want to do what's right but I don't want to do anything that he may use to pull something on me. |
| Question: My own mom is cheating? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:33 PM PDT Ok so this is SO messed up I would've never thought of my mom doing this but I'm pretty sure she's cheating with her cousin's husband and I don't think her cousin deserves that because she's an funny and amazing person even though she can be a pain at times. I'm guessing her husband is bored of her so now he's going for my own un married mother and I need to get this off my chest. I really wish I never accidentally saw the text he sent her which read "kiss me" I'm currently having an inner conflict with myself. I know it's wrong but to confirm this that my eyes were not playing a joke on me I read some of the text conversation and I can say that it's confirmed. Yuck!! I can't believe someone I love and that's close to me my own damn mother is doing this. I'm 15 years old. Idk what to do I mean what if her cousin finds out!? I didn't know myself. You feel? I'm not fond of this. I feel like confronting her but she can be very scary. Fml. What should I do this is mentally eating at me It's so funny how my senses were right about something going on between them too. And the guy is from a different country! Two* sorry for so many updates What if they try to drag me into this? I don't even see as my mother as the same I'm good thanks no need for more answers |
| Question: How do I begin to move on, forgive and trust my wife after her affair? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:31 PM PDT My wife cheated on me with a coworker 8 months ago. I have decided to give her a second chance and work on the marriage. We have been together 15 years and have two young kids. This is the first time she has ever done this and has worked very hard to make it right by showing true remorse, making herself accountable and going to marriage and individual counseling. Problem is I can't seem to move forward. I'm stuck. She wants to take my hand and become a stronger couple than ever, but I'm just spinning my wheels. How do I forgive, not forget because I know I never will, move forward and learn to trust again? She has been very patient with my anger, sadness and emotional swings. But 8 months out its time to make some progress. Any advice? |
| Question: Where can i find the toxicology report for my husband online? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:30 PM PDT |
| Question: Any thoughts on this situation after having relations? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:25 PM PDT Our history is I previously asked him out years ago in college but he declined stating he had a GF. Now 5 years later we have kept in touch on FB casually. He asked me to hang out and made moves and said he always had a thing for redheads, I later found out he has a steady GF who is tall and blonde, total opposite of me, why the heck did he do this? |
| Question: Is he being unfair to my son? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:23 PM PDT My 19 year old son failed out of college his first year because she just didn't study. My husband told him that he either had to find a job and start paying rent or take over a bill in the house. He found a job today at Taco Bell but won't be making that much money. My husband (not his dad) basically said that he needs to find a better job then cause he's not going to have a grown man living in our house freeloading. Now, his 18 year old daughter is going off to college this year and she works at an amusement park and makes descent money but he's not requiring her to pay anything. He said that if she fails out of school her first year then she'd fall under the same rules as my son. I told my husband that my son is doing the best he could and my husband said that had he done what he was suppose to do in school he wouldn't have required him to pay a think cause at least he'd be going back to college in the fall. He's signed up for community college but my husband isn't bending on anything. I feel that he's singling out my son simply because he failed out of college his first year. Education is big with my husband and understand that but he said that when he lived at home he paid his parents rent until he moved out and my son is no different. How do I get my husband to understand that he's showing favoritism towards his daughter above my son? They both work but only he's required to pay to live here. My husband said that if I never require anything more from him he won't push himself to do better. I just think he's picking on my son. To answer a question that was asked, no, my husband did not require either child to pay a bill last summer. The only thing he did ask was that since both kids worked they were to pay $20 a week to help out with gas. My son worked at Subway and he didn't make that much so I never made him pay. His daughter got him a job at the amusement park she worked at and he didn't like it so he quit. My husband thinks that community college is not a viable option for a young kid with his whole life ahead of him. He feels that my son was at a reputable 4 year college and he wasted the opportunity to learn something so now he feels he needs to learn to be a man and stand on his own two feet. |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:20 PM PDT Out of her 4 ex bf's, all have been above 7 inches. Mine is only 5. In fact she would still be with her last ex had he not decided to join the Peace Corps. I don't think I'm pleasing her in the bedroom. I want to give her oral but she doesn't want me to do it. She moans and makes noises but I think she's just faking so that I'll finish fast. Should I just break it off with her? I want her to be happy, even if that means that she be with someone better than me. |
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| Question: I just need some advice on divorce.? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:08 PM PDT First of all, I know that I need to speak with a divorce lawyer and I am working on that, but I just wanted some advice from a real person first. My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years. He is older than me and has 3 teenage kids from a previous marriage. His oldest is great and accepts me, but the other two never have. I have done all I can do to get to know them and let them get to know me. For 5 years I have been trying to bond with them - without being too intrusive or trying too hard. I have never been anything but nice to them and all I get from them is disdain. Their mother and my husband had a messy divorce (she cheated) and they have always sided with her. They wont even come over anymore. My husband feels that our marriage has hurt them and views them as innocent victims. All the while they treat him like a doormat. It has finally taken a toll on our marriage (along with his pornography addiction) and I am ready for divorce. I am terrified because he has money and I really have nothing. I moved away from my family to live with him in Dallas, TX. We did not sign a prenuptial agreement, but it's his house and we work at the same organization - when we divorce, I will have no job and no where to go. I don't know the divorce laws or what to expect. Will I get anything from this divorce to take care of myself? What can I expect? Thank you |
| Question: Can I search marriage records in Louisiana with only month year and First name of bride? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 02:01 PM PDT |
| Question: NFR: Need help with marriage!? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 01:51 PM PDT I remember I used to be with you guys for a while. Especially during the 2010-2014 era of me being in MFS. Now that I'm older and graduated, I need some advice because I'm already thinking of marriage and settling down. I need you're guys help to figure out who I should marry. Here are my scenarios with girls I've gone out with at the same time. Girl #1: Mexicana, real nice girl. Green eyes, very pretty, dark brown hair, and thin. She is extremely nice (I have never heard her say a bad word since I have been with her, really cares for me and extremely caring. The only drawback is that she has no @ss and is flat. She's good everywhere else, but no @ss which is a killer. Girl #2 Mexicana girl, She is a nice girl, but she has a mouth and says bad words constantly, very fiery and is nice. She's also pretty and has a nice @ss and curves. Really hot. Nice killer body and can cook too. Drawback to her is that she has two kids :(. Hot @ss ***** though who loves me very much. Girl #: Mexicana girl, she also is extremely nice and bubbly. Great sense of humor and very giggly. Has a great @ss and a good body. Drawback is that she's a beast in the face. She looks ok with makeup but but when she doesn't godamn! Similar to Diana Reyes if people have noticed how she looks. Everything else though is good. Doesn't seem like she could cook either. These are my three. Which one should I choose for marriage? I'm going out with all three of them. |
| Question: My first love married a girl who looks like me.? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 01:49 PM PDT It's so tragic to see that rather than marrying me he married someone who looked liked me. |
| Question: My husband likes hanging out late with friends? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 01:47 PM PDT My husband & have been married for a year, he sometimes like hanging out until late with his friends & gets drunk. We dont have any kids yet, its just us two, I have a huge problem with him coming home late especially after drinking. He tells me he's a grown man & I cant tell him what to do & he doesnt understand why he cant come home late. I dont think a married man should be coming home late. Am I over reacting or do I have every right to feel the way I do? |
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| Question: Why did my Huband changed his attitude all of the sudden? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 01:31 PM PDT I feel hopeless...im devastated. I always thought we had a Perfect Marriage, perfect family...Everyone thought we would be together forever. Now i feel i lost everything. He suddenly changed his attitude towards me and i dont know why? I tried talking to him about it but he wont talk to me. All i did was love him and give my all... now he wants to get have a separation, and he wont give me any explanation why? Everytime i tried to talk to him he refuses.... ahhh we been like this for 3 weeks now...i dont know what to do |
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| Question: What does this man want?!!? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 01:25 PM PDT So my husband recently asked me for a divorce after i caught him cheating for the third time. I told him that was fine but he was paying for it and that i wasnt signing anything without speaking to a lawyer. Well after i told him this (about a day later, we still live together until i can afford to move out) he starts hugging on me trying to kiss me and wanting to have sex. I give in and everything is ok again. well we get into a fuss and then all of a sudden he wants a divorce again?! I'm so confused. I dont know what he wants. do I just refuse all his advances and focus on me and my kids and being able to figure out who i'am as a single mother or do i give in when he starts making advances and start the cycle all over again? why is he confusing me like this? does he want a divorce or not? and how do I avoid getting hurt by his mind games? |
| Question: What do you do for a living just curious? I'm studying to become a nurse :)? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 01:18 PM PDT |
| Question: Im 64 collect socialy security on death husband.can i remarry and still get it.? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 12:54 PM PDT |
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| Question: Issues with my husband and bad communication!? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 12:11 PM PDT My husband and I have been arguing lately. He just came back home from being gone two months. I've noticed these days when I talk to him he's not listening. He asks me the same question three plus time. Yesterday I had already told him and I did get upset. I told him I had already told him and asked him if he didn't remember? He told me to forget it and we both put each other on ignore. He's been doing this with pretty much everything, so I've gotten tired of telling him because it frustrates me. Things weren't like this before. The other thing that has frustrated me for some time – is that we talk about problems, etc and I get a sense that he doesn't understand what I'm trying to tell him. He gets the superficial part that bugs him and blocks off the rest of the conversation. For example: I told him, while you were gone I've been sleeping early – so can we try to sleep a little earlier Sunday and during the week because this weekend, Mon, and Tues has thrown me off track and I feel really tired in the afternoons. Remember I sit all day and your job is active so being tired affects me a little more. His response was, So we won't go out. I didn't want to go out anyways. I told him the other day because he was sad when he saw where his kids were staying with their mom. You're doing the best job you can as a father you have to understand they don't want to stay with us there is nothing we can do. (We've asked them to stay, but they said they're more comfortable with mom). He said you're right, but I can't stop being a dad and got upset with me. Which, I thought was weird. They call almost every day saying they don't have food or need certain things. So he's constantly going which I don't feel is healthy for him or the kids, but I haven't voiced that opinion yet because I don't think it's my place or it would be fair. They don't like being at our house because dad is strict. I don't know I'm getting really tired that I tell him things and he misconstrues the message. I think I've given up… I think its my communication, but I've tried various ways I just dont know |
| Question: I easily get attracted to men and develop a crush on them? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 11:58 AM PDT Ever since I was young, I had so many crushes. I also ended up having many boyfriends who were also my close friends. I am slightly introvert because I'm somewhat a loner. However, I can be very outgoing (smiling) and I have a good sense of humor (& sarcasm) which makes me attractive to people. My problem is I develop crushes easily. If a guy acknowledges me positively, I tend to overthink the situation and also start thinking about the person. I work out quite a bit and some of these men I see more often so the crush becomes aggravated in which I look forward to seeing them again. I've worked on avoiding any type of conversation with them as I'm happily married. However, I hate myself for being happy to see these men. Yes... It's not only one guy. I think I had a crush on one for a 6 month period and a slight crush on two others that I don't see often. If I'm not married, I wouldn't have a problem... But why do I get attracted to these guys easily? Some of them aren't even that good looking? |
| Question: Why do some people get married so young? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 11:15 AM PDT My cousin got engaged a month before she turned 22 and she was married a few months before she turned 23.. She had been with the guy since she was 16 but still. & I know people from my highschool who got engaged at 22-24. |
| Question: How come there is more marriage support and divorce advice for women online than men? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 11:06 AM PDT Regardless of the face that they are housewife or career woman. Why is there not much support for men as for women? |
| Posted: 03 Jun 2015 10:48 AM PDT Any suggestions on how to get your partner to appreciate all I do for him.big or small as I feel he takes me for granted without gratitude and appreciation. |
| Question: Is kicking him out the right thing to do? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 10:05 AM PDT Long story short. I've been in and out of a relationship ever since 3 years ago when we were engaged I found out he was cheating. I gave him many chances and just until finally calling it quits. I got rid of our home, I went back to my moms and now finally have my own apartment (starting all over again with my two kids). He has been in out and out jobs and can not maintain a place to stay. His been homeless and just been in very sad situations..I felt bad when he had no where to stay and no money this past May.. Him being the father of my kids, I offered to let him stay with no rent or utilities to pay so he can get back on his feet. Since then i can count in one hand the times he has helped me with my kids and cleaning my place, I do admit my expectations are a little high since staying with me for free ( I'm in a low income and i do not get no assistance because i do not qualify and barely make it) during this time i wake up early in the morning to get my kids ready for school while his just sleeping and who knows till when.. Anyway he does not seem to have no urgency to get a job and just get out there and do what it takes. now were in June and i'm fed up and kicked him out. I'm feeling awful and i'm depressed that i catch myself just sad and ****. Also I feel I'm taking out on my kids.. Please any advise will help.. Eh my doing the right thing here? should i have not kicked him out? what should i do ? |
| Question: I divorced my husband 2 months ago, but miss him so much.? Posted: 03 Jun 2015 09:56 AM PDT My ex husband and I had been together for 13 years. We separated almost a year ago for a second time but this time we followed through with the divorce (it was my decision). Well, at first he was very abusive to me both physically and emotionally, then after we got back the first time, he stopped hitting me and the emotional abuse remained to the point that my child was doing it too. I decided that I no longer wanted that life for me, but after all of this was over, I feel like I just miss him so much. He tells me he loves me and will always love me for the rest of our lives, but he also tells me every detail from his current relationship. He says he doesn't love her but loves how she treats him. My current boyfriend is also a very good and educated man that loves me and respects me so much, but I just don't understand why I just love my ex husband so much now that we are apart. What should I do?? I feel so depressed most of the time and cry because my ex was my best friend. Why could I possibly miss being with someone who would constantly lie about everything and mistreat me at times?? He blames me for everything and says that it was my fault because I filed for divorce. He is also fighting for child support and wants to lie about how much he earns since he is self employed and he kept everything from money to both houses and everything else. I stayed with my two children and living at my mothers. He also drinks and parties a lot now that he is alone. Should I look for him? |
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