I know I would be a great mom and I have lots experience with kids. I m also married to the love of my life and we ve been married for over a year now. Been together for almost 7 years. Before we were married, I wanted children, but now I don t. Yes, i still have things i want to do, like go to colledge and travel. I am also not very happy about having to give up everything i enjoy to raise a kid. But those are small compared to this: I m afraid to do it on my own. I have allot of siblings so babysitting happens often for me. Well, anytime my niece and nephew came over, my husband became uncomfortable around them and literally forced me to take them to any other room that he wasn t in. He never helped me a single time and I did it alone, even though I desperately wanted his help. I AM TERRIFIED OF HAVING KIDS And now he wants to have a baby with me. I love him and I want a family with him, but for so many small reasons, I m scared of being a parent. I told my husband that I do want kids but not right now. He asked why so I told him why, and he became depressed. I told him how I was afraid to do it alone and he literally cried. Reffering to my niece and nephew, He said he didn t know what to do with them. He said his dad only worked and paid the bills but when it came to parenting, his dad was at never around and didn t know what to do. Now he s sad that he will be like his dad. What do I do

Recently my doctor determined that I have urinary incontinence and cannot control my bladder; the issue is severe enough for me to potentially require medication, or even possibly surgery, if it doesn't resolve. Every since my husband found out he has been making jokes at my expense. I do not think it's funny at all. I am only 37 years old and having to deal with this is a blow to my self esteem, not to mention embarrassing. He is cracking jokes daily, even after I told him it bothers me, and always has the excuse that he's only joking and I know he doesn't mean it. The thing is, my husband's idea of joking can be downright cruel (i.e. referring to me as a "pissy bastard" and his idea of joking is calling me vulgar names and saying things he knows are hurtful to me. He's also told me i'm too old to be peeing on myself. I have asked him to ease up on the joking about the issue i'm having and let him know it's something I cannot control, but he refuses and thinks it is hilarious. I have tried talking to him...repeatedly. What is the next step anyone can suggest? I cannot talk to anyone I know about this because I don't want anyone to know about this issue i'm having with my bladder. Can anyone offer advice here please? Thanks in advance.

He promised he'd be home by 8pm for dinner and didn't get home by 10pm. I asked him where he was and he told me he gave a worker buddy a ride home... I got in his face and called him a liar. I also pushed him and threw the plate of food on the floor. Then I told him he is annoying like his mother. He grabbed my arm and then hit me in the face. I started crying then he told me he was sorry and won't do it again. Should I leave? EDIT: I am 24 he is 26. Married for 2 yrs. No kids yet. I don't work. I am afraid to leave because he pays all the bills and plus I don't like working a job.

Since I was 5 I always wanted to be a singer. I've written hundreds of songs and when I was 23 yrs old I got an opportunity to get a record deal but got distracted by my current bf. We have been together for 8 yrs and he still hasn't proposed. I have gained weight and my music has gone nowhere. I am in my last month of nursing school and I am so stressed because I'm trying to pass the finals. My passion isn't nursing. I studied this to get a decent job and to be able to support myself... I feel 32 is too told to live my dreams go being a singer and I feel like I am not as single and free as I was at 23. Also my personality isn't as bubbly. It seems some experiences have changed who I used to be... Help...lost

I can talk with ghetto/ebonics slang... Whatever yall call it. Datz my normal lmao i aint wanna have to talk proper at home with my family ! Home posed to be relaxed and ...home! I aint had much of a cosey home before yall. Thats great... I really want a man who aint got a lot too

Found out today that she was talking to a divorce lawyer. This really caught me off guard. I knew things were rough with all kids being under 4. One 3 months old. But over all, I thought we were ok. I know I can be a jerk sometimes. I work hard and get little sleep. But I thought it was stuff we could work through. I'm kind of betrayed by this however. I don't know what to think. She did this without talking to me or talking about counseling. What should I do. The most important thing in the world to me is my kids. It would kill me to not see them everyday. But is it worth it to stay for them?

I've been dating my bf on and off for several years. We started while he was going through his divorce. For years he's talked about how horrible she is and how she makes his life horrible. Starting a few months ago it seems like they're BFFs. He doesn't tell me these things but I was able to see some of their texts. He bought her a $50k+ bmw when she already has a car and he drives a corolla. She also has a key to his place and has been staying there with the kids several nights. He pays a lot of child support and still spends money on lunch and dinners and buys extra stuff that the child support should cover. They even talk about life and nothing to do with the kids. We've been on and off longer than they were married and they never even tried to save their marriage. He's even taken her around his new friends. She is mean to him and would always remind him how they got divorced when their youngest was 2 weeks old. I know he's the kids dad but he needs to set boundaries with his ex wife. How do I bring this up without mentioning I know that they're actually friends. I want him to tell her that we're dating and she needs to back off. My car has been having issues and he's never offered to even help me fix it her car was only like 3-4 years old.

Why not??

if sex before marriage how old were you when you lost yours?

Is that he says what he believes, he isn't phony. This is why politicians hate him but the world loves him. do you see all the new Trump bumper stickers?

Looking to get married someday

I mean, if you are past your teenage years, shouldn't you be striving for something better?

So me and my husband have always had a very active and healthy sex life. We have sex almost everyday sometimes 2-3 times a day. We are young and madly in love. Marriage is good but lately I've been getting bored and want to spice things up. I asked my husband if we could try some new things and he was open minded until I mentioned that I want to tie him up/and or handcuff him. One of my biggest fantasies is dominating my Husband because he is naturally very strong/masculine/alpha guy and I just think it would be such a turn on to try something new. However he is super against it and refuses to try it and claims that he doesn't want to be tied up because he has "ptsd", he was a solider. It makes me salty that he won't try this, specially since it's my wishes. Aren't men supposed to make their wives happy? I try everything he wants?

Iran will start making nuclear weapons They will hand to terrorists A cakewalk Russia and China will join the fun We will die also Suitcase nukes 1a $10 a gallon gas or no gas. China needs oil imports. They will get in. They have a defense pact with russia Your children will be radioactive A thousand 911s There are secret bases under the parking lot New International Version It said to the sixth angel who had the trumpet, "Release the four angels who are bound at the great river Euphrates." Four angels? 911? Trump is an incompetent criminal Iran's leaders are more competent than Trump Iran won't attack first. The old ayatollahs are not suicide bombers

I met a boy in the DR last summer and although there was a language barrier, he fell in love with me like immediately. I kinda just considered it a summer fling and went along with it. The second time we hung out, he asked to marry me. I obviously said no (mostly because my flight back to the US was in four hours-- I m very impulsive and might have gone for it otherwise), but I m wondering about it now. If I had gotten married, could I forget about it and marry again in the US/ is it legal in the US? I m thinking about marrying different men from every country I visit on vacation just to be a legend. Like, imagine the chaos of twelve different men showing up to my funeral and meeting each other? That would be so funny. Anyways let me know if this could theoretically work or if I would get arrested or anything. Thanks!

So I was in a marriage with a man who I found out 4 months ago cheated on me with another woman. He told me he wanted a divorce. So 4 months ago I also won a $2 million lottery. When the divorce was final I handed my ticket to the lottery commission and got the money. My ex found out and tried to sue me. In court the judge said I was in the clear because of the finalization of the divorce. Was it cruel to wait till we were finally divorced to get the winnings?

I've been with this guy for over a year, but he won't commit to anything serious. He has 2 kids with his ex wife and I just found out that he got her a brand new BMW that cost around $55k but he drives a $20k car. He says it's for the kids but her old car was only 4 years old. I also found out that she has a key to his house. They even go to lunch or dinner with the kids together. He has no problem saying how much he hates her and how horrible she is so how much should he really do for his kids? Where should he draw the line? He pays child support and buys the kids extras. What can I do to make him see that he is helping her too much and that he needs to commit to a relationship?

My family hated my sisters husband for 2 yrs then they got a divorce. My friends parents hated my frieds wife, they recently got a divorce..,if the family hates or doesnt approve of a loved ones spouse will the marriage fail?

Going out for a main division of a less popular pageant with better prizes or going out for a more popular pageant's supporting division. There is no prize money for the popular division

Is there some other quality that makes him attractive?

I know for a male i will address him as Sir but not sure about the female. I'm not sure if she's married so I don't know if I should use the terms Ms or Mrs. Should I just stick with ma'am?

My husband's new group of friends are filthy rich and they all own their own businesses . In the past my husband would always take me with him when there was an event or a dinner because he was proud to have me by his side. He ended up making friends with women that drove expensive cars and wore expensive brands of clothes, and he'd comment on the way I dressed and I felt like he was trying to turn me into one of them . Now when there is an event or a dinner, he makes excuses why I can't go with him. When we were in college I was a well-known model/actress And he was just a normal guy. But now that he has taken over his father's real estate company his society and contacts for business has changed drastically from middle-class friends to elite high-class friends.

He acts just like a daddy! Hes gentle

I'm 21 he's 24 and It's really putting a strain on our marriage, my husband is in the marines and he says he wants to finish his 4 years before we start having kids, he also says he wants to spend quality time alone with me, without children for a few more years & that I need to finish college first. His points are valid but so are mine and I want children asap. It is starting to really hurt my feelings that he won't get me pregnant and makes me think he doesn't love me and something is wrong with me. ): I have started to think of vindictive ways I can sneakily get pregnant anyways but I don't want to have to go behind my husbands back, I don't want to think like this.

is he a man hubby knows ?

We have been together for 2 years. 2 months ago my fiancé went through my phone and found out that I am still talking to my ex. Reason for talking to my ex was regarding business property that we bought when we were together. My fiancé was always very insecure since we met that was the whole reason I never told her. Few days before i found out that my fiancé was pregnant. I invested everything I had in my startup and I was working for my father in our family business on the side. Since my parents never approved of her I stopped talking to my parents. I sold my house and invested that in business too. I was planning to buy a new house few months later so I decided to stay with my fiancé. Things were great until she found out. I left her house and started living close to her coz I wanted to be supportive and I love her. But whenever she would meet me she would argue about my ex. I tried my best to work with her but I can't no more. I told her I am moving away coz my dad needs help. Now she thinks I am going back to my ex but I am not. She fought with me again and blocked me. I really care about my fiancé but it's so heard make her understand that I was not in my ex. Now I just found out that I have been blocked. Don't know what to do? Any advice?

What does live inbox mean? The person opened that email is still has it even tho they had cleared out all old emails from their iPhone. Does this mean this person wants kids? Couple are 44 and 45 years old with 3 kids that are 7-10- and almost 20. Also the person talks about having no life never going on even seeing people with babies still going on also how having the last two kids affected her.

Do you all think my wife attacked this woman first or that I know my wife has a sister of being mentally and physically abusive towards our twenty six year old daughter but she always treated everyone else nicely. She never hit anyone except else her. not me, not our two sons. My wife's sister is severely sick with cancer. Her daughter is taking care of her in LA and it's pretty hard trying to take care of someone who's sick, it's very draining. My wife's sister is so sick she can't even drive anywhere. My wife's side of the family lives in LA. Everyone knows it's not cheap to go there especially since she was gone for two weeks, so we saved money for months for her plane ticket, food, any activities she would want to do etc etc. The first week she stayed with her nieces and nephews and she appeared to be enjoying herself with her nieces and nephews. It seemed as though it was the happiest she was in a while. I received pictures of her having fun in the casinos, going to the beach, getting her nails done, and the like.She was smiling a lot and laughing a lot in some videos I saw of her as well. It was the second week she was there that drama started happening. The second week she relocated to stay with her sister's daughter and there was a massive blow out. The daughter was mad because she pays two thousand in rent and her boyfriend pays two thousand and her boyfriend couldn't stay there because sick mom was staying in that room. her daughter told her mom ( my wife's sister) that she needed to hurry up and get better so she could get her boyfriend back in the apartment. My wife heard her and told her she can't talk to her like because she's sick. So apparently the daughter punched my wife repeatedly hen both my wife and her sister started crying. and then my wife ended up getting kicked out of the apartment and having to sit on the street with her stuff for hours on end until she could get a hotel ( she ended up having to pay $400 for a hotel Now the situation has escalated and the woman and her boyfriend texted my wife and said that she has demons in her closet and that my wife needs to tell the whole story if she's going to run my wife. they said that my wife was being disrespectful and hit her first. My son thinks that they are lying on my wife but my daughter said there's three sides to every story. my daughter was like " nobody else is going to deal with her crap passive aggressively like you do. she probably pushed someone too far. you're only hearing what she wants you to hear most likely." But i don't believe my wife that woman though.

My wife talks down on me and bashes me in front of both our friends and our families and she tells them things I don't want them knowing. When we discuss private personal matters between us as husband and wife I find myself having to ask her time and time again not to tell others and she does it anyway. She talks badly about me to our children to turn them against me and that hurts them and I. My daughter just recently asked me "Daddy why does mommy say you're a bad man are you a bad man?" I told her mom was just having a bad day and she was angry because I forgot to put away the dishes and than I took her out for ice cream. I'm not a bad man and I don't understand what's going on. I love my wife I love my children and I work very hard to support them. Once in awhile I'll be too exhausted to get household chores done but I always do I never let my wife down. Anytime she needs anything I bend over backwards for her because that's what husbands are supposed to do but this abuse whatever it is it's gotta stop and there's a lot more I didn't mention because I'm running out of time got a lot to do.

I was talking with my friend today, and she said that her husband is always under her at all times and she can never get any "me time". I then told her that I understand that you want to be alone sometimes, but once you get married you are all one. Just like having kids. She then tried to start an argument with me saying that I'm not married so I will never know. I understand that, yes I'm not married, but I know that once you get married you and your spouse are one. I then asked her, what does she mean by "me time" She explained to me that she want to go out by herself sometimes, and watch movies alone. I then told her that she need to re evaluate herself because that is not right! What do you think about this, coming from a married person?

I know a wedding ring isn't really that important but my husband would rather wear his silicone wedding band before he wears the ring that I spent tons of money on. It makes me feel a bit uneven. I asked him why he still wears it and he basically said " a ring is a ring at least I'm wearing something" but why would you rather wear a 3$ ring over the nice ring that I purchased you? I know someone is going to say my argument is stupid but had I known he wasn't going to wear it I would've saved my money or purchased something less expensive. I mean I literally went broke buying this ring. Btw he use to work at a job that basically told them that jewelry isn't allowed and told them to purchase a silicone band if they want to wear their wedding band. The job he worked at manufactured cars and they've basically didn't want them scratching the cars up with their jewelry. That's where all of this started. But he doesn't work there anymore and hasn't worked there in months.

and why are they always out to get laid?