my wife went to los angeles to see her sick sister who has cancer but her and her cousin made a stop to vegas before they went to her sister's. I checked my mail box and there was a vegas post card from my wife's niece that said "your wife had a good time in vegas but don't worry she didn't spend too much money" with a smiley face at the end. I don't why she had to send me a card. I talked to my wife on the phone all of the time. I didn't need a card. And she probably didn't even have fun in los vegas, i don't even remember saying she wanted to go.

My brother in law and I are sitting here taking a break from painting while my husbands at work and when we recognized signs pointing to soulmates we looked it up. It was no surprise we checked off every one of these signs here on all these websites. Now comes the time of debating if I want to divorce my husband to be with his brother because he put the offer on the table so feeling is mutual. My marriage has been on the rocks for years now and we lack in everything that connects us together. My brother in law is single. I've never cheated on my husband and I never will. I have suspected that he wants a divorce.

My husband and I are both 40 years old with a young beautiful child and have been married for over ten years. Though about three months ago I saw my 15 year old neighbor Anna's number in my husbands phone with an hour long call to eachother. I confronted him on this and he said it was just her and her friend prank calling him at 10 at night. I asked what was said and he said the worse thing he said was when Anna's friend asked what my husband thinks of Anna's dad our neighbor who is also a cop my husband responded with " well he's a nice dude but he won't like me when his old neighbor calls his daughter smoking hot" but he said he told them he was just kidding around. This again was three months ago and I haven't seen anything since then. I'm wondering how I should react to this cause I'm still very uneasy about this whole situation. I hope that story made since thanks!

You should accept people regardless of their genders.

did they hookup ? did you get mad? did you love it ?

Being a multilingual person, my husband has restricted me from chatting with foreigners, including foreign males, because he is worried about me leaving him and my sons for a much more attractive foreign male and sleeping with foreign males as well. How else can I be fluent in my target languages if I can't converse with anyone just because my husband is so paranoid about me leaving for what my parents think is the wrong person, considering that they set me up with my husband? Would you not want to settle with anyone who is multilingual just because you're worried that they might cheat with all sorts of people from other countries?

And that includes bjs, or anything that will make him orgasm.

Men like him arent rare, there are lots of them out there who still havent carried out a family murder. There are plenty of them in the middle east that kill women and children daily.

I was intimate with this married man ( I know big mistake). Since then I told him we can not do that no more. So he just comes over and we talk. Mostly he talks about his wife and how she don;t respect him. He is an african immigrant who told me he married his white wife to get citizenship. I went through his phone na read messages between the two so I know this to be true. Lately I told him I was moving to a city 45 minutes away, and so lately he knocks on my door at 3am, 4am and 5am and wakes me out my sleep. I told him not to do this anymore but he did it again just yesterday. We are not intimate. So I cut him off because, I can not be with him in real life, he has to at least stay married to her for 3 years, I told him I do not want to be the girl he runs to as an escape. He really likes me and I like him, but whether he married this woman for papers, it is still wrong.

Before people say I should leave him " I have been thinking, but we have a 3 year old that has to go to therapy for late walking...i want to leave but I am waiting for myndin to enter kindergarten..(which woupd allow me to work more hours then i presently do) I work part time...befor i leave i want to be financially stable, I have a savings of 1,000 dollars, (that he doesn't know about) he calls me ***** fat, ugly and we have screaming matches after he calls me this names i fire back...he also has thrown food that i made on the floor and broken items at home...if I didnt have a child I would have left...in the meantime while I'm still secretly saving and watching my child after preschool...how I do i practice dealing with his explosive behavior at home...until I'm financially ready to leave? It is very miserable at home with him on weekends....please help...he will yell...i walk away to another room with my kid and will follow me, I go to my car....to get away he punched my car door...

My Dad and Step mom are possibly going to get a divorce and we are dealing with a very difficult situation. Any stupid answers will get ignored. Thanks.

Trying to track wife's activities. If you're one to judge please mind your business and don't waste your time responding

Before we got married, my husband didn't have contact with her (she was much into her other children) the minute we got married and bought a house she began getting very strange and once told me "(what my sons is also my property) I had to,politely say "no man anything in regards to my home and marriage is between me and your son" only. Doesnt she realize that its not her home? Weirded out...how to keep my boundries with this one? I know my husband got upset with her and she stopped..

did it make you mad or do you have her showoff for him ?

I am married for 4 years and before that we were in a relationship for 3 years. We are both very open to each other and have no secrets. For years now I now that her ex had a bigger penis than me,but it was never a problem for me. Because my penis is 7 inches I assume, and she tells me so, that she loves and enjoys it. But couple days ago we were talking about sex and I asked her how much bigger he was and she didnt want to answer. That surprised me, because she tells me everything. Later, after explaining with some stupid reasons why she doesnt want to say, she sad it was half an inc to one inch bigger. Now, my question for the ladies is: even if the sex is great with current partner and you love each other, do you ever miss not your ex, but only the physical sensation of his bigger penis? Do you ever catch yourself thinking that you would like to have that feeling again? And, since she tells me everything usually and this time she was reluctant to tell me, do you think that it is the truth that the difference is only up to one inch or is it more?

My husband doesn't want a baby and I'm trying to quit bugging him about it. The only issue is i can't stop thinking about one. Suggestions?

What can I do to feel ok. I haven't done anything to her, I just can't please her no matter what I do. She's downright mean sometimes. I know I shouldn't reward this behavior with gifts, dinner, etc, but I come from a tradition of turning the other cheek. I would greatly appreciate ideas on how to go about this weekend peacefully and with some sense of normal or at least not negative emotions. I don't want a divorce. I don't want to be alone. I don't want to start over. I'd like her to be nice and appreciative again. Maybe it is too late, but I hope not. It takes too much energy to rebuild.