I went on vacation with my family but I was mainly there for my boyfriend. When I got there my boyfriend made no time off work for me. His argument was that I was never there for him but my family when in fact we planned far ahead that we would meet. I couldn't drive the 2 hours to see him. He argued that I should've made the effort to find a ride to drive to him but I'm in a different country and so I don't have a car. He made no effort to drive to me. He blames me for everything. I'm so upset. I love him but I'm unsure I should be with him after this. He still doesn't see how he was in the wrong. Please don't bring up distance because I don't mind it.

This past semester, I had a really nice professor. All of his students say he is really caring and wants the best for them. I think it's just his nature. However, after comparing my office hour experiences with him to my friends', it seems like he took a special interest in me. He winked at me in class. Further, I remember him telling me that he and I were like the same person. He also recognized how hard I worked and knew that I really wanted to master the material. I opened up with him and told him that I was considering transferring due to the party culture and distance from home. He felt bad and wrote my letter of recommendation. He has been a great resource for future classes to take and just advice in general. Before anyone says anything, I am not implying anything sexual. But what does he see in me and why did he really go above and beyond?

And can I ground him

For the past 3 months my boyfriend and I have been receiving harassing messages via instagram and an app called textnow. We've block the accounts and don't answer, but they keep making new ones. We also have 3 police reports and a subpoena out for the account, but the police say there's nothing they can do because they are using a computer-generated number that's "untraceable" and the subpoena will only release the account info - which is most likely fake as well. We think it's his son's mother. The are also threatening his 2 year old son and saying horrible things, and threatening to kill him as well. The reason we think it's his ex is because the messages started a few days after I'd given her my phone number. She is also the only person we know who would be this evil. She is a very bitter and miserable person. Their goal seems to be to try and break us up. We also think it's his ex and she's saying these things to try and throw us off her trail because we've expressed to the person that we think it's her.

Mi ex me termino hace 1 mes ya que consiguió un trabajo que la absorbía mucho y por ende no tendríamos tiempo para vernos. El caso es que, ella la despidieron y tiene tiempo libre, pero ni así me ha vuelto a contactar. Al contrario, está colocando estados en WhatsApp, "fotos de hombres, y le pone corazones" "quiero ir a la playa", "quiero comer chocolate", "me gusta dos chicos que hago"... la verdad no se si son indirectas hacia mí para que me moleste o me de celos y le escriba o de plano es así que busca la llamar la atención de la gente... ya que a cada rato pone diferentes estados. Por un lado, me dan ganas de eliminarla de WhatsApp, ya que sus estados me afectan mi estado anímico, pero por el otro me pongo a pensar si hago eso no volveré a saber mas nada de ella. A ella la conozco desde hace más de 6 años, ella sabía que me ha gustado siempre, incluso hasta sus familiares, pero por mi timidez no le había dicho nada, hasta ahorita que lamentablemente cuando por fin tuvimos algo duramos tan poco, siempre la trate con respeto y la ayude desde antes y estando en la relación.

please help. i travel with my aunt everywhere. she s a sweetheart, but also a teeny bit crazy. She s constantly asking random questions to people such as "how s your son" or "hey Carl, how s it going?" to people she s NEVER MET BEFORE. this makes going to stores with her incredibly awkward, as she will almost certainly pester at least 3 people, leaving me standing by her side apologizing to the passer-byes. In some cases, the people strike up a conversation with her, leaving me stuck there for half an hour, or longer. how do i get this to stop before i go insane???? - cringing and crying in chicago

I flew to his state. I went on vacation with family but I also made time for him of course. My whole point was to see him. Come to find out he didn't take any time off for me and expected me to drive two hours to see him. I don't have a car. I'm on vacation. I was shocked that he blamed me for not seeing him. I'm so upset. I flew back home and I'm unsure I should forgive him or forget him. And I don't mind being in a LDR so please don't bring that up.