Family & Relationships: Question: I am 28 and I am renting my parents’ back house to help then out. They still give me issues when I come home late . Is this normal ? |
- Question: I am 28 and I am renting my parents’ back house to help then out. They still give me issues when I come home late . Is this normal ?
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Posted: 06 Jun 2019 02:53 PM PDT As right now I have a good full time job , I am still in school for my masters and never caused them any issues. Even thought I moved to their back house they still treat me like if I was still inside. I barely go out but The other day it got out of control when I went to a party, at about 2am my mom texted and I replied telling her I been drinking so I am going to take a nap or just spend the night at my friends house ( a guy who she knows because she's BFF with his mom !). She went nuts , called me nonstop and actually showed up outside to pick me up . Well that was embarrassing. If I tell her I'm going on a date she will call me non stop back if it was getting late . I would have to lie to her and tell her I'm out with a girlfriend ... is this normal ? I would leave but I do help then a lot with mortgage and I wouldn't want them losing the house . What can I do ? |
Question: How to emotionally disconnect from very selfish family? Posted: 06 Jun 2019 08:22 AM PDT I love my family, I always will. And in times of dire need, I would be there for them. But right now, every one of them is take and no give. And not just towards me, but to society as well. The longer I am away from them, the more my eyes open up to reality. No one in my family has ever been hospitable or giving but they constantly expect from others. Including me. I was a victim of this. I gave a lot when I could. But more was always expected. And when I had to stop, I felt guilty. I thought it was my mind and heart making me feel this way. But I am still a very giving, kind, hospitable person towards others. I have taken care of myself for years now and asked no one for help. Yet, when I was financially drowning, my mom would even talk about how she loved it when I was able to buy her nice things. And this was after I had bought her a bouquet of flowers with change I scrounged up when she was having a bad day...(this is just an example.) I need to know the best, healthiest, way to separate from them. I am tired of feeling guilty, despite all I did when I was able to. I am tired getting burned. There are people out there that need me. Need my help, who would appreciate it. I need to be strong for them. Blood or not... |
Posted: 06 Jun 2019 06:27 AM PDT The other night my head was hurting and I wanted to take ibuprofen but was afraid due to the fact I have one kidney. My dad was researching and told me it's ok to take it once in awhile so I took it and went to use the bathroom when my dad came in the kitchen (we have a bathroom by the kitchen) and he said to my mom "wow all the times I've took ibuprofen when I had my back to back fevers" then he walk out and said out loud to my mom "you know ibuprofen cause infertility in men". My mom said really wow then I came out to ask her what he said and she's like "oh it causes bad things for men" then I was like infertility? Which now she knows 100 percent what that means and she knows I know and she's like when I asked her what's that mean she's like "oh I don't know". Then I sat by her and was like "why does he have to worry about the ibuprofen he has two kidneys I have one that's one I got worried" right away she went to thinking about what he said about the infertility part and was like "he sees how with the phones and stuff how it does things to girls he research" (I believe she said that's all).. also she said "he was just seeing what ibuprofen does how everything has something. Then she was going to get a little loud with me and I'm like I'm talking about the Kinsey's. Anyway my parents are both 44 my dad is tiring 45 in August, does it seem my dad is worry about infertility with himself and they want more kids or no? My mom says she has too many worries and no life |
Posted: 05 Jun 2019 09:50 PM PDT FIRST OF ALL RUDE ANSWERS WILL BE REPORTED. when my brother was younger my dad treated him bad and too strict .like in the morning woke him roughly. he was a good boy .no reason for this. but now he does anything he likes and they don't tell him a single word. now even they do anything he says. wth? I've heard we discipline children because of its good for themselves. so it means we don't want to control them like a doll on strings. so the good behavior must be done always . not when you are adult put anything away. |
Question: Does this make sense to you or do you think odd? Posted: 05 Jun 2019 06:15 PM PDT I'm a 24 year old guy. Pretty much only one girl has talked to me a lot my entire life. Lots of guys flirt with her. Probably over 1,000 guys follow her on social media. Other girls have talked to me, but not very much. |
Question: Need serious help plz plz? Posted: 05 Jun 2019 04:13 PM PDT Last time when us chatting on messenger his mind wanders and he wasn't on my window his head didn't go down on Conversation on fb messenger. When I asked he lied that he was there. He was on fb sending request to girl n they added him I saw 2 new girl added n I asked he said they are coworkers n he was on fb and sorry for lying and hiding to me. I was very sad that he lied and hid. Now today when he was at work n never reply to my texts but was active on fb. When I asked how come active when u r too busy to reply to my texts? He said fb lying and must be error. I know he is lying and hiding. I told him why he added that blonde girl from work when he said he don't talk to her. How come he send request to her. I think he is into her. But she is in a relationship too. Dunno what's going on. Why he is hiding n lying to me if he isn't doing anything?? Plz help |
Question: How to ask your colleagues for respect at your workplace, in Portuguese? Thx? Posted: 05 Jun 2019 04:07 PM PDT |
Question: Do you think I'm gross for what i did? Posted: 05 Jun 2019 02:08 PM PDT Months ago, i had sex with a teenager. The age of consent in my state is 16. She was 17. There was only a 4 year difference between us. Now, i have a girlfriend only a year younger than me so it's not like i aim for teens but i wanted your opinion. Would you be creeped out by me? |
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